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BoomHeadcheese , InstagramInTheWild / Reddit Report

30 Men Don’t Hold Back Revealing What Gives Them "The Ick" About Women I recently visited Santorini. One evening, I had dinner at a place overlooking a very popular spot with an amazing view of the island and the water. I lost count of how many Insta girls dragged their dead-eyed boyfriends there and proceeded to cycle through two dozen look-at-me poses while whining photo instructions. Treating people in your life like props or unpaid crew just so you can appear glamorous on social media is a major ick.

Final score:

282points

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keyboardtek 8 months ago

Everyone carrying a camera around all the time and their need for attention on social media has created a pathological narcissistic world.

109points

Spindlebrook , cottonbro studio / Pexels Report

30 Men Don’t Hold Back Revealing What Gives Them "The Ick" About Women Treating people like servers, bartenders or cashiers like complete garbage is a huge red flag and it shows what type of person they really are.

Final score:

270points

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Michael P (Perthaussieguy) 8 months ago

This works both ways, of course, not just 'women icks'

124points

keepredditliterate , Andrea Piacquadio / Pexels Report

The options these men shared cover a pretty wide range of possible issues. What a woman’s voice sounds like is closer to an ick. After all, everyone has their own preferences, there isn’t exactly an “objective” superior vocal tone. However, a few of the men here seem to have misunderstood the assignment.

After all, a partner who suddenly ghosts you because she feels like it sounds like a nightmare for the vast majority of people. This is less an ick, and more a major behavioral issue. Oftentimes, icks are superficial, physical traits, although those can still bring forth pretty sizable emotions.

30 Men Don’t Hold Back Revealing What Gives Them "The Ick" About Women My big three: Materialism. Sincere belief in Astrology. Kardashian worship.

Final score:

269points

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TheAmericanAmerican 8 months ago

100%

63points

homorob0tic , Priscilla Du Preez 🇨🇦 / Pexels Report

30 Men Don’t Hold Back Revealing What Gives Them "The Ick" About Women When they say s**t like “if he’s under 6 foot or makes less than 100k a year I’m not interested.”

Ironically I am 6’2 and make over that, it’s not about feeling secure it’s just about being annoyed by idiocy.

Final score:

253points

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Doctor Strange 8 months ago

You are not an amusement park ride, you don't need a "you must be this tall" sign

114points

30 Men Don’t Hold Back Revealing What Gives Them "The Ick" About Women I am a simple man, but botox lips is an instant turn of.

Shappe , 16vvene / Reddit Report

Final score:

248points

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Bilja M 8 months ago

You mean filler in lips? I don't think they put botox in lips.

114points

Ds0990 , Andrea Piacquadio / Pexels Report

30 Men Don’t Hold Back Revealing What Gives Them "The Ick" About Women Racism. Had a girl call a group of black kids the nword because they very slightly delayed us. Like literally they were just walking across the crosswalk.

Never went from 100% to 0 that fast. She was so confused why I didn't want to stay the night with her.

Final score:

241points

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BoredPossum 8 months ago

Racism is below the lowest of the low. I'd keep far away from any racists, men or women. It's just evil. It's not even zero interest, but -100 interest.

132points

DiscombobulatedDome Report

30 Men Don’t Hold Back Revealing What Gives Them "The Ick" About Women When every other word that comes out of her mouth is "like". Drives me crazy.

Final score:

219points

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Angela B 8 months ago

As a female, this drives me nuts as well.

114points

30 Men Don’t Hold Back Revealing What Gives Them "The Ick" About Women Phone addiction.

Doc911:
Phone addiction which too often is just social media addiction. The worse of this addiction results in "phubbing."

If she's already on the phone all the time with insta/texts/messages, you already feel like you're never alone with her. Your time together is always shared. If on top of that she's on the phone for social reasons when you are specifically trying to spend time together ... rude, lack of respect, and a clear sign whatever is on that phone is more important than you are. Most women wouldn't tolerate it, men should not either.

anon , Pixabay / Pexels Report

Final score:

170points

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Tobias Reaper 8 months ago

i had a friend like this i am guy but we were just mates we used to grab a coffee or lunch together but she would always be texting on her phone when we hung out i started to not enjoy being around her its fine to answer a text but to be on the phone the whole time and not be present i cant help but feel like i must be boring

49points

redditaccount300000 , cottonbro studio / Pexels Report

#10

30 Men Don’t Hold Back Revealing What Gives Them "The Ick" About Women I hate this trend where women are getting work done surgery/botox/filler to try an achieve that ig/tiktok influencer look. IT LOOKS SO FAKE AND UNNATURAL. Not to mention everyone just look f****n homogenous so no one stands out with whatever unique beauty they might’ve had.

Final score:

169points

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Angela B 8 months ago

Clones with long straight hair, centre-part, duck face with caterpillar eyelashes and artifical mammaries is a thing. It's a bleugh thing.

92points

LookOutForThatMoose , Yogas Design / Unsplash Report

#11

30 Men Don’t Hold Back Revealing What Gives Them "The Ick" About Women When their dating profile is a list of qualities they want in a man, but doesn't say anything about what they're like or what they bring to a relationship.

