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We're learning all our lives. But some things and experiences teach us more than others.

A month ago, Reddit user Artudetan posted a question on r/AskMen that read, "What did you not know or realize until after living with a woman?" Turns out, a lot!

From "the good bra" to doing the dishes, the post has already received over 14,000 answers and judging from them, getting a roommate can be quite educational!

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Men Share 'What Did You Not Know Or Realize Until After Living With A Woman?': And Here're 40 Of The Top Answers Fine, I'll say it.

I always thought that pads operated like Band-aids and they'd just slap em over their vaginas and absorb everything. It wasn't until I was... 27? When my girlfriend at the time had some as a backup in case she ran out of tampons and I opened it and looked. The adhesive was on the wrong side for my version of how they worked, and it dawned on me that they're supposed to be stuck to their panties, not their vaginas. I only regret telling her of that revelation, because she laughed until she cried and then called her mom to tell her about it.

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Men Share 'What Did You Not Know Or Realize Until After Living With A Woman?': And Here're 40 Of The Top Answers When you’re having a really tough day, she unexpectedly comes home and surprises you with a bottle of your favorite drink, homemade cookies and a dinner you love. And then she cuddles with you while you vent about your now not so crappy day. And you realize what it’s like to actually have someone support you.

And you find yourself wanting to make sure the toilet seat is down, smiling when you can never find anything in the kitchen, rolling with it when the living room turns into a 12 stage laundry OCD deployment zone, and you laugh when you trip over her shoes that are now tangled in a knot of hair bigger than the dog.

Because your house/apartment is no longer a place you live at, it’s now your home. And it’s safe to be the real you, not the show you put on when you were dating.

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#3

Men Share 'What Did You Not Know Or Realize Until After Living With A Woman?': And Here're 40 Of The Top Answers That she owns only one truly GOOD BRA. There is only one and part of your duty as a man is to protect The Good Bra. If you are doing laundry, you must take the greatest of precautions to make sure it is properly cleaned, dried, and stored. God forbid The Good Bra ever turn up missing or in the wrong drawer.

Ladies, why is there only one GOOD BRA?

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Daria B
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes. Yes, there is. The one and only! ♡ Because, a product, to be mass-produced, it needs to be built within certain norms and patterns, but each woman has different breasts. As a result, it's difficult to find the perfect one, but once you do find it, it becomes precioussssss. Not to mention, these things aren't cheap either. (Waiting for replies of the ladies whose boobs need no support. Respect to you, sisters, but see... just because I don't need braces, I'm not protesting against the dentist industry.)

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Men Share 'What Did You Not Know Or Realize Until After Living With A Woman?': And Here're 40 Of The Top Answers I was raised by a woman, so none of it was new to me, except:

Period Panties.

I wasn't shocked or disgusted by it because I wasn't a 12-year-old; it was just like, "Huh. Yeah, I guess I'd have a separate selection of underwear to use when I'm menstruating, too. Why the Hell would I ruin all of my sexy underwear?".

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Men Share 'What Did You Not Know Or Realize Until After Living With A Woman?': And Here're 40 Of The Top Answers I learned that bathroom can smell like soap and flowers and coconut instead of like pee.

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#6

Men Share 'What Did You Not Know Or Realize Until After Living With A Woman?': And Here're 40 Of The Top Answers Apparently showering and washing your hair are separate events.

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Enuya
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Are they? Am I 'woman-ing' wrong since I am always doing it at the same time?

sturmwesen
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Nope, it depends on your hair, styling, life style etc. For me it depends a lot on length: the shorter the more I wash it. If it is long I just put it in a ponytail if its not right.

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CatWoman312
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And there’s basically 3 types of showers: the quick just clean yourself shower, the wash hair and clean yourself shower, and the shave/exfoliate, wash hair, and clean yourself shower. Some ladies like me will occasionally take a bath before a shower which would make an additional type of bathing experience

Hidasi Kata
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9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would recommend the other way around-shower first than bathing....more sanitary.

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Mimi777
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wash my hair every time I shower lol it just doesn’t feel right if I just wash my body I have to wash everything

Efia
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

same here. It feels wrong when only parts of your body are "clean". I can't separate those two procedures :D

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Winx
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes, one takes 20 minutes, the other takes two and a half hours (at least for me lol)

Edward Willis
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm not a woman, and my hair is rather short, but I couldn't imagine washing it every single time I had a shower. That's really a thing people do?

