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Writing a captivating piece takes way more than putting pen to paper. The author spends countless hours developing the plot, writing and rewriting it, crossing out hundreds of unnecessary lines, and doing the research—lots and lots of it. Some writers could work more on the two, wiping out some of the information or researching it better. Otherwise, they might end up being shamed for some of their inaccurate, unrealistic, or plain foolish lines. As these male writers depicting female characters did.

The subreddit “Men Writing Women” is dedicated, as the description suggests, to “how men who create films, books, TV, and graphic novels characterize women”. Members of the community clearly don’t shy away from sharing their finds, and we have gathered some of their best examples into this list today. If you feel like it’s too short, check out our previous pieces about “Men Writing Women” here and here.

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Who Doesn't Love To Bleed And Writhe In Pain Once A Month?

Who Doesn't Love To Bleed And Writhe In Pain Once A Month?

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If anything, I look forward to celebrating that I'm not pregnant, and then hate the other 99% of it.

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    Jane Goodall Should Just Go Ape S*it

    Jane Goodall Should Just Go Ape S*it

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    Feathered Dinosaur
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can show you something motherly and nurturing *starts regurgitating what was food once*

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    #3

    “Let Them Puppies Free!”

    “Let Them Puppies Free!”

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    Leo Domitrix
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    as a woman, me writing: "These stupid irritating blobs on my chest that swell every 28 days, hurt for 3-5, mean I need two whole different sets of bras, that do nothing all day..."

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    A Jack of all trades is a master of none, they say. That rings true, as there’s hardly a person who knows the ins and outs of every subject out there. And writers are no exception; no matter how well-read they are, writing about specific topics usually requires specific knowledge, which they might not have.

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    Similarly, writing about certain groups of people calls for knowing what they might be like. Or the basics of their anatomy, at least, if that’s what’s important for the story. Otherwise, you might end up sounding ludicrous to those who have a better understanding of the topic, not to mention the experts.

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    [clans Of The Alphane Moon By Philip K. Dick] How To Assert Your Dominance Over Other Women: Scare Their Nipples Off

    [clans Of The Alphane Moon By Philip K. Dick] How To Assert Your Dominance Over Other Women: Scare Their Nipples Off

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    Groundcontroltomajortom
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is so much wrong with this I can't even begin to.... but deburgeoned....I.... what??? You're certainly not Shakespeare mate, you can't just put a "de" in front of something to make a new word.

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    #5

    What Else Could A Woman Want After Coming Out Of A Coma? Beyond The Darkness (1979)

    What Else Could A Woman Want After Coming Out Of A Coma? Beyond The Darkness (1979)

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    Grammar Factory suggested a rule of thumb for doing enough research for your writing. According to them, you should analyze it enough to be able to write your first draft with no holes, without it becoming a reason to put off the writing process itself.

    In his book, ‘On Writing: A Memoir of the Craft’, Steven King pointed out that even though the research shouldn’t outshine the story itself (well, unless it’s a research paper you’re working on), it’s crucial for fixing any possible errors in the story and adding some credible details.

    #6

    Scientology, A New Slant On Life - By L. Ron Hubbard (1965)

    Scientology, A New Slant On Life - By L. Ron Hubbard (1965)

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    Til That I, A Virgin, Have At Least One Kid. (Once Gone, By Blake Pierce)

    Til That I, A Virgin, Have At Least One Kid. (Once Gone, By Blake Pierce)

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    I’d Like To Imagine This Was Done For The Male Characters As Well

    I’d Like To Imagine This Was Done For The Male Characters As Well

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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Annabelle...brown eyes, E cup... Lauren...blue eyes, S cup... Katherine... hazel eyes, Z cup-OKAY WHY IS THIS GUY SO F*****G HORNY"

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    In order to avoid sounding foolish, you can always turn for help to experts or outside sources that are brimming with factual information. Grammar Factory emphasized just that by suggesting using books, the internet, or expert interviews as ways of researching information for your book.