Final score:

160points

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Dirk Daring 8 months ago

When their entire profile is "Just ask." No thank you. You couldn't be bothered to find one interesting thing to say about yourself, and that tells me all I need to know. Bye.

54points

WeirdFishes92 , Caio Renato de Campos / Pexels Report

#12

30 Men Don’t Hold Back Revealing What Gives Them "The Ick" About Women Baby voice outside of talking to a baby or animal.

Final score:

152points

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Caroline Nagel 8 months ago

Little girl or baby voice on an adult woman is cringy and irritating.

89points

mrtzjam , Polina Zimmerman / Pexels Report

#13

30 Men Don’t Hold Back Revealing What Gives Them "The Ick" About Women When they always portray themselves as the victim and take zero responsibility.

Final score:

151points

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BoredPossum 8 months ago

Any behaviour that you would expect from a 5 year old.

44points

satans-ballsacks , cottonbro studio / pexels Report

#14

30 Men Don’t Hold Back Revealing What Gives Them "The Ick" About Women I'm a lesbian, so I hope I can wage in here.... Obsession of TikTok and Taylor Swift. Like I like Taylor, but paying thousand of euros for tickets and acting like a psycho when someone say anything bad...no...also that TikTok gf behavior, ex.expecting people to treat her like a queen, without her doing anything to deserve that.

Look I treat my gfs like queens, but they don't act entitled to it, they also deserve it.

Final score:

134points

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Guess Undheit 8 months ago

I have never understood wanting to know about the personal lives of musicians. It reeks of a lack of personality or fantasizing in the obsessed fan.

48points

#15

30 Men Don’t Hold Back Revealing What Gives Them "The Ick" About Women Caring more about their appearance on social media than their real life.

ryanbro376 , Tofros.com / Pexels Report

Final score:

134points

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BoredPossum 8 months ago

Caring more about their appearance than being a good person.

59points

ethman14 , RDNE Stock project / Pexels Report

#16

30 Men Don’t Hold Back Revealing What Gives Them "The Ick" About Women Demanding emotional vulnerability and using it as a weapon after the guy's opened up. One of the worst betrayals someone can pull on a man, and if I'm talking to a woman who casually mentions a previous bf/lover and talks s**t about his vulnerabilities behind his back in conversation? I'm out, you can handle the check.

Final score:

130points

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Papa 8 months ago (edited)

Women say they want a man to be vulnerable, but all too often they see it as weakness.

45points

#17

30 Men Don’t Hold Back Revealing What Gives Them "The Ick" About Women If she’s hardcore religious or even remotely religious for that matter. I don’t want a woman who’s going to expect me to be some godly, spiritual leader of the house or relationship….

kgaviation Report

Final score:

124points

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Lydsylou (she/her) 8 months ago

Fair enough. I'm religious but I don't think I'd want a partner who wasn't because it would make things more complicated if we believed different things. But each to their own

62points

OkAnything4877 , Brett Sayles / Pexels Report

#18

30 Men Don’t Hold Back Revealing What Gives Them "The Ick" About Women Only has guy “friends”. Claims other women are “too much drama”. Coincidentally is always involved in drama and loves gossip. Always talks about “haters” and “fans”. Social media bio: “Keep lurking sis 💅💋✨🧿”.

Final score:

117points

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Enuya 8 months ago

I agree with most of it, except of "only guy friends". I have almost exclusively male friends and colleagues, because most of my hobbies are male-dominated (like, I only found 2 women interested in them in my area - one is my sister, the other one and I didn't "click"). I don't badmouth other women and/or think that I'm better than them, it's just that it's easier for mw to find male friends

60points

pineapple87 8 months ago

I hear you. I do have many girl friends, but I've always struggled to fit in with other girls, I especially feel uncomfortable in groups of all women. I just find that the conversation and behaviour tends to become very cliquey and high school like, and I just can't relate. In my opinion, mixed groups work best.

0points

Cerridwn d'Wyse 8 months ago

Yeah. What's awesome the only female nerd or geek Within a group

0points

Daniela Lavanza 8 months ago

Same here, I get along very few women as I'm rather tomboyish in my hobbies. I always felt less jealousy from men, and appreciated how outspoken they can be. Not everyone is the same, and I was probably merely unlucky but making female friends has always been very hard to me.

0points

Marnie 8 months ago

Yeah, I'm in my 50s, read Sci Fi, train parkour, play drums, play Magic: The Gathering, and D&D (Pathfinder, actually), and listen to metal. Of course there are women into all those things, but not that many, and none of them have every had any interest in me - they are always too cool.

-1point

Annie Bennett 8 months ago

I have always had more male friends than women, I am not interested about baby stories, how much that dress costs, what kind of makeup to wear, getting manicures and pedicures. Now talk about farming, building, repairs. camping, fishing, animals. Now I am listening.

-1point

Nichole Harris 8 months ago

OMG this yes!!! And I avoid drama like the plague....

-3points

BarkingSquirell 8 months ago

Some women get tired of women, too. If you aren't a person who gossips, does brunch and speaks in a high octave really loudly, men are a welcome relief. Of course, most of them move on after getting a SO, but it's just really nice to be in a no b******t environment.