Vicky Z
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you have shower every day they say it's not good to wash your hair also daily

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Ozacoter
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Only for the women with long hair. I clean my hair while i shower. Short hair rocks.

somnomania
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

not for me, ever, but i also don't shower every day, and never have. nowadays i do have to shower pretty much every other day, and i don't understand people who take time to do it every day.

Aroha
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have long hair and I wash it every time I shower. Doesn't damage my hair and I just love having clean hair, it never looks good on second day :).

Oskar vanZandt
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I shower and wash my hair at the same time twice a week. On other days I just wash at the basin or only shower my body and wet my hair. My hair is fine and gets greasy if I wash it too often. Apparently some women like to use dry shampoo to clean their hair... it's very common in Asia and Africa according to Wikipedia. I guess it's also a good thing in places where there is a shortage of potable water.

lenka
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've been married for over 10 years and literally had this conversation with my husband last week. I guess it has just never come up before, but yeah, he was surprised that I dont wash my hair every day. Ain't no-one got time for that!

M Kate McCulloch
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

huh... I don't shower every day - but I do wash my hair every time I shower.

QueenMiri
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Exactly. There are three options. Shower with hair. Shower without hair. Just hair.

zims
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I budget 5 minutes for a shower and 30 for a hair-washing shower, not including the post-shower braiding. If I blew-dry my hair it would be a lot longer.

Kathryn Baylis
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Most of the time they are. But sometimes, if it’s reasonably clean, we’ll throw a shower cap over it and just wash everything else. It also depends on how long and thick your hair is—-the longer and thicker it is, the longer it takes to dry, not to mention style.

Miss Cris
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wait, the lady on the pic is showering while wearing a dress????

DKS 001
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

there are times when I just wash my hair, and then wash off in the sink

Caring Panda
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3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, when I need to wash my hair I make sure I have a thorough shower the day before and next day focus on washing hair and a quick wash.

Veda De Decker
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have long and very thick hair. I laught pretty hard at this one, because i make a huge deal about washing my hair. It's something that influences both of our agendas and has to be held into account. Note : it takes a 45 min to an hour shower, getting all the shampoo in everywhere and decently rinsed, then if i need to condition it's a whole new thing...

InfectedVoice
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm a dude with short hair and I don't wash my hair every time I shower either, it's bad to wash hair every day.

Violet Smith
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Uh, that is not a universal. I wash my hair every time I shower.

Bob Bobbins
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Same here. I was super confused when my wife said she only washes her hair 2-3 times a week, when I would see her shower way more than that. Guys do both every time as far as I know.

ebonyruffles
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have so much crap in my hair I have to wash it every day. Spiking glue, wax, spray etc, etc.

Autumn
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well, for me, they aren’t separate events, I just don’t wash my hair every time I take a shower.

Vasana Phong
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hair care( mostly if more then shoulder length) are different, wait til you hear about the below the “waist “ area

Tracy Wallick
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hell, I'm a woman and I didn't learn this til my20s. Still wash it every day though, or my hair gets so greasy I wanna shave it all off

Ingrid
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I shower twice a day, no way I would wash my hair twice a day

Isabel Care
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you have very thick, long hair it can take hours to wash and dry it properly, especially if you have low water pressure. I use clippers, so it takes a few seconds to wash it.

Lilith the Demon Panda
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

not for me, I truly dont understand how someone can shower and not get the hair wet

Miss Cris
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Because we can separate the shower from the wall and jet the water on parts of our body we need to wet, and not the others.

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Ivana
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I set my hair so it is a whole event to wash it. Gotta prep it with a mask, then wash it, let it air dry for a little bit, then put curlers in it after about 30-40 minutes of air drying. Must be done before 8pm or it won't be dry enough in the morning. Twice a week. Sunday night and Wednesday night.

Vicky Z
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

May i ask if you are from Russia? No offense but i have a Russian friend that does a very similar ritual for her hair! And she has gorgeous hair!

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Mimi M
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I stopped using shampoo. Now my hair is so much healthier (no longer stripped). I just rinse it well with warm water when I shower and towel it dry. In the winter I keep my scalp healthy with a few drops of water mixed with a bit of vinegar and a dissolved aspirin - no more itching or flaking.

Anne
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How.. I mean.. when you wash your hair, you definitely will shower at the same time.. or does your wife wash her hair in the sink.. I have questions..

