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People Are Sharing What Double Standards Between Men And Women Annoy Them So Much, It's Disgusting (50 Pics) It's okay for men to not want kids, but women are "broken" or will "change their mind" if they say the same.

Notwillurs , Keren Fedida Report

Final score:

298points

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Ritchat 3 years ago

I'm almost 36 and been in a relationship for 6 years. If I wanted to have kids, I would have them by now. Still get asked when we'll finally have children by friends and family over and over again. Get treated like a villain for refusing to give children to my partner (who doesn't want to have kids either).

109points

People Are Sharing What Double Standards Between Men And Women Annoy Them So Much, It's Disgusting (50 Pics) Child predators. Both men and women should receive the same charges.

Illimani_again , abc30.com Report

Final score:

295points

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Foxxy (The Original) 3 years ago

100% agree.

125points

To learn more about the unequal distribution of housework and other tasks and what can be done to change it, Bored Panda reached out to relationship expert Dan Bacon, the founder of The Modern Man, who gave us some insights on what can be done to share the load. In short, he explained that communication, respect for each other’s choices, and mutual support are key to a healthy relationship. Especially during these difficult times.

“Both a man and a woman should always show gratitude towards each other and from that, you will both feel happier about being loving towards each other because you know the other person appreciates what you are doing,” relationship expert Dan highlighted that thanking someone for taking the initiative with chores, instead of berating them for usually ‘not doing enough,’ yields far better results.

For Dan, it’s important not just what we say in relationships, but how we say it.

People Are Sharing What Double Standards Between Men And Women Annoy Them So Much, It's Disgusting (50 Pics) Men get pockets big enough to hold all their stuff while women get fake pockets that are sewn shut, or a micro pocket that can't fit anything.

surebegrandlike , planet coline Report

Final score:

277points

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Joonscrab 3 years ago

😭😭😭 this is just sad ...I can never find pants with pockets :(

67points

imaLilT-pot , Buena Vista Pictures Report

People Are Sharing What Double Standards Between Men And Women Annoy Them So Much, It's Disgusting (50 Pics) When movies need an ugly guy, they hire an ugly actor. When they need an ugly girl, they hire a smoking hot actress and put glasses on her

Final score:

275points

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troufaki13 3 years ago

People were stunned when they found out that Charlize Theron is a great actress when she put on weight for "Monster" and that she's not only a pretty face (she's stunning by the way!)

79points

Society has been making money off of women’s bodies/sexuality forever and no one cares.
A woman makes money off her own body/sexuality and it’s suddenly a problem.

SassySavcy Report

Final score:

270points

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Mike Crow 3 years ago

This is very true. What is the issue if a woman decides to be a sex worker (physical or online) out of her own free will?

80points

Relationship expert Dan gave an example where he heard from a man who was cleaning up the bathroom and found his wife complaining about how he was doing things. This led to an argument and the couple didn’t speak for a couple of days.

“He was very upset that she didn’t appreciate his proactive approach to helping out. All of that stress could have been avoided if she walked in and said something like, ‘Oh, thanks, honey. You’re cleaning the bathroom. That’s one less thing for me to do. Thank you.’ Then, if she wanted him to clean the bathroom the way she normally does it, she could ask, ‘Do you want to know how I get those stains out?’ or, ‘Do you want me to tell you some of the ways I do it that makes it easier?’ and if he then said yes, she could tell him,” Bacon gave some practical examples of effective communication.

“If he said no and ended up causing damage to the bathroom for example (unlikely, of course) or not cleaning it properly, she could then talk to him about it and ask why he thought it turned out that way, after all the good effort he put in. He could then realize his mistake, feel supported by her and decide that he probably should have asked her how to do it first, or continued cleaning until he got it done right.”

People Are Sharing What Double Standards Between Men And Women Annoy Them So Much, It's Disgusting (50 Pics) I was at the park working out a few years ago and on a bench was a couple arguing. The girl proceeds to slap the crap out of her boyfriend. She then goes for another, but the dude blocked her and held her wrist. The girl then burst into tears and questions why he hurt her like that.

To myself I was thinking, wait you can hit him but when he defends himself its wrong?

RRDude1000 , Vera Arsic Report

Final score:

269points

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Foxxy (The Original) 3 years ago

If you can give it, then you can take it.