6points

Pheebs 8 months ago

Thank you! I’m down to all guy friends at this point, so I guess I’m a giant red flag. But, jfc, one by one I had to say bye to the female friends due to crazy drama, backstabbing, and just general self-centeredness. It was exhausting. I’ll stick with my group of guys who have zero interest in dating me. Plus, I work with all guys so I’m used to that.

1point

Lara Verne 8 months ago

'Not like other girls'

4points

Tamra 8 months ago (edited)

There seems to be quite a few of them in this thread.

0points

Bookworm5000 8 months ago

This is the definition of a pick-me girl.

2points

Stealthzilla 8 months ago

Well I’m fine if she has guy friends and my gf is fine if I have girl friends as long as you guys aren’t actually messing around with those friends (yesterday she had a problem with it but idk what happened there, normally she’s fine)

1point

StrangeOne 8 months ago

I, too, get a long better with guys, just by experiencing so much backstabbing and fake friends of fellow girls. All this commraderie that girls claim to have for one another is all talk and surface friendly. I've had girls give me compliments while out. Invite me to sit at their table, in the same breath mentioning they don't want to see me sitting alone at the bar like a loser. But I could NEVER be their friend. If I try to continue to build a rapport they will stop being friendly. At my work I wanted to be nice and offer a lady a way to contact me. She insisted on giving me her snapchat number. It ended up being a fake one. She, then, started being passive aggressive. I also found out all the things she claimed to be dealing with a complete lie. The men I meet are usually straight-forward, don't mince words and I know pretty quick if they're interested in getting to know me more or stay acquaintances. I still have some friends of both sexes. Jealousy is an ugly fungal rot.

1point

Violet Radar 8 months ago

I mostly have guy friends. I don't think women are too much drama, most of my female friends have been so stupid when it comes to men that I lose respect for them (acting like Chelsea on Love is Blind) or they betray me somehow. But the rare find of a truly strong woman who is true to her sisters are the keepers. One of my best friends is young enough to be my daughter so it seems weird, but she's one of the strongest women I know and I have so much respect for her. Plus she's a ton of fun. A woman only wanting to be close to strong women with integrity doesn't make that woman a "pick me" girl. It makes her discerning.

0points

DoubleDoubleTiredAndTuckered 8 months ago

Yknow, the whole “only has guy friends” is a bit weird to me, I’m a guy and I have mostly female friends. Lol.

0points

Bella Grasso 8 months ago

I have mainly guy friends but I have one or two female friends.

0points

PossiblyWorking33 , Mikhail Nilov / Pexels Report

#19

30 Men Don’t Hold Back Revealing What Gives Them "The Ick" About Women Based solely on my experience? Believes in astrology. Has untreated borderline personality disorder. Stays friends with people who have hurt them. Lack of social awareness.

Final score:

114points

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Enuya 8 months ago

Interestingly, BOTH of really obsessed with astrology/being a witch people I knew were later diagnosed with borderline. It's probably a coincidence though

23points

#20

Inability to admit to and apologize for doing rude or s****y things.

For example:

"Hey, did you eat the food I made before bed? That was my breakfast. I told you I didn't have time to cook anything before work, now I'm gonna be late."

"What makes you think that I ate it? Why are you assuming it was me?!?"

"We're the only two people living here, and you asked me about it before I went to sleep."

"Maybe you ate it and forgot!"

"No, I didn't drink last night. We had no guests over. I passed out right after putting it away, and now it's gone. I'm less upset about you eating it than I am that you're not being honest."

"FINE. EVERYTHINGS ALWAYS MY FAULT, YOU A*****E! I GUESS I WON'T EAT ANYTHING ANYMORE!" *storms away*

I've been in this type of scenario more times than I can recall. Just admit what you did and apologize, I'll forget about it in an hour. Freaking out instead of being honest just leads me to eventually breaking off the relationship.

GOOD_EVENING_SIR Report

Final score:

112points

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Nina 8 months ago

Gaslighting is so charming...

59points

LeeroyTC , Monstera Production / Pexels Report

#21

30 Men Don’t Hold Back Revealing What Gives Them "The Ick" About Women Excessive vocal fry. Sounding like a Kardashian/Jenner is the opposite of attractive.

Final score:

105points

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Trillian 8 months ago

I never knew what that was until a couple of years ago on vacation I heard two American women talk like that. It sounded SO weird. Is that a thing in real life or just some wanna-be star thing?

30points

uytulup , RDNE Stock project / Pexels Report

#22

30 Men Don’t Hold Back Revealing What Gives Them "The Ick" About Women Tries to force beliefs, diets, etc onto others - i don’t give a damn what you believe in, what you will or won’t eat, whatever, but if you try to convince, guilt trip, etc your beliefs/systems onto me, or another person, i don’t trust that you’re a very good person.

Final score:

99points

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Iseabail Munro 8 months ago

I have a bunch of beliefs, values and been veggie for 20+ yrs and even I hate when people try and push s**t on others. These are my choices and I made them myself, you can't make them for others. I cook meat for my husband, I'll answer questions he has about my faith but always allow the topic to come up naturally and vice versa. You should never get together with someone with the intent to change them, choose them because they're right for you not because you can make them right for you.