    #9

    In Death, I Hope All My Friends Remember Me For My Great Rack [1q84, Haruki Murakami]

    In Death, I Hope All My Friends Remember Me For My Great Rack [1q84, Haruki Murakami]

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    TheElderNom
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My friend did die, I'm ashamed to admit I never mourned the loss of her breasts. But seriously what kind of garbage is this?

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    #10

    I’m Surprised No One Has Posted This Guy Yet?? From Jpod By Douglas Coupland

    I’m Surprised No One Has Posted This Guy Yet?? From Jpod By Douglas Coupland

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    Rider
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I prefer my a*s kicking boots on my non makeup days, so every day.

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    Unless it’s total fiction you’re writing about, fact-checking is important. Certain claims made by authors can raise disputes, or have consequences bigger than being cited in a certain subreddit. The author Lisa Bickmore pointed out that when a writer wants to use factual material, it’s also crucial they find good, quality information. Not only that, it’s vital to present it in a way that’s understandable to the reader.

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    #12

    Women Have Useless Faces (A Happy Death By Camus)

    Women Have Useless Faces (A Happy Death By Camus)

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    (Tw: Physical Violence) [nana By Zola] Zola's Nana, Or How To Stop Worrying And Learn To Love Physical Abuse

    (Tw: Physical Violence) [nana By Zola] Zola's Nana, Or How To Stop Worrying And Learn To Love Physical Abuse

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    #14

    The Amount Misogyny In This One Was A Bit Shocking. The Lake Of The Dead By André Bjerke

    The Amount Misogyny In This One Was A Bit Shocking. The Lake Of The Dead By André Bjerke

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    Michael Largey
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Misogynists are in fact more popular among the weaker sex. Women, on the other hand, don't care for them at all.

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    Despite being important to the integrity of the piece, facts can be too much for some readers. Unless it’s a manual—in which case, you know what you’re getting yourself into as a reader—having to deal with an abundance of detailed information can get tiresome or even boring for the regular bookworm.

    #15

    Hell's Angels By Hunter S Thompson. Men In The 1960s Just Understood Women, You Know?

    Hell's Angels By Hunter S Thompson. Men In The 1960s Just Understood Women, You Know?

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    #16

    There Are Many Different Types Of Arm Folds, I'm Glad Robert Cleared That Up For Me

    There Are Many Different Types Of Arm Folds, I'm Glad Robert Cleared That Up For Me

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    XenoMurph
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    After a certain age, that might not be possible without a hoist. Oh c**p, did I type that out loud?

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    #17

    Liana Finck, Women In Literature, 2022

    Liana Finck, Women In Literature, 2022

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    Feathered Dinosaur
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Imagine a woman writing a story were male characters are minor characters only, whose pert testicles can be seen through their filmy underwear

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    In order to prevent the prospect of tiring out the reader, writers often turn to a more detailed, exciting way of writing. That in itself is not a bad idea at all; however, it’s important not to go overboard with such embellishments.

    Some of the examples on this list, for instance, describe certain characters in a detailed way, which is simply incorrect. That’s when facts can turn against the writer, and make them the butt of the joke at times.

    #18

    Ah Yes, The Kind Of Giggles That Spill From Your Breasts. Of Course The Girl Is “Just Turned 16” As Well. (Hospital By Han Song)

    Ah Yes, The Kind Of Giggles That Spill From Your Breasts. Of Course The Girl Is “Just Turned 16” As Well. (Hospital By Han Song)

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    That Natural Womanly Instinct To Love Cooking (Do Androids Dream Of Electric Sheep? By Philip K Dick)

    That Natural Womanly Instinct To Love Cooking (Do Androids Dream Of Electric Sheep? By Philip K Dick)

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    DustTea
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Um. I can’t cook to save my life. I THOUGHT i was a woman?

