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Whether you love or loathe social media and memes, you can’t deny that they can be very powerful. When used for good, they can raise awareness about important issues—like mental health, something that's relevant in all of our lives.

That’s where ‘How Mental’ comes in. It’s a charity, app, and social media project that touches on important mental health issues with the help of memes, webcomics, and witty videos. We’ve collected some of the top images from their Instagram account to remind everyone that self-care should always be a priority. Scroll down for some truly relatable memes.

We reached out to the founder and CEO of ‘How Mental,’ George Taktak, and he was happy to tell us all about the project, raising awareness about mental health, and what to do when someone’s struggling. You’ll find Bored Panda’s full interview with him below.

More info: Instagram | Facebook | Twitter | HowMental.com | App

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Christy Prater
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow... I didn't realize how much I needed to read that until I did. Thank you, BP!

Lil Miss Hobbit
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love this. Hugs to the people who have soft hearts because they've been broken. 🤗

Rwby Couch
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

From one internet stranger to another, just let me say I care about each and every one of you. Truly. If you are hurting, do not hesitate to reach out and talk with your fellow pandas. I love you guys❤️

BrownTabby
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A Good traumatised person is any traumatised person who is convenient to others. So if you’re super nice, you’re a Good Traumatised Person and if you’re a boss you’re a Good Traumatised Person. But if you cry easily you’re a Bad Traumatised Person and if you’re hard in a way that isn’t a capitalist wet dream, you’re the scum of society.

Jill Rhodry
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Also known as 'high functioning' anything - which basically translates to: it doesn't effect other people terribly much.

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Flora Porter
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This will sound grim, but if you can still cry easily, it's not rock bottom yet. Sometimes think I'd feel better if I could still cry.

Angela C
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This explains a lot because I've been through some s**t the last few years and it has absolutely made me more sensitive and soft

Alex
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Thank you, seriously, thank you

Leila
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It feels like you're speaking directly to me Jules.

eame
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

*whose. My trauma is the absolute misery of grammar Nazi parents. Now it bothers the s**t out of me to see how many grown a*s adults can't spell basic words.

Corlissa
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2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I know this isn't related, but my perfectionist inside me is dying because the proper nouns aren't in caps.

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Depression and anxiety are very common in the United States. According to the National Institute of Mental Health, around 21 million American adults have had at least one major depressive episode in their lives. That’s 8.3% of all adults in the country. Meanwhile, over 40 million (nearly 1 in 5) adults in the US have an anxiety disorder. 

‘How Mental’ is a project that’s dedicated to promoting mental health. “We are proud to call ourselves mental health advocates,” the team behind the project writes on Facebook. “There is no limit to the possibilities of things we can do to improve the world’s mental health & wellbeing,” they share on their website.

The project has 783k followers on Instagram, 1.5k on Twitter, and 8.4k on Facebook. ‘How Mental’ combines important social questions—taking care of one’s mental health—and spreads the word about it with the help of memes and spot-on social media posts. Many of them are very relatable.

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    Emma S
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    💯 An apology or gifts mean nothing if the person just continues to do the same thing over and over.

    Erick L.
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, it depend on your degree of sorryness and what you've done; or not.

    DC
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or a result thereof.

    Alex
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dammit, I've been put on the spot

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Right. When I had to correct a student's behavior and they said "Sorry", I would reply "Good, people who are genuinely sorry change their behavior. I'll be monitoring you for that."

    PrettyJoyBird
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    An apology and not repeating whateva the F you did

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    Brainmas
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, I was raised to believe my needs were selfish and everyone else comes first, and have spent years unlearning being a total doormat!

    Nikole
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was a total doormat in relationships for years, and then helped to ruin my most recent one of over a decade by being unhealthily assertive because I was overcompensating. It’s such a balancing act.

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    Dennis Stanley
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm in this picture and I don't like it.

    Jared Robinson
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This one just made me angry in a sad place,

    Huddo's sister
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Me too, but a construct of my own mind made the fear, not anything my parents did

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    George, the founder of ‘How Mental,’ has been working in the mental health sector for over a decade, building innovative technology to help people’s wellbeing.

    “Then, about 6 years ago, a friend of mine approached me and said, 'George, I'm feeling really depressed. What should I do? Where should I go? Should I just go on this ancient-looking charity's website?' It stopped me in my tracks and made me realize that no matter how much support is out there, most people don't know where it is, don't know what's right for their mind, and don't want to engage with these old charities, they're too clinical, not relatable and make us feel 'less than'!” he told Bored Panda about the roots of the project.

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    “So I got angry about it! There was clearly a gap between people and mental health support. And so I started How Mental, initially on Instagram, now on our website www.howmental.com to bring together the world of mental health/wellbeing support in one place and make sure support is accessible to people around the world.”

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    Flora Wolfe
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ... answering an email, answering the phone, answering the door, answering a text, waiting on delivery, waiting on a package.... drugs. I mean prescription medication. Ironically though, you have to get over this fight or flight response several times just to get to a doctor to get the drugs lol

    Upstaged75
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For me it's making a phone call or having to do a return on something I bought online. :)

    Lydsylou
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate phone calls I only call if I want your phone to ring so you see my text

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    BrownTabby
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    you eat the f*****g rich because no one gets ptsd for shits and giggles

    C.O. Shea
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dialectical Behavior Therapy. It's helped me rebalance the ship after child abuse.

    Isaac Harvey
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In the modern world, anything can amount to life-or-death scenarios.

    Glenn Amaretto
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Answering the phone especially 😬

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    Lil Miss Hobbit
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Depression often only shows when you are alone.

    VonBlade
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    *Coping Mechanisms* (imagine the more you know rainbow effect)

    The Shark
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is dark, I know. But personally, I have never been happy, I wake up disappointed--that I woke up--- and literally hope a tragic accident kills me on a daily basis. I'm not actively suicidal, though I do maintain my state pistol permit for that purpose one day, as my only hope for retirement is a revolver and a bottle of scotch... Dark humor is the only way I can handle daily life. Obviously not everyone's style, but I feel so utterly empty and isolated when anyone around me just looks concerns and starts walking on eggshells around me. Trying to make light of a dark situation through humor is an attempt to make a human connection... Saying "suicide" in my presence isn't going to throw me over the edge. Call it inappropriate, show any feeling whatsoever as long as it's not this distancing fearful concern...

    Sami-Jo Ross
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Depression only shows when you can't fake it anymore.

    C.O. Shea
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Depression... the "common cold" of mental illness and number one killer.

    Deborah Rubin
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sometimes it's hard to keep up that facade.

