
People On This Group Are Shaming ‘Neckbeards’, And Here Are 30 Of Their Best Posts
Prepare yourselves, dear Pandas, we’re about to journey into one of the most shadowy and hilarious corners of the internet—into the vast Cringe Empire, home of the elusive, socially inept neckbeards. Known for their poor hygiene, misogynistic points of view, [ahem] ‘interesting’ style choices, love of anime, katanas, body pillows, and Japanese culture, these fedora-wearing individuals are called neckbeards.
A pejorative term, it lightly pokes fun at those geeks who have over-inflated egos (and more than occasionally—over-inflated tummies), are often misogynistic, call people “m’lady,” and believe that acting like a functioning member of society is more of a recommendation than a requirement. Whether or not they have a beard on their necks or in their hearts is beside the point. All that matters is the beard in their soul.
One place that publicly shames the most cringeworthy neckbeards is the ‘Just Neckbeard Things’ subreddit, a community of nearly 809k members. It’s an online group “for mocking those who adorn their necks with proud man fur.” And I love their tagline which is “barba non philisophum facit” which roughly translated from Latin means “one's beard does not make a philosopher.”
Have a look through some of the subreddit’s funniest and quirkiest posts about neckbeards, upvote the ones that made you laugh, and be sure to give the online group a visit if you enjoyed their stuff. Onwards, dear Readers! Just remember not to touch anyone’s fedora—it makes them... angry.
Plenty of neckbeards eat very poorly, move very little, and stereotypically subsist on Doritos and Mountain Dew, which means their health isn't up to scratch. Bored Panda reached out to fitness expert Jack Bly to hear his take on what we can do to improve our health and fitness if we feel that it's negatively impacting the quality of our lives. You'll find his insights below.
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Women And Their... *shuffles Deck* ...pants!
Where's The Lie?
If they really wanted girlfriends they'd be all over the girl geeks and gamers and programmers, but they do their damndest to push them away... thereby ending any possibility of meeting a girl they have anything in common with. They have NO idea that they have terrible intimacy issues, they'd rather believe it's all the fault of, well, every female alive.
Those Red Caps Are The New Fedoras
I wanted to get fitness expert Jack's take on what foods to go for when losing weight. Going on a new diet can mean that you're constantly feeling hungry which can, in turn, mean that you're more likely to go back to your old snacking and fast-food habits.
Jack told Bored Panda that high satiety foods are key to keeping hunger at bay. "The foods you are eating need to be high in protein and high volume in order to fill you up," he pointed out.
According to Jack, if someone's looking to lose some weight, he recommends weight lifting as a priority when it comes to exercise. However, mixing that together with some cardio "would be optimal," in his opinion.
"Weight lifting is more of the 'long term fix' as when you put on muscle mass, your body burns more calories just at rest. Thus, this makes it much easier to burn fat and keep it off long term," he said.
"They'll Understand Me In Japan"
Just A Friendly Reminder!
There are so many pics of signs like this! What is the connection between anime and bad hygiene, why??
Graphs Don't Lie
😂😂😂😂 Thanks a lot for making me spit my drink over my keyboard...
The fitness expert told Bored Panda that if someone's dissatisfied with their life and their health, they need to "get very clear on the CHOICE" they have to make. "You can endure the pain of workouts and different eating habits OR you can endure the pain of obesity, brain fog, poor mood, early death, low energy, medical bills, and low confidence."
He added: "It isn’t much of a choice at the end of the day."
How neckbeards are defined entirely depends on who you ask about them. For some, they’re anime-loving, fake katana-wielding dorks who dream about living in Japan. For others, they’re arrogant jerks and 'incels' who see themselves as better than everyone else and have a sense of entitlement that few can match. Often, neckbeards portray themselves as gentlemen, philosophers, and men of culture. Often… they’re anything but.
Say It Again Louder For The People At The Back
Accurate
A Nice Shot Of The Pastor Who Told Wives To Lose Weight And Look More Feminine
Others still associate neckbeards mostly with their exterior characteristics. The iconic fedora. The baggy suits. The overweight physiques. The slightly (fine, fine, more than just ‘slightly’) weird obsession with the ‘My Little Pony’ cartoon. And, of course, the scruffy, unkempt beards on their necks that are a modern version of what’s popular among the Amish community in the US. Each of these things doesn’t mean much in isolation, but when taken together, they paint a picture of someone who may need to work very hard to improve their life.
The r/justneckbeardthings subreddit has been active since late June of 2013 and recently celebrated its 8th birthday.