103points

People Are Sharing What Double Standards Between Men And Women Annoy Them So Much, It's Disgusting (50 Pics) That men can't be raped or physically/mentally abused.

mmm-pistol-whip , RODNAE Report

Final score:

269points

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Aroace tiger 3 years ago

Yea its stupid

70points

ShovelingSunshine , Forte Village Resort Report

People Are Sharing What Double Standards Between Men And Women Annoy Them So Much, It's Disgusting (50 Pics) Women things like baking or cooking are just for women until it's a profession, and then it's for men.

Final score:

258points

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Pamela24 3 years ago

Oh yeah. If I say a word "a cook" you will most likely think of a woman. While when I say "a chef" it will probably be a man. And I wouldn't blame you - it's the same in my own head but it's just so wrong and sad nevertheless.

87points

According to Dan, by choosing not to attack our partners verbally for their ‘mistakes,’ we avoid making them go on the defensive. This reduces stress, helps maintain the relationship, and, in very practical terms, helps deal with the double standard of how housework is distributed.

“They remain in love. They feel supported, appreciated, respected and there is no need for an angry, resentful war to break out over little mistakes or errors. Of course, approaching conversations like that also applies to a man talking to his girlfriend or wife who is doing something around the house,” the expert pointed out that it goes both ways.

“For example, if his wife is doing more than normal around the house, a man should be supportive of her, appreciative and respectful, rather than just expecting that she should do it because she’s a woman. No one has to do anything in a relationship. It’s always a choice. This is why you should always come from a place of love and support, rather than in an angry, attacking way where you essentially become enemies who are trying to beat each other in a pointless, ‘I’m a better person than you’ war.”

While there are plenty of double standards out there, at least we’re better equipped to deal with one of them—sharing housework and other tasks during the pandemic through small changes in how we communicate and show gratitude.

#10

When a girl is into more traditionally manly stuff nobody bats an eye, but when a guy is into traditionally feminine stuff people give him funny looks and question his sexuality

zamememan Report

Final score:

253points

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Aroace tiger 3 years ago

YES! I'VE NOTICED THIS!

72points

LadyEvilNightQueen Report

#11

People Are Sharing What Double Standards Between Men And Women Annoy Them So Much, It's Disgusting (50 Pics) Abusive behavior is funny when coming from a woman. I pointed out to my husband that in movies and TV shows, women get upset by a man's actions and slap him and no one bats an eye. Showing a woman hitting a man normalizes this cruelty and it needs to stop.

Final score:

230points

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Foxxy (The Original) 3 years ago (edited)

I can’t stand it when I see a woman slap a man and it’s considered acceptable.

118points

#12

People Are Sharing What Double Standards Between Men And Women Annoy Them So Much, It's Disgusting (50 Pics) How it's okay for men to go to strip clubs but strippers are looked down upon or made fun of by society.

turtlepie90 , facebook.com Report

Final score:

224points

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Foxxy (The Original) 3 years ago (edited)

Many people who are strippers are very well educated and a lot are also studying. Stripping is a way for them to make ends meet. As long as it is THEIR choice and they aren’t being forced or pressured into it, then I don’t see an issue.

107points

#13

People Are Sharing What Double Standards Between Men And Women Annoy Them So Much, It's Disgusting (50 Pics) Pedophile teachers, when it's a man, you tend to see "Male teacher raped student", and when they're women it's normally "Female teacher had sex with student", I despise the downplaying of it when the teacher is a woman, and seeing comments like "that kid should be lucky, his teacher is hot" disgusts me.

PuppeteerGaming_ , imgur.com Report

Final score:

223points

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Sasy 3 years ago

They did it on Dawsons creek, affair with teacher...woohoo go Pacey. It is horrible, all girls school here had rumors of teacher having relations with student, nothing happened, another teacher married an ex student a year or so after she graduated. Now years on I realise that would have been considered grooming. So horrible

54points

#14

People Are Sharing What Double Standards Between Men And Women Annoy Them So Much, It's Disgusting (50 Pics) Body shaming men. Make fun of a woman’s boob size and people are aghast. Make fun of someone’s d**k size and that’s hilarious. Slag on a woman’s weight and that’s a no-no, but ‘I only date six feet and taller’ is acceptable. They are things a person really can’t do much about, and both being socially linked to equate manliness.

calliegrey Report

Final score:

219points

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Hans 3 years ago

Adrianna should probably take a moment to question the significance of her own existence.

119points

#15

People Are Sharing What Double Standards Between Men And Women Annoy Them So Much, It's Disgusting (50 Pics) A woman with her kids is "taking care", a man with his kids is "babysitting"

eeyoremarie , Juliane Liebermann Report

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209points

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Vic 3 years ago

This is pathetic! Anyone who suggests I'm babysitting my kid will get a earful from me..