22points

Space__Ninja , Andrea Piacquadio / Pexels Report

#23

30 Men Don’t Hold Back Revealing What Gives Them "The Ick" About Women If they never initiate.

I don’t mean sex. I mean if the only time we talk or get together is if *I* make the first move.

I get enough of that with my friends, and I hate feeling like I gotta micromanage my relationships because I’ll just be left behind again if I let someone else take the lead.

Final score:

98points

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Shark Lady 8 months ago

I would want to initiate but there is only so much rejection you can take before you start retreating back into yourself. Now I think it's best if I don't put myself out there because I don't want to have to build myself back up yet again.

30points

#24

30 Men Don’t Hold Back Revealing What Gives Them "The Ick" About Women The ones who think they need to cut down every other female they see. It's repulsive.

No, Karen. I didn't notice the top that woman was wearing until you pointed it out, but even now that I have, it's still not as tacky as the sewage you keep spewing from your mouth.

jtf3983 Report

Final score:

91points

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Rachel Pelz 8 months ago

I'm confused. Does he mean he doesn't like Karen or he doesn't women criticising Karen?

3points

#25

Women that think it's cute to be a near non-functioning adult. My ex loved to rely on me/others for like everything, almost took pride in having no idea how to use public transport of find her way around.

sunburn95 Report

Final score:

90points

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TheAmericanAmerican 8 months ago

Gross.

20points

Additional-Stay-4355 , KoolShooters / Pexels Report

#26

30 Men Don’t Hold Back Revealing What Gives Them "The Ick" About Women The silent treatment. It’s passive aggressive, manipulative, whack b******t.

Final score:

85points

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Pheebs 8 months ago

I do this sometimes, but usually it’s so what comes out of my mouth is reasonable, and not a ticked off scream. Plus, if the person you’re mad at doesn’t f’ing listen when you tell them why, then it kind of becomes pointless to try to explain it.

25points

wesagod , RDNE Stock project / Pexels Report

#27

30 Men Don’t Hold Back Revealing What Gives Them "The Ick" About Women When a woman doesn’t hold herself to the same standard that she holds her man. Not to say that the roles and responsibilities of each party need to be exactly the same in any given relationship, but it’s the worst when a woman acts a certain way/has a certain attitude but gets upset when the man acts that way as well.

Final score:

84points

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Kate Jones 8 months ago

The mean mommy problem. Some women feel like they need to be your mom instead of your partner. But sometimes that's triggered by a guy acting like a child. Either way...it's horrible.

15points

TattedPastor412 , RDNE Stock project / Pexels Report

#28

30 Men Don’t Hold Back Revealing What Gives Them "The Ick" About Women Rude and demeaning attitudes. Like aggressively rude or demeaning. That ends it for me.

Final score:

73points

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keyboardtek 8 months ago

Snarky comments and snide remarks about other people behind their backs. Always feeling superior to other people.

11points

DesperateMolasses103 , Gustavo Fring / Pexels Report

#29

30 Men Don’t Hold Back Revealing What Gives Them "The Ick" About Women When they don’t know how to have a conversation unless it’s talking bad about someone.

Final score:

69points

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THE COOL ZACH 8 months ago

That’s just sad.

5points

ASVP_M3L , Elijah O'Donnell / Pexels Report

#30

30 Men Don’t Hold Back Revealing What Gives Them "The Ick" About Women No reciprocation of efforts.

u/AyybrahamLmaocoln:
If you don’t let me know in some way that you’re feeling me after I’ve made it clear I’m feeling you, then I stop pursuing. It happens a good amount, and a week later they’ll ask why I stopped trying to spend time with them.

Final score:

60points

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TheAmericanAmerican 8 months ago

We men are simple creatures. We don't like the "mind games" much. We like direct communication.

42points

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#31

30 Men Don’t Hold Back Revealing What Gives Them "The Ick" About Women If I'm the only one who can even start a text conversation, it just tells me I'm only there to be an ego boost. For example, I MUST be the one to say "good morning" first. If not, I'm met with silence, possibly for a few days, followed by a passive-aggressive message about me, "not being interested."

I'm in my late 40s. I broke up with my first girlfriend in grade 7 over this exact issue. (Phone calls, not texts, obviously) If you want to play immature foolish games, go find an immature fool.

Final score:

26points

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Alexandra 8 months ago

I'm old, I admit it, but boy, does this dating sound complicated. It's as if people have to follow a script or something. Don't things develop naturally anymore?

9points

#32

Smoking.

After seeing my mom die emaciated, unable to breathe, and unable to even go to the bathroom all because of emphysema caused by a lifetime of smoking... yeah, f**k that s**t.

BloodSteyn Report

Final score:

25points

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TheAmericanAmerican 8 months ago

For sure! You can be a 11/10 but as soon as I see you light up or stick an adult pacifier(e-cig/vape) in your mouth, you instantly drop to a 3. Sorry, not sorry.

10points

#33

30 Men Don’t Hold Back Revealing What Gives Them "The Ick" About Women No hobbies (people who cannot amuse themself usually demand your full attention making you unable to practice your own hobbies).