The moderators have got only 4 rules that members need to follow, including avoiding reposts (“Reposts are for losers,” they explain), not being a neckbeard on Reddit, being nice to turtles (here are a couple of possible explanations for the phrase), and avoiding sharing any and all personal info. Sure, the subreddit might be all about mocking neckbeards, but the mods point out that they don’t want to see any bullying or witch-hunts.
It’s Hard Out Here For A Neckbeard Trying To Find The Proper M’lady
This Is Fake, Right?
Local Board Game Shop Fighting Back The Neckbeards
“At the core, neckbeards’ inflated egos and misogynistic attitudes towards women serve as a coping mechanism for personal insecurity and a lack of self-confidence. Such an attitude allows them to place the blame for their failed social interactions on others rather than undertake self-examination and improvement,” writes Urban Dictionary.
“Copious amounts of Mountain Dew, Doritos, video games, and a sedentary lifestyle are all additional hallmarks of the neckbeard ethos.”
Revenge Of The Nerd
When you're so delusional that you think "Leave me alone, creep" is asking for a date.
My Doctoral Thesis
I got my first fedora after having two kids and than another one after my third kid. Leave fedoras out of this. Those tiny brimmed hats they wear are trilbys What is the difference between a fedora and trilby? Image result for trilby vs fedora Unlike the fedora, which has a movable, or “snap” brim, the trilby is made so that the brim is permanently fixed down, and usually the brim is set at a much more severe angle than the fedora.
It's ok to fat shame as long as your target is a "neckbeard"? Ok, got it.
All these "neckbeards" wear a trilby, which is not the same as a fedora.
The whole "Asian chicks" thing isn't just a haha funny joke, though. It's rampant and often violent race fetishization, and Asian women have literally been assaulted and murdered by people like this.
Hi Beautiful
Meanwhile, another entry in Urban Dictionary describes neckbeards as “talkative, self-important nerdy men (usually age 30 and up) who, through an inability to properly decode social cues, mistake others' strained tolerance of their blather for evidence of their own charm.”
[Tips fedora] “M’panda.”
Females Deserted Us
When Your Euphoria Hits Other Players
My partner used to work at a game store and would run MTG games for free on his off time. The way they would thanklessly trash the store every time was infuriating. There was one day he went into the bathroom and there was just piss all over the place. He stopped the entire tourney and made them all come into the bathroom to look at the mess, then had to explain to the group of "grown" men how to properly piss in a toilet. Don't even get me started on the smell in there during those times.
Just Chilling In Moms Basement
Lol I knew there would be a bong! This table exists in so many rooms around the world
How Do You Go 62 Days Without A Shower??
Hopefully This Brings As Much Joy To You As It Did Me. 100% My Brother And His Friends
I Can Respect That
Not Even Satan Wants Neckbeards
Even Satan has had to put up signs reminding people to have showers 🤦♀️
If You Want A "Strong" Woman, You're Gay!
Wanna Hear A Scary Story, M'lady?
A guy once said to me,What would you do if we were the last two people on earth? I looked him in the eye and said, I would kill myself.
I Wonder What She Did
F You Then
I Think This Belongs Here..
My Boyfriend And I Dressed As A Neckbeard And His Waifu For Halloween
😂 That level of dedication, must be an amazing couple with a lot of confidence!
The Market Decided...
So Accurate It Hurts
I don't find this amusing. I understand that there are people with bad behavior, characteristics, etc. but there is a lot of reference to them being fat and generalizing this "group" in general leaves a bad taste in my mouth. By no means do I condone any of the sexist or homophobic statements and feel those individuals got the comments they deserve. However when others are openly hateful and insulting to a "group" I don't think they are effectively promoting better behavior.
I fit most of the criteria of a neckbeard and still think these posts were hilarious. It's really about their a-hole attitude and their entitlement, and not about looks or interests.
Load More Replies...For me, it's generally the bad behavior, that includes the misogyny, gatekeeping, hostility as well as hygiene and grooming (since that is part of basic social functioning). The only time the weight thing bugs me is when they have a double standard. They feel entitled to the pretty girl of their dreams with a body like an anime character when they're not doing things to meet that idealized body standard themselves. They require a woman to hit the gym and have the dietary discipline to be thin, and often deride fatness in a woman as disgusting then complain that women are too shallow. They want a woman who puts a lot into their looks and health but has no such expectations in a partner. They want her to not be shallow and somehow not mind that he is.
Stereotypes exist for a reason. I've met WAY too many people like this and they CHOOSE it.
Nobody chooses to be teased. I've been a bit of an oddball my whole life. I like a lot of my odd quirks but the parts that have a hard time in social situations can result in me disliking myself. And sometimes if I don't take a step back that will deepen the odd bits that people don't like. So, I don't like people who are misogynistic but I feel for the mal adjusted.
