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Honestly? Height. If you’re short and have an attitude about it, it’s the attitude that makes you unattractive, not your actual height.

Engardebro Report

Final score:

179points

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Billy The Kid 3 years ago

Im small but i look down at nobody and i look up to nobody. I even joke about my height.

53points

Money. I've seen a few guys try to act like they have money to burn in order to impress their dates (me included) but then not be able to pay the bills at the end of the month. Honestly, I'll take stability and honesty over a fancy dinner any day.

EchoFoxAlpha Report

Final score:

161points

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Andrew Gibb 3 years ago

There are loads of women that expect the guy to pay for everything. Double standards.

41points

Your body and the likely lack of a sixpack. First of all, i love you for your character, second, it‘s really nice when we cuddle, and it makes me feel better for not having a model-body

cheesycringymess Report

Final score:

151points

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Your_local_introvert 3 years ago

Ikr. I personally don't prefer men with sixpacks, I love anyone who is healthy and happy in their body.

60points

Showing their emotions. Turns out a lot of guys can't even cry, because at a young age males are told "boys don't cry" "man up"

Co11eenxx Report

Final score:

142points

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Billy The Kid 3 years ago

It takes a bigger man to show their emotions

61points

Baldness. There are plenty of hot men that are bald.

TastyLemonCunt123 Report

Final score:

136points

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Billy The Kid 3 years ago (edited)

With barbers closed due to corona virus i wish i was bald right now. At the moment i am feeling like cousin it

41points

Having a bit of a gut. It's cute.

Having a flat butt. No biggie...!

Not having a monster dong is perfectly fine.

Having some zits. Don't care.

Big nose. So what?

Crooked smile. As long as you smile :)

fair--pear Report

Final score:

127points

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Billy The Kid 3 years ago

Its the personality that counts

50points

I hate when a guy, who's clearly broke to the bone wants to take me out to dinner or buy me something to impress me. I once went out with I guy and I could see in eyes that he was doing mental math... needlessly to say, I took the cheapest everything and ended our suffering. Guys, it is okay if you don't have money atm, as long as you are working/studying and is a hardworking individual with a good personality. STOP trying to impress. Let's just buy a bag of cheetos, sit on the sofa and watch a stupid movie. It'll be okay.

DemiNoPipoka Report

Final score:

124points

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TheBlackPanda 3 years ago

Society has conditioned men to feel inadequate if they cannot impress women by spending money. Even though a lot of women don't mind. Many men find it difficult to unlearn that mentality

46points

Hair on their chest or arms. Its there yeah and no one cares.

Pileofbrokenkeys Report

Final score:

122points

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Mer 3 years ago

Men are supposed to be fuzzy if you ask me!

50points

#10

Honestly the same ones as women most of the times. Such as stretch marks and scars. I couldn't care less. I have em also. Oatmeal cream pies have stretch marks and no one turns them down!

ariluvxoxo Report

Final score:

118points

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ARandomPerson 3 years ago

i love this. I'm a guy and i dont care what the hell a woman looks like as long as she has a good personality. Or a guy for that matter.

53points

#11

Not being good in sports... who cares????

crazy_shrink Report

Final score:

103points

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Billy The Kid 3 years ago

I hate sports and politics

32points

Mr. Derpy Dino 3 years ago

SCREW POLITICS! I only run, i can beat a kid uphill while their on a mountain bike. im a beast, i love cardio, it saves lives.(totaly not thinking about Zombieland.)

3points

Mewton’s Third Paw 3 years ago

You can hate them but unless you hate other people around you too, it’s your social duty to be educated enough to vote responsibly.

2points

Jordan Smith 3 years ago

Everyone hates politics

2points

sylvantic 3 years ago

i hate all team sports (i like martial arts and gymnastics and ice skating (still don't like exercise much and i'm not coordinated, tho, so i just like the Olympics)) and i love politics! so aggravating yet so interesting.

1point

Lynne Harbison 3 years ago

And talking about religion!

0points

Thorfin Wolfsbane 3 years ago

It's my experience that a lot of women are looking for guys who are not sports fanatics. Like, you find sports boring? Me too! A match made in heaven.

8points

Helen Haley 3 years ago

Give me a man who has no idea who is a playing this weekend, and I'm a happy camper.

2points

Id row 3 years ago

Major plus if you're not into sports, imo.

2points

June 3 years ago

For me sport is some shallow matter. There are much more interresting things.

2points

Sarah Tyrrell 3 years ago

Agreed. Unless you are both active people and want to do those things together.

1point

Hanni 3 years ago

I'm sports blind. Any talk about any sport makes my eyes glaze over.

1point

Alyssa Sweat 3 years ago

Honestly.

0points

M Kate McCulloch 3 years ago

are ya good at something? what is that something? Be good at that!

