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In most relationships, at a certain point it just becomes common sense to move in together. More time shared, lower rent and a sure sign that the relationship is being taken to the next level. However, as many women have learned, often this can mean becoming a truly surrogate mother for a partner who suddenly doesn’t know how to do basic tasks.

We’ve gathered some of the most egregious examples of “weaponized incompetence” shared by women across the world. So get comfortable as you scroll through, prepare to roll your eyes, upvote your favorites and be sure to share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below.

#1

Just Done My Business. *someone* Left This. And Yes, I’m Using This Sub Of 4 Million Users To Personally Call Out My Boyfriend

Just Done My Business. *someone* Left This. And Yes, I’m Using This Sub Of 4 Million Users To Personally Call Out My Boyfriend

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    #2

    Boyfriend Put His Drink On My Brand New Notebook, Yesterday

    Boyfriend Put His Drink On My Brand New Notebook, Yesterday

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    #3

    This Is How My Boyfriend Leaves The Sink After He Shaves

    This Is How My Boyfriend Leaves The Sink After He Shaves

    nymphymixtwo Report

    For those who are unfamiliar with the concept of weaponized incompetence, it’s rather simple. Imagine a couple, living together. Perhaps they have just moved in together. It’s time to do the laundry. The man, either lying or entirely truthfully goes "I don’t know how to do it!" So now it’s the woman’s household task.

    Now this suddenly becomes her regular routine chore. She asks him to learn, but he either insists it’s impossible or, even worse, he attempts to do it and does the laundry so poorly that she feels like she should do it next time. None of this to say that all women are saints, but this flavor of poor behavior is often male.


    #4

    Sisters Boyfriend Lost His Wallet Before Leaving To Go To His Moms

    Sisters Boyfriend Lost His Wallet Before Leaving To Go To His Moms

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    #5

    My Boyfriend Puts The Butter Away Like This In The Fridge Door. Fully Exposed And Touching The Fridge I Haven’t Washed In Months

    My Boyfriend Puts The Butter Away Like This In The Fridge Door. Fully Exposed And Touching The Fridge I Haven’t Washed In Months

    How_you_like_meow Report

    #6

    Called My Boyfriend From The Supermarket To Check If I Needed To Grab More Pads, He Said ‘No There’s Loads Left’

    Called My Boyfriend From The Supermarket To Check If I Needed To Grab More Pads, He Said ‘No There’s Loads Left’

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    Remember, asking a grown adult to do a household task is a normal thing to do. If someone can work a job, even an entry-level one, they have the necessary skills to wash a plate, mop the floor or iron some clothes. It’s ok to not be good at it at first, although it’s really never that hard, unless the plates are truly piled sky-high.

    #7

    This Can Has Been Directly In Front Of My Boyfriend's Sink Side For Two Weeks And I've Chosen Not To Toss It Just To See If He Would. He Still Hasn't

    This Can Has Been Directly In Front Of My Boyfriend's Sink Side For Two Weeks And I've Chosen Not To Toss It Just To See If He Would. He Still Hasn't

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    #8

    My Boyfriend Lovingly Insists On Cooking Dinner On Mondays, But Ends Up Leaving All Of His Dishes And Mess Behind Because He Has To Leave For His Weekly Chess Meet Up

    My Boyfriend Lovingly Insists On Cooking Dinner On Mondays, But Ends Up Leaving All Of His Dishes And Mess Behind Because He Has To Leave For His Weekly Chess Meet Up

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    #9

    Went To Get Some Ice Cream And My Boyfriend Left Me This. In Case I “Needed A Pick Me Up But Didn’t Want A Bunch Of Ice Cream.”

    Went To Get Some Ice Cream And My Boyfriend Left Me This. In Case I “Needed A Pick Me Up But Didn’t Want A Bunch Of Ice Cream.”

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    Unfortunately, some men seem to think that doing their share of manual labor is worse than openly admitting that they can’t figure out which end of a broom to use. This entire strategy relies on the fact that no one calls them out. After all, at some point, as the live-in partner of such a man, you will need some dishes, so you will end up cleaning them yourself.

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    #10

    My Boyfriend, Who Doesn’t Buy Any Of The Groceries, Decided To Use Multiple Pounds Of Chicken In A Cooler Instead Of The Bag Of Ice We Have

    My Boyfriend, Who Doesn’t Buy Any Of The Groceries, Decided To Use Multiple Pounds Of Chicken In A Cooler Instead Of The Bag Of Ice We Have

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    #11

    Boyfriend Leaves All His Trash In The Car

    Boyfriend Leaves All His Trash In The Car

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    #12

    Boyfriend Leaves His Used Dental Floss On The Side Table By The Couch

    Boyfriend Leaves His Used Dental Floss On The Side Table By The Couch

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    The causes are myriad, but it mostly comes down to the fact that these things simply have to be done. Most likely, growing up, these fellows had a parental figure, a maid or even a sibling who picked up the slack while they relaxed. They never mature into adults who take responsibility for the environment around them, to the detriment of their partners. Even worse, they can’t do the most simple things, like finally taking out the trash (themselves.)