    Khavrinen
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Because if you show any signs of being depressed, you get deluged with "helpful" suggestions, like "Just cheer up", or "You should get some exercise", or "Are you staying hydrated?" It doesn't take much of this before "not acting depressed" is merely self-preservation.

    lonely miso
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Slightly unrelated but Marina Diamandis has such good music (I saw that she posted the post someone quoted. Also, if you don’t like her songs that’s fine with me. I’m not here to start drama, just stating my opinion 😊)

    Magnion
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don’t wanna worry people, so I always try to act “normal”

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    Elizabeth Peer
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's because she has good parents the teacher to love herself.

    Darth Continent
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's sad that people with certain interesting and considered by some entertaining mental health issues may choose not to seek help for fear of becoming a modern day circus freak as part of some questionably intentioned clinician's pet project. Multiple personality disorder, for example.

    Norah Reilly
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So, who stole mine?

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    However, George pointed out that accessibility is more than just having access to support: it’s about making mental health relatable, engaging, and even fun.

    “Just like we go to the gym and try to stay healthy for our bodies, why not do the same for our minds? And thankfully, there are plenty of ways to take care of our mental health that don't involve breaking a sweat,” the founder of ‘How Mental’ told us via email.

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    Bored Panda was interested in getting George’s take on what can be done to raise awareness about mental health. He told us that everything starts by understanding and advocating for your own mental health.

    “We all have a mind and everything around us (and inside us!) affects our wellbeing. Don't make this cause about other people just because they have a diagnosable condition. Everyone has their own unique 'mental condition,’ so start with you! What do you need for your wellbeing from your school, work, or government?”

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    Laura Maynor
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mine doesn't want the serotonin and it loses the dopamine.

    Glenn Amaretto
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How dare they protest up in there. Hmp

    Foxglove🇮🇪
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mine doesn't want serotonin or noradrenaline!

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    A dude who likes to drum
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same and I’m looking at this through a screen :P

    Michael Largey
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That was me on every first date. And most subsequent ones.

    William Walsh
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm not dumb, my mind has left the room.

    Mimi M
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What a baller for straight up saying it.

    Cat lover
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Atleast he is telling the truth

    Isaac Harvey
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’ve been half-asleep since I got here. Anything before noon is too early for me to respond both quickly and accurately.

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    VonBlade
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Less than nothing. You deserve punishment.

    Kelly H. Wilder
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is so hard to change. I am not my best friend; I am my harshest critic. If I am so hard on myself, maybe others won't be? I really am working more on being gentle with myself, but forcing it seems fake and then I critique that. 🤷🏻‍♀️

    Michael None
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    “It never ceases to amaze me: we all love ourselves more than other people, but care more about their opinion than our own.” ― Marcus Aurelius, Meditations

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    2 years ago

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    He also suggested finding some humor in the topic as a whole. “Mental health, like anything else, can be pretty dark at times. We need to find the levity in it. Humor allows us to process difficult things. Yes, life can be tragic, but it's also pretty funny when we take a step back and that's equally valid.”

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    On top of that, George urged everyone to continuously take care of themselves and the people around them. “Put the effort in to ask people how they're doing and really mean it, community is an invaluable resource for ourselves and everyone else. And, when it comes to you, check in and take care of yourself every day, don't wait for things to get bad! We actually have an app called 'How Are We' that helps with tracking our feelings and taking care of our wellbeing together.”

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    According to the founder of ‘How Mental,’ some people still consider mental health issues taboo out of fear. “People think they might actually be 'crazy' or have the propensity to 'go crazy'. They're scared that they might have lost grip or may lose grip on reality so they prefer to shun it. People also prefer to present an air of strength and infallibility. That they could never be weak or vulnerable. It's an unhelpful kind of 'survival' mechanism, a kind of 'posturing,'” he explained to Bored Panda.

    “The truth is, we are vulnerable, we all question our reality, we are all constantly changing our minds. In fact, it's healthy to do that. People stuck in a certain frame of mind may be more likely to suffer mentally,” he said.

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    BrownTabby
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh, never ever ever do that. It’s not worth it.

    Binky Melnik
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And if you insist you must, at least be at a safe distance!

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    Ian Winn
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love my folks. But if I had known that my grandmother's occasional wellness retreats were to a psychiatric facility to treat bipolar disorder, and that my mom's glossed over year long nervous breakdown when I was born was evidence of same... well I wouldn't have been prescribed Mefloquin as a malaria prophylactic while travelling which resulted in a psychotic episode that almost killed me and a diagnosis of: bipolar disorder. No resentment, it just would have been nice to know...

    YukiChou
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exactly. It would have been nice to know instead of everything being hush hush.

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    RajunCajun
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    when I told my mom that my Doc. said I have a fear of abandonment and I think it might have to something to do with my dad working as an off shore driller. She said, no that was me. I was a young mother and had to leave you with people for weeks at a time so I could get my stuff together.

    Michael Largey
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I was about 30, my mother snapped at me "You've never really grown up." Well. Mom, who was in charge of me when that wasn't happening?

    Alecto76
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The famous line "Oh so this is my fault?" Yep, little bit.

    Foxglove🇮🇪
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My dad was bipolar and an emotional blackmailer, my mum a doormat - I was so glad he died when she was still young and it enough to have her own life afterwards. But regrettably I see doormatism in myself ... Delighted to be raising a strong young woman who isn't afraid to stand up for herself!

    jennymac312
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had great parents from the "meet your needs" standpoint. But, I suffer from intimacy issues because I rarely saw or experienced affection from my parents. I don't blame them though. My mom grew up in the Bronx back in the 50s and 60s with an Irish immigrant parent. The stories she has told...

    Lindsay Harless
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mom literally tries to joke that I talk about her to therapist and then further probes me to give hints that I did 🥴

    Ricardo Ferreira
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Raising a child today (or ever?) is an Indiana Jones' plan.

    Elizabeth Peer
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I brought up quite a few things that my mom did and I'm lucky enough she is very aware of the fact that she should not have had kids

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    William Walsh
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A sociopath is fine with being irresponsible.

    Elizabeth Peer
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Okay I take longer than 4 minutes to shower but this is how I feel about showering even though I love showering.

    Ohoi!
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You get things done so fast?!

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    Shelli Aderman
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel seen! (I always apologize and step to the side…)

    Sue User
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Then the next store i cant find my card because i was feeling pressured to " finish up and get out of the way"

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    Pixie
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In Germany the cashier puts the pressure on me by shoving the next person's items onto my own while I'm still playing hard mode fast tetris with the last of my stuff and my backpack.

    Ren Karlej
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People who would put the coins on top of the folding money which makes it more fiddly to put the money away. Contactless is still such a relief.