0points

error 404 name not found 3 years ago

onlsy sports suck unless thier e-sports like overwatch

0points

Mewton’s Third Paw 3 years ago

This is the first one that truly resonates deeply with me. I couldn’t take a man seriously if he was genuinely interested in watching sports. You can play them, but getting Invested in watching them is such a turn off.

-2points

#12

Being awkward sometimes or doing something embarrassing. I somehow find this more appealing than guys who never seem embarrassed or are extremely confident.

Zekumi Report

Final score:

102points

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Your_local_introvert 3 years ago

Same. I'm pretty socially awkward, and I like people who I can relate to, people who aren't afraid to make mistakes and be themselves.

23points

#13

Graying hair. My 32 year old husband is currently freaking out because he has “so many” (it’s not that many), gray hairs. I couldn’t give two s**** lol I think he’s still just as handsome and I really don’t see what the big deal is

Smoky-The-Beer Report

Final score:

94points

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Billy The Kid 3 years ago

My missus and daughter point out about my hair as a joke. I always say to them that Italians do not go grey we go silver.

53points

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#21

A big nose. I personally like that!

SuperflyandApplePie Report

Final score:

42points

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Natalia A 3 years ago

It adds character to one's face:)

3points

#22

Mmm ugly feet? speakin for myself; i could care less bout ur feet as my feet are ugly as well for a girl haha

viviansweetnezz Report

Final score:

38points

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Foxxy (The Original) 3 years ago

Feet are ugly on anyone lol.

41points

#23

I truly don't care about acne. My boyfriend is really insecure about it but I don't mind it and he looks pretty cute with it.

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Final score:

33points

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Doggo Froggo 3 years ago

Aaaawwww

10points

Having started as a content creator that made articles for Bored Panda from scratch I climbed my way up to being and editor and then had team lead responsibilities added as well. So it was a pretty natural transition from writing articles and titles as well as preparing the visual part for the articles to making sure others are doing those same tasks as I did before well, answering their questions and guiding them when needed. Eventually I realized editing gives me the most enjoyment and I'm focusing only on that right now.

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Parmeisan 3 years ago

The sad truth is that plenty of women do care about these things, just like plenty of men care. But the healthy mindset, if you can get there, is to forget about those people and look for someone who wants you as you. Superficial traits are impermanent anyway. Attractiveness is subjective. If you put some effort in, and make yourself an interesting person (ie things that interest you outside of the relationship) then the only thing left is to find the ones who are attracted to YOU.

35points

Johnny 3 years ago

Any man that's tried online dating knows that there are plenty of women out there who care about all of the things mentioned in the article - they want a 6 ft tall financially secure man with abs and big biceps and perfect skin (just like there are many men that care most about superficial appearance). At least with online dating, it's relatively easy to weed our the women with unrealistic expectations.

5points

Natalie Kudryashova 3 years ago

There’s nothing sad about that truth. Lots of people have preferences for what they like appearance wise, be it eye colour or body shape. People are entitled to their preference and it doesn’t make them a bad person for having one.

3points

Mewton’s Third Paw 3 years ago

It’s not so much a big deal to “care” on some level but too many people make these things absolute deal breakers and end up missing out. Like acne should not be a reason to end a relationship with someone or not give them a chance. That’s a bit ridiculous. Of course you can’t help it if you are attracted to biceps or whatever but it shouldn’t be so important that you just reject good, compatible men just over something like an exercise routine or whatever.

1point

Nevits Yibble 3 years ago

Plenty certainly care about looks. They claim they don't, then 10 seconds later they're foaming at the mouth over Jason Momoa

-2points

Billy The Kid 3 years ago

Just like women, at the end of the day appearances don't count, What does count is the personality and how you treat people. Be happy with the person you are and don't let others put you down for it! Enjoy life ; )

17points

Natalie Kudryashova 3 years ago

Appearance does count, but it is not everything. And where great character and personality can often outshadow average appearance, no amount of beauty will make up for being a douche.

8points

Isaac7lego 3 years ago

Reading this makes me feel better about myself :), thx

16points

K O 3 years ago

You're lovely the way you are, Isaac :)

7points

mph seti 3 years ago

Being a genuinely nice and interesting person is the most attractive trait of all.

9points

Aragorn II Elessar 3 years ago

Damn I needed this post. Thanks y'all, you the best.

7points

K O 3 years ago

No, you're the best

4points

Leo Domitrix 3 years ago

Bodies change with age, diet, accidents, genetic influence over time, you name it ..... Who you choose to be in action and character is *forever*. And way more amazing, IMO.

4points

denzoren 3 years ago

I really really liked this post. I'm very self conscious about many of these and it was quite nice to read. I would also like to say that women need not worry either, as the saying goes, in a world where you can be anything, choose to be kind. That's all that matters.