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    #20

    "But Whatever" (The Night Shift, Alex Finlay)

    "But Whatever" (The Night Shift, Alex Finlay)

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    Other examples in the “Men Write Women” collection portray women in a way that is not factually correct, nor amusing. They are often based on stereotypes, which can be offensive to some female representatives, or emphasize certain “truths” that not a lot of them would agree to, such as the “magnificent uselessness of a woman’s face”, for instance.

    #21

    Lake Of The Dead By André Bjerke

    Lake Of The Dead By André Bjerke

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    Lots To Unpack Here [the Road Back By Erich Maria Remarque]

    Lots To Unpack Here [the Road Back By Erich Maria Remarque]

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    Feathered Dinosaur
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow, misogyny and bodyshaming all in one! And something about children being pathetic as well

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    I’m Sorry, What?!? The Body Keeps The Score By Bessel Van Der Kolk

    I’m Sorry, What?!? The Body Keeps The Score By Bessel Van Der Kolk

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    Certain views towards women in these snippets are not only displeasing but outdated as well. They often sound like something from the 19th century—the time when gender bias was so strong, some women authors chose to write under male pseudonyms. (George Eliot, who was actually Mary Ann Evans, or George Sand, a.k.a. Amantine Lucile Aurore Dupin, just to name a couple.)

    #24

    Breast Roll By "It's Kind Of A Funny Story" By Ned Vizzini

    Breast Roll By "It's Kind Of A Funny Story" By Ned Vizzini

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    Nod By Adrian Barnes

    Nod By Adrian Barnes

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    "A Fine Porch Door"... From The Stand By Stephen King

    "A Fine Porch Door"... From The Stand By Stephen King

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    Lily Robertson
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Post Apocalyptic theme...old "God fearing woman" is definitely going to be assessing baby making potential in young women. I give this one a pass.

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    #27

    I Feel Christopher Pike’s Spellbound Could Fit

    I Feel Christopher Pike’s Spellbound Could Fit

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    Abrufal
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Another out of context blurb. Cindy is one of two main characters in the novel. This blurb was taken from a longer section were Cindy is flirting with a guy she thinks murdered his friend to get info. Pike is actually praised for his accurate portrayal of teenagers and writing female characters (he was a YA author from the mid 80s)

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    #28

    Coast To Coast Murders, James Patterson

    Coast To Coast Murders, James Patterson

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    The Immortalists By Chloe Benjamin. A Genuinely Good Book With The Worst First Paragraph!

    The Immortalists By Chloe Benjamin. A Genuinely Good Book With The Worst First Paragraph!

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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    first paragraph is describing a 13 y/o's naked body. Red flag for sure

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    #30

    Go Home Everyone About To Post Stephen King. Alizee Yeezy Has Trumped All Of You

    Go Home Everyone About To Post Stephen King. Alizee Yeezy Has Trumped All Of You

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    Lakota Wolf
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m sorry, he’s horrible simply because he MENTIONS boobs? I’m female and I’ve read every one of his books and I’ve never felt offended or that he’s sexist.

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    #31

    Poet Fundamentally Misunderstands Women

    Poet Fundamentally Misunderstands Women

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    From The Pictorial 1952

    From The Pictorial 1952

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    Because This Is What A Female Psychologist Would Think When Dealing With A Paranoid Schizophrenic Violent Patient. Domain, Steve Alten

    Because This Is What A Female Psychologist Would Think When Dealing With A Paranoid Schizophrenic Violent Patient. Domain, Steve Alten

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    The River Between By Ngugi Wa Thiong'o

    The River Between By Ngugi Wa Thiong'o

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    “Her Breasts Quivered With Excitement” Really??? (Sales Pitch By Philip K. Dick)

    “Her Breasts Quivered With Excitement” Really??? (Sales Pitch By Philip K. Dick)

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    Tina Girard
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's a weird tic - quivering boobs? Some kind of neurologic disorder?

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    #36

    Nietzsche Going At It (Beyond Good And Evil)

    Nietzsche Going At It (Beyond Good And Evil)

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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Eff of Neitzche, always knew this douche was just another overrated mysogonist like Freud.