Jessica Aubé
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Huh? How are these seperate events ? Seriously there’s a bunch of woman out there who only wash their hair ?? Just get in the shower it’s way faster

Tania Dubodiel
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Meaning that we shower every day but don't necessarily wash our hair every day? I have long and sensitive hair, if I washed it every day, it would look terrible.

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Nerdlife
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Can confirm! Washing your hair every day is bad for the hair and ain't nobody got time for that. Even women with short hair try not to wash their hair everyday.

Linda HS
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Heck, yeah! Doesn't everyone know about this? These two ARE two separate events! Dah!🤦

Lola
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Nope, not for me. I have never taken a daily shower without washing my hair. I think this depends on hair type too. And for those saying you can’t wash your hair everyday because you damage it, not true at all. Not to brag but my hair is healthy, long, and beautiful.

Leigh C.
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Huh? Both at the same time is a given. Not sure how you can do one or the other. If I just want to bathe that's what baths are for. Just me.

Madadh Sweeney
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is a girl thing I can't fathom, as I've gotten older I'm not as oily as I was in my youth, but not washing my hair daily is still something I just can't do very often.

Melanie
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

🙄 DUH! You need to wash your body, but if you washed your hair each time it would a) take up too much time, and b) RUIN YOUR HAIR

Jade Lynn - Panda's Brat
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not for me most of the time, since I have dogs and I don't want to smell like dog when I go to work. Complete clean every morning. It's exhausting.

Artoonist Corine
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My girls and I took "bowers" even. You start in a bath, then shower (mainly to wash hair) = bower

SydneyP
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not for me. However as I’ve said before I’m what one would call a boyish lesbian so I guess I don’t really count.

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#7

Men Share 'What Did You Not Know Or Realize Until After Living With A Woman?': And Here're 40 Of The Top Answers If you leave something on the kitchen counter, it will get put/thrown away. If she leaves something on the kitchen counter, that's where it goes now.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

yep , when i cook my wife "tidies up" around me , only thing is i still need the things she's putting in the dishwasher

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#9

Men Share 'What Did You Not Know Or Realize Until After Living With A Woman?': And Here're 40 Of The Top Answers Pockets are very rare for women's pants. Several years married and still shocked by this.

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Thomas Price
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I didn’t realise this until my now wife showed me the pockets she had in her wedding dress. She was so excited.

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When you’re done showering, you’re supposed to stay on the bath mat while you dry off, not walk around the apartment

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DKS 001
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I dry off in the shower so there are no wet foot prints outside the shower

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#12

They fart just as much as men.

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Men Share 'What Did You Not Know Or Realize Until After Living With A Woman?': And Here're 40 Of The Top Answers Apparently, cleaning the toilet on the regular is much, much more important than I'd previously thought.

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Men Share 'What Did You Not Know Or Realize Until After Living With A Woman?': And Here're 40 Of The Top Answers Just how expensive and shoddy brands for women are.

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Scagsy
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My wife always says 'Don't buy the pink razors, get the yellow ones please'.

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Men Share 'What Did You Not Know Or Realize Until After Living With A Woman?': And Here're 40 Of The Top Answers How nice house plants are. Now I have all kinds of plants and my place feels so much more nice and relaxing.

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Men Share 'What Did You Not Know Or Realize Until After Living With A Woman?': And Here're 40 Of The Top Answers There is a wrong way to hang clothes to dry.

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Francis
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes! My bf had to hang the laundry last week.. he tried. And failed xD had to rehang everything LOL

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If they leave stuff at the bottom of the stairs, that means you’re supposed to bring it up. If it’s at the top of the stairs, you should bring it down. Also, the correct place for objects in the kitchen is where they currently reside. Stuff is gonna move around constantly, just roll with it.

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Linda van der Pal
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I do leave stuff on the stairs, but that's for whoever goes up first to bring along (and yes, that definitely includes myself)

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#18

Men Share 'What Did You Not Know Or Realize Until After Living With A Woman?': And Here're 40 Of The Top Answers They have a really weird obsession with glass containers or jars.

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Foxxy (The Original)
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Mine obsession can be any kind of storage including shoe boxes, takeaway containers etc.

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Men Share 'What Did You Not Know Or Realize Until After Living With A Woman?': And Here're 40 Of The Top Answers Hair ties actually disappear faster than MIA socks. Until you find 20 in a kitchen drawer.