3points

Paul Budhram 3 years ago

this is nice

3points

Oskar vanZandt 3 years ago (edited)

I think everyone needs a reality-check. Most people have "ideal fantasy types" but in real life are intimately involved with people who are much different in appearance. The majority of celebrities we appreciate mainly for their looks make up a very small percent of humanity (as do their equally attractive non-celebrity counterparts). Luckily for most of us, we are attractive to other people for different reasons...

2points

Lion's Stare 3 years ago

I have a friend. He is pretty overweight and has a lazy eye. But still, he gets plenty of good looking women because he is genuinely nice, funny, and is never insecure about his looks. Its all about who you are

2points

S T 3 years ago

Don't worry about all of these things, the right person is out there, and there's more than one of them. You'll just click and it'll all work out

2points

Helen Haley 3 years ago

Never mistake going to a gym or being attractive, for a personality. Personality and a sense of humor are the most attractive thing.

2points

AlmightyOne 3 years ago

To all guys: don't let any woman judge your worth! And don't let other men do so, either. If they're a good person, they'll appreciate you for who you are, regardless of how you look or what your hobbies are. Yes, some people may simply not click, but don't let that get you down! As long as you are kind and respectful, you've got this, pal. ❤️

1point

Nic Dudley 3 years ago

You forgot height. Men are obsessed with height and I know some dumb bitches will only date men over 6 feet. But honestly who the hell cares? What the hell does someone height have to do anything valuable to a relationship.

1point

Si 3 years ago

Do men ever publish nice lists about women?

1point

Ozacoter 3 years ago

No.

0points

KK 3 years ago

I would personally say that while these do seemingly mostly apply to males, they could potentially just apply to people in general. Just generally speaking, as a society, we need to be more accepting of others. Just because a man(or anyone, really) shows up to their first date with their s/o in a suit means they have the same amount of money as a major bank does. Just because a man(again, or anyone really) doesn't have iron metal muscles or doesn't show their emotions doesn't mean they are tough–in fact, I ENCOURAGE ppl to let their emotions out–you can't keep everything bottled in forever.

1point

Mewton’s Third Paw 3 years ago

I think it shouldn’t matter what women like or dislike. Just like we always say it doesn’t matter what men like or dislike. We do what we want. Men don’t have to get stuck in the trap of caring what women want. Just live your life and if you’re looking for a partner, you shouldn’t have to change yourself to attract somebody unless you are just a shîtty person who needs to check his attitude. The most attractive thing you can be is a good person, and all the other stuff is just preferences. A guy with no abs won’t attract a woman who obsesses over abs, and that’s okay. Because they wouldn’t actually be a match anyway. Just do what you want. Fûck what anyone else thinks.

-1point

Yeah, you heard 3 years ago

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-1point

Phil Vaive 3 years ago

I HATE topics like this. We're basically being shamed for being made to feel ashamed of ourselves. Saying we are "needlessly self conscious" is gaslighting to the EXTREME.

-3points

Mewton’s Third Paw 3 years ago

No they aren’t saying your self consciousness is gross. They’re saying that if you’re worried that women are judging your skinny calf muscles, many of them aren’t, and that you might be torturing yourself unnecessarily.

3points

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Parmeisan 3 years ago

35points

Johnny 3 years ago

5points

Natalie Kudryashova 3 years ago

3points

Mewton’s Third Paw 3 years ago

1point

Nevits Yibble 3 years ago

Plenty certainly care about looks. They claim they don't, then 10 seconds later they're foaming at the mouth over Jason Momoa

-2points

Billy The Kid 3 years ago

17points

Natalie Kudryashova 3 years ago

Appearance does count, but it is not everything. And where great character and personality can often outshadow average appearance, no amount of beauty will make up for being a douche.

8points

Isaac7lego 3 years ago

Reading this makes me feel better about myself :), thx

16points

K O 3 years ago

You're lovely the way you are, Isaac :)

7points

mph seti 3 years ago

Being a genuinely nice and interesting person is the most attractive trait of all.

9points

Aragorn II Elessar 3 years ago

Damn I needed this post. Thanks y'all, you the best.

7points

K O 3 years ago

No, you're the best

4points

Leo Domitrix 3 years ago

Bodies change with age, diet, accidents, genetic influence over time, you name it ..... Who you choose to be in action and character is *forever*. And way more amazing, IMO.

4points

denzoren 3 years ago

3points

Paul Budhram 3 years ago

this is nice

3points

Oskar vanZandt 3 years ago (edited)

2points

Lion's Stare 3 years ago

2points

S T 3 years ago

Don't worry about all of these things, the right person is out there, and there's more than one of them. You'll just click and it'll all work out

2points

Helen Haley 3 years ago

Never mistake going to a gym or being attractive, for a personality. Personality and a sense of humor are the most attractive thing.

2points

AlmightyOne 3 years ago

1point

Nic Dudley 3 years ago

1point

Si 3 years ago

Do men ever publish nice lists about women?

1point

Ozacoter 3 years ago

No.

0points