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Mom Handles Her Daughter’s Bully Like A Mob Boss By ‘Hiring’ A Couple Of Kids To Beat Him Up
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Mom Handles Her Daughter’s Bully Like A Mob Boss By ‘Hiring’ A Couple Of Kids To Beat Him Up

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Being called “stupid” and a “loser,” having someone push you into a locker or trip you in the hallway, and getting your lunch money stolen – chances are, most of you know exactly what it’s like to be bullied by nasty little punks!

This netizen’s mom, though, wasn’t having it, so to school her kid’s bully, she decided to pay two boys the same age as him to, well, beat him up. 

More info: Reddit

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    My mom hired two kids to beat up my childhood bully” – this internet user took to one of Reddit’s most vengeful communities to tell its members a tale of how her mother dealt with her childhood bully back in the ’80s. The post managed to garner over 15K upvotes as well as 878 comments discussing the situation.

    Now, did you know that according to PACER’s National Bullying Prevention Center, which provides innovative resources for students, parents, educators, and others and recognizes bullying as a serious community issue, “one out of every five (20.2%) students report being bullied”?

    Being a kid is an incredible stage of life that many folks look back on with fondness; however, despite all the blissful memories, for the bulk of us, it also came with a fair share of challenges.

    Most children get teased by their siblings and/or friends at some point, and it’s not usually harmful when it’s done mutually and gets a laugh out of both kids. But when it turns into something awful, where a child fears doing basic day-to-day activities like going to school – it’s time to raise the alarm!

    Power imbalances; the influence of peers; toxic family dynamics; insecurity and competition; a lack of empathy, and perhaps education – there are a million and one reasons why kids choose to bully other kids, and it’s your responsibility as a parent to guide them through the tough time and minimize its effect on their well-being.

    For instance, Understood, a nonprofit organization that provides resources and support so people who learn and think differently can thrive, urges parents to follow these steps:

    • Care for your child;
    • Use open-ended questions to encourage them to share and document the facts;
    • Review the school’s anti-bullying policy and any state laws;
    • Report it;
    • Monitor the school’s response;
    • If nothing gets done, take it up the chain of command;
    • Finally, contact a lawyer if needed.

    In the words of Dr. Haim Ginott, “Children are like wet cement. Whatever falls on them makes an impression,” so always support and advocate for your little one!

    She goes to the “worst” area of Detroit and pays some boys $20 each to set the bully straight

    Image credits: Mikhail Nilov (not the actual photo)

    Today’s story, though, takes place in the ’80s – a very different time with its own rules and regulations!

    The OP was a third grader, just like her bully – however, he failed two grades, so he was a tad older. The two also lived in the same neighborhood, and back then, AC wasn’t as popular, meaning that most folks would just leave their doors open.

    One day, when she was walking to her friend’s condo, she heard some screaming and pounding, and when she turned to look – she saw the bully’s sister literally flying across the room.

    Naturally, she went back home and reported everything to her mom, which prompted the woman to call CPS and have all five kids taken away. But again, it was the ’80s, so the kids returned home relatively quickly after the parents promised not to do it again.

    Anywho, the bully found out who called CPS, and shortly after, sucker punched the Redditor at the bus stop.

    When her mother learned about this, she headed to the “worst” area of Detroit and paid two kids the same age as him to go and beat him up.

    Crazy, but at least it worked, eh?

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    Felonius Gru
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    1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know what the kid did was inexcusable but it really sounds like the kids were being abused at home (i.e being taken away by CPS) His behaviour was obviously a biproduct of that. Sure, it was the 80s,but nowadays we know better. Your mom arranging for an abused kid to be beaten up doesn't seem like something to brag about in hindsight.

    TMoxraaaar
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The people saying this is inappropriate have either never been bullied or ARE bullies. Schools do nothing. Cops do nothing. Lawsuits do nothing. Talking to parents does nothing. Violence isn't an answer - it's a question. Sometimes the answer is YES. When I was being bullied in elementary school my parents came to talk with the admin and were given the runaround. Dad pulled me into the meeting and in front of all the useless adults told me that if I defended myself and "these people" had the audacity to punish me I would be praised and rewarded at home.

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    zak
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So, her mom hired two 9-or-10-year-old kids in another area of the city, and drove them to her neighborhood (which is essentially kidnapping) to beat up a child for money? What a psycho, if this is even true.

    R Dennis
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The kid was held back... so she went to Detroit and randomly picked up two 11-12 year olds 🙄... ONE: White people couldn't just roll into "the worst area of Detroit" in the 80s and pick up kids. Trying to pick up a couple kids at Mack & Chalmers would get your car taken at the very least. TWO: That isn't how "Italians deal with things." As a multiracial kid in an east side Italian family, you have plenty of "family" that will deal with it - whether that be siblings or "cousins," there are ways.

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    Nice Beast Ludo
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds like this kid already got the snot beat out of him on a regular basis and I don't see how inciting more violence helped anyone.

    TMoxraaaar
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He stopped - that's success. You "violence is never okay" people need to stop watching after school specials.

