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Women Share How They Realized Their Partner Didn't Even Like Them In This Excruciating Online Thread He's an ex-husband. When I begged him not to tell me what happened at the strip club because I knew I'd use the knowledge to torture myself, the first thing he did when he got home was brag about the lap dances he got and how hot those women were compared to me in an attempt to upset me because he wanted attention. It didn't work and I ignored him, so he punched my chair. We had problems before that, but that night killed any respect I had left. Things deteriorated quickly afterwards.

On a bright note, my boyfriend now has never even raised his voice at me. At every opportunity he tries to make the choice that would make me feel the most safe, loved, and respected. If your current partner is showing that they don't care about you, leave. There's a better life out there for you. I've never felt more lucky than I do now.

Brittakitt , Hasan Albari Report

Final score:

204points

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Cricketgeeklol 1 year ago

Good 4 u xD

27points

Women Share How They Realized Their Partner Didn't Even Like Them In This Excruciating Online Thread I was physically assaulted at work. When I told him about it I expected him to be horrified, protective, or at least not happy about it. Instead, he looked bored. He implied that I get a bit mouthy so maybe I pissed off the wrong guy. I got the ick so fast there was no turning back.

cuddlymammoth , Yan Krukau Report

Final score:

175points

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rob 1 year ago

Wow that's super wrong on so many levels

47points

Rasberryblush , Polina Tankilevitch Report

Women Share How They Realized Their Partner Didn't Even Like Them In This Excruciating Online Thread Id come down with a horrible flu. He convinced me to come over to his place “let me take care of you, you shouldn’t be suffering alone” I wanted to just stay in my own bed and ride it out but he kept at it and I thought he was just trying to be a caring boyfriend.

He just pestered me for sex the whole time and then guilt tripped me when I said I didn’t want to because I was feeling so rough “you mean sex with me would make you feel worse/wouldn’t make you feel happier…. Right, got it, THANKS”

I wish I’d dumped his a*s right then but I was young and deep into a sunken cost fallacy.

Final score:

159points

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Vasana Phong 1 year ago

Why do men do this, I don’t understand, there’s going to be days where you just don’t feel it it, could be a hundred things going on that has nothing to do with them, maturity plays a huge role

9points

Women Share How They Realized Their Partner Didn't Even Like Them In This Excruciating Online Thread When I was heavily pregnant and we were arguing. I started feeling pain in the abdomen and collapsed but he just stood there and laughed and said it served me right.

forestgnome1 , Leah Kelley Report

Final score:

158points

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Angrywolf 1 year ago

Wow that's just horrible!

74points

Daffydillz~ 1 year ago

That's pathological tendencies right there. Who, in their right mind, could even say something like that to a pregnant woman...

6points

Kathryn Baylis 1 year ago (edited)

Pretty sure it wasn’t the first time. Girlfriends, I know there are times when you’re like dying for a baby, but take a moment first, and take a good hard look t the person you’re with. Please don’t get pregnant until you know the “sperm donor” is someone who’s worth it.

21points

Brocken Blue 1 year ago

People can be manipulative fückers, and not really show their true faces until shït starts to hit the fan. And pregnancy is a pretty high stress time that may reveal flaws in a person and cracks in a relationship in ways unseen before then. Maybe try not to blame the victim next time, eh?

11points

LouLou Bella 1 year ago

I read these posts and they break my heart. They make me think though, these guys didn't suddenly completely out of the blue decide to start acting like a Dii8ck. There must have been warning signs that were ignored, I am sure I have done the same myself. Why as women do we do this, I finally learned that been on my own was way better than putting up with that shi*t. It kills me that we as a women dont value our worth

12points

DarkViolet 1 year ago

Narcissists are excellent at covering up their true character. Not unlike sexual predators.

6points

Glass Ghost 1 year ago

Arguing with your pregnant spouse is enough of a red flag on its own and the argument should've at least need forfeit as soon as she collapsed. That's insane.

8points

CHRISTY SMITH 1 year ago

“ … and then she hid his body under the staircase and whispered, “It serves you right”.

6points

Brenda 1 year ago (edited)

What an a$$hole!

3points

Heather Resatz 1 year ago

What a monster!

3points

Juliana Blewett 1 year ago

I'd have called an ambulance, stayed TF away from him and raised the baby WITHOUT the ahole.

2points

Bonnie Buttons 1 year ago

That is appalling! I'm so sorry. I hope you're with someone who treats you right.

2points

¯_(ツ)_/¯ 1 year ago

wtf?!!!!

2points

Gypsy Lee 1 year ago

Ffs. LEAVE. Not after the baby, NOW! Imagine what this A-🤡 will do to your child.

0points

Women Share How They Realized Their Partner Didn't Even Like Them In This Excruciating Online Thread we were out in town and he wanted to grab some street food. i didn't have money on me so i just... got nothing. he didn't offer. i sat next to him watching him eat.

it was small, and yes i could've said something. but it was just one of many occasions that made me understand that he doesn't care about me the way i care about him. after two damn years.

minty_dinosaur , Gonzalo Acuña Report

Final score:

156points

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Themoonprincess 1 year ago

What?!Can I punch him.