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Men Share 'What Did You Not Know Or Realize Until After Living With A Woman?': And Here're 40 Of The Top Answers No matter how many bobby pins are in the house, there is always a need for more.

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Lauren Caswell
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And hairties.buy a pack and you'll have heaps for a few weeks, then back to one somehow.

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Men Share 'What Did You Not Know Or Realize Until After Living With A Woman?': And Here're 40 Of The Top Answers Women are both simultaneously messier and cleaner than men. It’s bizarre how messy rooms can get with them and how quickly they can turn it around and make it clean!

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One corner of the shower will become a "graveyard" for bottles of shampoo, conditioner, all sorts of stuff.

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#23

Men Share 'What Did You Not Know Or Realize Until After Living With A Woman?': And Here're 40 Of The Top Answers An innocent cleaning excursion in the right circumstances will lead to a full-on reorganization of all the dang furniture in the house, if you're not careful.

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Nerdlife
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

😂😂😂😂 I didn't realize until now that I do this very often

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Men Share 'What Did You Not Know Or Realize Until After Living With A Woman?': And Here're 40 Of The Top Answers The hair that gets stuck in the shower drain. OMG.

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Men Share 'What Did You Not Know Or Realize Until After Living With A Woman?': And Here're 40 Of The Top Answers You find out the amount of food that a refrigerator can really hold.

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Brendan
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I thought that a full fridge was more of a 'male' thing. It is for me and my two boys, anyway.

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Men Share 'What Did You Not Know Or Realize Until After Living With A Woman?': And Here're 40 Of The Top Answers Fancy makeup takes a long time.

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Men Share 'What Did You Not Know Or Realize Until After Living With A Woman?': And Here're 40 Of The Top Answers You’ve been doing laundry wrong your whole life.

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Nerdlife
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Now I am intrigued and curious to know what you did to find this out!

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Men Share 'What Did You Not Know Or Realize Until After Living With A Woman?': And Here're 40 Of The Top Answers I never realised that she'd start wearing my clothes. T-shirts, sweaters, not even my damn underwear is mine any more!

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#29

Turns out RuPaul’s drag race is a great show

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#30

Men Share 'What Did You Not Know Or Realize Until After Living With A Woman?': And Here're 40 Of The Top Answers I load the dishwasher so inefficiently, I'm no longer allowed to load it at all.

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Sophie Greeff
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Girl here I'm not allowed to load the dishwasher as i do it wrong husband is in charge

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Men Share 'What Did You Not Know Or Realize Until After Living With A Woman?': And Here're 40 Of The Top Answers I have freaked out too many times at what I thought was a 52-legged spider clinging to my bathroom wall.

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Lauren Caswell
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You do this so you don't need to unclog your shower weekly. But you don't leave it on the wall, it should be binned before you leave the bathroom

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#32

Men Share 'What Did You Not Know Or Realize Until After Living With A Woman?': And Here're 40 Of The Top Answers That there can never be enough throws/blankets/cushions.

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Men Share 'What Did You Not Know Or Realize Until After Living With A Woman?': And Here're 40 Of The Top Answers That moisturizer goes on the body too.

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Dark Pigeon
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well yes, the lotion or moisturizer goes on the skin. Or you get the hoze again

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Strange new foods will appear in the cupboard and the fridge. This is actually good, you will get to try new things.

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#35

Men Share 'What Did You Not Know Or Realize Until After Living With A Woman?': And Here're 40 Of The Top Answers The wardrobe in your bedroom that you agreed to share 50/50? Just like the bathroom, in a few years it will be 90/10.

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#36

Men Share 'What Did You Not Know Or Realize Until After Living With A Woman?': And Here're 40 Of The Top Answers There is an incorrect place for hand soap on the sink.

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#37

No matter how much you vacuum or sweep the floor, there will ALWAYS be hair in the floor.

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#39

Men Share 'What Did You Not Know Or Realize Until After Living With A Woman?': And Here're 40 Of The Top Answers When long, loose head hairs wash off in the shower, it's common practice to stick them to the wall rather than let them collect in the drain.

If she forgets to remove them afterwards, it can be very confusing for the next person in the shower. Why are there a bunch of individual strands of hair deliberately stuck to the wall?

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#40

Men Share 'What Did You Not Know Or Realize Until After Living With A Woman?': And Here're 40 Of The Top Answers They're not nearly as neat and tidy as they want you to believe.

