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Single Parents Are Relating To This Mom’s Rant Over People Who Judge Her For Taking Her Kid Grocery Shopping
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Single Parents Are Relating To This Mom’s Rant Over People Who Judge Her For Taking Her Kid Grocery Shopping

Mom Puts A Sign On Her 5-Year-Old Daughter’s Back To Stop Others From Shaming Them At The Grocery StoreMom Puts A Sign On Her 5-Year-Old Daughter’s Back To Prevent Rude Stares While They’re Grocery ShoppingMom Puts A Sign On Her Daughter’s Back To Stop People Judging Them While They’re Grocery Shopping TogetherMother Puts A Sign On Her Daughter's Back So Strangers Don't Start Judging Them For Being In Public Together During The LockdownSingle Mom Gets Tired Of People Judging Her Because She Takes Her Daughter Shopping, Puts This Note On Her BackSingle Mom Receives Judging Looks Because She Goes Grocery Shopping With Her 5-Year-Old, Puts This Note On Her BackSingle Mom Puts A Sign On Her 5-Year-Old Daughter's Back Urging People To Stop Judging Them Because They Have To Shop TogetherSingle Parents Are Relating To This Mom's Rant Over People Who Judge Her For Taking Her Kid Grocery ShoppingSingle Mom Puts A Sign On Her Daughter While Grocery Shopping To Avoid Unnecessary Drama With Rude PeopleMom Has To Take Her Daughter Grocery Shopping, Puts A Sign On Her So Judging People Would Think Before Speaking
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The coronavirus pandemic has brought out the best and the worst in people. Some individuals are quick to judge others for not following quarantine and social distancing rules without knowing their situations.

MaryAnn Fausey Resendez takes her 5-year-old daughter with her to go to the grocery store because she’s the only adult in her household and can’t leave her child alone.

She put a sign on her daughter’s back explaining just why she’s out and about with her mom to stop any criticism and shaming before it starts. The Texan mom’s post on Facebook got a lot of attention with over 5.1k comments and 43k shares.

MaryAnn Fausey Resendez put a sign on her daughter’s back to stop people from shaming them

Image credits: MaryAnn Fausey Resendez

Here’s a close-up of what the sign says

Image credits: MaryAnn Fausey Resendez

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Image credits: MaryAnn Fausey Resendez

Some social media users explained that they were in the same boat as MaryAnn, others pointed out that we all need to stop judging each other so harshly. There were also a few commentators who said that bringing children to grocery stores is potentially dangerous to them.

In some countries, there’s a rule or a recommendation that only one person from each family should go shopping. This means that single parents with nobody to look after their kids are now scrutinized by members of their community and neighbors when they go outside with their children in tow.

MaryAnn posted her process for going outside and grocery shopping

Image credits: MaryAnn Fausey Resendez

There are more single parents struggling with the coronavirus quarantine than you think. For example, in San Francisco, in California, nearly a quarter of all families with children are single-parent households; the number is over one third in Hidalgo County, in Texas, where MaryAnn lives.

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So a lot of parents are out of their depth and face very real dilemmas in their day to day lives: do they leave their children at home, bring them along on trips to grocery stores, or potentially risk infecting their extended family members with the coronavirus by dropping the kids off at their place? At the end of the day, there’s no good answer and each decision has its downsides.

26-year-old startup founder and single mom Izabel Arnold is another example of someone stuck in a Catch-22 situation. Izabel told the San Francisco Chronicle that she feels completely overwhelmed and very lonely.

“I think other working single moms share the same sentiment—that we feel we’re failing at our jobs and at being moms because both require our full attention, but neither can have it,” she shared her struggles with finding balance in her life between paying the bills and raising her child.

Izabel stopped seeing her parents because she’s afraid of exposing them to the virus. Meanwhile, her child’s daycare is closed which means Izabel has to take care of son all by herself all day, every day.

Most people supported the MaryAnn’s message and urged others to stop shaming single parents

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Storytelling, journalism, and art are a core part of who I am. I've been writing and drawing ever since I could walk—there is nothing else I'd rather do. My formal education, however, is focused on politics, philosophy, and economics because I've always been curious about the gap between the ideal and the real. At work, I'm a Senior Writer and I cover a broad range of topics that I'm passionate about: from psychology and changes in work culture to healthy living, relationships, and design. In my spare time, I'm an avid hiker and reader, enjoy writing short stories, and love to doodle. I thrive when I'm outdoors, going on small adventures in nature. However, you can also find me enjoying a big mug of coffee with a good book (or ten) and entertaining friends with fantasy tabletop games and sci-fi movies.

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Denis is a photo editor at Bored Panda. After getting his bachelor's degree in Multimedia and Computer Design, he tried to succeed in digital design, advertising, and branding. Also, Denis really enjoys sports and loves everything related to board sports and water.

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Aunt Messy
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To all the morons yammering that she "should" let someone else watch the kids.....WTF are you talking about? Are you seriously telling this single mom that she should break quarantine, go to someone else's home, and risk her daughter's life so that she can buy food? You're idiots.

Lucas
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

THANK YOU. The person who commented about 'banding together' to look after each other's children... NO! This is not what we're supposed to be doing. If mum and her child are the only people living together then she has few options.

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Ksenia M
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think it's obvious we shouldn't judge people who are going to the stores with younger kids, it's possible they don't have other options. I do reserve the right to judge families with 2 able-bodied parents who go shopping with their 3 kids. What's their excuse?

Ksenia M
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

BiEL Sampaio, yeah, I think someone has said something to her before, otherwise she wouldn't feel the need to glue notes to her kid. I hope)))

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WilvanderHeijden
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4 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Our shops: "Please don't make your daily shopping a family outing" People: "Let's go shopping, with Grandpa, Grandma, Melinda, Joey, Robin, aunty Wilma and the both of us."

Nia Loves Art
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What does that have to do with the article? The whole point is that she has to take her daughter with her.

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Aunt Messy
Community Member
4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To all the morons yammering that she "should" let someone else watch the kids.....WTF are you talking about? Are you seriously telling this single mom that she should break quarantine, go to someone else's home, and risk her daughter's life so that she can buy food? You're idiots.

Lucas
Community Member
4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

THANK YOU. The person who commented about 'banding together' to look after each other's children... NO! This is not what we're supposed to be doing. If mum and her child are the only people living together then she has few options.

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Ksenia M
Community Member
4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think it's obvious we shouldn't judge people who are going to the stores with younger kids, it's possible they don't have other options. I do reserve the right to judge families with 2 able-bodied parents who go shopping with their 3 kids. What's their excuse?

Ksenia M
Community Member
4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

BiEL Sampaio, yeah, I think someone has said something to her before, otherwise she wouldn't feel the need to glue notes to her kid. I hope)))

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WilvanderHeijden
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4 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Our shops: "Please don't make your daily shopping a family outing" People: "Let's go shopping, with Grandpa, Grandma, Melinda, Joey, Robin, aunty Wilma and the both of us."

Nia Loves Art
Community Member
4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What does that have to do with the article? The whole point is that she has to take her daughter with her.

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