55points

Women Share How They Realized Their Partner Didn't Even Like Them In This Excruciating Online Thread Me, when I fell down the stairs at my boyfriend's house and I was screaming in pain because I broke my ankle and he got mad at me because he had to drive me to the hospital he later told me he got angry because he wanted to play elden ring

Street_Salt_1973 , Kindel Media Report

Final score:

155points

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Take me to dinner first 1 year ago

Wtf, you're so inconvenient!

46points

I returned to Australia in 2021 following a horrible journey back to Scotland (where we got stuck for 3 months) after the murder of my older brother. When I finally got out of hotel quarantine, I witnessed my sister reuniting with her partner who ran to her and hugged her like he was never going to let go. When my partner of 10 years picked me up from the airport, he looked irritated and like he didn’t want to be there. I hugged him but he barely returned it. I found out a few months later he had started talking to other girls online while I was stuck in Scotland dealing with the fallout of what happened to my brother.

ETA: He’d been an ex for almost a year now.

grindelwaldd Report

Final score:

151points

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~blobcow 1 year ago

I'm sorry for the loss of your brother but I'm glad you dumped his a*s

54points

Women Share How They Realized Their Partner Didn't Even Like Them In This Excruciating Online Thread When he critiqued how I gave birth.

TheEmpressDodo , Jimmy Conover Report

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144points

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Lemme get the lemons 1 year ago

I like to see him do better. I wouldn't actually because that's disgusting and I'm a child, BUT THE POINT STILL STANDS!

89points

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#10

When he accused me of being manipulative because I was crying. Why was I crying? Because I had literally just received the news that my closest friend had committed suicide.

Final score:

133points

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Alexigirl1 1 year ago

What a Twatbasket! I hope you are being supported now. I'm sorry for your loss Xx

37points

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#11

Women Share How They Realized Their Partner Didn't Even Like Them In This Excruciating Online Thread When i realized that i was always needing to adjust to his schedule and the relationship immediately fell apart when i stopped putting in the effort

Final score:

130points

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Alexigirl1 1 year ago

Compromise is a word some guys (and gals) haven't heard of. It HAS to be two way. Or no way.

22points

#12

Me: “I’m in so much pain from my broken pelvis” Him: “Yeah, well, I’m tired too, ya know!” And proceeds to get mad that I am too physically broken to have sex. Actually mad.

SonaraSounds Report

Final score:

129points

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~blobcow 1 year ago

he is probably the same person who said "i'm a nice guy"

54points

#13

when he beat the s**t out of me twice for being pregnant, both ended with miscarriages.
it sucks but for the better.

msshroomsx Report

Final score:

127points

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PA 1 year ago

OP- I am sorry for your losses. I hope you have support and are safe now.

57points

#14

Women Share How They Realized Their Partner Didn't Even Like Them In This Excruciating Online Thread I fell and twisted my ankle one evening after he had dropped me off for my evening class. Someone riding a bike had to actually go after him to stop him from driving off completely and leaving me there. When he came back to me he was super annoyed and asked me what he was supposed to do about it. So I made him drive me to the urgent care. He then proceeded to make me take my heavy backpack inside with our 2 small children and left us there. He wanted to go get high on drugs. I couldn’t even walk and was so embarrassed and angry. I had to call my mom to come pick us up once I was done because he wouldn’t answer the phone. The entire time my ankle was sprained he never once offered to help do anything. This is one of the many reasons he’s my ex 🙃

DragDolly , Andrea Piacquadio Report

Final score:

121points

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Kathryn Baylis 1 year ago

I would’ve stayed at Mom’s, and had all my large male relatives and friends go with me to pack my s**t and leave his sorry a*s.

12points

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#15

Women Share How They Realized Their Partner Didn't Even Like Them In This Excruciating Online Thread When he wouldn’t go get me food after I worked 12 hours and he had the whole day off and I hadn’t eaten yet that day. The place was like a 5 min drive away but he asked me to get it delivered instead. It took 2 hours for the food to get there. I cried because it was Super Bowl Sunday and we had all you can eat/drink packages so I ran around a lot and opened the restaurant that morning too. I was so tired. I broke up with him 2 days later.

Final score:

115points

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Kathryn Baylis 1 year ago (edited)

OP, don’t demean yourself with some deadbeat a*****e. Wait for the magic when a truly wonderful guy comes along. Believe me, it’s so worth the wait. Even if he didn’t get takeout, my hubby would at least fix me a plate of food himself, either fresh once I got home, or put aside a cold plate or a hot meal wrapped up to microwave, for me to eat when I got home. I waited until I was pushing 40 for him. Looking back on previous boyfriends, I’m glad he’s the only one I wanted to marry. Totally worth the long wait.