100points

#16

People Are Sharing What Double Standards Between Men And Women Annoy Them So Much, It's Disgusting (50 Pics) Men or boys who are sexually abused by women are told to feel lucky. People will joke, 'Where was that teacher when I was in school?' and disregard that being a male victim is a big deal. But sexual abuse messes with you no matter your gender, and being a male survivor is also hard.

ImInOverMyHead95 , RODNAE Report

Final score:

199points

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Foxxy (The Original) 3 years ago

Yes, yes, yes. I know someone who was raped by a woman and when he went to the police they laughed at him. In 30 years he has not had a partner or interest in having one because of that experience.

90points

#17

People Are Sharing What Double Standards Between Men And Women Annoy Them So Much, It's Disgusting (50 Pics) Daughters are raised and taught to clean and cook while sons get cleaned up after. My mother got upset with me when I suggested my younger brother learn to take out the trash or do a single chore. When I was his age, I was cooking and cleaning and helping take care of him while getting good grades in school and doing extracurriculars.

ItsD_D , localpassportfamily.com Report

Final score:

198points

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Aroace tiger 3 years ago

O. M. G this isn't to do with gender because I'm a girl but my sister is 10 I used to do work when I was 10 I understand how annoying it is

37points

#18

Overweight male actors always get cast opposite gorgeous actresses as their love interests and nobody bats an eye. Overweight actresses are rarely allowed to be lead love interests in the first place, and when they are, they're more likely to be paired with less conventionally attractive men.

easy0lucky0free Report

Final score:

187points

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troufaki13 3 years ago

And if perchance they are the lead, it's usually for comical reasons. Also, lead actresses are super skinny with super fat bff for comic relief, never the other way round. But where's the between? Average bodies that are neither skinny nor fat, with flabby tammies and saggy boobs are never portrayed even though more people could relate.

69points

#19

People Are Sharing What Double Standards Between Men And Women Annoy Them So Much, It's Disgusting (50 Pics) Those romantic comedies with the cliché beautiful and smart woman married to the dumbest guy who is lucky to have her. Swap the roles and see people flip out.

Devistator , Universal Pictures Report

Final score:

184points

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Foxxy (The Original) 3 years ago

My roles are swapped. My hubby is smart, funny and goddam hot as whilst I am not that bright, not very funny and I look like a dogs breakfast. I often wonder HOW I managed to get a catch like I did.

106points

piratestarx38 , Andrea Piacquadio Report

#20

People Are Sharing What Double Standards Between Men And Women Annoy Them So Much, It's Disgusting (50 Pics) I’m a young guy. One of my female coworkers slapped my ass about a month ago. I didn’t say anything because I really didn’t care too much, but if the roles were reversed I’d be out of here faster than I could say sexual harassment.

Final score:

183points

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Sarcastic Panda 3 years ago

nobody should do that without consent

84points

#21

Dads are “superhuman” when they take care of baby, cook/clean/etc, or just parent in general. But women are “doing what comes naturally” when we work a full time job while pregnant, go back to work weeks after major trauma, are expected to breastfeed AND work, keep the house, raise good kids, and are somehow bad moms if we complain and feel overwhelmed.

Ninjaa240 Report

Final score:

174points

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Sarcastic Panda 3 years ago

I honestly hate this.

55points

InformallyGuavaCado Report

#22

Women who either have sex, love sex, or have a great deal of it when they are single are considered loose. Meanwhile, if a guy has a lot of sex, then he’s just being a guy.

Final score:

168points

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troufaki13 3 years ago

Also when women have sex on the first date are considered easy and not relationship-material

58points

#23

People Are Sharing What Double Standards Between Men And Women Annoy Them So Much, It's Disgusting (50 Pics) Women are 'supposed' to clean the inside of the house while men do yard work. One day, my husband's friend called him while we were cleaning the house. His friend said, 'Uh oh. In trouble with the wifey?' No! He just lives here, too.

amandadear , cottonbro Report

Final score:

165points

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Shazz Winchester 3 years ago

totally agree, men should clean too

64points

#24

If men play video games, it’s normal and expected. If men like sports, it’s normal and expected. If men enjoy something like skateboarding, it’s normal and expected.

