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Men struggle to give themselves a pat on the back from time to time. No, not because their big muscles can’t reach behind them. We mean appreciating themselves for what they’ve achieved.

A change is needed and thankfully, ‘Dudes Posting Their W’s’ on Twitter is here to show us how. There’s nothing quite like the feeling of accomplishment and it should be shared with the world. The feeling not only boosts you but makes others feel warm and fuzzy inside too.

That’s why Bored Panda has collected the most wholesome W’s (a.k.a. wins) shared by men from the account. We love to see another brother succeed and we hope you do too, but check out wins for the ladies here too. Vote for your favorites to spread the good vibes.

Being a guy can be tough, that’s why it’s important to reflect on the positives in life. With over 1.2M followers of @DudesPostingWs, it’s clear that many feel the same way. The page shares wins from men of all ages and walks of life. Whether it’s a little everyday one or a massive accomplishment, they’re all worth celebrating.

But it can be difficult for men to do this sometimes. It’s not that they don’t feel anything—men simply struggle to put their thoughts into words. Talking about emotions (good ones or bad ones) can seem like an effort and many refuse to open up.

Although it seems like a stereotype that men just can’t talk about their feelings, we need to look into why this is. After all, stereotypes come from people perpetuating the same belief over and over again. Many researchers and psychologists have made it their study to find out why this idea is so ingrained in our culture. 

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On this, the psychotherapist and author Daphne Rose Kingma said, "We've dismissed men as the feelingless gender—we've given up on them. Because of the way boys are socialized, their ability to deal with emotions has been systematically undermined. Men are taught, point-by-point, not to feel, not to cry, and not to find words to express themselves."

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Chucky Cheezburger
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hell yeah man.Good for this dude. Man shouldnt be punished his whole damn life after hes done his time.

Samantha Lomb
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Exactly and then people wonder why criminals go back to a life of crime. If you exclude every other way to make a living . . .

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Kay blue
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you have served your time you should be given a chance. How can we expect offenders to stay away from crime if no one will employ them.

Felype Rennan
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hope his business is doing great, it's so sad that specially in the USA being reintegrated into society is that much hard, and it's so good that he got to keep on keeping on against the odds.;

Sandra Givens
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Running your own business! It's the American dream. Good for him.

Eric Mac Fadden
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In Brazil jail is to train better criminals. I'm happy for this guy

Missy Corron
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hot dog carts.... the original Food truck! My great-grandpa had a hot dog cart when he retired from Iron Work....kept him and his family for 30+ years... he was 99 when he passed. Was out with cart the day before!

cybermerlin2000
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Very happy to see you beating the odds. May your cart always sell out and you cash box be full

Hilary Mol
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Good on you, sir. I'm sorry it's so hard to just live a "regular" life once you've done your time. Instead of waiting for the rainbow/pot of gold, you painted your own rainbow! I hope your success only grows bigger from here. :)

Gary Geracci
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11 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I thought the rule was-Once he or she served their time, they are supposed to be considered"paid in full"

Danielle Renee
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

love the work ethic and ingenuity....but he should look in to food vender permits, if he hasn't already. i'd hate to see him get fined for not getting a simple permit.

Jamie Edwards
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, most place you have to get a back ground check to be a street vendor. That cart would cost about 5k.

Jose Antonio
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i think you misread the post...or you just took this opportunity to make a cheeky response

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Leigh C.
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Weird.... A person does a crime and people want instant justice, and a looong harsh penatly, no sympathy to the criminal. It is what it is. Then when a criminal is out of prison people think it was too short of a sentence, rehabilitation is "hug a thug". When they make something of themselves then everyone is all "Yay. Good job. You did your time. Prisons should be about rehabilitation." I just don't get the conflicting opinions of society. Unless certain stories attract certain opinions.

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Mike Loux
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Where is this dude? What city? We all need to go to his stand, and patronize the crap out of it. Uh, as in, buy his hot dogs, not stand there talking all condescending to him and s**t.