8points

#16

Women Share How They Realized Their Partner Didn't Even Like Them In This Excruciating Online Thread The one that was an eye opener was while we were fetching a couple of items from the local store, I got really dizzy and fell on the floor (had vertigo balance issues at the time) she didn’t even notice, and kept on walking around the store, one of the staff brought me a chair to sit down, after a while I managed to find my balance and went to find her, told her what happened, she started shouting defensively. It was over that week. Had to end it.

trueblueink , Engin Akyurt Report

Final score:

113points

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Pyla 1 year ago

Awful

17points

#17

Women Share How They Realized Their Partner Didn't Even Like Them In This Excruciating Online Thread I had to drive a couple hours to say goodbye to my dying grandpa in the hospital. On my way back home, I stopped at Chipotle for dinner. My then boyfriend’s first reaction when he saw me—rather than comforting me because I’d just visited my grandpa for the last time—was to get angry that I didn’t get him a burrito.

emshlaf , LikeMeat Report

Final score:

110points

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KJ 1 year ago

Insensitive prick!

34points

#18

Women Share How They Realized Their Partner Didn't Even Like Them In This Excruciating Online Thread When I had to have an emergency procedure and instead of him driving me, I had to take the train because it was too early for him to bring me. I had no drivers license.
A week later he helped his family at 7AM to move.

Priority noted.

WizardLizart Report

Final score:

106points

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Pyla 1 year ago

I hope you dumped his sorry butt

25points

#19

Women Share How They Realized Their Partner Didn't Even Like Them In This Excruciating Online Thread When the "your match is about to expire" notification popped up while he was showing me tik toks.

crinmar10 , cottonbro studio Report

Final score:

99points

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rob 1 year ago

Jup, depending on how long you have been dating/together, but that's a pretty clear indicator something is wrong

16points

IsItTurkeyNeckOrDick , Leah Kelley Report

#20

Women Share How They Realized Their Partner Didn't Even Like Them In This Excruciating Online Thread He cried to me about emotional issues sometimes and I always held him and talked him through it. Eventually I needed the same support but instead he got mad and started yelling, blaming me, and told me, "one of us has to be the strong one, I can't have a partner who falls apart like this. I need someone strong."

Final score:

99points

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Nay Wilson 1 year ago

That’s not the way it works. Everyone needs to be able to fall apart sometimes

68points

#21

When he didn't want to tell one of his (unbeknownst to me, MANY) bits on the side that it was over because (and I quote) he "didn't want to hurt her feelings!"

And then again when I was only hours from having heart surgery and he chose that moment to tell me he didn't love me anymore.

Now I'm with a guy who actually loves me and I regret ever giving that thing I used to date the time of day.

CalalilySunshine Report

Final score:

99points

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Stephanie A Mutti 1 year ago

It's sad and hopeful at the same time to see we sometimes need a minute to realize it's not working, but that the next go around we are much wiser in our choices.

13points

#22

When he tripped and fell into his girl best friend’s vagina.

nextdoorgirl666 Report

Final score:

97points

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Lemme get the lemons 1 year ago

Damn, what an unfortunate unheard of disasteeerr oooooh nooo

39points

#23

Women Share How They Realized Their Partner Didn't Even Like Them In This Excruciating Online Thread So many small things that I justified as differences in communication. The final realization was when I tried talking about my complicated relationship with my father and he started getting angry at me for not understanding what fathers go through and general explanation of why life sucks for men. Like bro. Are you gaslighting me about my own relationship with my dad?

The bulb just went on that he doesn't care enough to understand my experiences. Broke up within the next 2 weeks.

sm_aztec , RDNE Stock project Report

Final score:

89points

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Pyla 1 year ago

Typical creep behavior

16points

#24

Women Share How They Realized Their Partner Didn't Even Like Them In This Excruciating Online Thread Ex partner. I broke a glass accidently and stepped on a piece screaming. He didn't even come into the kitchen which was right next to our bedroom. Even after I yelled for him to get something to stop the bleeding.

bookandbark , www.pexels.com Report

Final score:

83points

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Snow_White 1 year ago

My ex broke a glass and didn't bother to clean up properly. I found out because I got a piece of glass stuck in my foot.

27points

#25

During a fight, I'm begging for him to use kind words. No verbal abuse, stay quiet and listen to respond, just have a real conversation. He tells me "that's not who I am, I'm not changing for you." Idk why it took so long for me to realize, but he just doesn't give a s**t about me. I realized he would continue doing that as long as I am around to take it.

FeFiFoMums Report

Final score:

83points

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Angrywolf 1 year ago

My ex was like that to, And im Dutch and when you want to swear or hurt somebody with words Dutch is one of the worst languages out there, We can be truly rude and hurtful if we want to.

25points

#26

Women Share How They Realized Their Partner Didn't Even Like Them In This Excruciating Online Thread I confronted him and found out I was just a side piece. I cried for days, mostly because I couldn’t believe I was that stupid.

MyOtherFunLogin , Pixabay Report

Final score:

82points

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Maisey Myles 1 year ago

Hey- you're not stupid. You were smart enough to get away from him. I felt the same about my ex. I was so angry with him until I realized I was really mad at myself for not getting out of there sooner. Therapy helped

28points

#27

Women Share How They Realized Their Partner Didn't Even Like Them In This Excruciating Online Thread When my ex proposed to me and then three weeks later started cheating on me with an employee that was underage

jinxisco , Andre Jackson Report

Final score:

80points

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Cricketgeeklol 1 year ago

That's disgusting

35points

#28

Women Share How They Realized Their Partner Didn't Even Like Them In This Excruciating Online Thread When I found out he had never actually stopped contact with the woman he cheated on me with. They just moved their sexting convos over to a different app. F*****g a*****e.