POLlCEFORCE Report

Final score:

24points

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keyboardtek 8 months ago

The others who demand attention all the time are those in the entertainment industry. Actresses and vocalists expect everyone to be enamored and awed by them.

0points

Brave_Exchange4734 Report

#34

Attitude, entitlement.

Final score:

24points

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Regina Holt 8 months ago

We are all human, trying to make it through this life. You are no better than I am, and I am no better than you are. Don't give me attitude because you think you are entitled to something. Just go away

4points

#35

A lack of EQ or social awareness.

The kind of person who is extremely inappropriate in public for example, or behaves in a way that has people staring at you (not in a good way).

RussoRoma Report

Final score:

22points

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Charles McChristy 8 months ago

This is in the same vein as women who chose to communicate the way they do because they enjoy the shock value of it. That sh!t got old in middle school. On adults it is just disgusting.

6points

#36

Lack of clear and effective communication. If you want/don't want something, make that excessively clear, no ambiguity at all. If it's a big thing and the other person isn't getting it, make sure you sit them down in a non-emotionally charged situation, warn them you're going to be talking about something serious, and then go over it with them until they get it.
Source: my now ex wife wasn't communicative and now basically hates me because I didn't realise how upset she was about some stuff.

Edumacator239 Report

Final score:

21points

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Nina 8 months ago

From the other side: I've had those conversations with my ex and he didn't take them seriously. He said it would've been clear to him if I put my suitcase at the door. Honey, if my suitcase is at the door, it's too late and it's leaving with me.

5points

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#37

Body odors, bad breath, poor feminine hygiene. It's very hard to be attracted to someone when they smell like a dumpster.

Ok_Environment7455 Report

Final score:

21points

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keyboardtek 8 months ago

On the opposite end, too much perfume. I prefer smelling the actual scent of the woman. Who wants to gag on chemicals?

14points

#38

Romantasizing/unable to move past their ex's, and refusing to stop messaging them because "they're really important to me".

KeisuketheLoser Report

Final score:

20points

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Diolla 8 months ago

There is a difference between not being over someone and just staying in touch. I've stayed in touch with several of my exes because we still friends. Doesn't mean I still want them as a partner. Actually sometimes it turns out being friends works out much better than being partners.

6points

lahdetaan_tutkimaan Report

#39

If they have extreme political viewpoints.

Final score:

19points

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Kate Jones 8 months ago

You have to be with someone who has the same viewpoints as you if they feel strongly about it, or else the relationship isn't going to work. If you are both moderate and don't really care that's fine. If one person is moderate and the other is extreme, sometimes that can work but even that can have problems because the extreme person is always trying to convert you, like it's a cult. And if you're both extreme, you'd better believe the exact same things otherwise you're destined to explode. It's like Chris Rock says, if you're a crackhead, your girl needs to be a crackhead too or it ain't gonna work.

6points

#40

I love redheads, like, lose the ability to think, and I met a woman at work, played it cool for a few weeks, didn’t want to creep in, we’re at work you know? So one morning we were both in early and she was eating at a table, I asked if I could sit too, she seemed delighted, yay. I’ve never spoken to her before.

We start talking, she immediately tells me about her morning going poorly, I asked more about it.

She didn’t pay for her train, got a fine for putting her feet on the chair on train she didn’t pay for.

Well……I got a derection, in that 4-5 minutes of conversation, she went from being a beautiful woman, to a scumbag.

Disrespectful behaviour towards others. My biggest ick.

Australian_Guy_ Report

Final score:

18points

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Rachel Pelz 8 months ago

Love "derection" 😂😂

17points

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#41

Overly Jealous. Had a gf once who wouldn’t let it go how I “stared” at her roommate when she walked into the living room where we were hanging out with only a towel on her head after shower. Didnt get mad at the roommate, just was my fault for looking at someone the same way I always would when they walk in.

BrainShort7824 Report

Final score:

18points

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Papa 8 months ago

Her roommate walked out basically nude after showering? Most men would be staring, assuming she was at least reasonably attractive.

7points

#42

Arrogance and too much self love. The endless mirror selfies, overdoing make up, the RBF. When they immediately go to low blows (“he must have a small dickkk!”). The attitude, sense of entitlement, and condescending behavior.

calmanxiety88 Report

Final score:

18points

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Mmmm 8 months ago

about the RBF, i have one but as soon as someone talks to me or smiles at me i look so nice

3points

#43

I will get downvoted for this but, high levels of promiscuity is a major turn off for me.

No_Forever_5678 Report

Final score:

17points

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Johnnynatfan 8 months ago

I dont judge women for sleeping around a bit. Hell Ive done it. Now if they are doing it when they are supposed to be in a relationship with you thats different but if shes single and doing her thing let her be.

6points

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#44

Expecting me to be like a parent and always take the lead. Can be exhausting.

Want someone with their own drive and proactivity for what they want.

Neanderthal888 Report

Final score:

16points

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BoredPossum 8 months ago

Expecting their man to be the best guy they've ever met, but getting hysterical when he is better than her.