    ChascatmoK X
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I always ask for the coins first. The way cashiers just heap everything together in a "boat" is rude. Remember the days when the cashiers actually "counted out" your change- coins first?

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    Kai He/They
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This happens to me all the time

    Colleen Glim
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I refuse to do this. Regardless of whether I’m working or shopping. I got all damn day. It’s not gonna kill the rest of the people waiting in line to wait a few more seconds

    Maggie Fulton
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why I always use debit cards. Then you have to gather your things as fast as possible so you don’t hold up the people behind you.

    Alex
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I always just shove it in my pocket

    Rider
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is why I was using my card for everything before it became the norm. I only use cash if there is a card fee.

    William Walsh
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If they don't like it, they can shop online.

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    “Finally, people have a particular perception of those with diagnosable mental health conditions as 'ill, 2nd class citizens, not fit to work, perhaps even unable to find a partner' so people fear that... But mental conditions are just conditions. They're not life sentences for those who receive a diagnosis. They are open to change. And, in any case, they are not to be judged by others”

    Meanwhile, George was kind enough to shed some light on another important question and gave some practical advice for anyone who is currently struggling with their mental health.

    “Personally, I didn't see depression coming. So, my first piece of advice would be to get real about how you feel and monitor your mental wellbeing continuously. Use 'How Are We.’ Don't wait for things to get bad!” he said.

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    “Having said that, if you are struggling right now: Get support. Don't wait for things to get better on their own—that may or may not happen. Take control. You have the power to get what you need. If you need to talk to a friend about what's going on: Call them. If you think a diagnosis might be helpful: Reach out to a doctor. And, if you're not sure what you need, that's OK too!”

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    Jared Robinson
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel this way about peoples pain.

    Rosie Red
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Have you read anything regarding empaths? Some people will say it's mumbo jumbo, but you might find it interesting.

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    David Paterson
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When a politician says "don't you worry about that", one politician is famous for it, he's talking to himself, not to you.

    Niki A
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This, ironically, gave me anxiety... mostly because it's true.

    Brenda Greene
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow, I didn't know you were in my mind

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    I'M A SHOUTY MAN (they/she/he)
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh this is so true. Like yeah, they love me - I get good grades, I'm pretty good at my hobbies, that's good. Oh, no, they definitely hate me - I'm recovering from sh and attempts, I have a pretty bad ed, my mental health is absolutely terrible, I have no friends and wow audhd on top of that, how great!

    Kelly H. Wilder
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am sorry things are so difficult right now. Please know there are people who genuinely care and want the best for you. You are incredibly strong (Managing good grades and hobbies while conquering everything else you are facing definitely qualifies as strong.) and I applaud your successes. Hugs from a proud-of-you Panda. 🤗

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    Red PANda (she/they)
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a writer I tend to give my characters more angstier backstories when I like them…so idk if that means anything or not

    lonely miso
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Me trying to decide what to do to my characters: Hm. Let’s see.. bad upbringing… got betrayed multiple times… friends are being mind controlled by evil dude right now..: let’s have her love interest get an injury! - I don’t think I like her…

    Foxglove🇮🇪
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "im tired of being irrelevant in my own life

    David Paterson
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I need to have this on a poster in my bedroom.

    Michael Largey
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I try to keep the parts of myself that hate me away from the parts who haven't made up their minds yet.

    François Bouzigues
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have good news and bad news. It is. This person is you. I am sure there are plenty reasons to like you. So you should defintely like you

    VonBlade
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate me, so I am fully on board with this.

    Alecto76
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My writer was into comedy. Then changed to super drama - mystery siblings, mental institution against my will, past-life murder mystery. All I need is to fake my death and I have soap opera bingo.

    Ricardo Ferreira
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Should I kill this character...? Not yet."

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    VonBlade
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But the benefit of the first idea is being able to fix all the mistakes with the knowledge of experience. You can't just pretend to remember not to clean the guttering on thursday when you're 52.

    RajunCajun
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I worried to much about all the mistakes in the past until I realized if I went back and fixed them I might now have the kids I love so much. So F- the past, but I still carry all the guilt. That's why god made whiskey

    DC
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I guess this only works for people actually knowing how effed up being really old really is. I can imagine most parts of it, but then again, I can only imagine them based on knowledge. On feelings, I can't, because I never felt like one should at ninety years old.

    Beth H
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like this perspective

    Michael Largey
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Right before I had back surgery at age 71, the doctor told me "I'm not going to make you 18 again." And he was a man of his word.

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    George pointed out that ‘How Mental’ has lots of ideas for how to care for your mind on their social media accounts, as well as their website. Anyone can go take a peek. “Discover what's out there and get to know yourself. Simple questions like asking yourself, 'How are you feeling?', 'what do you want right now?', then 'Why do you want that?' and 'How can you help yourself?' Remember you don't have to do this alone, if you're scared at any point in your journey, reach out for help. We are a global community of human beings. There are people who care out there, I promise,” the founder gave some great advice.

    We were also curious to get George’s take on when it’s best for someone to reach out to a mental health professional for help. “If you're not feeling like yourself and finding that you're unable to help yourself feel better in a real, sustained way: Reach out to a therapist. They're basically like a friend who is super clued up on how the mind works, with whom you don't have to feel guilty for just talking about yourself and saying how you really feel the whole time,” he said, stressing the fact that therapy isn’t just for the times when things get really bad.

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    “Think of it as a space to reflect on your life with the help of someone else. I mean, who doesn't want that? And if you don't want it because you're scared of what might come out, it's probably just what you need! Start by learning about the different types of therapy that are out there. Then, once you're more aware, if you feel a pull towards one of them, go for it! Finding the right kind of therapy and the right therapist is essential to making progress.”

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    David Paterson
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh dear. Had three of those yesterday. One was choosing a paint colour.

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    jennymac312
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    More like, be anxious for the next problem that will pop up when you're finally happy.

    Michael Largey
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How did they know what my only two skills are?

    ShaZam
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    wonder when the problems are going to occur?

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    Lil Miss Hobbit
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is me. But let me encourage anyone who is going through this...it gets easier. It won't define you forever. You are just beginning to discover how beautiful you are free and unburdened. You really can, and will, be truly happy. You can, and will, make meaningful relationships. You can, and will, learn to love yourself the way you need to. Never give up.

    Flora Porter
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If that's true for you, that's lovely. But for some people it does define them or shape their beliefs, thoughts or behaviour - who and how they are in the world. If so, I'd like to hope they can find acceptance and peace as they are. You can be wounded and traumatised but you have as much right to be here as anyone else. A life is a life.