Hefty-Ad-5938 , Blue Bird Report

Final score:

75points

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~blobcow 1 year ago

messed up

14points

#29

Women Share How They Realized Their Partner Didn't Even Like Them In This Excruciating Online Thread When he said I don’t enjoy giving you orgasms because then you don’t want to have sex for a few days after that.

Or maybe when he told me we never went on a honeymoon because he knew he wasn’t going to get any sex.

ohisforodd , Gustavo Fring Report

Final score:

75points

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Alexigirl1 1 year ago

WTFF????

21points

#30

Women Share How They Realized Their Partner Didn't Even Like Them In This Excruciating Online Thread When I had to take a cab home from the emergency room in the middle of the night because he went home to sleep.

weenertron , Pixabay Report

Final score:

71points

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Pyla 1 year ago

What a complete and total loser.

15points

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#31

When my fiancé told me that I was just a convenient babysitter with benefits after I discovered her cheating. She went on and on about how she was so out of my league that I should have known, it was my fault for being so stupid. We had been together for three years, living together for two, and I realized that she never cared. I was just a roof over her head and took care of her kids while she went out to hook up with guys. She kept the ring, and from what I’ve been told she sold it.

Kubrickwon Report

Final score:

43points

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Alexigirl1 1 year ago

You are SO lucky to be out of that situation. However it occurred. Good luck X

13points

#32

Women Share How They Realized Their Partner Didn't Even Like Them In This Excruciating Online Thread When I told him I really wanted presents to open on Christmas morning. Nothing extravagant or expensive, just some little gifts to unwrap together. I got him a bunch of funny socks and wrapped each pair individually. He “gave” me items that we already owned. Like, took a picture frame off of a shelf and wrapped it, stuff like that. I cried and he didn’t understand what the problem was.

BlNGPOT , Tima Miroshnichenko Report

Final score:

41points

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Pyla 1 year ago

Inept and uncaring. Not a winning combo

8points

Dutch Swimmer Goes Viral For Super Revealing Trunks During 2024 Olympics: “Is This Legal?”

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#33

When he had to pick me up after I was mugged and drove me straight to a bar. I started crying when I realized we weren’t going home and he argued with me why we should go out until he ended up taking me home just to then ignore and pout.

illumahotti3 Report

Final score:

40points

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Otter-ly Crazy 1 year ago

This is so disgusting, I'm so sorry this happened to you

7points

#34

He wanted to invite his family to watch football at our place (because their tv wasn't working or sth), I told him that I'm in pain and I really don't have the energy to have people over. Then he told me that he will just tell them our tv isn't working either. I asked him why he would lie, and he said: "Well, you're always in pain, who would even believe that?"

I have adenomyosis.

tuttea Report

Final score:

39points

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The Queen 1 year ago

I had that. Hysterectomy cured it.

6points

DorothyZbornak-binch Report

#35

When my partner of 2yrs didn't come to see me after I got hit by a car on the way to work. I was at hospital 300 metres (328 yards) from his office, but he didn't want to leave work. Worst thing was I was so used to this kind of behaviour, I didn't make an issue about it and stayed with him for another year. Leaving him was one of the best things I ever did.

Final score:

38points

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Shark Lady 1 year ago

I had an ex who refused to visit me in hospital because they thought the £3.50 cost of parking was too much to spend on me.

25points

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#36

- I was happy about losing weight and he’d say “you need to eat some more”
- Emotional abandonment
- Started losing respect for him
- Wouldn’t let me take naps if I was tired
- Woke me up (when I was sick) and made me walk on a sore ankle cause he didn’t want to go to a restaurant alone.
- Gaslighting
- I did start questioning if I was trauma bonded to him.

ChibiAro Report

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36points

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Lili Hajdu 1 year ago

I kind of understand the first sentence if she was loosing too much weight, too fast, but the rest. jesus

3points

#37

When, less than 24 hours after I had my first dog put down, he asked me why I was still crying. He also had a breakdown in his car, crying, hitting the steering wheel, punching his window, etc when I asked him to stay with me the night I reported my ex boyfriend (different guy) for rape and sexual assault. He said he couldn’t come home with me because he “couldn’t handle” what I said in my report to the police. It was the first time I’d ever told anyone the full story of the abuse I went through and he insisted on coming with me. He instead went home and took drugs. I had to listen to him cry on the phone because he felt like he was a bad person.

Bean_juice9772 Report

Final score:

36points

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Angrywolf 1 year ago (edited)

At least he was right about one thing, He was indeed a very bad person!

37points

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#38

Women Share How They Realized Their Partner Didn't Even Like Them In This Excruciating Online Thread One example of many -- I was doing the dishes and accidentally cut my finger pretty bad on a knife. My now-ex said, "I would get you a bandaid but I don't know where they are." Like keeping them in the bathroom medicine cabinet for the past several years had been my strategy of hiding them from him somehow.