But if a woman does any of those things, she’s only doing it to impress men and couldn’t possibly actually like them herself.

seahawksgirl89 Report

Final score:

157points

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wandile dludlu 3 years ago

That goes both ways, if a guy likes netball, ballet, sewing or anything that has been traditionally been done by mostly women for decades or centuries... he will be called gay or a sissy

94points

#25

People Are Sharing What Double Standards Between Men And Women Annoy Them So Much, It's Disgusting (50 Pics) As a man, I could go to the doctor and get a vasectomy tomorrow if I wanted to. A woman has to have like two or three kids and be married for most doctors to even consider performing a tubal ligation.

dsayre1986 , Maheen Fatima Report

Final score:

156points

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Stimpy 3 years ago

Of course women should be able to have the same choice as men. Just speculating though: could the reluctance of doctors to do tubal ligation simply be, because it is a more complicated procedure than vasectomies?

66points

#26

People Are Sharing What Double Standards Between Men And Women Annoy Them So Much, It's Disgusting (50 Pics) I’m an 18-24 year old guy, and I work with kids.

It’s disgusting the amount of protocols and procedures there are to keep me from being alone with kids, but there are almost NONE for the female staff I work with.

wharepaku1999 , nappy Report

Final score:

155points

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Foxxy (The Original) 3 years ago

It is really sad. There are less and less men working with children because of this and peoples ideas that “men are bad”. All children need a male role model and they don’t always get it at home, so having a male teacher, student councillor, social worker can be extremely beneficial. There are more good men than bad, it is just we hear more bad than good. These men are our husbands, fathers, children, friends etc, we need to stop tarring men with the same brush.

67points

Dutch Swimmer Goes Viral For Super Revealing Trunks During 2024 Olympics: “Is This Legal?”

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Thrill-Seeking Diver Jumps Down Extreme Waterslide, Ignoring The Strict Ban For Women

#27

Even if I, the father, am listed as the primary contact on every single contact form for my kids, the school will still call my wife first. Even after being the only parent the teachers and school have ever seen during drop-offs and pickups, the school still insists on waiting to talk to my wife to 'discuss something about your child,' even though I'm right there.

geeky_username Report

Final score:

149points

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Kari Panda 3 years ago

Honestly, I would make that public. Call the press or otherwise make a scene. That‘s patronising. It’s YOUR child and you‘re an intelligent human being ffs!

67points

Unknown_Stonefruit Report

#28

Dad works late, gunning for the big promotion: “What a great provider!”

Dad leaves early to pick up sick kids from daycare: “What a great dad! So wholesome.”

Mom stays late, guns for the big promotion: “How can she neglect her kids like that?”

Mom leaves early to pick up sick kids: “Figures, she was never really committed to the job.”

Final score:

142points

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Shelli Aderman 3 years ago

Depends on the job. Sounds like a toxic environment, and not at all like most places that employ humans.

28points

#29

Women get so much sh*t for being “too choosy” with men and “not giving them a chance” and in general get called uppity, picky snobs because they won’t go out with certain guys.
But when those same women are victims of date rape/violence/murder, they get blamed and people say that they should have been more careful

whatever132435 Report

Final score:

139points

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Truth Monster 3 years ago

Women should be choosy, especially if you want children. Childrearing is a long, expensive and trying time. Having a reliable partner that will stay with you when times are hard is invaluable. It literally used to mean the difference between death and survival.

49points

Woman Put A Water Fountain With A Camera In Her Yard, Here Are 24 Photos Of Regular Visitors (New Pics)

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“Ma’am I Live Here”: Woman Refuses To Back Out Of Driveway, Learns A Lesson The Hard Way

#30

I'm a trans guy, and people listen to me as male way more than they did as female

Spencer2091 Report

Final score:

135points

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Cynthia Bonville 3 years ago

This is very disappointing to read.

58points

#31

Single mothers are seen as a red flag and are blamed for choosing a deadbeat as their child’s father. But single fathers are considered a great catch and are praised for 'stepping up.

shaylaa30 Report

Final score:

134points

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El Dee 3 years ago

This must be a new thing. Single mothers have always existed in greater numbers and in the town I was raised in it's always been a big thing. But whilst single mothers would always be able to find a partner, if they wanted to, single fathers were usually avoided. Most women, back in the day, didn't want to bring up someone else's kids. Harsh but true..

40points

#32

Female domestic violence victims get lots of support, while male victims get laughed at.

AngryTomato99 Report

Final score:

130points

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Foxxy (The Original) 3 years ago

This is one reason why I do not support white ribbon day. It should not be violence against women and children but violence against anyone. There are absolutely F**K all domestic violence services for men, especially shelters. It infuriates me so much, especially since a lot of homeless men are victims of domestic violence.