0points

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#45

Negativity (not all days are good, but people who complain about every detail even if their day would be considered amazing by most are a pain).

POLlCEFORCE Report

Final score:

15points

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keyboardtek 8 months ago

If someone you know is often in a bad mood that lasts all day in negativity, they may have bipolar disorder, or even a sleep disorder where they wake up already pissed off and grumpy because they did not get enough good sleep.

4points

#46

Unable to put an proper sentence together, no critical thinking skills.

darkcave-dweller Report

Final score:

14points

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Stardust she/her 8 months ago

Dumb now is that very

7points

iLikeDickColonThree Report

#47

Please be clean for THE LOVE OF GOD BE CLEAN.

Final score:

13points

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Me Oh My 8 months ago

Clean, as in d**g-free, or clean as in personal hygiene?

6points

#48

Alcohol…. Ruined a really good thing.

Programmerofson Report

Final score:

13points

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BoredPossum 8 months ago

Nah, alcohol is fine. Excessive drinking is very bad though.

17points

#49

A lot of my icks have already been mentioned, but here's a couple I haven't seen yet:

Using nothing but emojis to communicate over text. When I'm asking for date ideas, I'd like replies with words in them, not massive walls of emojis.

Talking about nothing but work. Dated one girl who pretty much had no personality outside of her job. Every conversation was all about work, work, work. My brain is not wired that way, and I almost never talk about my job once I've clocked out. People like that are just exhausting.

Lastly, Horse Girls. Horse Girls are insane. If she owns a horse, RUN.

1031BRZRKR Report

Final score:

13points

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Rachel Pelz 8 months ago

Peculiar. Horse girls are not insane but just peculiar.

7points

Woman Moves Out Of Parents' Home After They Asked Her To Give Her Space To Brother, They Freak Out

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Mom Leaves $250k Inheritance To Son, Throws A Fit When Daughter Stops Looking After Her

#50

Girls who push you away and then expect to be chased. Huge ick and generally a red flag that signals you will be expected to do everything in the relationship. No partnership there.

Also double standards. For example, it's okay for a woman to turn down her mans advances, but when he turns down hers then he's being insensitive or cruel. That one also reeks of manipulative behavior.

Finally, have a job and be working towards some sort of career. You don't need college degree, but working a retail job with no future prospects aint gonna cut it.

ShenaniganNinja Report

Final score:

12points

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Kate Jones 8 months ago

I agree with your fist two things, but I'm a little torn about the last one. Not everyone has the same experience as you. Someone people haven't had the opportunities to advance in their careers and simply don't know what they want to do because they've been too busy paying the bills. I couldn't afford to take risks to try a new career or 'find myself' because I don't have someone's couch I could sleep on if it didn't work out. It's also a double-edged sword because you can work somewhere long enough to be making above minimum wage, but still not get paid well, but starting over might mean starting at the bottom again, or intern for nothing, and I couldn't afford that. I understand your feeling about someone working a dead end job forever, but if you can't switch without it being a boost in your pay, then it's really dangerous. And that scenario is pretty rare because unless it offers free paid training you can't afford to do it.

15points

#51

Political correctness for popularity.

Rightyrightwing Report

Final score:

12points

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CK 8 months ago

Virtue signaling is annoying, but I suspect "Rightyrightwing" might just be one of those people who doesn't like when people aren't racist.

6points

#52

Obsessive behaviour.

Richy1077 Report

Final score:

12points

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Regina Holt 8 months ago

I have some OCD (diagnosed) stuff I do, but it doesn't really affect the other people, so this needs some clarification. If something I do does affect others, I can see why they would not want to spend time with me. But most of my OCD behaviors are just me being me.

4points

#53

Complaining too much.

Aegon_R Report

Final score:

10points

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THE COOL ZACH 8 months ago

Its sad though you have a nice house etc.etc but you can’t enjoy that because the more you complain the less you enjoy just how lucky you are.

1point

Woman Refuses To Chip In For Babysitting Because She Doesn’t Even Have Kids, Asks If She’s A Jerk

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“This Breaks My Heart”: People Stunned—And Angry—After Woman Buys Lost Luggage From Airport

#54

When I hear “You are too deep” or even worse “you think too much.”.

Various-Half505 Report

Final score:

10points

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BoredPossum 8 months ago

Nope, she'd be right. I do overthink.

4points

"I Didn't Start The Dryer": Karen Gets Taught A Lesson After Throwing Out Neighbor's Wet Clothes

#55

Emotional unavailability.

babbers-underbite Report

Final score:

9points

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#56

When they don't practice what they preach. Sure I might not be the nicest guy and seem prickly to some, but when it comes down to it people have said that I'm really easy to talk to and be around. Yet I need something to work with, and some women tend to double down and are not as accountable as they expect men to be. Some don't return the liberties and other things that they expect from men either. It's sort of hard to convey that the way I react to stuff like I mentioned here from women it's exactly how I would with other men. Some women just expect men to fix everything and act like any conflict between men and women is one sided af.

Whappingtime Report

Final score:

8points

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Guy Divorced 3 Years Ago Drops Off 3 Y.O. With His Ex-Wife Completely Out Of The Blue

#57

A red flag is somebody who primarily defines their personality off of another person. You do you.