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    Alexej Dvorak
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ah, that feeling when you think of a specific person when reading this.

    Angi
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The guy formerly known as my brother

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    Lydsylou
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Like having anxiety about recovering from anxiety

    The Shark
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think I subconsciously fear being happy because someone might take it away or somehow derail it and I won't be able to cope going backward again. Nobody decent wants to make depressed people worse.

    @Halulu41
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The biggest b******t i have ever seen.

    OnlyMe
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know that I really want to hang on to my hate and anger. But I also know that I have to let it go. Conflict.

    Stevie S
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I totally agree, can leave you with a serious identity crisis. It is difficult to come to terms with the person you are when you have no idea who you are. Mental health treatments can leave you empty inside.

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    Tempest
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Was having an argument in public with an ex and I was bawling my eyes out. Didn’t have any tissues so was wiping my tears on my sweater. A random stranger sitting nearby randomly offered me some tissues and I immediately started crying even harder at how kind this random stranger was to me (while my ex was just screaming at me the whole time, not helping at all). It’s forever going to be some random act of kindness I’ll remember.

    A dude who likes to drum
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel so bad for you I’m glad that you are out of that relationship that stranger is an amazing human 😊

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    RajunCajun
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    my ex was having a bad day and I got a box from the back room to give to her, she asked what it was and I told her it's my emergency chocolate I keep around for when you need it. Then she started crying.

    VonBlade
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    100%. Fortunately my partner is the non-huggy type so I can pretend to be brave.

    Flora Porter
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Like being inside a canvas tent in heavy rain: one touch and you can't stop the torrent.

    Hehe
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I remember right before a show ( i'm in a theatre group) I was having a panic attack. One of the assistant directors noticed and held my hands. She sat down with me, got my water bottle and talked with me to keep me grounded. After about a year, it happened. Luckily, she still knew what to do and came to help. I will forever be grateful for that. I am currently making a small gift for her to say thank you. A month before the show, I was struggling with sh and anxiety. She only realized when I started not socializing with anyone. I don't think she actually knew what was going on, but she literally saved my life multiple times. She will always be my hero.

    lonely miso
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Imagine being okay. Skill issue /j (coping with humor)

    Alex
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When someone finally says something nice to you that was from the heart and you wanna cry, every time for me

    The Shark
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Never ask "are you ok?" When someone clearly looks like they're not... Offer support if you'd like, but you're almost guaranteed that bottled up emotion will be exploding out and it may not be the time or place for that to happen...

    Dark Side of the Loom
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There’s a song in French that goes ‘Don’t start shaking me, because I’m full of tears ‘, and I can often relate to that feeling

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    However, George pointed out that all of this is easier said than done. After all, therapy isn’t financially accessible to everyone. “But in the case you're reaching out to publicly funded mental health support, it's even more important you reach out sooner rather than later so you can get on their waiting list as soon as possible,” he said.

    “How Mental is only a small charity but we do a lot of work to help millions of people around the world take care of their mind! If you want to donate or support our work, please go to our site and connect with us via our Contact form! We're also running free events called 'Mental Space' for Students, Educators, Parents/Carers, and Health/Social Workers as part of our mission to improve wellbeing for generations to come. So, if that's right for you, come on down! And share the events with anyone else they might help.”

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    Glenn Amaretto
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This. My parents taught me how to be a good liar and be defesive all the time. Got to a point where i would lie just bec i could or it's more convenient to do so. Took years to unlearn this

    Alex
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My parents get mad at me for lying on the spot, but they don't realize that I have a dead mom, trauma, anxiety, depression, I'm a closeted homosexual, and that I was taught to instantly think of a lie for every situation.

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    Mini grizzly
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh yes. Or when you know why is coming home just by the keys are put into the lock. Or you know when the elevator door opens, which of your parent is coming home, and act on the point. Take your book out and read get some old notes out so it's appears that you were actually writing a lot. Or if you were eating , stop immediately and go to your room, of course before they get into the apartment.

    Ghostshaper
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One of the most abusive parents is the one who only wants to be a friend, not a parent

    Alex
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    All too true to explain in words

    Marnie
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This doesn't sound like a strict parent. Sounds like an emotionally abusive parent. They aren't the same. My parents were more strict than average, but none of this happened to me because they weren't a******s.

    Marnie
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would add that there are non-strict abusive parents who could have this exact same effect on kids. I think strictness and emotional abuse are not connected.

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    Tempest
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow! This is so beautifully worded. Totally saving this!

    Missy VanWinkle
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow. This seems so important. Just wow.

    Brainmas
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thanks, now I have something to talk to my therapist about next week.

    Charley128
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Give me the number of your therapist, please.

    Ale
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I relate to all of these but this left me stunned and having to process!! It's... Not wrong unfortunately

    Marnie
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This might be true on some people, but I don't see how this is universal. Therapist said "always". Almost all people are empathetic. And unfortunately, there is an epidemic of people not having self-respect. But some people with that combination still won't put up with being mistreated, regardless.

    Ross “Sarcastic Dad”
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    F*ck. Well, looks like someone has to sit alone for a bit and process this........it's me. Someone is me.

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    DC
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Both? You could love yourself for understanding quadratic equationry, even. I'd consider it a win-win. But then again - it's school. Don't expect too much, but expect a disapointment.

    Pink Princess
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lol I have a test on quadratic equations in two days and I still don't understand it.

    RajunCajun
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    or find a way to teach kids that the way you treat people now may come back to haunt you.....

    VonBlade
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nobody really loves themselves though, right? I mean, that's narcissism. We all hate ourselves, surely.

    Tracy Wallick
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Self love is not the same as self-aggrandizement, thinking you're exempt from social norms/rules, or that you should receive special treatment for no discernable reason.

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    Colleen Glim
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Teenagers are angsty by definition. I didn’t learn to love myself/stop giving a s**t what other people thought, until I was in my forties. Chemo just reinforced it

    Michael Largey
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I was in high school, many of the people who loved themselves really shouldn't have.

    BrownTabby
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I hadn’t had the opportunity to crush maths exams that were intended for kids older than me, I would have had even less love for myself.

    Burnout, chronic exhaustion, depression, anxiety, phobias—these are issues that many people deal with in their lives. And though awareness of mental health issues is definitely increasing these days, for some people, it’s still a taboo topic. Opening up about struggles, going to therapy, and talking about self-care is still something that some folks avoid doing because they see it as a sign of ‘weakness.’

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    It’s because the topic is still taboo for some that projects like ‘How Mental’ are so important. They bring the discussion about mental health to people’s social media feeds. They also add a comedic but relatable twist when they choose to tackle these issues in the form of memes. That way, the message ends up reaching more people.