It's just sad. The whole stereotype is too accurate. Go find some information on anime conferences or visit an online forum where they hang out to convince yourself. And people are judging it. But the fact of the matter is that these are just people who did not fit in and somehow got convinced that by just letting go of everything they somehow will find their way. And to cope with that not succeeding, all kinds of sick dynamics occur. So no, not funny whatsoever. Everyone's behaving like bleh.
Humans are very tribal. Strong need to feel part of a group and in hand with that is attacking those who are different - whether they deserve it or not. Sometimes it is useful, sometimes it is damaging and sometimes it don't make no never mind.
Sounds more like an explanation than a opinion to me. But in these times, even opinionless facts might be unpopular - hence the downvotes I suppose.
Never heard the term "neckbeards" before and couldn't really work out from the thread what the pattern with "neckbeards" were, seems just anyone that others want to look down on for a whole range of different reasons
Neckbeards is basically an alternative word for incel, if that helps. The same group that has terrorist cells like the one who helped arrange the mosque shooting in Christchurch. So yeah they aren't all innocent
Load More Replies...Incel is short for 'Involuntarily celibate", so there may be two different meanings of that word because it's pretty obvious that the posts don't relate in any way to terrorist cells.
I know the definition. Like how many groups have only a small group who push it to an extreme. Incel stands for involuntarily celibate yes, but it means more than that. Its a mindset.
But this thread in no way relates to extremist behaviour and in this instance the incels/neckbeards they're talking about are absolutely not terrorists, so I really don't understand why you're talking about extremists and terrorists as its completely irrelevant. Have I missed something?
@JennyLaRue— Actually, some incels have been found to be related to extremist behavior, in Canada, USA, and New Zealand, among other places. Just because this post sticked to the commentary of individuals exposing incels and not the literal news’ headlines that further showed just how extreme incels can get when they aren’t told off, doesn’t change that they are related.
I added a simple reference to point out that neckbeard/incel is not just a way of looking down on someone, in my first comment. A reference to an event prominent in my mind in which myself and much of my country was made aware of over a dozen people, one of whom became our first terrorist, were on a 'low threat' watch list, of extremist white supremacists, extremist "incels", and a combination of the two. This extremism is no longer classified as low risk. This is why in my mind it was a slightly relevant thing. And i dont believe its a conspiracy theory. My comments after were to Ryan after he said being an incel has nothing to do with personality, purely looks.
Ugly people get love all the time, unless they are also resentful, angry assholes who get off on rage fantasies about punishing women (aka "femoids") for not f*****g them because they're too ugly/poor/"nice". Yeah, it's not because they're ugly, it's because they are awful.
" sex is never owed nor earned, it must always be consensual and if a person does not want to do it they don't have to explain why." But with incels thing is exactly opposite. They literally think it's their right to get laid with any woman they seem good enough for them.
No, I am an incel (ie a person who is too ugly to be loved) and I know almost all of us don't think that.
Quit whining and take a shower. All you do is whine. THAT is the ugliest thing about you.
I would say it has a lot to do with their personality. Ugly is only skin deep and really if a person is nice it does not matter if they are not model material.. For example, I was in a relationship for 7 years with a guy who did not have a chin (birth defect, long story). Only noticed it the first time we met. He is a really nice person and good with women.
It has everything to do with their personality. Spend an hour on the different incel forums and that will be clear.
There are plenty of ugly married people. Incels think no matter how horrible they are, they still deserve girlfriends.
That is from information on the official nz govt website, beehive.govt.nz. (the beehive is the name of our parliament building)
If you think you know more than the combined efforts of the USA, UK, Canada, Australia and New Zealand, I would love to hear why. Do you have information that contradicts this?
Unfortunately, the Venn diagram between incels (angry at "femoids") and white supremacists (an innately misogynistic belief structure) is basically a circle in a circle. It's not a values thing so much as it is an asshole thing. Assholes who hate and want to subjugate women also tend to hate and want to subjugate BIPOC.
Yes, how dare the government be concerned about the growing impact of extremist groups that five eyes have identified as problematic and dangerous. You know better, white supremacists, incels, and other groups listed on that pdf, that's just make believe, right?
F**k man this d**k shot up a bunch of my countryfolk in the town next to me because of these white supremacy beliefs, and he was an active member of some dark nasty incel groups! Conspiracy theory my ass!!!
Yeah man, let's pretend that muslims hadn't murdered over 200 people in their church in the Philippines the previous month. F**k man, my father was shot by muslims while he was defending them. You'll have to excuse me if I don't give two shits what happens to them and I don't really care who does it.