I grabbed a paper towel to avoid getting blood everywhere while I ran to the bathroom to get a bandaid. I had to finish doing the dishes one handed.

The worst part is he identified that the correct answer was to help but chose to make a passive aggressive statement instead to save himself a walk to the bathroom. Real nice.

thalia676 , cottonbro studio Report

Final score:

36points

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Wheeskers 1 year ago

Broke my hand at work. Couldn't do dishes with a cast...he bought me a long handled brush so I could. So thoughtful. So gone.

22points

#39

Women Share How They Realized Their Partner Didn't Even Like Them In This Excruciating Online Thread When I was sitting with him and his dad at their house and I was telling his dad about my grandmothers cancer. He looked annoyed to be there. We broke up like 30 mins later.

BebopMoon_ , Muskan Anand Report

Final score:

35points

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HelluvaHedgehogAlien 1 year ago

Dodged a bullet

8points

Woman Moves Out Of Parents' Home After They Asked Her To Give Her Space To Brother, They Freak Out

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Mom Leaves $250k Inheritance To Son, Throws A Fit When Daughter Stops Looking After Her

#40

When he didn’t comfort me when I’d cry about my creep of a boss.

andnoshitthereiwas Report

Final score:

34points

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Majungasaurus 1 year ago (edited)

Happened to me too. My old boss grabbed me from behind and grinded into me and when I told my bf he got mad and jealous that I let that happen. ☹️

7points

#41

Women Share How They Realized Their Partner Didn't Even Like Them In This Excruciating Online Thread he stopped making my favorite tea when I came home after work and then he completely stopped being interested in my life....

TrainingMain9354 , Cup of Couple Report

Final score:

30points

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Nizumi 1 year ago

oof - this one hits home

6points

#42

When I got so drunk the night before I could only puke my guts out every 30 minutes and he only stayed the night because he wanted sex. He immediately left me alone in the morning, while I was still puking, after I told him I'm obviously not able to f**k him.

beer_and_pain Report

Final score:

30points

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Maisey Myles 1 year ago

My ex is an alcoholic. I quit drinking years ago as I was taking a medication that didn't pair well with booze. He broke up with me saying I wasn't fun anymore and didn't like sex. I asked him why the hell would I want to sleep with a drunk when he couldn't perform and it was my fault somehow

5points

#43

My ex husband told me he shouldn’t have called 911 after I attempted suicide, he slept the entire time I was being worked on so he thought it was just for attention.
My current relationship, this week he told me I never do anything in the house until he starts too. I do literally everything including paying the bills and taking care of his kids. It was like telling me he doesn’t appreciate me.

waiting_4_nothing Report

Final score:

29points

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Angrywolf 1 year ago

He does not indeed!

14points

Woman Refuses To Chip In For Babysitting Because She Doesn’t Even Have Kids, Asks If She’s A Jerk

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#44

When I fainted in the middle of the night and my head knocked a hole in the plaster and he was more worried about the damage to the plaster than to me. I missed a wooden door surround by about an inch.

CharmingCarmilla Report

Final score:

29points

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Angrywolf 1 year ago

Hope you are ok.

12points

Any-Literature-3184 Report

#45

Women Share How They Realized Their Partner Didn't Even Like Them In This Excruciating Online Thread When I realized he doesn't honor my boundaries, doesn't provide emotional support, and after I told him I wasn't happy in our relationship and was considering divorce and he told me he wanted to fix things he created a 2nd "anonymous" snapchat account...but he used his same phone number so snapchat told me one of my contacts had just joined.

Sonyabean23 , Ivan Samkov Report

Final score:

28points

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#46

Actually yesterday. I told him I missed him because we hadn't met for a while. Which appears "annoyed the s**t out of him." I tried to have a calm conversation about why he's always dismissing my feelings, never says anything nice to me, makes disgusted facial expressions when I tell him I love him, and he suddenly snapped, became very aggressive, really mean, and basically made me finally see that he doesn't give a c**p about me or how I feel, sees me trying to talk about something that bothers me as "self-absorbed." He basically told me to f**k off without using those words. I've done so much for him, I've been knocking at doctors doors for over half a year with him now, doing all the research, finding doctors, etc, just to help him deal with some health problems (we live in Japan and he doesn't speak a word after 6 years lmao).

We haven't talked since then. And I think the relationship is over.

Final score:

28points

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Shark Lady 1 year ago

OP needs to run in the opposite direction as quick as possible, let the loser sort out his own problems. Spread your wings op and see how far you can fly when you aren't holding on to his dead weight.

16points

"I Didn't Start The Dryer": Karen Gets Taught A Lesson After Throwing Out Neighbor's Wet Clothes

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#47

Women Share How They Realized Their Partner Didn't Even Like Them In This Excruciating Online Thread when I signed up for bumble bff to make friends because we moved to a new city together and he would rather spend every day on discord with his friends playing video games then doing anything with me.

handmeramen , Alexander Kovalev Report

Final score:

27points

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#48

It’s hard to tell. There have been so many glaring signs in our marriage. It’s pretty obvious the only reason he ever cared about me is because I came with assets and a decent paycheck. I wonder if he realizes yet that he has destroyed all the feelings I ever had for him?