53points

#33

People Are Sharing What Double Standards Between Men And Women Annoy Them So Much, It's Disgusting (50 Pics) Women rarely get complimented for the things men get complimented for: assertiveness, accomplishments, or basically any intentional act. While men rarely get complimented for the things that women get complimented for: their appearance or personality characteristics that make others feel good.

PTSDaway , Amina Filkins Report

Final score:

118points

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Hans 3 years ago

Maybe we should just compliment each other more often, particularly for the things that make life more joyful yet are routine.

59points

50 Of The Most Incredible Shots That Were Submitted To The Comedy Wildlife Photography Awards

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French Diver’s “Jewels” In Tight Swimming Trunks Become Talk Of The Town At Olympics

#34

People Are Sharing What Double Standards Between Men And Women Annoy Them So Much, It's Disgusting (50 Pics) Mens nips arent censored but for some reason women's nips are.

ImmaTakinAShit , istolethetv Report

Final score:

118points

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Shelli Aderman 3 years ago

True! (And bring that apostrophe over to “aren’t, from above, please!) 😉

30points

#35

People Are Sharing What Double Standards Between Men And Women Annoy Them So Much, It's Disgusting (50 Pics) When a woman cries, it's viewed as normal.
When a man cries, he's told to man up.

MinutesTaker , Julien Harneis Report

Final score:

116points

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Foxxy (The Original) 3 years ago

I actually like it when a man cries and I don’t mean that I get some sick gratification from the pain of others. I mean I just like it coz it means they are comfortable within themselves to show their emotions.

68points

#36

People Are Sharing What Double Standards Between Men And Women Annoy Them So Much, It's Disgusting (50 Pics) Clothes from the women’s section fall apart after six months.

Meanwhile I have a 15-year-old shirt from the men’s section that I still wear.

Pseudonymico , Artem Beliaikin Report

Final score:

114points

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Daniel (ShadowDrakken) 3 years ago

And that ladies shirt likely cost 3x as much to boot

71points

AdministrationSad226 Report

#37

If a girl is 21 and a virgin she's considered pure. If a guy is 21 and a virgin he's a loser.

Final score:

106points

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Stimpy 3 years ago

Yeah, as a teenager I wondered how that was supposed to work. In order to get the best ratio of "cool guys" and "pure girls" that would mean all guys would have to have lots of sex with a single girl? Would that be the "mega-slut" or would she be considered as providing a service to society (making the dudes cool and keeping the other girls "pure")? Idk.

47points

#38

Men who don't smile: Thinking, serious, determined.

Women who don't smile: B****y and uninteresting.

I've never heard of a man getting asked why they didn't smile for something.

grizzfan Report

Final score:

105points

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I want cake 3 years ago (edited)

This one really gets me. I get told to smile all the time. I'm not a naturally smiley person. I'm not even a naturally happy person - I'll smile when I darn well feel like it. I once got told on the metro that I'd look prettier if I smiled. My dad was in hospital and we didn't know if he would survive, and this absolute womble tells me to smile. His defence : "how was I supposed to know?". So I told him, "you don't, that's why you keep your trap shut."

11points

Woman Moves Out Of Parents' Home After They Asked Her To Give Her Space To Brother, They Freak Out

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Mom Leaves $250k Inheritance To Son, Throws A Fit When Daughter Stops Looking After Her

#39

When a woman is direct to employees at work she is a b***h. When a man is direct to his employees he’s a leader.

ljm5119 Report

Final score:

104points

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Donkey boi 3 years ago

Sorry, from my personal experience I disagree with this one, There's being a leader then there's being an A-hole. there is a fine line between being direct and being an A-hole. Doesn't matter if you are a man or a woman.

38points

#40

Men: I'm a 34in waist and size M shirt in EVERY. SINGLE. STORE.
Women: Sizes are called different things in each country, and the naming convention bears no relationship to the actual size (what is the 6 in size 6 supposed to signify?)

helenmaryskata Report

Final score:

104points

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Barrie 3 years ago

I call BS. I'm a 34 to 38 in one sizing method and 44 to 46 in another. Depending on the year, shop etc. I have rarely been the same size. Even better was when I bought a pair of trousers in H&M, next year I had put on 5 kilos so I went for another pair of the same jeans, I fit perfectly into the same size. I now never bother looking at sizes, I just take a handful of trousers into the changing room and try them on till one fits. Even once with some Bear Grylls trousers, they were marketed as 104cm (perfect for me) when they arrived, they didn't fit. I measured them.. 98cms. This an industry problem more than women/men one.