    Therapy should not be seen as something taboo or shameful. It’s important to recognize that seeking a mental health professional’s advice is not a sign that you’re ‘weak.’ Everyone, no matter how tough they are, needs support from time to time. As we’ve covered on Bored Panda recently, for instance, people with phobias need to reach out to a mental health professional if their fear becomes so intense that it causes anxiety and panic attacks.

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    Rainstorm
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ink blots are real? I thought that was only a thing in movies

    InfiniteZeek
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Rorschach test, projective method of psychological testing in which a person is asked to describe what he or she sees in 10 inkblots, of which some are black or gray and others have patches of colour. The test was introduced in 1921 by Swiss psychiatrist Hermann Rorschach. https://www.britannica.com/science/Rorschach-Test

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    Gen X Feral
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    All I ever see is a blob of ink when they show me an ink blot 🤷

    David Paterson
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's a brilliant idea. I totally approve.

    David Paterson
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes. I did one 30 years ago. I had the pleasure of seeing the psychologist snatch the ink blot back from me and stare at it saying "well I suppose so" after I gave an answer that wasn't in the textbooks.

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    Isaac Harvey
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel, and it may or may not be like that sometimes.

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    VonBlade
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm good at anxiety in the way McDonalds are good at haute cuisine. Yeah I've got loads of it but none of it is any good.

    Khavrinen
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not going to make much selling something when there's such a glut on the market these days.

    A Wild Bean (they/them/any)
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I googled it. No luck. All the results are about overcoming the fear of selling stuff.

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    VonBlade
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh you have agoraphobia? Have you tried jogging?

    Emma Sober
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    oh you have adhd? have you tried making lists?

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    A Wild Bean (they/them/any)
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Seriously, such a rip-off. Anyone know how to get a refund?

    CORGI QUEEN
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    bro i haave 3/4 of thoseee depression anxiety and ADHD

    MooMoobean️
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who else just wants to help others and not themselves? Like you put others first before you

    Alecto76
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is. All you have is the power of revenge, if applicable.

    David Paterson
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's why marriage was invented. I mean that in a positive way.

    Professionals who specialize in anxiety disorders, for example, can offer a wide range of treatments for their patients, whether that’s cognitive-behavioral therapy, exposure therapy, or even medication.

    The important thing here is to recognize that these professionals will not judge you for your struggles: they have a lot of experience, they’ve seen it all, and they’ll be very empathetic.

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    VonBlade
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Okay who replaced my screen with a mirror?

    VNES101
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Absolutely correct! I never feel like I deserve the compliment, I brush it off, but heaven forbid no one notices my new dress. LOL

    Cjay
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate compliments because then I realize someone has been paying attention to what I’m doing

    Nikole
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So we’re all f****d up then? These are so relatable to me, and clearly to many others… Solidarity!

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    lonely miso
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m confused, you can’t just make a personality… your personality is who you are. Changed behaviors or etiquette would be more accurate, right? (Please don’t downvote. Just answer me. I am dumb and would like to understand.)

    Nikole
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It doesn’t last, but it’s like you’re playing a role, like an actor.

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    Jenna Howe
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The picture is a plot twist. yeesh.

    V Noe
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Coming up next on the true crime network......

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    Kellie Robinson
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I didn't really attach to the damaged/adorable part...my brain latched to "reusable." Oof...

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    However, at the same time, it’s pretty critical to understand that not every therapist is going to be a good fit for every patient, and vice versa. Sometimes, their personalities or backgrounds simply aren’t a good match. That’s why patients should never feel guilty about asking to see another specialist if they feel like their needs aren’t being met.

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    JoMeBee
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And of all else fails then there's the magical replay button in my brain that will find every past instance of hurt feelings...

    Michael Largey
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The convenient thing about hurting my own feelings is that I know exactly where my most vulnerable spots are.

    Khavrinen
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm an overthinker, I hurt my own feelings. And I have decades more experience at it; there's no way you can even come close to doing it as effectively as I can.

    Flora Porter
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No no no - we're not overthinkers! It's the other people who don't seem to think much.

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    Binky Melnik
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Um, if your mental health is affecting your physical health, I’d don’t think you need to pretend as if you’re sick; you ARE sick. Do as this post suggests and heal yourself up as best you can!

    Calum Sanderson
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I get where you're coming from but a lot of us with mental illness deal with some form of derealisation, so there's scenery that needs to be set for the method to have a chance of success. In this, the implication is even though you're tackling your mental illness, it does seep into your physicality. The thing is, part of you thinks "this is silly, nobody buys that" or something like that. So you almost have to trick yourself into getting out of the toxicity. "I'm going to pretend I am sick" and then going through rest and healing because you actually ARE sick. But because you're constantly in a tug of war with an arsehole in your head, it's almost like you're constantly trying to "gotcha" said arsehole, because that arsehole lives in your brain, which is also where the plan - resting as if sick - came from. I'm really stoned but this makes sense to me and is also my personal experience. Long story short you have to actively remove the power from the negativity in your head.

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    Shelli Aderman
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If only life allowed for such luxuries…

    DJay
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Clearly the therapist hasn't worked a day in the corporate world in their life.

    devotedtodreams
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That was the first thought that entered my mind too! Like, which employer would give you at least a day off for self-care? Preposterous, unfortunately...

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    Ohoi!
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The world can wait but my kids can't.

    Tyranamar Seuss
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I recently got really physically sick. Lots of doctors. Work ups all negative. I decided it was from toxic stress. I stopped working Mondays. Now on that day I go for a walk in nature, get a massage, take a nap, and read all day. I'm starting to feel much better. My whole body was hurting from constantly being tense with anxiety. I was sleeping non-stop. Zero energy. Headaches. This has helped so much.

    Norah Reilly
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ...only if you can afford to.

    VidGam4
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ok but how do I explain this to my parents

    Maxuen Xyz
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sorry but I can't call in sick for years

    Stephanie Barr
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not as easy when you're a caregiver. I appreciate the advice but sometimes it's just not possible.

    Trevor Hardy
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not the best advice. I stay laying on sofa all day I'm stuck in the cycle now

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    VonBlade
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Damn I got distracted and missed the line. Okay let's rewind. Argh I did it again. Just stop and listen this time. Rewind.

    lonely miso
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The only bad parts of songs for me aren’t hurtful but the ones that make me think.. interesting thoughts 😭 I hate my mind

    The Original Bruno
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'n having a really bad morning, and this just wrecks me: Long lay the world in sin and error pining/ 'Til He appears and the soul felt its worth/ A thrill of hope the weary world rejoices/ For yonder breaks a new and glorious morn

    Isaac Harvey
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For me, it’s “Love the Way You Hate Me,” by Like a Storm.