Yorkie_Mom_2 Report

Final score:

27points

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Phoenix(or nix)they/them 1 year ago

LEAVE HIS AS$

6points

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#49

This happened a long time ago but it was when I got in an accident and when I texted him about it he didn't even bother to come see me. He just asked what happened and continued gaming with his friends.

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26points

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Ember Ardoni 1 year ago

Wow. That is neglectful. I hope you are better off now

3points

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#50

When I came out of the mental hospital after a 10 day stint and they never cared to see me for *months*

When he told me he would have sex with someone else if given the chance and it wouldn’t be considered cheating, disloyal, or unfaithful

When they made me cry on my birthday

When they put everyone else before me, like thank you for penciling me, your girlfriend (now ex), into your super busy schedule

When they weaponized my loneliness, anxiety, and bipolar disorder against me

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26points

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Aboredpanda 1 year ago

People with serious mental illness often experience abuse from others when they're ill.💔

12points

#51

Pay attention to how they act during a family members passing or medical situation. Their true colors of empathy care or selfishness are visible.

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26points

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Trish 1 year ago

So true.

5points

#52

When he cheated with a worker in the apartment complex. He said "can't you get the hint?"

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25points

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Lemme get the lemons 1 year ago

No can't you, they obviously loved you so don't take their heart and break it as you please you liar

5points

#53

Women Share How They Realized Their Partner Didn't Even Like Them In This Excruciating Online Thread When his entire family took a cruise and invited his ex wife (mother of his 16 year old twins) and not me. And she went.

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24points

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Josh 1 year ago

I misread this and thought at first the ex was the mother of his 16 children.

4points

#54

When he got drunk at a bachelor party and kissed another girl and tried to deny it AFTER SOMEONE SAW HIM.

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20points

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Sonja 1 year ago

Alcohol doesn't magically put urges in your head you never had before or makes you do stuff you don't want to do. It only lowers your inhibition to do what you deep down always wanted to do. People don't become someone different when drunk, they let go of the person they presented when sober and show you who they truly are inside. In vino veritas. If someone really doesn't want to be who they are when drunk, they will stop drinking. If they use drinking as an excuse to do the bad things they wouldn't do sober, that's what they want to do. Drinking is a decision. And if someone can't control themselves when drunk and still keeps drinking, then they're a bad person who does bad things. Of course they're most likely also an alcoholic, but that too is not going to get better any time soon and still is no excuse for abuse. They're still responsible. And it's still their doing.

10points

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#55

When he checked out other girls while I'm sitting next to him. How you gonna say I love you when you fantasizing next to me

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17points

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Majungasaurus 1 year ago (edited)

I had an ex like this. He would stare and try to make eye contact and exchange little smiles with the other girl while I was looking right at him trying to talk to him. My CURRENT bf will occasionally check out a girl when I’m around but he’s so much more respectful about it. It used to bother me with ex, but doesn’t bother me with bf because he just appreciates for a moment then turns his attention right back to me. Doesn’t try to flirt, just looks. (And I do the same with other cute people too, I’m respectful too and it doesn’t bother him, we both know there’s a lot of attractive people out there) It’s how you do it 🤷‍♀️

5points

#56

I was upstairs laughing at a joke with online friends, and he turned the volume up on the TV so he didn’t have to hear me laugh.

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11points

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jdtimid123 1 year ago

I feel like this might be missing some info. Like, if it was a one time that she got loud then turning the TV up is dumb, but if she had also been talking loudly up to that point, then I get turning up the TV. No one wants to listen to a conversation they aren't a part of. Unless he specifically said that was the reason. Although he probably shouldn't have the TV up so loud that she can hear it upstairs either. That can't be good for your hearing.

3points

#57

There are countless incidents but the one that jumps out is that his acquaintance had at some point lied and said he slept with me prior to our relationship and someone told my bf about it. I told him it wasn't true. The guy had a huge crush on me for years but we never even dated. It was barely a thing to my then boyfriend and he continued being the guy's acquaintance.

Edit to add: Wow, just realized I left out a HUGE piece. The bf of this convo was my first. So yeah, it was just terrible and heartbreaking.

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10points

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Huddo's sister 1 year ago

I don't quit get this. Are they upset that the bf wasn't jealous, or that he didn't get angry at the guy who lied? Or both? I feel like there is more missing.

3points

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Amanda 1 year ago

Nowhere near as awful as some of these, but I told him I was thinking of giving up alcohol. He immediately blocked me on all social media and I haven't heard anything since. Beer was more important to him than me and my wellbeing

22points

Amanda 1 year ago

So I guess the ps5 is mine now haha

28points

Hphizzle 1 year ago

I’m very happy and proud of all the “my ex” posts. You realized your worth and got out of that horrible relationship!

15points

Chexmy Licks🇯🇵/egg 1 year ago

im actually speechless about these post. i cant believe someone is this cruel to the people who love them.