26points

#41

A bad dad can lose custody but many times a bad mom won't.

LumberZach69 Report

Final score:

103points

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Foxxy (The Original) 3 years ago

Hear hear, just because you are a mum doesn’t mean you are a good one. It should ALWAYS be what is in the best interests of the child, NOT what society expects or is used to etc.

49points

#42

Could not fathom having to give up their family name at marriage, but pressures his wife to do it without a second thought.

turasatana Report

Final score:

101points

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Batwench Premium 3 years ago

It used to be that the woman passed from being the property of her father to that of her husband. That is where the taking of the name came from. As a side note, my brother took the name of his 1st wife and when they divorced and he re-married he still used that name and my new SiL uses it as well.

28points

Woman Refuses To Chip In For Babysitting Because She Doesn’t Even Have Kids, Asks If She’s A Jerk

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“This Breaks My Heart”: People Stunned—And Angry—After Woman Buys Lost Luggage From Airport

#43

People Are Sharing What Double Standards Between Men And Women Annoy Them So Much, It's Disgusting (50 Pics) Single father's taking their kids to the park and watching them play while they get stares from every other parent or ppl passing by.

MomoIsGay , Anete Lusina Report

Final score:

94points

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Shelli Aderman 3 years ago

Yes. (AND, that apostrophe is giving me a twitch...)

51points

#44

When men come out and accuse priests or other old men who abused them they aren't interrogated as to why they didn't say it sooner. With the 'Me Too' movement backlash, we see that women are dismissed and not believed when they talk about their abuse years later.

mostlycoder Report

Final score:

94points

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El Dee 3 years ago

Women are dismissed constantly and accused of trying to get on the gravy train of claiming compensation. This is even when the complaint was made at the time and disbelieved. I'm always shocked at women being complicit in this nonsense, I feel like they've been conditioned into believing it by those with a vested interest ie the perpetrators..

21points

#45

Straight girls can hold hands, lock fingers, cuddle, shower, and kiss each other. Two guys can’t even make eye contact without being gay-shamed.

uke_bass_bro994 Report

Final score:

94points

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Patrick O'Harris 3 years ago

Oh. I guess I'm gay as hell. Not that I didnt know that but still...

42points

#46

When a guy gets with a bunch of chicks, he’s a “stud”. When a girl gets with a bunch of guys, she’s a “sl*t”.

LithicPlays Report

Final score:

92points

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Vic 3 years ago

There should be a common word for both men and women and it should mean "it's their life, none of my business"

52points

"I Didn't Start The Dryer": Karen Gets Taught A Lesson After Throwing Out Neighbor's Wet Clothes

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College Student Does Exactly As Told After Roommates Demand They Keep Their Stuff In Their Room

#47

Being over looked for a role (between 20-35) because I might become pregnant.

hopalongsmiles Report

Final score:

88points

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Barrie 3 years ago

The one solution to this is for men and women to have the same amount of maternity leave and the same legal minimum time off. In Spain this year both men and women will get 4 month maternity/paternity leave. Now they need to add, for example, that both must leaglly take a minimum of 3 months each. Once this happens, the risk to the employer is the same for either sex so no preferences.

44points

#48

People Are Sharing What Double Standards Between Men And Women Annoy Them So Much, It's Disgusting (50 Pics) I work in a woman dominated field (library) and a good portion of my coworkers are self-proclaimed feminists. They constantly complain about "The Patriarchy" while being hateful, sexist group of humans towards the men in the building.

Deweyfinn551 , Kampus Production Report

Final score:

86points

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Kari Panda 3 years ago

Also working in a library that is part of a large university: It‘s not quite as bad here, but one thing that drives me nuts: Our university has an 'equality' department. Yet, they only tend to women: They hold women-only university-wide meetings, they send emails to women about holiday camps for their children, they have a campaign against sexual abuse with a confidential email address - put only in women‘s bathrooms. So male workers have no children? Male workers/students face no abuse? I truly hate it from my guts. Pointed that injustice out to one of their members once. She told me women have it worse and that men don’t need anyone lobbying for them.

42points

#49

Expecting women to keep up a constant and rigorous beauty routine while men are doing very little to maintain their own attractiveness.

celestialism Report

Final score:

86points

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PineappleQueen 3 years ago

I am a teenage girl, and I don’t even care about makeup. I spent about 5 minutes doing my hair, and pick out cute outfits for school. People tell me I should do more to please the guys. Meanwhile my brother combs his hair and is told he’s trying to hard.