    #13

    Instead Of Rinsing His Cup Between Drinks, My Boyfriend Will Just Refill It With Whatever Since It “Mixes In His Stomach Anyway”. Pictured Is His Glass Of “Water” After Milk And Oreos

    Instead Of Rinsing His Cup Between Drinks, My Boyfriend Will Just Refill It With Whatever Since It “Mixes In His Stomach Anyway”. Pictured Is His Glass Of “Water” After Milk And Oreos

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    #14

    My Boyfriend’s Solution To Me Being Mad That He Finishes Everything In The House Without Buying A Replacement

    My Boyfriend’s Solution To Me Being Mad That He Finishes Everything In The House Without Buying A Replacement

    OhhHunnyBunny Report

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    #15

    When My Boyfriend Leaves Empty Packages In The Fridge

    When My Boyfriend Leaves Empty Packages In The Fridge

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    #16

    Safari On My Boyfriend’s Phone

    Safari On My Boyfriend’s Phone

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    #17

    Boyfriend Keeps A Graveyard Of Shower Gel With One Half-Squirt Left

    Boyfriend Keeps A Graveyard Of Shower Gel With One Half-Squirt Left

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    #18

    Stayed The Night At My Boyfriend’s, Didn’t Bring Breakfast Because He Said I Can Cook There. Morning Comes, He Proceeds To Pull Out These Two Things. Out Of The Dishwasher No Less

    Stayed The Night At My Boyfriend’s, Didn’t Bring Breakfast Because He Said I Can Cook There. Morning Comes, He Proceeds To Pull Out These Two Things. Out Of The Dishwasher No Less

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    #19

    My Boyfriend "Tastes Tests" All The Chocolates One By One Whenever I Buy Us A Box Of Chocolates To Share

    My Boyfriend "Tastes Tests" All The Chocolates One By One Whenever I Buy Us A Box Of Chocolates To Share

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    #20

    My Boyfriend's Job Title Is Actually "Solutions Engineer." This Was His Solution

    My Boyfriend's Job Title Is Actually "Solutions Engineer." This Was His Solution

    8Ariadnesthread8 Report

    #21

    How My Boyfriend Leaves His Coffee Cup Every Morning

    How My Boyfriend Leaves His Coffee Cup Every Morning

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    #22

    Why Is My Boyfriend Doing This? ) ‘ :

    Why Is My Boyfriend Doing This? ) ‘ :

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    #23

    The Amount Of Tea My Boyfriend Left In The Pitcher

    The Amount Of Tea My Boyfriend Left In The Pitcher

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    #24

    According To My Boyfriend, His Toothbrush Does Not Need To Be Changed

    According To My Boyfriend, His Toothbrush Does Not Need To Be Changed

    ihadanightmarewithu Report

    #25

    My Boyfriend : *does The Dishes* The Sink :

    My Boyfriend : *does The Dishes* The Sink :

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    #26

    The Way My Boyfriend Is Eating This Pie

    The Way My Boyfriend Is Eating This Pie

    Ok-Cover-4137 Report

    #27

    My Boyfriends Food Cupboard 😳 I Think He Must Upend His Shopping Bags Direct In The Cupboard Rather Than Unpack

    My Boyfriends Food Cupboard 😳 I Think He Must Upend His Shopping Bags Direct In The Cupboard Rather Than Unpack

    lellielellelelle Report

    #28

    Are These Really Still Ok? My Boyfriend Thinks That These Shoes Are Fine. Wears Them To Work, Around Town. “50% Of People Wear Their Shoes To This Point”

    Are These Really Still Ok? My Boyfriend Thinks That These Shoes Are Fine. Wears Them To Work, Around Town. “50% Of People Wear Their Shoes To This Point”

    qweenmothraaa Report

    #29

    Came Home To A Smokey Apartment And A Boyfriend Asleep On The Couch. Not Even Sure What These Were

    Came Home To A Smokey Apartment And A Boyfriend Asleep On The Couch. Not Even Sure What These Were