8points

D. Pitbull 1 year ago

So ... so many of these could have been stories from my own relationship history (not current) - what is worse is the reason ANY of us put up with it for more than a single incident is that we're shamed by others (who haven't had the same issues) to "not give up" and "I'm sure you misjudged things"

4points

Debbie 1 year ago

Some posts were clear and heartbreaking. Some were lacking info and well told from a victims perspective but very subjective so I am hesitant to judge. There is harsh judgment here, based on only a few lines of text. It's give and take in a relationship, and often it feels like it is divided unfairly. But what one person gives or takes might not be the same thing that the other needs of wants. But if it's a dead weight sitting on the couch and not putting in any effort, it's time to clean up the useless stuff..

4points

talliloo 1 year ago

had been married about 10 yrs when i was diagnosed with a slow but degenerative disease. fast forward to about 25 yrs of marriage and had a bad flare that meant that i had to use a wheelchair for a day or so. the first time he saw me in the chair he turned and walked away. i left a couple of years later. btw, i still have the chair and maybe use it once or twice a year but only when i know i am going somewhere with uneven ground or want to take my dogs on a long walk.

4points

similarly 1 year ago

I can't imagine how someone could treat another person this way. Like seriously? Who ARE these people? I'm shocked out of my skull. Who does this stuff? They're monsters. The end. They're just monsters.

4points

Whitefox 1 year ago

My ex cheated several times, lied like his life depended on it, stole money, did nothing to help around the house, spent money he didnt have, emotionally abused the c**p out of me, gaslit me at every turn, refused to help take care of our pets even when I was working 16hrs a day because he quit his job. Ohhh it was a wretched experience. Thankfully, I moved onwards and upwards. I am with the love of my life now and never look back.

3points

HelluvaHedgehogAlien 1 year ago

My ex bf was a jerk but he was nowhere near this level of assholery

3points

Maisey Myles 1 year ago

I can respond to all of these stories about evil ex's with one word- scumbags

2points

Sarah E Cofer 1 year ago

1 - when he broke my rib and I was dryheaving on the ground and he laughed at me and then pushed me back down when I tried to stand, then ran inside and stole my phone and left me there in need of medical help. It took me 30 minutes to crawl inside all to discover that he had my phone. I couldnt walk and could barely breathe. It took almost 2 days for someone to show up to my house and go get help for me. 2- When I worked 3 doubles in a row and couldnt eat at work and every night when I walked in with food starving he threw my food against the wall or in the floor. 3 days in a row of me not having time for breakfast or lunch and on night three I just bawled like a baby and he told me to get over myself. #3 - when I got drugged with Ghb last week and taken advantage of and he didnt bother to come check on me until 2 days later and then left for another 3 days and then just wanted to have sex with me before going back to his f**k buddies house to spend the night so Im through with it

2points

Sweet Taurus 1 year ago

Girl I truly hope you're at your wits end and truly done. I've been in a similar situation where I stayed for 3 years. It never gets better. Only worse. The longer you stay the longer it takes to recover from that type of abuse. You deserve soooo much better than what his best days could give you. I promise you will find someone who on their worst day will still be 100% kind and loving towards you. Know your worth and never settle for anything less than that!

3points

MoMcB 1 year ago

Please, please get out of there. This man will kill you.

2points

MellonCollie 1 year ago

Leave his a*s, girl! I truly hope you reported him for battery and theft as well.

2points

Jess 1 year ago

When I was depressed because of him (he didn't treat me nice, he was flirting w others, didn't care what bothered me..) he ignored me, went out with friends (cause they need him) and blamed me for ruining his mood. He stopped talking to me because he "doesn't have time, energy or sexual mood" for me, but continued flirting with others. Oh and he cut the communication right after my father passed away. .. He still doesn't understand what did he do wrong and doesn't think he's a bad guy.

1point

FABULOUS1 1 year ago

I can relate to a lot of these. Went through a lot of physical and mental abuse, and was treated very badly by people who were supposed to be in love with me. For years I thought I deserved everything I got and was reminded constantly no one would or could ever love me. Today I get to be married to an awesome woman, she is not perfect but she is perfect for me. She not only accepts me but also my children and our grandkids which my last ex did not. I don't think you have to have someone to be happy, but everyone deserves someone who considers their happiness always and vice versa.

1point

crowspectre (he/they) 1 year ago

I'm not a woman, but my last boyfriend broke up with me when he came out as aromantic which I really should have seen coming. He only ever told me he loved me without me saying it before him once, and that was when I was actively having a complete mental breakdown, he never did anything for me or tried to compromise between our different relationship needs and just let me change everything I could about myself to try and be perfect for him. We're still friends and it's a lot better this way, but I'm down like 80 dollars that I spent on him and a whole lot of mental health that I shouldn't have wasted

1point

talliloo 1 year ago

was diagnosed with degenerative disease at about the 10 yr mark of our marriage. we were married a little over 25 yrs when a bad flare had me having to use a wheelchair (it was only going to be temporary). he took one look at me in the chair and walked away. he later said it was "a shock". i left a couple of years later. btw: i still have a chair. i use it only once or twice a year and only if i have to go somewhere with uneven ground or the distance is too far to do without problems.