45points

#50

Women can't be topless in the heat like men.

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75points

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Luther von Wolfen 3 years ago

In some states women can be topless. Most choose not to. I agree that the law should be equal for everyone. Free the nipple.

53points

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Tim Fischer 3 years ago

Some of these things are crazy exaggerations.. A single father with kid in the park is nothing mentionable. Nobodies looking....

17points

Dorothy Parker 3 years ago

I don't agree. I've seen dads watched like a hawk until there is some interplay that shows he's a dad.

11points

blugeagua 3 years ago

No they are not. MOST of these are sadly true

2points

Biljana Malesevic 3 years ago

true! And so many other exaggerations. No one pays that much attention to you, just chill, people.

1point

Kari Panda 3 years ago

Probably depends on where you live. Can’t say I‘ve see it here yet, but I‘ve heard that particular point from so many American men already...

1point

Tahiry Miora 3 years ago

Tim Fischer follower

-1point

Sasy 3 years ago (edited)

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ToGo 3 years ago

This is an annoyance of mine: Reading comments on YouTube, if a guy tells a female creator they think she's hot he will get hounded for being a creep. However, I see females leaving the same type of comments on male creators videos by the heckload and no one bats and eyelid. I personally think that the thirsty comments should stop altogether.

12points

hydrostatic joints 3 years ago

Yup, I see this all the time with people thirsting over male creators saying they should grow a beard, wear this or that, or saying that they want to marry them and all kinds of crap. And they just have to deal with it and not say anything because they will get ridiculed if they do.

3points

Bunny Wood 3 years ago

TV Advertising that treats all men as simpletons with their condescending wives needing to look after them because Men Are So Stupid and Women Are so Smart in Tv land

12points

BoredRaccoon 3 years ago

It is difficult for me to believe that men have an equal amount of problems regarding their gender as women do, because I enjoy gaming and see women take so much hate in that community. The young girls I have encountered on Instagram or TikTok or whatever, girls my age, are usually progressive and supportive of men being feminine and men being emotionally vulnerable, supportive of male rape victims and abuse victims, whereas guys hate on other guys being feminine more in my opinion. Also harassment / abuse happens a lot more to women, even though it should of course be recognized when it happens to men

9points

Mike Crow 3 years ago

Sex work needs to be made legal and regulated to protect the workers.

9points

ProfessionalTimeWaster 3 years ago

I read somewhere that it ended up increasing human trafficking.

0points

Serbob 3 years ago

A lot of this is based on people's personal experiences but doesn't necessarily reflect the way it is for everyone. Still worth mentioning though as we really need to change the "way it was" and more forward to better equality for all genders.

5points

blugeagua 3 years ago

This all just shows how feminism is important and that the patriarchy harms both women and men.

4points

Lis Daglish 3 years ago

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Biljana Malesevic 3 years ago

So many I don't agree with at all. And someone actually compared circumcision with female genital mutilation!

4points

Sasy 3 years ago

Some of these just seemed too personal rather than across the board, I wish age, location, time period was in there because some were seemingly connected to places, time and previous experiences from decades past.

4points

Matt Tyson 3 years ago

The thing that I truly hate is that there is little to no support for men when we have PTSD/anxiety. Also, we are mocked, demeaned, looked down on because we have a mental illness.

3points

Samantha Cole 3 years ago

I worked part time at Home Depot stocking shelves 7pm-1am. A older male co worker asked me why I was working instead of staying home with the kids. I told him because we needed the money and I like getting out of the house his response was can’t you watch other people’s kids to get money. It was ridiculous.

2points

Don't Look 3 years ago

so many questions! location for this definitely matters. what kind of person is he? how old? what is his lifestyle? how long has he been working there? when do you report this? is race involved?

0points

The 5-star rated 5-star rating system 3 years ago

I'm probably too young to understand some of these. However, I think that as long as I live I will never understand why some people seem to think that males who do traditionally "feminine" things are homosexual. Could anyone here explain this to me?

2points

Aroace tiger 3 years ago

Not my parents! My mum works for the whole day and my dad cooks and works for 1 to 2 hours. I think its pretty fair tbh.

2points

Doggo 3 years ago

i 100% agree with this post

1point

Saico Hipe 3 years ago

It definitely happens to men, too. I am in an abusive relationship with a woman, and part of the PTSD I'm experiencing is from when my best friend (also a woman) raped me a little over 8 years ago. I am completely broken and will likely never trust anyone or have a healthy relationship ever again. I guess I should just 'man up,' eh?