    Deborah Rubin
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are some songs I can not listen to.

    Foxglove🇮🇪
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'll always remember the night my then-boyfriend spent sitting on my floor, crying, playing the same song over and over and over and I couldn't do anything to help 😢

    Austin L
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My favorite line I've heard recently about this in a song went, "It's everything you wanted but no body likes you..." tear-up every time.

    colombian cat mcr <3 girl 🇨🇴
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    helena by my chem for me. the so long and goodnight part makes me cry

    Awesome At Being Autistic
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    🎶 "I am human and I need to be loved, just like everybody else does" 🎶

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    Of course, this doesn’t mean that a therapist should mollycoddle their patients. A huge part of their jobs is helping others see their lives from different perspectives. This involves looking at both subtle and harsh truths, as well as dealing with lots of uncomfortable emotions.

    Therapy does not mean telling a patient how wonderful they are all the time. It’s about helping them solve their issues and improving their quality of life by giving them the emotional tools to handle tough situations.

    Aside from therapy, self-care is all about nurturing relationships, eating well, getting plenty of exercise, as well as spending time away from tech and out in nature. On top of that, what really helps is if you find purpose in what you do, whether that's your job, a fun hobby, or volunteering.

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    How do you ensure that you take care of your mental health, Pandas? Which of these memes did you resonate with the most? Feel free to share your thoughts in the comments.

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    David Paterson
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Avoid involuntary hospitalisation. Get yourself hospitalised volunterily, it'll change your life.

    Isaac Harvey
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Therapists are like the internet. Some things can get buried, and other things can go viral. And it’s almost always the option you don’t want.

    ShaZam
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    sad ... but true ... always holding back because you're afraid someone will judge you too harshly

    RajunCajun
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I over shared one time and she threatened to put me on lithium.

    Mechanician
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Couldn't trust enough during inpatient stay for small bowel obstruction. Every ptsd and white coat phobia is now magnified dramatically and leavened with the fiercest shame ever heaped on me since Navy style potty training before age 15 months. I may not trust any medical person again even those I worked with for years. Somewhere near you I promise an older person, human but inconvenient now, is left to lie in her own diarrhea and nobody answers the call button. Insurance was looted. Then I was sent home. Too weak to do what I believe is my natural right, to sail beyond the sunset, at the time I determine is the last reasonable moment. They will make me live screaming in pain and humiliation, a burden I can see is far too great for those who feel obligated to emergency midnight laundry. To fetch me something that might stay down before the tide turns. To hate me because I need the care instead of being the caregiver.

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    Angi
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So true the world could be on fire and my husband would just keep calmly snacking and watch it burn.

    Panda Mona
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    keeeeeep him :-) this is worth gold these days!

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    Alex
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can't even eat a bag of chips without worrying I'mma get in trouble

    Austin L
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm this partner but through empathy I've caught myself feeling some of their reactions to familiar situations spontaneously.

    ShaZam
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    so you worry for them .... becoming more anxious

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    DC
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I get home after being away longer than a day, obeying the cat's request first is granted. She has the right to command me to where she'd like me to be then, and I happily follow her orders because she knows best anyway. So, basically, I always plan that we'd play Butterfly (a cloth butterfly attached to a stick via rubber rope), and that I'd give her a treat, like Crème de poisson or so, and then, basically, hang out on the bed for 1...2 hours, where I pet her, and she falls asleep, and I, too, and then we wake up and continue loving each other. She's so nice, has such a perfect fur, ... nice, lovely cat, she is ...

    Alecto76
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Do your best. That's all you can do.

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    lonely miso
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exactly. Seasoned to the max. With EXTRA salt. That’s how I like my food, not my life 😭

    Deborah Rubin
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    SAD. On top of everything else. The psyc. wants to give me more meds. He says it's not safe to give me more meds. Life is two much to deal with.

    Belladonna.dreams
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes. I had an anxiety attack over going to the gas station up the street

    eMpTy
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Whoever came up with the name "Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)" nailed it! Heaps more accurate than seasonal depression or cabin fever.

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    Upstaged75
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or you could just be like me and fall asleep the couch every night, then wake up at 4am and stumble to your bed like a zombie.

    Elizabeth Peer
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I used to do that but when I went to bed I wouldn't be able to go back to sleep

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    Catharina Geerts
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I basically learnt to go to sleep by fantasizing, kind of "day-dreaming". Started as a teen, when I still had to go to bed far too early and of course couldn't sleep. Through the fantasies at least I could pass the time being awake pleasantly. Over the years, my body "learnt" that daydreaming meant: time to sleep :D

    Edward Monks
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    or you have to -pretend- to- be really wasted, then you passout to sleep. smart

    DC
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I did that almost every day when commuting by train. Especially when they came to check on tickets, practically just about where I'd fall asleep for the additional 30 minutes this allowed me (if you do that five times a week, or don't, also five times, at the end of the week you should see and feel a difference, one that's worth the sleep). They knew me and my student ticket anyway, as I did this daily, so I always pretended to be asleep already if I wasn't, or I was already anyway. Most of the conductors got that and left me sleeping, but one guy insisted to wake me up every day, by whatever means it takes (of course, I pretended to be still asleep, in order to be remembered as hard to wake up and in ownership of a valid ticket), and that dude looked like a prototype postpunk ... peroxide blonde, a worn-down leather jacket, a collection of hooks and straps and other textile connecterians, quite the opposite of the stiff german official living by the very letter of the law. But, by looks only. He on shift every morning meant that I'd be lacking about two accumulated hours of sleep by friday.

    Michael Largey
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Much like falling in love sometimes.

    Rwby Couch
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just play little mind movies until I fall asleep

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    Marnie
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm sure it helps his mental health to have his photo plastered all over the internet. Whoever first posted this and anyone who upvoted this is a jerk.

    NapQueen
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I always check on people ❤️❤️ when my mum told me she had cancer, I SOBBED on the 1 hour train home and nobody asked if i was okay. So I will be there for somebody, even if I don't know them.

    Esist Nosrep
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dude looks a bit like if Elon musk got average persons icome this month

    eMpTy
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=C3CIDPuxwrY

    Flora Porter
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Poor them. It has to feel really bad before most adults will do that.

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    Elizabeth Peer
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My son's dad kept telling me I needed counseling. I told him I absolutely knew I needed counseling but I wasn't the only one. Then I told him that crazy people don't know they're crazy and I know I'm crazy, but he's the one that keeps denying things. His response to that was "don't play those word games with me" I was like "what? sentences?"

