“What Minor Things Are Very Attractive On Women, But They Never Seem To Realize It?” (30 Answers)

My basic rule about cosmetic surgery - If people can tell you've had it, you shouldn't have.

I’d better go and get lip fillers then.

And what if they're doing it for their own self esteem? Not everything women do is for the express purpose of impressing men.

The only cosmetic surgery I am for is reconstructive. Other than that, stay as you are.

Are we talking Cosmetic Surgery for facial scars or other types of corrective surgery? I've facial scars and would love to have "plastic surgery" to help disguise or even 'remove' them. Other types of "Cosmetic Surgery"? As in just purely for looks and not medical reasons? It's up to the individual tbh... Because we can have our opinions but if they're going to do it? They're going to do it. Just hope that it's with a reputable surgeon and hospital.

Ahem, ladies. They don't mean women like me with my perverted sense of black humor.

not my sense of humor.......lol

Like, don't be the confidant HBIC, that's a huge turnoff. Be confident and strong, but laugh often!

THIS. A girl endlessly, passionately rambling about something she absolutely loves is the most attractive thing EVER. And I promise that for the right person, you're not "annoying" or "too much" for doing this.

i absolutely love this when my girl talks about things she loves like fitness her eyes light up and this already gorgeous woman becomes even more gorgeous

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This is extremely adorable.

Sweet

I worked for someone who always telling us how humble he was. He was not engaging in irony, because that concept was beyond him. He did have a great potential for humility because he had so much to be humble about.

Notice how all these women in pictures are young and attractive?

This! Genuine kindness

As long as there is a little bit of immature humour in there too.

As long as she's serious in the serious times and funny in the funny times.

I love that being welcoming and inviting is attractive and I hate being that person (yet here I go) but for myself (I absolutely don't claim to speak for all women) I sometimes hesitate to be those things. I've heard several people (male and female) complain that someone else was clearly interested in them, even if they said no, because they invited the attention. It's happened to me too, while I was standing next to my partner, and all I meant to be was polite. I even checked with them and the other people we were with and nope, I apparently wasn't being inappropriate, just nice. It's such a slippery slope. The only way I ever figured it out was to ask if they wanted to go out on a date. It's hard to misinterpret "no". At least it shouldn't be. I may get downvoted here, but I'm not arguing these things aren't attractive, just giving another perspective on why you might not see them as often.

Smiling for no reason? There's always a reason, you just aren't always privy to it.

10000% agree

My ex would send me random photos of her pulling silly faces every now and then, with some silly text, like 'my impression of you pooping' and 'drinking my mums tea'.

It's very cute that you think it didn't take 50 tries to get the perfect ~*qUiRkY*~ photo to make you feel some kind of way

I am both: some days are sweat pants and old t-shirt days and some days are dressed up days. Us women have layers. Comfy layers.

About quirky teeth: IRL, not so much. But the best way an actress or a model or a singer can look like a real person and therefore be attractive is having quirky teeth. Lately, with nose jobs being so common in Hollywood and social media, I'd even add having a quirky nose.

I sincerely hope the same goes for dark skin, i.e. no lighteners. I'm definitely here for the love the skin you're in message though.

Tell me you are from USA without telling me that you are from USA. I will tell you a secret... You can love your ancestry and get tan, and there is nothing inappropriet in it.

This is amazingly specific - it sounds like this person is talking about their own partner, which is lovely. I hope they share it with them.

This look is awful 😆 and who wears dress shirts in the morning? This isn't Alfie

Or maybe you just notice it more when you wear glasses because your contact lenses are the wrong strength.

I wonder if OP is just more self confident when wearing glasses? I've never thought wearing glasses affected a woman's attractiveness one way or the other, but others may feel differently.

I have worn glasses since I was 8 years old and I have never felt attractive wearing them. I always felt ugly and was sometimes called four eyes. I'm glad to hear some men do find it attractive.

That's understandable. Midriff does this for me.

My best feature is my clavicle! It's nice to finally hear someone acknowledge this body part.

Hu, I believe him. I have an ugly face, like, really nothing to write home about. ( I cannot remember being complimented on any facial feature in any decade) ....buuuuuuut... as an adult I started getting praise for my neck /shoulders area, upper arms and feet (up to offering me spontaneously money for being allowed to touch them in public). So, I started to show them off. PS: as Madame de Staël knew over 200 years ago: " A woman should show her beautiful decollete where she has it." (She was considered ugly in her time as well, looks normal in nowadays standards, IMHO)

They’re why we need dress codes that cover the shoulders(/j)

So being a mature adult?

any ponytail for that matter

Crow's feet around the eyes show that a person has laughed honestly a lot in life.

Many years ago in biology class we were discussing how the skin changes due to aging. The teacher pointed out how smooth the skin around our eyes was compared to her own, which she said were 'crow's feet; or as I call mine, laugh lines'. I thought that I spoke too quietly for her to hear when I said to my friend 'Nothing could be *that* f'kin' funny'. I got a detention.

Add in a few whisps around the ears for good measure...

Am I the only one who gets irritated by people trying to answer ALL of the question? Put your top one or two, then leave air for others ffs...

I listen to anything opera, rock, pop, country but now put my foot down at baby shark due to dd

I taught two sisters, one covered with freckles and the other without a single one. They were referred to at school as Freckled and Freckless.

freckles, dimples and glasses are tough to ignore