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    Deborah B
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was raised "violence doesn't solve anything/don't use hurtful words" and I was bullied through to year 10. Teach your kids to fight back, take them to martial arts classes, and tell them not to start fights, but that you will always support them if they finish one.

    Ima Manimal
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ah, the ‘80s. That mom would be in jail if that happened today.

    Ak_Teren
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As another panda recently put it: fück that, fight fire with molotov cocktails. Bullies only understand strength.

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    InfiniteZeek
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am not a grammar nazi in any way, but holy s**t that was hard to read!

    Mike Fitzpatrick
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Fiction often can be. I've read that when people "embellish" a not so true narrative, they typically pepper said story with unnecessary details. Redditors are often gullible.

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    The Mom
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My son was bullied. I told him as soon as the bully got to school to punch him in the nose. I also him told him that he would get into trouble at school for doing it but that I would not be mad. He didn't hit hit bully when he showed up but did it after school let out. The bully left him alone after that. Yes, the bully was reported after each instance but the school ignored it saying he was acting out because his parents were going through a divorce at the time. So was my sons parents and he wasn't a bullying classmates.

    PunchinelloTX
    Community Member
    Premium
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I assure all of you, that is NOT how Italians deal with things. I stopped reading after that sentence.

    Jessica SpeLangm
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I call BS on this story. No way any mother with ANY common sense thinks "Hey, let me just have some random kids beat up my kid's bully to stop this from happening. I'll pay them $20 each. I'm sure their mother or father won't mind me kidnapping them." BS BP. This never happened.

    Sergio Bicerra
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This reminds me of the movie The War with Eliah Wood and Kevin Costner, when he gave the kids that bullied a couple of sugar cotton and when Eliah asked him why he did that Costner answered 'cause it looks like nobody's done something nice to them in a while'

    zovjraar me
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    they tried to do the right by calling CPS. OP is still being bullied and harmed. mum did the only other thing she could think of to protect her kid. i support that. sorry the bully had a hard home life, but you have to do something to protect your own kid.

    DarkViolet
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Growing up in the foster care system, I was bullied from first through ninth grade. Some of the things that were done to me are unmentionable. Except for sending me home "for my own good," no one (teachers, legal guardians, faculty) did anything about it. Not. One. Damned. Thing. It wasn't until I left the system at age 15 (and that shìtty town with its equally shìtty schools) that things took a turn for the best. When my dad regained custody of three of his four kids, it was understood that you didn't mess with his kids. By that time, I realized that sometimes you have to defend yourself by any means possible. No one bullied me ever again.

    Ekaterina Myers
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    These reasons to fight in the comments… “to stop a fight” - that is just stupid and dangerous. That is how some people I used to know got themselves killed. It is cool to be a hero, but I choose my kids to stay alive. Maybe the person who raises her son like that doesn’t really know what it can mean. But I spent my childhood in Russia in 90s and that advice “when to fight is ok” just sucks.

    whineygingercat
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My stepdad told me if somebody was coming at me to shove my book bag into their stomach and then punch them in the throat. The bag to the stomach throws them off balance, and the throat punch causes them to not breathe so good. It's hard to fight if you're unbalanced and out of breath/choaking.

    detective miller's hat
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This sounds like bad revenge fiction. The whole picking up random kids in Detroit does not sound even remotely believable.

    Pedantic Panda
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nothing nice happens in this story. My only question is, does one punch amount to bullying?

    Steven de Jong
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's not how Italians do things. It's how some Americans with Italian ancestry do things. This is called using your heritage as an (invalid) excuse for being a bad person.

    Negatoris Wrecks
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I dont buy this based on the simple fact that most people in bad neighborhoods tend to get pissed and offended when offered trifles for acts of violence. Friggin rude.

    Nimitz
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Please tell me your name and where you live. No reason, just that you committed a serious crime and you need to go to jail for a while. Don't worry, your kids will be fine in protective services.

    Kerri Russ
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This entire story is so fake. Yeah, right, a mom hired kids to beat up another kid and everyone is proud of her? I find it horrendous and it teaches the kids to use violence to solve their problems.

    Apatheist Account2
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Two wrongs don't make a right. You can't do that now, and couldn't do it then, unless you were actually doing "our thing".

    Felonius Gru
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know what the kid did was inexcusable but it really sounds like the kids were being abused at home (i.e being taken away by CPS) His behaviour was obviously a biproduct of that. Sure, it was the 80s,but nowadays we know better. Your mom arranging for an abused kid to be beaten up doesn't seem like something to brag about in hindsight.

    TMoxraaaar
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The people saying this is inappropriate have either never been bullied or ARE bullies. Schools do nothing. Cops do nothing. Lawsuits do nothing. Talking to parents does nothing. Violence isn't an answer - it's a question. Sometimes the answer is YES. When I was being bullied in elementary school my parents came to talk with the admin and were given the runaround. Dad pulled me into the meeting and in front of all the useless adults told me that if I defended myself and "these people" had the audacity to punish me I would be praised and rewarded at home.

    Load More Replies...
    zak
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So, her mom hired two 9-or-10-year-old kids in another area of the city, and drove them to her neighborhood (which is essentially kidnapping) to beat up a child for money? What a psycho, if this is even true.