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Jessica Aubé
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ya so ... let’s not generalize woman ... some woman are clean freaks others are in the middle and others are the opposite ... this is not a female trait .. this is a human being trait ... please stop putting woman in charge of cleaning and making them feel like if they don’t keep their house spotless there’s something wrong with them

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#41

Men Share 'What Did You Not Know Or Realize Until After Living With A Woman?': And Here're 40 Of The Top Answers NEVER EVER dry her clothes in a dryer.

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Anne
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

? all my stuff goes in the dryer.. Oh wait, no, dresses don't.. but apart from that.. everything. (I only wear dresses once every season max)

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#42

Men Share 'What Did You Not Know Or Realize Until After Living With A Woman?': And Here're 40 Of The Top Answers Just how much freakin stuff they need.

3 different shampoos and conditioners, tens of different lipsticks, 3 foundations, makeup brushes, contouring brushes, makeup remover, so many earrings and accessories.

It's not even like these were superficial/vain women. This is just the bare minimum of how they care for their appearance. Meanwhile I'm buying my all-in-one body wash, deodorant and mouthwash and calling it done.

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Foxxy (The Original)
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am in-between. Yes I have a make-up box but I only wear it on special occasions. I have two pairs of earrings, hardly any accessories etc. I also only have 3 pairs of shoes.

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#43

When the garbage can stinks, you must take it outside even if it isn't full.

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Becky Samuel
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Isn't that really basic? Like base-level, a-child-could-work-that-out obvious.

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#44

Men Share 'What Did You Not Know Or Realize Until After Living With A Woman?': And Here're 40 Of The Top Answers The toilet seat have to be left down or you're in serious trouble.

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troufaki13
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The seat AND the lid must be down at all times. It just looks better (for me at least). Also, when you flush, bacteria don't fly around the bathroom.

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#45

Men Share 'What Did You Not Know Or Realize Until After Living With A Woman?': And Here're 40 Of The Top Answers The toilet paper expense skyrockets.

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Eva the Egg
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah it takes more toilet paper to clean for a women than men (most of the time)

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#46

Men Share 'What Did You Not Know Or Realize Until After Living With A Woman?': And Here're 40 Of The Top Answers That the plug hole will be in a constant state of "hmmm thats draining slowly, didn't I just unclog this last week?"

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FloC
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's why you have to stick the loose hair on the wall of the shower and not let it go down the drain.

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#47

No matter how big the bed, I only need the edge of it.

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Anne
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well.. same.. but my dog takes all the space.. and if my BF sleeps over.. she sleeps on top of him.. lol (he doesn't mind!)

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#48

Men Share 'What Did You Not Know Or Realize Until After Living With A Woman?': And Here're 40 Of The Top Answers I never knew it was acceptable to drink red wine and read a book in the bath for hours, leaving it inaccessible until she had finished.

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#49

Your shower drain is going to get clogged. You'll call a plumber and he'll pull out fistfuls of long hair. She will look at you seriously and say "that's not mine" even though you have a crewcut.

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Neb
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well, I have a very long hair, and lived in one place without protective drain grid for 3 years, and never had to call plumber. However my bf once said that he got used to find my hairs in his socks....

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#50

Girl Scout Thin Mint cookies are meant to be consumed a full tube at one sitting.

Here I was keeping mine in the fridge and eating just one or two cookies a week.

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#51

One day you will walk into the bathroom and get smacked in the face by wet bras / panties hanging up.

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Bama Belle
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've never done that. I invested in one of those wooden, dowel-type clothes drying racks.

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#52

Men Share 'What Did You Not Know Or Realize Until After Living With A Woman?': And Here're 40 Of The Top Answers Some things you "do" she is not going to like and will want you to change. You will feel the same about some things she does.

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Anne
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As long as you talk about those things and keep it reasonable. Fair enough

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#53

Men Share 'What Did You Not Know Or Realize Until After Living With A Woman?': And Here're 40 Of The Top Answers I’ve been doing the dishes wrong my entire life.

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Foxxy (The Original)
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As long as I don't have to do them and they still get cleaned, I don't care if you stand on your head and do the dishes.

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#54

Men Share 'What Did You Not Know Or Realize Until After Living With A Woman?': And Here're 40 Of The Top Answers The way I had been folding towels for years was apparently incorrect. I do the tri-fold method. My wife does the double-fold method. Oh well. First argument we had as a married couple and I lost.