You need to do more research then. Incels in the darkest sense, the worst of the worst, are a terrible danger. This was made clear after this happened, and that many people like Tarrant that the police had been watching but misunderestimated, have these links to extremist incel groups. Incels isn't an intended to be good thing like religion which terrorists are using as a label, it's not the same. Of course most incels aren't terrorists. Like most white supremacists arent terrorists. But they aren't all sunshine and daisies in any form
Conventional beards are grown down and usually combined with hair around the mouth and on the chin, a neckbeard is just covering the neck without hair on chin and face. And when someone just doesn't groom themselves and has some spots that don't grow hair to begin with, it looks very odd.
I think the neckbeard description also refers to a badly maintained beard. Well-groomed people with beards trim things up and get rid of the scraggly neck hair. Also, not everyone can grow a good looking beard. A person that values good grooming will realize this and shave it off. If your beard is there even when it looks terrible because you can't be bothered, then you've got yourself a neckbeard.
It's likely the accompanying misogyny and culture of entitlement people find disgusting
On a post titled about neckbeards, this was the first ad I got 😆: Screenshot...181557.png
It's an ad for a local real estate agent: I think the advertising algorithm may have thought Mr "Nick Beard" is related to "neckbeard" 😃
Not too familiar with "neckbeards." Fedoras... Anime... beards... and MAGA hats? Seems like they're simultaneously being called Trumpsters and hipsters, which seems unlikely. But then, I'm an old married guy, so what do I know. It just seems that venting pure hatred upon anyone doesn't seem very cool.
Nobody’s venting pure hatred except the incels. They’re ugly on the inside, they act like women owe them everything and get pissed off when women refuse them, and they refuse to shower. Yes how dare people be annoyed about that.
Load More Replies...Thats like saying someone with a birth defect or disability can't be loved it's personality that counts and I have never seen you in my life I dotn know if u are ugly or not but u are acting like someone who doesn't know right from wrong so do everyone a favour and just stop calling yourself and a lot of other people ugly when you haven't met them ok and just so you know I couldn't care less wether you are ugly if you were a kind person it really wouldn't matter
You are a liar. Only looks matter, although only a few people are honest enough to admit it. That's why everybody praises and likes good looking bastards but never give ugly people a chance.
Nasty generalisations aren't exactly the best way to show people how to be better humans.
"It's not nice to be mean to neckbeards" say the comments. To which I reply, check out an incel forum and see how much hate they have for anyone who isn't a straight white male. Being mean to someone for their CHOICE in how they interact with the world is not at all the same as being mean to someone for something they can't control.
Then why is being mean to ugly people (their looks being a thing they can't control) so socially accepted and encouraged?
Load More Replies...At what point did I say it's okay to be mean to ugly people? Of course it isn't. Incels excel at that meanness too, btw.
Incels are just people who are too ugly to be loved. That's it. They can be as mean as anyone else.
Ryan: you keep saying that like it's fact. That's your definition, but clearly not everyone's. I disagree, I believe its the personality: hence my "hateful intolerant" reference. No one can force you to change your opinion, and you can't force anyone to change theirs. There are people who are 'ugly' that have love. I have physical disabilities, I have reason to fear judgement by my appearance. When I had better self esteem, my social life was better, nd I dated people. I currently have low self esteem, and it's reflected in my lack of socialising. It's not my appearance. No one is to blame. It's not societies fault. That's just how mental health can affect ppl 🤷♀️ I have listened to your definition of neckbeard/incel. I have explained mine to you. There is nothing to be gained by repeating this conversation any more.
Being mean to ugly people isn't ok. Being mean to hateful intolerant people on the other hand.....
Hateful intolerant people? Yeah... But what does it have to do with all of that?
I have a neck beard, not by choice, I shave it every once I a while when it gets too long. I have great hygiene, anime is ok I guess, I have zero swords,think fedoras look ridiculous... isnt it kind of wrong to judge someone based on their appearance? I'm not gonna lie, this brought my already low self esteem even lower. Thanks BP.😞
I didnt say I was. And what gives u the right to say what's "normal" or not?
Over half the adult male population has a beard... but I don't know how you define "normal"
@Aunt Messy: So "normal" men shave every day? That's interesting. So seeing as you are the arbiter of what is and is not "normal", how does this apply to women? Do only "normal" women shave their armpits? Legs? Bikini line? And what about women who have a little facial hair and are probably self conscious about it? Are they not "normal"? I'm genuinely intrigued.