    Interesting-Duck6793 Report

    #30

    This Is How Much Ice Cream My Boyfriend Left In My Pint Of Ben & Jerry's 🙃

    This Is How Much Ice Cream My Boyfriend Left In My Pint Of Ben & Jerry's 🙃

    EllyDarling Report

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    #31

    My Boyfriend Ate All The Skin Off Our Rotisserie Chicken

    My Boyfriend Ate All The Skin Off Our Rotisserie Chicken

    logicalnifty Report

    #33

    Good Morning. Found My Boyfriends Glass Bottles In The Freezer. He’s At Work

    Good Morning. Found My Boyfriends Glass Bottles In The Freezer. He’s At Work

    AriValentina Report

    #34

    My Boyfriend’s Toilet Paper Graveyard

    My Boyfriend’s Toilet Paper Graveyard

    PardonedTurkey Report

    #35

    Asking My Boyfriend To Not Empty The Entire Can Of Pringles (My Fav Flavor)

    Asking My Boyfriend To Not Empty The Entire Can Of Pringles (My Fav Flavor)

    egewh Report

    #36

    How My Boyfriend Packed Up A Moving Box With Kitchen Stuff While I Was At Work

    How My Boyfriend Packed Up A Moving Box With Kitchen Stuff While I Was At Work

    Late-Style4892 Report

    #37

    My Boyfriend Insists On Storing Leftovers In Ziplock Bags Even Though We Have Plenty Of Tupperware. His Reasoning Is It “Saves A Dish”, Even Though They Have To Be Transferred To A Dish Later Anyway. In Reality He Just Makes A Huge Mess And Wastes A Bag

    My Boyfriend Insists On Storing Leftovers In Ziplock Bags Even Though We Have Plenty Of Tupperware. His Reasoning Is It “Saves A Dish”, Even Though They Have To Be Transferred To A Dish Later Anyway. In Reality He Just Makes A Huge Mess And Wastes A Bag

    leftnewdigg2 Report

    #38

    The Container My Boyfriend Picked To Put Away Leftover Pancakes

    The Container My Boyfriend Picked To Put Away Leftover Pancakes

    yourdadcaIIsmekatya Report

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    #39

    My Boyfriend Took A Bite Out Of All Three Of My Hashbrowns

    My Boyfriend Took A Bite Out Of All Three Of My Hashbrowns

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    #40

    Came To The Kitchen To Find Out That My Boyfriend Hung The Towel Like This 🤨

    Came To The Kitchen To Find Out That My Boyfriend Hung The Towel Like This 🤨

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    #41

    My Boyfriend 'Helpfully' Put My Expensive Indoor Plants Outside For "Fresh Air", And They Got Irreparably Sunburnt :(

    My Boyfriend 'Helpfully' Put My Expensive Indoor Plants Outside For "Fresh Air", And They Got Irreparably Sunburnt :(

    Failingunistudent_ Report

    #42

    My Boyfriend Forgot To Buy Shower Curtain Rings

    My Boyfriend Forgot To Buy Shower Curtain Rings

    Kindly-Small-4845 Report

    #43

    Recently Moved In With My Boyfriend Who Has A Habit Of Leaving His Clothes On The Floor, I Asked Him To Put His Jeans Away In His Closet And This Is What I Found Later

    Recently Moved In With My Boyfriend Who Has A Habit Of Leaving His Clothes On The Floor, I Asked Him To Put His Jeans Away In His Closet And This Is What I Found Later

    Mallll4 Report

    #44

    My Boyfriend Made Croissants This Way.. Am I Dating A Serial K*ller?

    My Boyfriend Made Croissants This Way.. Am I Dating A Serial K*ller?

    AdComprehensive114 Report

    #45

    Hos Much Dishsoap My Boyfriend Think He Needs For One Pot

    Hos Much Dishsoap My Boyfriend Think He Needs For One Pot

    Fegmdute Report

    #46

    My (Now Ex) Boyfriend Just Broke Up With Me Via Text Message Tonight :|

    My (Now Ex) Boyfriend Just Broke Up With Me Via Text Message Tonight :|

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    #47

    Boyfriend Always Buys A Bag At The Store

    Boyfriend Always Buys A Bag At The Store

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    #48

    My Boyfriend's Single Bite Of My Apple

    My Boyfriend's Single Bite Of My Apple

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    #49

    My Boyfriend Made Me Coffee The Other Day

    My Boyfriend Made Me Coffee The Other Day

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    Darius S. (he/him) cis/grey
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    1 day ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I used to be a caffeine addict, I would make coffee to use as water to make coffee with ( withdrawal was worse than smokes/drinks/other d***s).. but I would never do this.. This is done by a person who has never measured things before ( understands cooking expansion/contraction) .. Maybe think that they are unexperienced in romantic forecast too.

    Darius S. (he/him) cis/grey
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    1 day ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    so maybe the caramelized sugar fused this whole season of coffee production amount together? Or is this the "3 Stooges all trying to get through door at same time so none do" bit?

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    #50

    My Boyfriend Puts Snacks In My Fruit Hanging Basket

    My Boyfriend Puts Snacks In My Fruit Hanging Basket

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    #51

    How My Husband Leaves This

    How My Husband Leaves This

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