1point

Tracy Wallick 1 year ago (edited)

I asked my (now ex) husband if he could come cuddle with me, because I was having trouble falling asleep; bear in mind, I was pulling 100% of the weight in the relationship, and almost never asked for anything because I knew from experience I was likely to be let down. His response was a completely flippant "I don't feel like it". Cried myself to sleep that night.

1point

Sergio Bicerra 1 year ago

I once said no to cuddles to my ex gf... cause it was about 90°, i was a sweatting mess and she was as hot as the devil's a*s, so that was a big no for me. We compromised in me caressing her hand until she felt asleep.

2points

Jro308 1 year ago

Mine left me at the hospital alone to give birth to our son because the doctor told him it could be a couple of hours of labor, he went to a friends at 8pm to get high and didn't come back until 9 the next morning. Our son was born at midnight. (this was before everyone had cells phones)

0points

Dizzie D 1 year ago

This is very sad. So many people experiencing situations where all they wanted was love, kindness and respect. The women who had awful men on these posts should partner up with the men who had awful women. They would be perfect matches as they would care so much about each other.

0points

Amanda 1 year ago

Thank you. I did stick to my plan. 9 days sober, single and happily gaming

0points

Monarch cat lady 1 year ago

Punctured a lung broke 2 ribs bastard yelled at me cuz I asked him to sit with my handicapped mom until could get dad to get her home. I will NEVER EVER forget that day. Yup needed a chest tube in for over 24hrs then 2 days in-house at hospital

0points

Dzusty 1 year ago

My ex kept complaining how i don't wear high heels and sexy dresses. But never took me out for dates, restaurants or clubs. I mean where was i supposed to wear them? To a supermarket? Get a grip of yourself

0points

Brenda 1 year ago

Came home to Texas from London. Ex sent a letter. One line said it all. "I didn't realize how miserable I was until you were gone." Then wanted to get back together after the divorce

0points

Rosie 1 year ago

As much as I'm appalled at some of the behaviors listed here, I do understand how easy it is to tolerate small offenses. I put up w/several "minor" issues in a 4-year relationship, things like double standards & dismissal of my feelings. He was also still married to his ex (but separated for *many* years). When he got a few thousand on a settlement, I asked him what he planned to do w/the $$$. I hoped he'd say get divorced at last, but he decided on buying a TV, not to upgrade ours, but something he could watch on his own (usually the same I was watching). I finally understood we had no future & he didn't like hanging out w/me anymore, just enjoyed me as caregiver, driver & organizer. Time to go.

0points

Nina 1 year ago

I'm stunned it took so long for women to realise what pricks they were dating. Why do they let it get so far? Not trying to be rude, actually genuinely curious.

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I give up on society 1 year ago

Surprised there nogthing about women her also.

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Jason Doakes 1 year ago

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Pink Aesthetic 1 year ago

Stop victim blaming

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Amanda 1 year ago

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Amanda 1 year ago

So I guess the ps5 is mine now haha

28points

Hphizzle 1 year ago

I’m very happy and proud of all the “my ex” posts. You realized your worth and got out of that horrible relationship!

15points

Chexmy Licks🇯🇵/egg 1 year ago

im actually speechless about these post. i cant believe someone is this cruel to the people who love them.

8points

D. Pitbull 1 year ago

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Debbie 1 year ago

4points

talliloo 1 year ago

4points

similarly 1 year ago

4points

Whitefox 1 year ago

3points

HelluvaHedgehogAlien 1 year ago

My ex bf was a jerk but he was nowhere near this level of assholery

3points

Maisey Myles 1 year ago

I can respond to all of these stories about evil ex's with one word- scumbags

2points

Sarah E Cofer 1 year ago

2points

Sweet Taurus 1 year ago

3points

MoMcB 1 year ago

Please, please get out of there. This man will kill you.

2points

MellonCollie 1 year ago

Leave his a*s, girl! I truly hope you reported him for battery and theft as well.

2points

Jess 1 year ago

1point

FABULOUS1 1 year ago

1point

crowspectre (he/they) 1 year ago

1point

talliloo 1 year ago

1point

Tracy Wallick 1 year ago (edited)

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Sergio Bicerra 1 year ago

2points

Jro308 1 year ago

0points

Dizzie D 1 year ago

0points

Amanda 1 year ago

Thank you. I did stick to my plan. 9 days sober, single and happily gaming

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Monarch cat lady 1 year ago

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Dzusty 1 year ago

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Brenda 1 year ago

Came home to Texas from London. Ex sent a letter. One line said it all. "I didn't realize how miserable I was until you were gone." Then wanted to get back together after the divorce

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Rosie 1 year ago

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Nina 1 year ago

I'm stunned it took so long for women to realise what pricks they were dating. Why do they let it get so far? Not trying to be rude, actually genuinely curious.

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I give up on society 1 year ago

Surprised there nogthing about women her also.

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Jason Doakes 1 year ago

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Pink Aesthetic 1 year ago

Stop victim blaming

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