I know quite a few people who would be put into this category. All I can say is that most of them are really nice people who are just on the fringes of social normalcy. Whether they are on the autism spectrum (as am I) or have mental health issues, or atypical personalities, like everyone else, they are just looking for companionship and belonging. I don't want those people lumped together with the open misogynists and haters who deserve to be scorned and ridiculed.
I clearly am not the nerd I thought I was, or spend much time on the internet, because I don't get most of this.
Mental health awareness, please, and also some mental health *treatment*. Thank you.
Appearence, interests and social anxiety (afraid to ask a girl out) aren't the factor to be a neckbeard - it's the personality and behaviour that's to blame.
Wikipedia has a definition, and urban dictionary, but some believe its more about appearance, others more about the behaviour, and some a mixture I guess?
Load More Replies...A neckbeard is a sexist, entitled, arrogant geek with very poor hygiene and taste. They basically don't exist, but they are a great scapegoat for people's natural hatred. They basically call any ugly man a neckbeard.
I just don't get all the fedora hate. Fedoras a cool. Indiana Jones wears a fedora. Neckbeards usually wear trilbys, not fedoras. It's a totally different hat. Trilbys can be cool too, but you have to be meet certain criteria to wear them properly. Those are being a jazz singer, a hardboiled detective or in a similar profession.
Damn i always wear a fedora but im not one of these gross weird creepy pervs 🤮 i just like fedoras goths wear them too!
Same. I have one black fedora with a faux rose on it and I love it so much.
Load More Replies...Nope they can f**k off, my moon phase one from restyle was ridiculously expensive i saved up for months!
I saw disturbingly many incels on youtube and internet, but what worries me more is there are women who are also incels towards other women and speak against women and feminism on social medias, requesting men should get more rights and preaching how "too privileged" women are today. Many of these women are highly educated. Why?
Thinking the Incel jokes are inappropriate atm. It has been 2 days since Jake Davison who, after ranting on I Tetney about being an Incel, s**t his mother, 4 year old girl and her adoptive father and two others before taking his own life, in Plymouth, England. Can't laugh at this post.
No. Also, being hated and rejected by everyone for being too ugly to be loved is the only incel thing.
Load More Replies...My personality is fine, thanks for your concern. I know I need help, but I am still saving money to pay for my surgery.
Another unkind, bullying, stereotyping BP post. This site is so frustrating how it alternates between this kind of ugly, mean-spirited humanity, and those uplifting, charming, and anti-bullying posts. I truly wish BP would just choose kindness every time, and leave the slobbering, mass hatred to reddit. Guess not as many clicks though 💔
See its that sort of baked in misogyny ( and the occasional terrorist act against women) that makes incel/ neckbeards so unpalatable. Its not "man hating"
Load More Replies...You can't know if he is an incel so far, because it has nothing to do with behavior or personality, only looks.
Things in my life, when it comes to dating, have also changed a lot since I'm turning 50 this year. The dating scene when you get older sucks.
They can't get dates because they are too ugly to be loved. It is unfair to shame the men because they can't control how they look, but it is also unfair to blame the women because they can't control whether they are attracted or not.. They don't "owe" love to anyone.
Maybe then they are interested in the wrong type of women... I really don't get why they are attracted to women that have a personality that so utterly clashes with theirs. They are creating their own problem and then blaming others.
It's possible. It could be lack of practice or maybe their expectations are too high, or they just don't know what they are looking for. That can go for both men and women though.
no no no no no, not "anti-male", just "anti-jerk". Every negative post is about a specific TYPE of male, not men in general. But to be fair to you... there are very few posts about problematic types of females.
Load More Replies...Aliquid - you're proving my point. When a site posts articles almost daily about literally every kind of problematic male there is (and this includes problematic situations caused by men), but the only negative articles about females are the occasional "Karen" or "bridezilla" post it doesn't take a brain surgeon to pick up on the narrative. Look, I promise I don't own a tinfoil hat, but it's getting really hard to ignore the obvious.
I don't find this amusing. I understand that there are people with bad behavior, characteristics, etc. but there is a lot of reference to them being fat and generalizing this "group" in general leaves a bad taste in my mouth. By no means do I condone any of the sexist or homophobic statements and feel those individuals got the comments they deserve. However when others are openly hateful and insulting to a "group" I don't think they are effectively promoting better behavior.
I fit most of the criteria of a neckbeard and still think these posts were hilarious. It's really about their a-hole attitude and their entitlement, and not about looks or interests.