FisheyGaze Report

Final score:

7points

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Daniela Lavanza 8 months ago

"Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.” Oscar Wilde

5points

#58

Went on a date once, I asked the girl "what kind of music do you listen to?"

She replied "whatever is Top 40."

Listening to artists who *happen* to be top 40 is one thing, but that response is basically "I listen to whatever everyone else is listening to" which is boring af at best, weird and disturbing at worst.

Kosmonavtlar1961 Report

Final score:

6points

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BoredPossum 8 months ago

It could be a funny way to say that she listens to the radio.

9points

#59

Dirty feet.

JoshuaLukacs1 Report

Final score:

5points

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I’ll have a treble thanks. 8 months ago

Is that dirty from going barefoot or dirty dirty?

2points

#60

Weirdly - Butterfly tattoos.

Mongorize Report

Final score:

2points

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Donald 8 months ago

Dated someone with a butterfly tramp stamp, never again.

2points

“All Three Shot Out Pink”: Triplets' Baby Shower Turns Sour, Pregnant Wife Wants A Divorce

#61

Clinginess, “it’s giving x”, “we love a x”.

snazzy_giraffe Report

Final score:

-10points

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Dark Pearl 8 months ago

it's giving insecure little boy

0points

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College Student Does Exactly As Told After Roommates Demand They Keep Their Stuff In Their Room

#62

High body count, posts revealing pics on IG. Has snapchat, still talks to her ex, has a lot of guy “friends”.

Danish-Investor Report

Final score:

-18points

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Me Oh My 8 months ago

This one just seems like OP is kind of insecure.

10points

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What do you think ?

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Dan 8 months ago

The way that some girls/women end every sentence with a question mark is annoying?

21points

Flora Porter 8 months ago

And the cutesie spelling that doesn't makeeeeee senseeeee phonetically. You even see it on BP. Drives me nuts.

18points

Pandapoo 8 months ago

Why did you end your statement with a question mark? lol

2points

Tamra 8 months ago

Yes. Drives me mad.

0points

Doctor Strange 8 months ago

Treating me like a backup option. I went out with a girl one time, it did not go great for various reasons. It was over when she told me her dream was to get a job in a certain field, but on the other side of the country from me. I had already told her, before we even went on that date, that I wasn't looking to move out of my general area, because my last long term relationship ended precisely because she took a job on the other side of the country. So it ended, I, gently, let her know I wasn't interested in a second date. We parted ways. Then a few weeks later she reaches out to me again, wanting a second date, because she couldn't get her dream job, and all the other guys she had gone out with were losers. I said no. Because she wasn't asking me out because she wanted ME, she was asking me out because she couldn't get what she really wanted and so she'd settle for me. At least until something better came along.

9points

Jennifer Clayton 8 months ago

After one date, she doesn't know you enough to choose you over a job. Since you were in the "let's see where this goes" phase, backup option is legit. The "change your life to choose me" should only come much later, after deep feelings are established.

11points

Alex Gataric 8 months ago

You turned down her offer of a situationship? How dare you.

1point

Hey! 8 months ago

Yep, you were smart enough to see it too.

0points

Shane S 8 months ago (edited)

Enforcing hypermasculinity. If I want to watch a RomCom, then let me. If I want to take a bubble bath, so what? Maybe my favorite color is Purple. You’re most likely going to get more fulfillment out of your relationship if you let men be who they are and not try to stick your social stereotypes on them. Insecurity and shame is what breeds insincerity and secrecy.

7points

Marnie 8 months ago

My ex-husband used to occasionally like to take a bath with a beer and some chocolate. More power to him, I thought. (I get the remote for an hour!)

2points

Jayjay 8 months ago

Many of these posts can be reversed for men as well.

7points

Paul Rabit 8 months ago (edited)

I’d say that’s typical for these types of lists. Barring the usual stray opinion that winds up grossly generalizing a gender, I think most folks just don’t want to be in a relationship with an AH.

22points

DB 8 months ago

Being "one of the boys". If that's your nature then fine. Some guys like it. I just don't.

4points

KillerKiwi 8 months ago

Lots of these weren’t specific to women

4points

Simba 8 months ago

She contradicts herself all the time. Say something, mean something else. Yes means no means yes means no.

2points

Tobias Reaper 8 months ago

i dont get the jealousy thing my bestie who is a woman gets jealous if we are out together and there is a nice looking woman i dont know why she gets jealous we aren't a couple just friends makes no sense to me

2points

Emma S 8 months ago (edited)

Are you sure she doesn't have feelings for you? I've got male friends and I'd never get jealous of them looking at or speaking to another woman. If anything, I'd encourage him to go for it if they are both single. I think you and your bestie need to talk because that is weird behavior for someone who is just a friend.

5points

theoneandonlynoira 8 months ago

Most of these apply to both genders

1point

BarkingSquirell 8 months ago

I have to say that all of these entries are repulsive behaviour. This is why some women don't have female friends. If one is lucky, one finds a stable, enjoyable friend.