    Panda Mona
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That one made me laugh so much, because it is so sad and so true

    David Paterson
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Insanity is hereditary. It's caused by children."

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    VonBlade
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Because I can share my coping mechanisms. Make something useful out of my existence.

    Flora Porter
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Keep doing that. When you can recycle your experience to support someone else and save them pain, you give it value.

    Alyssa Phillips
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Eh, I understand it rationally and scientifically. I know what SHOULD be done. I think of it as excessive compartmentalizing. I have just compartmentalized that knowledge away from my actions.

    BrownTabby
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who tf should be texting them mental health advice? Neuro-frickin-typicals? 🤮

    lonely miso
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don’t know why this was downvoted. You’re just strongly opinionated. Nothing wrong with neurotypicals, but downvotes can ban people. :(

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    Flora Porter
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe if you're under 35ish. The most frightening and at the same time freeing thing about middle age is realising no one probably even notices.

    Lil Miss Hobbit
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you need proof of these silent lovers, I am one of them. Comment if you are too.😎

    Kelly H. Wilder
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am, but I am learning to be less silent. If I notice something about someone, I try to discreetly let them know. Whether it is a sweater the person is wearing, the way they are interacting with their children, or some kind action they did for someone else, I try to quietly compliment them. If it is a child, I let them overhear me telling their caregiver. It may make all the difference to them.

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    kath morgan
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I actually prefer not to be perceived thanks

    Marnie
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What BS. Of course this is not true of all people. This person who just posted this was doing it to make herself look good and kind and profound. This is actually insulting.

    Alex
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My eyes are sweating from reading this and not believing it

    giku T
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    2 years ago

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    all i will remember from this advice is: learn the correct use of pronouns before giving advice

    Pixie
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Twitter. 280 letters max. Look at the context before being condescending.

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    Flora Porter
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Tip from an older person: if you can hear a 'should' in your self-talk, it's someone else's goal, not something you genuinely want right now.

    BrownTabby
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One of the reasons I stopped going on Tumblr is because the so-called socialists on there developed a massive hard-on for the concept that people who are struggling are lazy.

    Lil Miss Hobbit
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Someone send this to my friend so he doesn't know that I know he does this.

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    Shelli Aderman
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Realizing that my night guard has SERIOUS marks in them now!

    VonBlade
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You should see my jaw muscles. It looks like I'm a professional gum chewer.

    Charley128
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was on medication that did that. Thought, for a while, I had cavities in all my teeth because it hurt so much.

    Erick L.
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I stopped grinding my teeth at 34-35 with medical help. Use to ground so hard I could hear myself while asleep. Poor girlfriend...

    Kelly Scott
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sent the muscle up the side of my face into spasms by clenching my teeth. Twelve aspirin a day every day for 30 years. Forty good-for-nothing doctors over those 30 years just blew off my headaches. Finally got rid of the headaches when I didn't have to work anymore.

    JoMeBee
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was able to stop clenching and replaced it with constant light tapping my teeth. So now my life has a beat! (REALLY bad for enamel though)

    Samantha Mannion
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Omg this!!! I never realize until it hurts a bit

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    Multa Nocte
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's odd, but I have always felt exactly this way.

    Dark Pearl
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    WHAT DO WE LOSE, BODY? LEMME GO THE F**K TO SLEEP!!!!

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    VidGam4
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Do you think we have the time for yoga?!

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    SlothyK8
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OMG, I felt this so hard. That's my whole life!

    adnap derob
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    🙋🏼‍♀️ except replace ADHD w OCD

    imjustexisting
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    minus the ADHD and I'm described perfectIy

    David Paterson
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, if you change it to "loves people but hates their friends". Only a friend can stab you in the back.

    Aroace tiger (she/they/he)
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Me except I don't get panic attacks. Instead xan it be really happy but really sad??

    PythonZER0
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel personally attacked but yes

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    Scarlett
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We hug a snake because that’s the only pet with me right now. He’s a little cold and likes to slither down my shirt but it’s ok.

    Dark Pearl
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But what if we're deathly terrified of dogs

    Aroace tiger (she/they/he)
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not a dog- just a big cat but I will give free hugs to whoever wants them

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    Lil Miss Hobbit
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    THIS. Never underestimate our ability for violence...but we don't want it. We just want peace.

    Charley128
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We are very good at violence. We just choose not to express it outwardly. Because we are civilized.

    LooseSeal's $10 Banana
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To be fair, I did ghost my dad out of spite. Keep making excuses for why you're too busy to meet you new granddaughter who you "love so much" and find out what happens.

    Max Fox
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe you're an introvert who has been hurt. Or maybe you're a passive-aggressive d**k. Or maybe you're a self-centered a$$hole who doesn't want to listen to somebody else's problems. or maybe you're all three. Because everybody who ghosts has this excuse, and everybody who has been ghosted complains that it happened because they wanted to get support instead of to provide support.

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    Auntriarch
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ah, you've met my ex sister in law

    Tempest
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My narcissistic ex. Physically and emotionally abusive. Drove me to the point of hating my life and wanting to end it. Years of both emotional and physical trauma. And I definitely know he’s going to end up seriously hurting someone in the future. He knows he has narcissistic personality disorder. But doesn’t think he needs therapy. Wouldn’t even hear of it.

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    Calum Sanderson
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When he called me brother, I felt that

    ConstantlyJon
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    oh s**t we're supposed to be counting caffeine?

    Flora Wolfe
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've been guilty of consuming twice as much caffeine.

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    JoMeBee
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He really doesn't look stressed. Perhaps a bit grumpy...

    Erick L.
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He looked undecided about something.

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    Calum Sanderson
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    tbf i didn't ask for tasks either let alone skin. this whole deal is not in my favour bro

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    VonBlade
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No, I just realised I could totally coast and school all these fools, until I reached the crossover point where you needed to work hard to be the best, but had never learnt how to do so.

    Charley128
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is that what happens? I thought maybe I got lead poisoning or it was my toxic family.

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    River wolf (she/her)
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is the first meme I feel personally attacked in.

    Magnion
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m this, but add disabled to it as well

    MooMoobean️
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I want never considered the smart kid, "unusual"

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    Calum Sanderson
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    my dog gets all excited and wants to play when i'm singing. i'm usually singing when i'm happy. I'm usually happy when i'm going well in my video games. my dog getting excited makes me laugh which stops the singing. but I get it. I totally agree

    Charley128
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I start doing what I refer to as Comedy Rants. Don't know where it comes from but thank heaven when it does.