Load More Replies...For me, it's generally the bad behavior, that includes the misogyny, gatekeeping, hostility as well as hygiene and grooming (since that is part of basic social functioning). The only time the weight thing bugs me is when they have a double standard. They feel entitled to the pretty girl of their dreams with a body like an anime character when they're not doing things to meet that idealized body standard themselves. They require a woman to hit the gym and have the dietary discipline to be thin, and often deride fatness in a woman as disgusting then complain that women are too shallow. They want a woman who puts a lot into their looks and health but has no such expectations in a partner. They want her to not be shallow and somehow not mind that he is.
Stereotypes exist for a reason. I've met WAY too many people like this and they CHOOSE it.
Nobody chooses to be teased. I've been a bit of an oddball my whole life. I like a lot of my odd quirks but the parts that have a hard time in social situations can result in me disliking myself. And sometimes if I don't take a step back that will deepen the odd bits that people don't like. So, I don't like people who are misogynistic but I feel for the mal adjusted.
It's just sad. The whole stereotype is too accurate. Go find some information on anime conferences or visit an online forum where they hang out to convince yourself. And people are judging it. But the fact of the matter is that these are just people who did not fit in and somehow got convinced that by just letting go of everything they somehow will find their way. And to cope with that not succeeding, all kinds of sick dynamics occur. So no, not funny whatsoever. Everyone's behaving like bleh.
Humans are very tribal. Strong need to feel part of a group and in hand with that is attacking those who are different - whether they deserve it or not. Sometimes it is useful, sometimes it is damaging and sometimes it don't make no never mind.
Sounds more like an explanation than a opinion to me. But in these times, even opinionless facts might be unpopular - hence the downvotes I suppose.
Never heard the term "neckbeards" before and couldn't really work out from the thread what the pattern with "neckbeards" were, seems just anyone that others want to look down on for a whole range of different reasons
Neckbeards is basically an alternative word for incel, if that helps. The same group that has terrorist cells like the one who helped arrange the mosque shooting in Christchurch. So yeah they aren't all innocent
Load More Replies...Incel is short for 'Involuntarily celibate", so there may be two different meanings of that word because it's pretty obvious that the posts don't relate in any way to terrorist cells.
I know the definition. Like how many groups have only a small group who push it to an extreme. Incel stands for involuntarily celibate yes, but it means more than that. Its a mindset.
But this thread in no way relates to extremist behaviour and in this instance the incels/neckbeards they're talking about are absolutely not terrorists, so I really don't understand why you're talking about extremists and terrorists as its completely irrelevant. Have I missed something?
@JennyLaRue— Actually, some incels have been found to be related to extremist behavior, in Canada, USA, and New Zealand, among other places. Just because this post sticked to the commentary of individuals exposing incels and not the literal news’ headlines that further showed just how extreme incels can get when they aren’t told off, doesn’t change that they are related.
I added a simple reference to point out that neckbeard/incel is not just a way of looking down on someone, in my first comment. A reference to an event prominent in my mind in which myself and much of my country was made aware of over a dozen people, one of whom became our first terrorist, were on a 'low threat' watch list, of extremist white supremacists, extremist "incels", and a combination of the two. This extremism is no longer classified as low risk. This is why in my mind it was a slightly relevant thing. And i dont believe its a conspiracy theory. My comments after were to Ryan after he said being an incel has nothing to do with personality, purely looks.
Ugly people get love all the time, unless they are also resentful, angry assholes who get off on rage fantasies about punishing women (aka "femoids") for not f*****g them because they're too ugly/poor/"nice". Yeah, it's not because they're ugly, it's because they are awful.
" sex is never owed nor earned, it must always be consensual and if a person does not want to do it they don't have to explain why." But with incels thing is exactly opposite. They literally think it's their right to get laid with any woman they seem good enough for them.
No, I am an incel (ie a person who is too ugly to be loved) and I know almost all of us don't think that.
Quit whining and take a shower. All you do is whine. THAT is the ugliest thing about you.
I would say it has a lot to do with their personality. Ugly is only skin deep and really if a person is nice it does not matter if they are not model material.. For example, I was in a relationship for 7 years with a guy who did not have a chin (birth defect, long story). Only noticed it the first time we met. He is a really nice person and good with women.
It has everything to do with their personality. Spend an hour on the different incel forums and that will be clear.
There are plenty of ugly married people. Incels think no matter how horrible they are, they still deserve girlfriends.
That is from information on the official nz govt website, beehive.govt.nz. (the beehive is the name of our parliament building)
If you think you know more than the combined efforts of the USA, UK, Canada, Australia and New Zealand, I would love to hear why. Do you have information that contradicts this?