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    I Hate It When I Am Unfemininely Crisp And Therefore Less Attractive Than I Could Be To My Male Coworkers. (Brain Wave, Poul Anderson)

    I Hate It When I Am Unfemininely Crisp And Therefore Less Attractive Than I Could Be To My Male Coworkers. (Brain Wave, Poul Anderson)

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    Many Thanks To Kobo Abe For Explaining The Female Condition In His Classic Novel ‘The Woman In The Dunes’

    Many Thanks To Kobo Abe For Explaining The Female Condition In His Classic Novel ‘The Woman In The Dunes’

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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why am I still reading these? My hackles are rising (not my breasts, sorry).

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    #39

    Women As Baby Producers... (Slaughterhouse Five By Kurt Vonnegut)

    Women As Baby Producers... (Slaughterhouse Five By Kurt Vonnegut)

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    #40

    My Friend Sent This To Me: It Starts Out Awful And Only Gets Worse. [zadie Smith, White Teeth]

    My Friend Sent This To Me: It Starts Out Awful And Only Gets Worse. [zadie Smith, White Teeth]

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    Chuck Palahnuik- The Invention Of Sound

    Chuck Palahnuik- The Invention Of Sound

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    The High Auction By Misba (Literally The 2nd Page)

    The High Auction By Misba (Literally The 2nd Page)

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    FantastiKitty
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did the character die and come back as a teen girl? It would explain.

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    Second Reference To Her Oversized Bazungas In As Many Paragraphs - Paternus By Dyrk Ashton

    Second Reference To Her Oversized Bazungas In As Many Paragraphs - Paternus By Dyrk Ashton

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    Arthur C Clarke - Rendezvous With Rama (1973). What Norton Says Here Is Really Stupid, But It Seems Like Clarke Knows This

    Arthur C Clarke - Rendezvous With Rama (1973). What Norton Says Here Is Really Stupid, But It Seems Like Clarke Knows This

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    David
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I give this one a pass because it isn't really ripping on women. It is basically saying some men are idiots.

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    #45

    This Makes Me Prefer Men Writing About Women's Breasts (Bellevue Square By Michael Redhill)

    This Makes Me Prefer Men Writing About Women's Breasts (Bellevue Square By Michael Redhill)

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    David
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The slang "camel toe" I at least understand the comparison. But if your bits resemble a "tarantula" you may want to schedule a visit to your OBGYN.

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    #46

    Asked A Text Ai (Link In Comments) To Write A Women Written By A Man

    Asked A Text Ai (Link In Comments) To Write A Women Written By A Man

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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    nah im concerned about two things: where all the snacks went, and HOW DOES SPIDERMAN END

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    #47

    "All Women Are Deeply Ashamed Of Their Periods." - Ross Anderson (Book Is Security Engineering, 2010)

    "All Women Are Deeply Ashamed Of Their Periods." - Ross Anderson (Book Is Security Engineering, 2010)

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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Of course the author's actual evidence of this is non-existent. Maybe he is just projecting his embarrassment at once having to buy them on someone else's behalf

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    #49

    We Can Remember It For You Wholesale (Total Recall) - Philip K. Dick. Aka: Sometimes Even Your Favourite Authors Fail

    We Can Remember It For You Wholesale (Total Recall) - Philip K. Dick. Aka: Sometimes Even Your Favourite Authors Fail

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    #50

    From "Carolina Moonset" By Matt Goldman. Where Did The Firehose Come From?

    From "Carolina Moonset" By Matt Goldman. Where Did The Firehose Come From?

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    David
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel like this one does not meet the thread subject of 'men barely understand women". This is just an author lampooning a particular type of woman who is overtly 'fake'. I've seen them IRL. Women with fake hair, fake nails, fake breast, fake tan and such to the point you wonder if you hosed off Mrs. Doubtfire you'd find Robin Williams underneath. It obviously is not describing most women but the creature being described does exist IRl.

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