“What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?” (30 Answers)

Everyone thinks they have a solid idea of what creates attractiveness, but the truth is that quite often our partners really like specific mannerisms and behaviors that we hardly think about on a day to day basis.
Someone asked “What minor things are very attractive on women, but they never seem to realize it?” and netizens shared their best examples. We also got in touch with the person who started the thread. So get comfortable as you scroll through, upvote your favorites and share your own experiences and suggestions in the comments section below.

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"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) Not having cosmetic surgery. Serious girl your lips are perfectly kissable without any lip filler.

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"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) A sense of humor/willingness to be silly.

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"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) A combination of self confidence and genuine kindness is very attractive to me. It’s also more rare than you think.

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Bored Panda got in touch with the woman who asked the question in the first place, so we wanted to hear if there was a specific incident that caused her to turn to the internet. “My husband often compliments small things that I don't notice on myself and forget to appreciate them,” she shared.

“So I was curious what men think and usually find attractive about women, when it comes to very tiny things. Details matter, and I think women sometimes focus on the wrong things.”

"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) Being extremely passionate about their hobbies. .

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"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) Not sure about all women but my wife has so many that I daydream at work about coming home and seeing her cute little mannerisms over some silly thing.

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"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) Humility.

I hope it's attractive on men, too.

I can't abide braggarts, and the whole "boss babe" and "alpha male" b******t needs to die.

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The thread ended up having hundreds of comments, so we also wanted to hear her opinion on why so many people ended up finding it engaging. “I think what made it popular was because the answers made people realize that small things we enjoy are making our lives happier and they were reminded of that by this post.”

"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) Kindness.

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"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) Mental maturity.

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"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) Just being so comfortable in their body. when they look like it's so natural to be relaxed without trying to flirt or worry about their appearance. smiling for no reason. a posture that is welcoming, inviting.

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We also wanted to hear if she had any personal examples and favorite comments. “An example could be an earring, a small pearl earring can be very attractive for some and shows the soft beauty of a woman. My favorite I think was a "passion for hobbies", it is always lovely to see someone genuinely enjoying what they do, regardless of gender.”

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"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) Messy buns & up-do’s. 🤩 Women just be tossing that hair up in about three tenths of a second to get it out of their way… meanwhile I’m sitting there with my jaw on the floor. 🥵.

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"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) Them genuinely having fun and making derpy faces that makes for ugly photos. Women, that is the face we fall in love with, not your highly edited instagram photos that took at least 50 tries to get right.

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"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) Honestly just casual women, not all dolled up. I think sweat pants and an old T-shirt with hair tied up in a messy pony tail looks more attractive than fancy dress, makeup and perfect everything. Still look beautiful dressed up, but I think the messy look shows they’re confident in themselves and don’t care what others think at that time. It feels
More vulnerable and like they trust you enough to see them with their imperfections.

Oh and sometimes quirky teeth it’s fun seeing a smile with imperfect teeth.

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"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) Pale skin. I f*****g hate fake tan with a passion. Love the ancestry you are a part of. If you are Irish love the fact that you are Irish. Pale skin is gorgeous.

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"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) Baseball cap with the ponytail pulled out the back. Men’s dress shirt and pajama bottoms in the morning. A tiny wisp of hair it comes out near the ear that seems a little bit messy, but just fits perfectly on your face. And lastly, the small gap between the end of your skirt and the top of your boots. That’s small amount of skin that doesn’t really, have a traditional sexy value just look so damn good on you.

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"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) I have to throw wearing glasses out there…? I get 3X the male attention when I wear my glasses vs my contacts.

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"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) Idk what it is but I love a woman’s neck line, clavicles, and shoulders. I think that’s where a women’s femininity really shines. Audrey Hepburne is a great example. My ex used to wear this shoulderless sweater and it would drive me crazy.

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"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) Practicing what they preach, being accountable for their actions, and a lot of the stuff that they tell men is attractive like that.

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"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) High Ponytail.

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"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) When they do that little half-smile while lost in thought or when they unconsciously tuck a strand of hair behind their ear — pure magic

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"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) Wrinkles are sexy for me especially a bit of crow's feet around the eyes.

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"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) Braided hair.

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"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) Legitimately hilarious sense of humor.

Being really passionate about hobbies.

Being able to hold thoughtful conversations and keep the talking going.

Ability to flirt without being awkward, playing hard to get, or coming across as someone who collects men.

Confidence.

Hoodies/pajamas/baggy t-shirts. Just...reminds me of lazy mornings.

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#23

"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) A wide variety of music tastes. I love music and love talking about it with ppl.

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"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) Freckles.

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"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) Hygiene. My wife uses this body spray after she gets out the shower and every time I smell it it’s like the first time. Nails manicured not overly long but she’s leaning into a more pointed tip because you know…I like it….

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"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) For me hands, they are beautiful, on the personality side good humor.

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"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) Hobbies. It’s nice when they have interests that can spark conversation.

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19points

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"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) Personally, I like a focused woman, I don't mean the serious woman but I mean when she is trying to get a job done, like solving a math, trying a open a tin with a really tight lid, she is focused on "How do I get 5his done?" that's what I mean.

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"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) Ankle bracelets.

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#30

"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) Confidence in yourself to not require validation. Validation is just icing on top of your confidence.

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12points

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"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) Purse straps that go between their breasts.

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11points

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Imperfections.

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10points

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"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) Messy hair…. Yes….

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"What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?" (30 Answers) I love a blind a*s girl that needs glasses.

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#35

A woman's strong will and sensual sexuality are attractive as hell. I love you, ladies.

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#36

Hip dips

Sun dresses

Confidence

Enjoying your hobbies

Engaging in the conversation.

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#37

Chub. I like it when girl has a belly. It seems to be one of the biggest insecurities out there. It saddens me. I go crazy when people are confident in their bodies.

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8points

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#38

Being soft spoken.

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#39

Black converse shoes .

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#40

Work uniforms.

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What do you think ?

BrunoVI 2 months ago

A headlamp. Oh, wait... that's a MINER thing men find attractive on women.

nana theater 2 months ago

Well, seems like no one here thinks intelligence could be one of the things that make women attractive ... And a woman should be passionate about her hobbies but rather not about her job. Tbh this list grosses me out.

6points

Dumb teenager 2 months ago

Keeping yourself natural. Stop worrying about weight and smothering yourself in makeup. The softness and curves that come with a healthy amount of body fat are what really makes your body a work of art. Stop trying to get rid of it, often it’s your greatest physical asset.

If it hadn't said "minor," the #1 answer would be brains. I mention that because women often hate on men by insisting men don't like smart women. Unintelligent men don't like smart women.

G A 2 months ago

For me? Her eyes. Beautiful sparkling eyes draw me in more than anything.

Jerome Lenovo 2 months ago

the eight first .... seemed they were talking about my companion. Yeah, she's the best.

This panda votes 2 months ago

Aw, I love this list. <3

Lost Panda 2 months ago

One of mine is when they're able to laugh at themselves. I don't mean in a negative light, but if you make a small mistake like "What was the kid's name in Harry Potter" (my wife's actual comment). It just makes the mistake even cuter.

1point

Mama Clare 2 months ago

I used to be so confident with my body but now I have Mom Bod and yeah.. Can't even look at myself anymore (sigh) I'll get there eventually

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