Unfortunately, the Venn diagram between incels (angry at "femoids") and white supremacists (an innately misogynistic belief structure) is basically a circle in a circle. It's not a values thing so much as it is an asshole thing. Assholes who hate and want to subjugate women also tend to hate and want to subjugate BIPOC.
Yes, how dare the government be concerned about the growing impact of extremist groups that five eyes have identified as problematic and dangerous. You know better, white supremacists, incels, and other groups listed on that pdf, that's just make believe, right?
F**k man this d**k shot up a bunch of my countryfolk in the town next to me because of these white supremacy beliefs, and he was an active member of some dark nasty incel groups! Conspiracy theory my ass!!!
Yeah man, let's pretend that muslims hadn't murdered over 200 people in their church in the Philippines the previous month. F**k man, my father was shot by muslims while he was defending them. You'll have to excuse me if I don't give two shits what happens to them and I don't really care who does it.
You need to do more research then. Incels in the darkest sense, the worst of the worst, are a terrible danger. This was made clear after this happened, and that many people like Tarrant that the police had been watching but misunderestimated, have these links to extremist incel groups. Incels isn't an intended to be good thing like religion which terrorists are using as a label, it's not the same. Of course most incels aren't terrorists. Like most white supremacists arent terrorists. But they aren't all sunshine and daisies in any form
Conventional beards are grown down and usually combined with hair around the mouth and on the chin, a neckbeard is just covering the neck without hair on chin and face. And when someone just doesn't groom themselves and has some spots that don't grow hair to begin with, it looks very odd.
I think the neckbeard description also refers to a badly maintained beard. Well-groomed people with beards trim things up and get rid of the scraggly neck hair. Also, not everyone can grow a good looking beard. A person that values good grooming will realize this and shave it off. If your beard is there even when it looks terrible because you can't be bothered, then you've got yourself a neckbeard.
It's likely the accompanying misogyny and culture of entitlement people find disgusting
On a post titled about neckbeards, this was the first ad I got 😆: Screenshot...181557.png
It's an ad for a local real estate agent: I think the advertising algorithm may have thought Mr "Nick Beard" is related to "neckbeard" 😃
Not too familiar with "neckbeards." Fedoras... Anime... beards... and MAGA hats? Seems like they're simultaneously being called Trumpsters and hipsters, which seems unlikely. But then, I'm an old married guy, so what do I know. It just seems that venting pure hatred upon anyone doesn't seem very cool.
Nobody’s venting pure hatred except the incels. They’re ugly on the inside, they act like women owe them everything and get pissed off when women refuse them, and they refuse to shower. Yes how dare people be annoyed about that.
Load More Replies...Thats like saying someone with a birth defect or disability can't be loved it's personality that counts and I have never seen you in my life I dotn know if u are ugly or not but u are acting like someone who doesn't know right from wrong so do everyone a favour and just stop calling yourself and a lot of other people ugly when you haven't met them ok and just so you know I couldn't care less wether you are ugly if you were a kind person it really wouldn't matter
You are a liar. Only looks matter, although only a few people are honest enough to admit it. That's why everybody praises and likes good looking bastards but never give ugly people a chance.
Nasty generalisations aren't exactly the best way to show people how to be better humans.
"It's not nice to be mean to neckbeards" say the comments. To which I reply, check out an incel forum and see how much hate they have for anyone who isn't a straight white male. Being mean to someone for their CHOICE in how they interact with the world is not at all the same as being mean to someone for something they can't control.
Then why is being mean to ugly people (their looks being a thing they can't control) so socially accepted and encouraged?
Load More Replies...At what point did I say it's okay to be mean to ugly people? Of course it isn't. Incels excel at that meanness too, btw.
Incels are just people who are too ugly to be loved. That's it. They can be as mean as anyone else.
Ryan: you keep saying that like it's fact. That's your definition, but clearly not everyone's. I disagree, I believe its the personality: hence my "hateful intolerant" reference. No one can force you to change your opinion, and you can't force anyone to change theirs. There are people who are 'ugly' that have love. I have physical disabilities, I have reason to fear judgement by my appearance. When I had better self esteem, my social life was better, nd I dated people. I currently have low self esteem, and it's reflected in my lack of socialising. It's not my appearance. No one is to blame. It's not societies fault. That's just how mental health can affect ppl 🤷♀️ I have listened to your definition of neckbeard/incel. I have explained mine to you. There is nothing to be gained by repeating this conversation any more.
Being mean to ugly people isn't ok. Being mean to hateful intolerant people on the other hand.....
Hateful intolerant people? Yeah... But what does it have to do with all of that?
