Mom Shares How She Reacted To Her Teen Daughter’s Pregnancy And People Are Praising Her Parenting Skills

Storytelling on TikTok is an art form in and of itself. One of the more popular trends on the platform right now is re-enacting events through a song from Teen Beach Movie called I Can’t Stop Singing.

But few have used it as brilliantly as Nicole Hennessy. The mom-of-three and photographer from Maryland recently filmed a video to the tune to speak about the way she and her 17-year-old daughter Angelina handled the teen getting pregnant.

With permission from Angelina, Nicole showed how the two of them battled emotions in search of the best course of action. It becomes clear pretty soon in the clip that the 35-year-old mother simply wants what’s best for her daughter, without being angry or judgemental.

So far, Nicole’s calm and educational reaction has been applauded by over 14 million people who watched the video, and something tells me she’s gonna be just as cool of a grandma as she’s a parent.

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“Angelina is a soul from the ’80s, I would say,” Nicole introduced her daughter to Bored Panda. “She is incredibly artistic, she paints and works with ceramics — her talent blows me away. She is a lover of all types of music, an awesome cook, and the type of person whose heart feels for everyone. She is not afraid to be true to herself but she also lifts up others. With a dash of sarcasm and humor for good measure.”

The moment Nicole saw the pregnancy test wrapper, she knew it was Angelina’s. Her initial reaction was ‘Angelina needs me, so don’t react!’ The mom hugged her daughter tight and told her she would help her figure this out.

“Our relationship is ever-changing. At the start of teens, it was typical; we loved each other but she’d much rather be out with friends,” Nicole said. “Now, with the pregnancy and the pandemic, we spend our days together.”

Nicole admitted it was quite the transition, looking at her little girl become a young woman and then a mother. “We have a mother-daughter relationship that is strong, respectful, and also like a partnership, we help each other out. I’m so proud of her and her maturity and strength!”

So when she sat down with her daughter helping her to make a rational, informed decision, Nicole understood that it was Angelina’s next chapter, not hers. Her job was simply to educate the 17-year-old as much as she could. “I told her that she has 3 options: abortion, adoption, or keeping and raising the baby,” Nicole said. “My husband and I sat down with her and talked in length about all 3 and the pros and cons to each one. He and I agreed in advance that we would not voice our opinion to her because it is her life to choose and we did not want to pressure her to make a choice.”

After going over the facts, Nicole found Angelina a therapist so she could not only make the decision but fully accept and live with it as well. “We talked to my Reverends at church (who are open-minded and loving) and we also went to the women’s center and Ob-Gyn. Also, her primary called her to check in.”

Angelina took a long while to process her options. “She at one point considered each of them (I made a ‘part 2’ video about that) but at the end, she felt keeping and raising the baby is what her heart wanted,” Nicole said. “So here we are, 7 weeks away from meeting her little boy. She will stay living at home so she can finish school and college and try to save money. She has our full support. It takes a village.”

Nicole’s TikTok immediately went viral

So she posted an update

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After going through this journey as a parent, Nicole highlighted that no matter the issue, it’s important for moms and dads to constantly strengthen the bond with their kids so they feel safe coming to them. “Yes, they are young but they are a person with feelings and they need to not feel scared and alone.”

“If I did anything right as a mom, it was creating a space where my kids know they can come to me and my love won’t ever go away,” she said. “Also, because she was given space to make her own choice, she will thrive, she will not feel like a victim of the choice pushed on her. She chose her path on her own and that means she is willing to sacrifice to be successful with that choice.”

Nicole added that things happen in life that seem scary and bad, but she personally believes it all has a purpose. “Try and stay positive and look at what positivity can come from each bad thing.”

Angelina will be welcoming a baby boy this September

Image credits: Nicole Hennessy

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Iapetos 4 years ago

Her mother handled that wonderfully, but I cannot stress enough how important birth control is to prevent this kind of situations. I wish all the best to the young mother and her child.

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Ksholmes0603 4 years ago

The instant I gave birth and held my daughter it's like I just knew that when the change came for her we would talk, and talk and talk. And she would be well educated and decide if birth control was right and what type and when she needed it, or thought about needing it she would know what to do and where to go. I think that's the biggest part. Kids fear asking for it because it's sitting they either are having sex or want to. Too much taboo around sex, when it should be around unprotected, irresponsible sex.

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Sergio Bicerra Descalzi 4 years ago

The answer to prevent this: sex ed, total transparency with your folks to buy you condoms or other contraceptive method (in my country is illegal unless you are 18), and never take nothing for for granted: mistakes can happen. Either way, A+ for supporting her daughter.

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Ksholmes0603 4 years ago

I cannot agree more... But of course I have a very long winded story for you lol. My mother (the youngest of 5) got pregnant with me the begining of her senior year of high school (at 17, her birthday is may 18) my dad and her fell in love over the summer before the school year, they were new neighbors... My Grandmother was an alcoholic, my Grandfather a very strong supportive family man, Navy Vet, quit drinking to be a father and mother to the kids as my Grandmother couldn't, yet. My mother graduated high school, and I was there to see it (my birthday is June 3, graduation is around the middle of June) .... My mother told my grandmother when I was born that she would not touch me if she were drinking (that was new years Eve while pregnant) and my grandmother woke the next morning, took a sip of her warm beer, and never touch another drink again. My parents married and had my brother (born a few weeks early may 28, almost 5 years after me). When I was 7 parents divorced. Fast fwd. I vowed not to get pregnant on high school as I saw how much my mom struggled raising us... She has several college degrees now, but we lived on welfare and she worked 2 jobs and went to college while raising us.... That couldn't have been a walk in the park... Tho she made it look like one. So I vowed just not to have sex. And didn't. Until I had graduated high school. I didn't have my kids (a girl then 14 months later a boy) until I was 28. But once I had my daughter It all came full circle and into instant perspective and i

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Christina Uhlir 4 years ago

I don't want to be judgmental, but didn't mother "handled" it too late? Especially when she got pregnant as a teen?

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cassiushumanmother 4 years ago

i'll will be glad to be the person who told to you: i'm not an uterus and the abortion saved me from slavery. i'm really glad to offer you that, besides your small opinions

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Starbelly Eleven 4 years ago

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Cori 4 years ago

This is a perfect example of pro choice does not necessarily mean pro abortion. People say to me 'if you're pro choice, you must be willing to get an abortion.' Absolutely not. I, personally, never could. But I 100% support anyone who feels they need to. This mom needs to to write a book on the proper way to deal with a teen pregnancy. Also I love how she used pictures of herself to illustrate her daughter's side of the interaction. This is so much better than photograping her daughter when she was vulnerable and then posting then all over the internet like so many of those awful Instamoms are known to do.

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Latoya Graham 4 years ago

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Bill 4 years ago

Why are the pro lifers the ones who cut adoption and programs to help mothers?

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Iapetos 4 years ago

Her mother handled that wonderfully, but I cannot stress enough how important birth control is to prevent this kind of situations. I wish all the best to the young mother and her child.

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Ksholmes0603 4 years ago

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Sergio Bicerra Descalzi 4 years ago

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Ksholmes0603 4 years ago

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Christina Uhlir 4 years ago

I don't want to be judgmental, but didn't mother "handled" it too late? Especially when she got pregnant as a teen?

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cassiushumanmother 4 years ago

i'll will be glad to be the person who told to you: i'm not an uterus and the abortion saved me from slavery. i'm really glad to offer you that, besides your small opinions

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