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    Aroace tiger (she/they/he)
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've had to do this recently and it's so so difficult

    PolymathNecromancer
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I put the dormant assshole part of me in charge of this and it got easier

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    Aileen Grist
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Me too - and it's hard sometimes

    PolymathNecromancer
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just choose when I can and try to not make it worse when I can't.... after awhile the currents shifted a bit and sometimes bridge the gap now. There is NO SUCH THING as full choice *or* full no-choice, I try to keep aware of the alignment of the currents

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    A Wild Bean (they/them/any)
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If this happened, my brain would just keep going "....but what if they're lying"

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    Aroace tiger (she/they/he)
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It was like a holiday but longer and with work for me

    VonBlade
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Life didn't change for me. Although I did notice when things opened up nobody was still out there singing songs for me, or checking in on how I was, or opening their digital back-catalogue for free to help me get through it. It's almost like society says it cares, but really f*****g doesn't.

    BrownTabby
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Y’all weren’t aware of the distinction between “bad” and “really f*****g bad”?

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    MooMoobean️
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who else is like 😭 before making a call, and then during it's 😁

    Samantha Mannion
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate when people text me "hey call me when u get a chance" when they know I will not do this and then I get to feel guilty about it. My mother just did this yesterday and she knows I have problems with phone calls....no respect..

    Flora Wolfe
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Calling is so 90s. Emailing is so 00s. If you can't text in the 2020s, you don't deserve to get communication lol

    VonBlade
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You're assuming I've always got credit on my phone to reply. Jokes on you. My phone exists solely as a way to carry my internet around the house.

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    devotedtodreams
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep, calling is so old-fashioned. In fact, the only person I willingly call is my Mom. Other than that, bruh, e-mails or texts are the only way to go.

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    Lil Miss Hobbit
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My sister.😂 While me, as a recovering rebel with depression, is now going through my "peaceful and mild country peasant" phase.

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    Aileen Grist
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    just get to be old - I remember when I could stay up past 9pm. I remember when I could eat after 3pm and not have dreadful heartburn all night.

    Charley128
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At 69yrs I wish I could feel sleepy at 3AM. Since I'm don't, I have a hamburger. Thankfully I have the digestive system of a teenager.

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    Bump
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't have arsehole neighbours like me I guess?

    Michael Largey
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A frontal lobotomy has been known to do it. But I'd rather have a bottle in front of me than a frontal lobotomy

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    CORGI QUEEN
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    STUUUPID MENTAL HEALTH WALK (Holderness family)

    PythonZER0
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You people have the motivation to take walks?

    David Paterson
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's called a "smart watch". It insists that I take more than a hundred steps a day.

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    PolymathNecromancer
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The bright side is that my best friends became apparent when they made efforts to understand

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    Magnion
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just lie and said I didn’t see the text

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    Lil Miss Hobbit
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And that's why I spend my time being the person who will give it back

    Max Fox
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So now I guess that volunteering is a "toxic trait". Sorry, but this looks like somebody'd excuse for not doing anything for anybody. Too many people claim "I always help everybody but nobody helps me", for it to be possible.

    Dunja Blackwell
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Since the post is about mental health this is about toxic relationships where one partner gives everything, chases etc but doesn't get the same back from their partner. Be happy that you misunderstood and never had to go through the fight for a tiny amount of self worth.

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    Flora Wolfe
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Like that time my boss asked how I was doing and I unloaded two decades of pain and trauma on them. Surprisingly, they still asked how I was doing afterwards from time to time lol

    New Everywhere
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My boss asked me last week if I was ok. I said "nope but if I keep talking I will start crying" she just said "you know where I am if you need me"

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    Max Fox
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ohhh the irony of this post is deafening.

    Binky Melnik
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    2 years ago (edited)

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    Bro, like, fix your, like, English, bro. Don’t, like, bore people to, like, literal death with the way you, like, speak, bro, lest you force us to, like, hope you’re locked away where you can’t annoy us, bro.

    VonBlade
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    2 years ago

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    Like, have like an upvote, like you know, no cap.

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    BrownTabby
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ohhh nope nope nope. If you’re chronically ill, you get to hear nonstop about what a burden you are on society. If you get a short term illness, you better not live in a country with inadequate sick days and/or work somewhere where the boss acts like you killed their mother if you call in sick. All sick people are despised.

    Lil Miss Hobbit
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not in my family. We baby our sick people Do you need to move closer?

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    Lil Miss Hobbit
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel this. People be like "Your teens and twenties will be the best years of your life" No sir. The best years will be the years I am actually happy after doing therapy through my teens and twenties.

    Flora Porter
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ask anyone over 40 and most will tell you they wouldn't choose to be in their teens or twenties again. I wouldn't.

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    VonBlade
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm not making progress. I've used my incredible observational skills to learn what not to say to you.

    Magnion
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I used to not tell my therapist everything and pretend I was getting better because I didn’t want to disappoint them. i eventually realize that helps no one.

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    Magnion
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or the afternoon. Or the evening. Or ever.

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    Charley128
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I lived in a toxic family for most of my life and had not left the house for the previous eight years. I went to my Mom and told her I was so depressed I felt like suicide. She looked me in the eyes and said, "How will it reflect on me, as a Mother, if my son commits suicide"? Ah, a Mothers' love.

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    Charley128
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Replace "Another Traumatizing Event" with "Family".

    Martin
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This the same thing unfortunately, I've been on the receiving end too.

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    VonBlade
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No, it's to wallow in it so you go through it faster. Like ripping a band aid off in one go.

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    VonBlade
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is it solipsistic in here or is it just me?

    David Paterson
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love solipsists. Take nothing for granted. Question everything.

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    Charley128
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A happy future is just a construct to keep you from giving up now.

    Lil Miss Hobbit
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Depression kills plans for the future. But it's okay, because they will come back as you heal. Trust me.

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    Binky Melnik
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Guh. Reading some of these things makes me think I’m surrounded by people in all manner of pain. Good grief. Now I’m gonna whine to BP. Hey, BP:What’s with all the bad mental health posts? Can’t you give us collections of happy things more often? I suggest a ratio of one sad article for every five happy ones. Contribute to the solution, not the problem. Thanks! (Sorry; I gather I’m not so hot at this whining stuff.)

    digitalin
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Huh. I'm reading these thinking "I feel so seen! Someone put it into words and I'm not alone! So uplifting."

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    Niki A
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was like this until a couple of months ago. I just started adding back in my emo stuff and suddenly I felt like me. Weird AF.

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    PolymathNecromancer
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can barely sleep for 6 hours most of the time

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    Shelli Aderman
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What in the sliced open hot dog is this? 🤣

    Dunja Blackwell
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    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    From Spongebob? It looks like the Krusty Krab.

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