I have a neck beard, not by choice, I shave it every once I a while when it gets too long. I have great hygiene, anime is ok I guess, I have zero swords,think fedoras look ridiculous... isnt it kind of wrong to judge someone based on their appearance? I'm not gonna lie, this brought my already low self esteem even lower. Thanks BP.😞
I didnt say I was. And what gives u the right to say what's "normal" or not?
Over half the adult male population has a beard... but I don't know how you define "normal"
@Aunt Messy: So "normal" men shave every day? That's interesting. So seeing as you are the arbiter of what is and is not "normal", how does this apply to women? Do only "normal" women shave their armpits? Legs? Bikini line? And what about women who have a little facial hair and are probably self conscious about it? Are they not "normal"? I'm genuinely intrigued.
I know quite a few people who would be put into this category. All I can say is that most of them are really nice people who are just on the fringes of social normalcy. Whether they are on the autism spectrum (as am I) or have mental health issues, or atypical personalities, like everyone else, they are just looking for companionship and belonging. I don't want those people lumped together with the open misogynists and haters who deserve to be scorned and ridiculed.
I clearly am not the nerd I thought I was, or spend much time on the internet, because I don't get most of this.
Mental health awareness, please, and also some mental health *treatment*. Thank you.
Appearence, interests and social anxiety (afraid to ask a girl out) aren't the factor to be a neckbeard - it's the personality and behaviour that's to blame.
Wikipedia has a definition, and urban dictionary, but some believe its more about appearance, others more about the behaviour, and some a mixture I guess?
Load More Replies...A neckbeard is a sexist, entitled, arrogant geek with very poor hygiene and taste. They basically don't exist, but they are a great scapegoat for people's natural hatred. They basically call any ugly man a neckbeard.
I just don't get all the fedora hate. Fedoras a cool. Indiana Jones wears a fedora. Neckbeards usually wear trilbys, not fedoras. It's a totally different hat. Trilbys can be cool too, but you have to be meet certain criteria to wear them properly. Those are being a jazz singer, a hardboiled detective or in a similar profession.
Damn i always wear a fedora but im not one of these gross weird creepy pervs 🤮 i just like fedoras goths wear them too!
Same. I have one black fedora with a faux rose on it and I love it so much.
Load More Replies...Nope they can f**k off, my moon phase one from restyle was ridiculously expensive i saved up for months!
I saw disturbingly many incels on youtube and internet, but what worries me more is there are women who are also incels towards other women and speak against women and feminism on social medias, requesting men should get more rights and preaching how "too privileged" women are today. Many of these women are highly educated. Why?
Thinking the Incel jokes are inappropriate atm. It has been 2 days since Jake Davison who, after ranting on I Tetney about being an Incel, s**t his mother, 4 year old girl and her adoptive father and two others before taking his own life, in Plymouth, England. Can't laugh at this post.
No. Also, being hated and rejected by everyone for being too ugly to be loved is the only incel thing.
Load More Replies...My personality is fine, thanks for your concern. I know I need help, but I am still saving money to pay for my surgery.
Another unkind, bullying, stereotyping BP post. This site is so frustrating how it alternates between this kind of ugly, mean-spirited humanity, and those uplifting, charming, and anti-bullying posts. I truly wish BP would just choose kindness every time, and leave the slobbering, mass hatred to reddit. Guess not as many clicks though 💔
See its that sort of baked in misogyny ( and the occasional terrorist act against women) that makes incel/ neckbeards so unpalatable. Its not "man hating"
Load More Replies...You can't know if he is an incel so far, because it has nothing to do with behavior or personality, only looks.
Things in my life, when it comes to dating, have also changed a lot since I'm turning 50 this year. The dating scene when you get older sucks.
They can't get dates because they are too ugly to be loved. It is unfair to shame the men because they can't control how they look, but it is also unfair to blame the women because they can't control whether they are attracted or not.. They don't "owe" love to anyone.
Maybe then they are interested in the wrong type of women... I really don't get why they are attracted to women that have a personality that so utterly clashes with theirs. They are creating their own problem and then blaming others.
It's possible. It could be lack of practice or maybe their expectations are too high, or they just don't know what they are looking for. That can go for both men and women though.
no no no no no, not "anti-male", just "anti-jerk". Every negative post is about a specific TYPE of male, not men in general. But to be fair to you... there are very few posts about problematic types of females.
Load More Replies...Aliquid - you're proving my point. When a site posts articles almost daily about literally every kind of problematic male there is (and this includes problematic situations caused by men), but the only negative articles about females are the occasional "Karen" or "bridezilla" post it doesn't take a brain surgeon to pick up on the narrative. Look, I promise I don't own a tinfoil hat, but it's getting really hard to ignore the obvious.