Lolliegag
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Best story I have heard in a very long time! Way to go man, way to go!

Kiran
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And you are your own boss as well! I am so happy for you.

Jaguarundi
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He has reformed and is a productive member of society. He deserves everyone's respect.

Jace
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Prison should be about rehabilitation, not punishment, especially when it never ends after serving their sentence. But instead, we have corporate for-profit prisons.

Cindy M
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't get it. A person in jail serves their time , comes out and society makes it near impossible for them to get anywhere in life. There is no justice in our criminal justice system.

Daniel (ShadowDrakken)
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's so disgusting we do this to people. Once someone has paid their time, they're supposed to be free of that past. Their "debt to society has been paid" is how our legal system is SUPPOSED to work. Yet we continue to treat them as criminals and collect more debt from them for the rest of their lives.

Mike Crow
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I also hate how people get punished for posting photos of themselves on the net.

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Oh murican retardation. What is most important is he avoided being brutally forced into crime again just to eat

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It is learned behavior, not something that is natural to men, or any person for that matter. In fact, research was completed looking at men’s emotional capability whilst still in infancy. Their results found that men are just as capable of expressing themselves emotionally, if not more so than women (at least in their early years). 

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And boys are shaped from very early on in life about what it means to be a “man”. How many times have we heard that “big boys don’t cry”, or the expression “man up”. The word itself has become loaded with connotations of being unwavering and unflinching—showing no emotions or weaknesses.

Men are not some Terminator-type of machines, incapable of feeling anything. Their emotions are as deep as a river but we can only see what’s on the surface, not into their depths. That’s why it seems like a dam bursting when men finally open up about how they’re feeling, and often not in a good way.

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Samantha Lomb
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's adorable. When I was small all the neighborhood boys would come over and ask if "Mr. Ray" ( my dad) could come out and play football with them. My brother would play too. Unfortunately I got banned from football once I grew boobs, which I always felt was slightly unfair

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Samantha Lomb
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hate these kinds of exams. They don't really test a student's academic capabilities and often require expensive prep courses to do well, which just weeds out the poorer people

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Chucky Cheezburger
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Aww hell... I'd wanna play with soooo bad but be so afraid to break them...the AGONYYYYYYYYY.....

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Chucky Cheezburger
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Dang,why yall gotts show stuff like this. Im gonna be goin to work lookin all weepy.

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Eva the Egg
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Omg I watch his videos!!! He is absolutely hilarious. I had no idea he had lost his job

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Kurtz Frausun
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Unless you’ve been there, you probably don’t know truly how much this means.

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Chucky Cheezburger
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Congrats to this guy. It aint easy. I went from size 48 to 33. Nothing like this cat has done.

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Allan Breum
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Being kind and generous just because it "seemed like something fun to do." Man, you rock kid.

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James016
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hate ties but this video will be handy for when I need to wear one next

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Dorothy Parker
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Estimated to have saved the lives of 2.4 million babies. Really astounding.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd definitely get two llamas...some sheep...rabbits...fish. Lol

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Mary Rose Kent
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The left photo is the man standing on the outside ledge of the Golden Gate Bridge, which spans the Gate between the Pacific Ocean and San Francisco Bay. It’s a favored place for suicides. I’m glad they talked him down.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Clever, I should bring mirrors everywhere everyone can be in the photos

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Alexandra Davis
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

*sigh* we're not wheelchair bound we're wheelchair users! I'm not bound to my chair, I use it because my legs don't work. I can get out of it to sleep etc

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Jihana
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It says: A teacher at an elementary school in SC wanted to help little boys with no dad at home so he started an “Gentlemen’s Club” where these littleguys dress up and learn to shake hands, make eye contact, etc. He even has extra jackets and ties for boys who can’t afford them.

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Noel Benavente
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Guy wanted to trade a yellow hood for a white or black one, someone in similar situation answered, cause he had a yellow truck with a white hood.

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Aleksandra
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I just don't get that 'success' to so many Americans means teenage models in bikini on a yacht 🙄

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