1point

Sarcasm101 3 years ago

This was a tiktok I found but girls...name one thing u can do without being made fun of

1point

Sarcasm101 3 years ago

Not saying guys don’t get made fun of but seriously. Try

1point

Rae of sun 3 years ago

These made me so mad because I realised how true and how problematic many of them are

1point

mrdmela 3 years ago

Rae of sun -

0points

Mrs_ Possum 3 years ago (edited)

I do agree that double standards exist, but I don't believe it's 100% everywhere, or that it's necessarily always 'the norm'. My hubby treats me like an equal, we share chores at home and nobody makes fun of us for it, male colleagues don't treat me any worse/better than female ones, etc. I have experienced bad treatment, of course, but it's easy to get mad about a few jerks and forget all the good people out there. But there ARE a lot of good, fair-minded people out there.

1point

Ποιητικό Αίτιο 2 years ago

I appreciated those because they are honest and for both genders

0points

Edward Hyde 3 years ago

#50 is ridiculous. No matter how hot it gets, removing your shirt does almost nothing to cool you down. Also only douchebags go outside without a shirt on unless at the beach or swimming pool.

0points

Carol Emory 3 years ago

Also think about that you hardly ever saw men in commercials for laundry soap or baby diapers 15-20 years ago. And if a woman appeared in a commercial doing domestic chores, she'd always have a wedding ring on.

0points

Mrs_ Possum 3 years ago

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0points

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-2points

Help in Homework 3 years ago

Are you busy and do not have time to handle your assignment?

-2points

D Schweitzer 3 years ago

Yeah, because men suck and we all need to say they do or we'll be downvoted!

-2points

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Tim Fischer 3 years ago

Some of these things are crazy exaggerations.. A single father with kid in the park is nothing mentionable. Nobodies looking....

17points

Dorothy Parker 3 years ago

I don't agree. I've seen dads watched like a hawk until there is some interplay that shows he's a dad.

11points

blugeagua 3 years ago

No they are not. MOST of these are sadly true

2points

Biljana Malesevic 3 years ago

true! And so many other exaggerations. No one pays that much attention to you, just chill, people.

1point

Kari Panda 3 years ago

Probably depends on where you live. Can’t say I‘ve see it here yet, but I‘ve heard that particular point from so many American men already...

1point

Tahiry Miora 3 years ago

Tim Fischer follower

-1point

Sasy 3 years ago (edited)

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ToGo 3 years ago

12points

hydrostatic joints 3 years ago

3points

Bunny Wood 3 years ago

TV Advertising that treats all men as simpletons with their condescending wives needing to look after them because Men Are So Stupid and Women Are so Smart in Tv land

12points

BoredRaccoon 3 years ago

9points

Mike Crow 3 years ago

Sex work needs to be made legal and regulated to protect the workers.

9points

ProfessionalTimeWaster 3 years ago

I read somewhere that it ended up increasing human trafficking.

0points

Serbob 3 years ago

5points

blugeagua 3 years ago

This all just shows how feminism is important and that the patriarchy harms both women and men.

4points

Lis Daglish 3 years ago

This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

Biljana Malesevic 3 years ago

So many I don't agree with at all. And someone actually compared circumcision with female genital mutilation!

4points

Sasy 3 years ago

4points

Matt Tyson 3 years ago

The thing that I truly hate is that there is little to no support for men when we have PTSD/anxiety. Also, we are mocked, demeaned, looked down on because we have a mental illness.

3points

Samantha Cole 3 years ago

2points

Don't Look 3 years ago

so many questions! location for this definitely matters. what kind of person is he? how old? what is his lifestyle? how long has he been working there? when do you report this? is race involved?

0points

The 5-star rated 5-star rating system 3 years ago

2points

Aroace tiger 3 years ago

Not my parents! My mum works for the whole day and my dad cooks and works for 1 to 2 hours. I think its pretty fair tbh.

2points

Doggo 3 years ago

i 100% agree with this post

1point

Saico Hipe 3 years ago

1point

Sarcasm101 3 years ago

This was a tiktok I found but girls...name one thing u can do without being made fun of

1point

Sarcasm101 3 years ago

Not saying guys don’t get made fun of but seriously. Try

1point

Rae of sun 3 years ago

These made me so mad because I realised how true and how problematic many of them are

1point

mrdmela 3 years ago

Rae of sun -

0points