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Bron
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Tri-fold here but only because it suits the depth of the towel cupboard the best so more towels fit in

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#55

Men Share 'What Did You Not Know Or Realize Until After Living With A Woman?': And Here're 40 Of The Top Answers They take over the bathroom. One day you'll walk in and realise 90% of the space is filled with her stuff.

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#56

Men Share 'What Did You Not Know Or Realize Until After Living With A Woman?': And Here're 40 Of The Top Answers There isn’t enough laundry detergent in the world to keep up with the laundry pile.

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Ivana
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Some tips for anyone who is interested. I use to battle laundry non-stop but I got rid of about 75% of my clothes and found that less clothing meant less of a laundry mound. I have half a closet of clothes so I have to keep up with the laundry. Also, since my wardrobe is small, it is easier to manage and put things away. Second tip is to start the wash before you leave the house, when you get home from work put it in the dryer, before you go to bed, put the load on your bed. I can't sleep with a pile of laundry on the bed so it forces me to put it away immediately. I do 2-3 loads a week. One light colored, one dark, then linens/misc.

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Men Share 'What Did You Not Know Or Realize Until After Living With A Woman?': And Here're 40 Of The Top Answers The places that their hair will turn up...

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Men Share 'What Did You Not Know Or Realize Until After Living With A Woman?': And Here're 40 Of The Top Answers There will be 5+ pairs of shoes, not IN the shoe rack, but near it / behind the door so it jams / just waiting to trip me if I enter the house without checking for landmines wayward vans slip ons.

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#59

It's not as glamorous as it may seem if you have a lack of experience living with them. I have lived with women in both platonic and romantic relationships. The stereotypes of being clean, tidy, and constantly maintaining the household are overly exaggerated. The guy roommate I lived with was much more clean than the ladies I have lived with, as was I. I'm sure not all ladies are like this.

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Ivana
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I feel it is very dependent on how you grew up and what age the person is. The biggest issue is I think people buy too much crap and then it is impossible to keep things neat because you just own way to much stuff.

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#60

Men Share 'What Did You Not Know Or Realize Until After Living With A Woman?': And Here're 40 Of The Top Answers I had no idea that you weren’t supposed to wash your hair everyday until after my girlfriend moved in.

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Luna Lovegood
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well... It really depends on your hair. Everyone's hair is different. Some people need to wash it every day, some every other day, once or twice a week, etc. Just depends. Generally though, you wash it when it gets greasy and no more frequently than that.

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Men Share 'What Did You Not Know Or Realize Until After Living With A Woman?': And Here're 40 Of The Top Answers She had a bucket of clear plastic hair ties, at least a 1000 in the tub. Barely a dent and those suckers are popping up EVERYWHERE.

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#62

Men Share 'What Did You Not Know Or Realize Until After Living With A Woman?': And Here're 40 Of The Top Answers Two things: Be sure to have a trashcan in every bathroom, buy Toilet paper and tissues as Costco, and your expenses will go up. I thought it would be cheaper to have her move in, Nope....

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#63

Men Share 'What Did You Not Know Or Realize Until After Living With A Woman?': And Here're 40 Of The Top Answers According to my wife I cannot open the living room curtains properly and she always need to redo it.

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#64

If you need to go anywhere together at minimum an hour notice is needed.

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Jessica Aubé
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Nope.. and if it takes someone an hour to do something I’m not inviting them anymore ..

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#65

The bottom of the shower/bath is now not only frequently slippy, but occasionally covered glitter, and if really unlucky some sort of oil.

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Nerdlife
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Idk about this. No matter what I always leave the floor clear and non slippery.

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#66

Things wrapped in little plastic bags will appear in the fridge. All stuff she is going to "use one day". Some of it she does. Other stuff is there for years without being used.

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Miss Frankfurter
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We're conducting science experiments that one day will lead to discoveries to aid all mankind. Kind of like the whole penicillin mold thing.

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#67

Her hair, it gets everywhere.

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Don't Look
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah it does. And guess what? Evolution and hair care and environment are making hair go away. So you worry about losing your hair? So do we.

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#69

Where I think things should “live” isn’t right. Even if I’m the only one who ever uses them.

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LuckyL
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But if they want to live where already something else lives a peaceful live.. Then it needs to find a new home

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#70

Random hairs everywhere, and make up stains that appear.

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