1point

DoubleDoubleTiredAndTuckered 8 months ago

You know, I’m glad they included the lesbian :D 🏳️‍🌈

1point

xWILTED_ROSEx 8 months ago

yes, *the* one lol

2points

Happy Sunshine Panda 8 months ago

What do people have against astrology?

1point

Surenu 8 months ago

Evidence

10points

DB 8 months ago

Common sense.

3points

Happy Sunshine Panda 8 months ago

Just want to clarify- I KNOW that astrology is nonsense. I just think it’s fun to sort people by planets and stuff.

2points

Rodney McKay 8 months ago

"What do people have against astrology?" That question is a huge red flag.

-1point

Olu Bakare (BVKVRE) 5 months ago

When they talk about how independent they are and how much money they make in their jobs and then look at you to pay the bill. Hate that.

0points

Alphonse Louis 8 months ago (edited)

Something curious is that people can't keep reading to the end. The number of reactions is never higher than any of the previous ones, which means that people quit as the article goes on. Sad.

0points

Patricia Baltasar 8 months ago

As a Portuguese woman, I found that going to the US and speaking with most girls my age was like going to the Movie Theater and watching a teen show... I'm 40yo already...

0points

Sherryl Anne 8 months ago

Gossip, I missed seeing Gossip Talk. I truly don't care what other people are doing or saying, especially if that person has nothing to do with my life.

0points

DRMAGDN 8 months ago

I think selfishness in general is a bummer from both guys, girls and groups of people. I really dig people who have a bit of empathy these days more than the alternative.

0points

Rodney McKay 8 months ago

Big turn-off: wearing clothes that over-emphasize her breasts, as if that's what she expects to make her attractive. Bonus antipoints if she's just itching for an excuse to use the phrase "I'm up here!".Personally, I like women who wear T-shirts, and not tight ones.

-2points

Chris M 8 months ago

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-2points

Power puff scientist 8 months ago

ok chad

1point

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Dan 8 months ago

The way that some girls/women end every sentence with a question mark is annoying?

21points

Flora Porter 8 months ago

And the cutesie spelling that doesn't makeeeeee senseeeee phonetically. You even see it on BP. Drives me nuts.

18points

Pandapoo 8 months ago

Why did you end your statement with a question mark? lol

2points

Tamra 8 months ago

Yes. Drives me mad.

0points

Doctor Strange 8 months ago

9points

Jennifer Clayton 8 months ago

11points

Alex Gataric 8 months ago

You turned down her offer of a situationship? How dare you.

1point

Hey! 8 months ago

Yep, you were smart enough to see it too.

0points

Shane S 8 months ago (edited)

7points

Marnie 8 months ago

My ex-husband used to occasionally like to take a bath with a beer and some chocolate. More power to him, I thought. (I get the remote for an hour!)

2points

Jayjay 8 months ago

Many of these posts can be reversed for men as well.

7points

Paul Rabit 8 months ago (edited)

22points

DB 8 months ago

Being "one of the boys". If that's your nature then fine. Some guys like it. I just don't.

4points

KillerKiwi 8 months ago

Lots of these weren’t specific to women

4points

Simba 8 months ago

She contradicts herself all the time. Say something, mean something else. Yes means no means yes means no.

2points

Tobias Reaper 8 months ago

2points

Emma S 8 months ago (edited)

5points

theoneandonlynoira 8 months ago

Most of these apply to both genders

1point

BarkingSquirell 8 months ago

I have to say that all of these entries are repulsive behaviour. This is why some women don't have female friends. If one is lucky, one finds a stable, enjoyable friend.

1point

DoubleDoubleTiredAndTuckered 8 months ago

You know, I’m glad they included the lesbian :D 🏳️‍🌈

1point

xWILTED_ROSEx 8 months ago

yes, *the* one lol

2points

Happy Sunshine Panda 8 months ago

What do people have against astrology?

1point

Surenu 8 months ago

Evidence

10points

DB 8 months ago

Common sense.

3points

Happy Sunshine Panda 8 months ago

Just want to clarify- I KNOW that astrology is nonsense. I just think it’s fun to sort people by planets and stuff.

2points

Rodney McKay 8 months ago

"What do people have against astrology?" That question is a huge red flag.

-1point

Olu Bakare (BVKVRE) 5 months ago

When they talk about how independent they are and how much money they make in their jobs and then look at you to pay the bill. Hate that.

0points

Alphonse Louis 8 months ago (edited)

Something curious is that people can't keep reading to the end. The number of reactions is never higher than any of the previous ones, which means that people quit as the article goes on. Sad.

0points

Patricia Baltasar 8 months ago

As a Portuguese woman, I found that going to the US and speaking with most girls my age was like going to the Movie Theater and watching a teen show... I'm 40yo already...

0points

Sherryl Anne 8 months ago

Gossip, I missed seeing Gossip Talk. I truly don't care what other people are doing or saying, especially if that person has nothing to do with my life.

0points

DRMAGDN 8 months ago

I think selfishness in general is a bummer from both guys, girls and groups of people. I really dig people who have a bit of empathy these days more than the alternative.

0points

Rodney McKay 8 months ago

-2points

Chris M 8 months ago

This comment has been deleted.

-2points

Power puff scientist 8 months ago

ok chad

1point