    R Dennis
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The kid was held back... so she went to Detroit and randomly picked up two 11-12 year olds 🙄... ONE: White people couldn't just roll into "the worst area of Detroit" in the 80s and pick up kids. Trying to pick up a couple kids at Mack & Chalmers would get your car taken at the very least. TWO: That isn't how "Italians deal with things." As a multiracial kid in an east side Italian family, you have plenty of "family" that will deal with it - whether that be siblings or "cousins," there are ways.

    Load More Replies...
    Nice Beast Ludo
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds like this kid already got the snot beat out of him on a regular basis and I don't see how inciting more violence helped anyone.

    TMoxraaaar
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He stopped - that's success. You "violence is never okay" people need to stop watching after school specials.

    Load More Replies...
    Deborah B
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was raised "violence doesn't solve anything/don't use hurtful words" and I was bullied through to year 10. Teach your kids to fight back, take them to martial arts classes, and tell them not to start fights, but that you will always support them if they finish one.

    Ima Manimal
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ah, the ‘80s. That mom would be in jail if that happened today.

    Ak_Teren
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As another panda recently put it: fück that, fight fire with molotov cocktails. Bullies only understand strength.

    Load More Replies...
    InfiniteZeek
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am not a grammar nazi in any way, but holy s**t that was hard to read!

    Mike Fitzpatrick
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Fiction often can be. I've read that when people "embellish" a not so true narrative, they typically pepper said story with unnecessary details. Redditors are often gullible.

    Load More Replies...
    The Mom
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My son was bullied. I told him as soon as the bully got to school to punch him in the nose. I also him told him that he would get into trouble at school for doing it but that I would not be mad. He didn't hit hit bully when he showed up but did it after school let out. The bully left him alone after that. Yes, the bully was reported after each instance but the school ignored it saying he was acting out because his parents were going through a divorce at the time. So was my sons parents and he wasn't a bullying classmates.

    PunchinelloTX
    Community Member
    Premium
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I assure all of you, that is NOT how Italians deal with things. I stopped reading after that sentence.

    Jessica SpeLangm
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I call BS on this story. No way any mother with ANY common sense thinks "Hey, let me just have some random kids beat up my kid's bully to stop this from happening. I'll pay them $20 each. I'm sure their mother or father won't mind me kidnapping them." BS BP. This never happened.

    Sergio Bicerra
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This reminds me of the movie The War with Eliah Wood and Kevin Costner, when he gave the kids that bullied a couple of sugar cotton and when Eliah asked him why he did that Costner answered 'cause it looks like nobody's done something nice to them in a while'

    zovjraar me
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    they tried to do the right by calling CPS. OP is still being bullied and harmed. mum did the only other thing she could think of to protect her kid. i support that. sorry the bully had a hard home life, but you have to do something to protect your own kid.

    DarkViolet
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Growing up in the foster care system, I was bullied from first through ninth grade. Some of the things that were done to me are unmentionable. Except for sending me home "for my own good," no one (teachers, legal guardians, faculty) did anything about it. Not. One. Damned. Thing. It wasn't until I left the system at age 15 (and that shìtty town with its equally shìtty schools) that things took a turn for the best. When my dad regained custody of three of his four kids, it was understood that you didn't mess with his kids. By that time, I realized that sometimes you have to defend yourself by any means possible. No one bullied me ever again.

    Ekaterina Myers
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    These reasons to fight in the comments… “to stop a fight” - that is just stupid and dangerous. That is how some people I used to know got themselves killed. It is cool to be a hero, but I choose my kids to stay alive. Maybe the person who raises her son like that doesn’t really know what it can mean. But I spent my childhood in Russia in 90s and that advice “when to fight is ok” just sucks.

    whineygingercat
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My stepdad told me if somebody was coming at me to shove my book bag into their stomach and then punch them in the throat. The bag to the stomach throws them off balance, and the throat punch causes them to not breathe so good. It's hard to fight if you're unbalanced and out of breath/choaking.

    detective miller's hat
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This sounds like bad revenge fiction. The whole picking up random kids in Detroit does not sound even remotely believable.

    Pedantic Panda
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nothing nice happens in this story. My only question is, does one punch amount to bullying?

    Steven de Jong
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's not how Italians do things. It's how some Americans with Italian ancestry do things. This is called using your heritage as an (invalid) excuse for being a bad person.

    Negatoris Wrecks
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I dont buy this based on the simple fact that most people in bad neighborhoods tend to get pissed and offended when offered trifles for acts of violence. Friggin rude.

    Nimitz
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Please tell me your name and where you live. No reason, just that you committed a serious crime and you need to go to jail for a while. Don't worry, your kids will be fine in protective services.

    Kerri Russ
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This entire story is so fake. Yeah, right, a mom hired kids to beat up another kid and everyone is proud of her? I find it horrendous and it teaches the kids to use violence to solve their problems.

    Apatheist Account2
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Two wrongs don't make a right. You can't do that now, and couldn't do it then, unless you were actually doing "our thing".

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