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One major feature of using the internet is being constantly exposed to the opinions of thousings, if not millions of people all the time. Sometimes this is illuminating, educational and humanizing. Other times, you might end up feeling like your eyes need a soap-bath

The “Men and Females” internet group is dedicated to sharing hilarious screenshots of people who have strong opinions about women while simultaneously not quite knowing that this word exists. Bored Panda got in touch with the group's creator to learn more. So get comfortable as you read through some folks' deceptions, upvote your favorite ones and share your thoughts in the comments section below. 

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I Wonder If These People Even Will Ever Even Consider We’re Right When We Tell Them This Stuff

I Wonder If These People Even Will Ever Even Consider We’re Right When We Tell Them This Stuff

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Lauren Caswell
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7 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Woo! This isn't mansplaining in my opinion anyway, it's ironic mansplaining to make a point as an ally

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Bored Panda got in touch with the netizen who created the “Men and Females” group and they were kind enough to answer some of our questions. First and foremost, we wanted to hear the backstory of the page.

“I started this sub because I had been noticing for years that people would use men and females in the same sentence, and often it was coming from a sexist perspective. "Female" was used to belittle women the poster didn't respect, but because it was a normal word and not a slur no one could say anything about it. This sub started out as just a way for me to screenshot when I found examples while browsing the internet, I never thought the sub would grow to over 73k members.”

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"What Guy Wants To Be Tied To Unhealthy Females?"

"What Guy Wants To Be Tied To Unhealthy Females?"

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What Else Is There???

What Else Is There???

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Naturally, we wanted to hear their thoughts on why the group got so large. “I think the sub became so popular because it's not just me who noticed this covert sexism happening all over the Internet and in real life. I'd tag the sub every time I saw a comment or post that was relevant and usually get replies saying "Yes! I thought I was the only one who thought this was weirdly sexist, I didn't know there was a sub for it!"” they shared with Bored Panda. 

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The Language Of Dehumanization (Not Sure If This Belongs Here)

The Language Of Dehumanization (Not Sure If This Belongs Here)

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#8

This Was A Comment On An Instagram Reel About The Husband Stitch And How Harmful It Is

This Was A Comment On An Instagram Reel About The Husband Stitch And How Harmful It Is

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Gabriele Alfredo Pini
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Imagine this: you were just operated for kidney stones because one lodged itself in your urethra, and the doctor ask you if you want to be stretched a little more "as long as we are already here..."

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You Can Bet Your A*s That If A Man Were In The Video Instead, Everyone In Those Comments Would Be Talking About What A Clean And Professional Job He Was Doing Smdh

You Can Bet Your A*s That If A Man Were In The Video Instead, Everyone In Those Comments Would Be Talking About What A Clean And Professional Job He Was Doing Smdh

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Marno C.
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I like the stilts. Makes me think of Ellen Ripley in that scene from Alien 2. I doubt that blue-barred commenter could watch that without feeling woefully inadequate.

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Given their extensive experience, we wanted the page’s admin to delve a bit deeper into why this phenomenon appeared in the first place. “I think in certain instances people use "female" in an attempt to sound educated or to make their sexist comments sound more formal or logical and therefore have more merit. There are many posts to the sub where men in particular will flat out say that they are using "female" to degrade a woman they don't find desirable in some way, that "they don't deserve to be called a woman."”

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It’s Perfectly Fine For Men To Like 15 Year Old Females

It’s Perfectly Fine For Men To Like 15 Year Old Females

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The Whole Comment Section On That Post Was A Cesspool Of Incels And Victim Blaming

The Whole Comment Section On That Post Was A Cesspool Of Incels And Victim Blaming

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Chez2202
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To be fair I see some truth in this comment. Another woman getting her tits out does not empower me in the slightest. Getting my own out? Different story. But I don’t because I’d rather use my brain than my tits to show my strength as a woman. Or as a human. Brains seem to be sadly lacking in this fool though.

agirlandherrobot
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The internalized misogyny in your comment is a lot to unpack. You can be both extremely intelligent and wear revealing clothing or even be a sex worker because that is the entire point of feeling good about yourself and doing things that make you happy. You can "use your brain" in a large variety of ways and not all of them have to be something like lawyer or doctor or accountant. It's just such a weird thing to say that you would feel empowered if you did it yourself then not only s**t shame, but insinuate other women who dress provocativly are not as intelligent as you. While simultaneously trying to distance yourself from the same misogyny in that original post I might add. But the reality is you're different than him if you can really think dressing a certain way or certain types of employment make other women "less than" in any capacity at all. Try therapy.

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Laura Bradshaw
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7 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Context here will determine how much of a douch cannoe he is. Ie is he the anti breastfeeding in public pos who needs to never go near let alone impregnate a woman. Or is he talking about in general or when a woman does things like onlyfans. Because only fans ect is a platform where for the first time a woman is fully incarge of her marketing before it was men selling her for money men in control of her body. In general were living in a time in western world where women have more choices , more control and more opertunities (still a long way to go ) a man could always do almost as he pleases so of course they don't get it lol yeah we do go, you go girl because she dsnt care what you or others think and as long as your not restricting a women we dont either. That's the point you dnt need to get it, its not for you lol if a woman finds it empowering than it IS empowering. A man saying its not dsnt make it do lol

Tina Harnish
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Life doesn't revolve around your privates. Get over yourself. Life revolves around how well you can contribute to society or at least doing no harm.

Binky Melnik
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Okay, I seem to have missed something. Now it’s bad to use the word “female”? Whatever for? How’d this happen?

Margaret Weaver
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Cantaloupe could take it down a few notches, it's not like he's quoting gangsta rap about killing b*tches and pimping hoes. Female is about the least offensive thing I've ever been called.

Upstaged75
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

All you're doing when you announce this is ensuring that everyone will immediately go look at the comment. Just downvote and report it. No need for a public humble brag.

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Apatheist Account2
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7 months ago

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What if they're not actually adults? What term is acceptable to cover adult and pre-adult non-males? Please?

LakotaWolf (she/her)
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7 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

“Boys”. We already do that in our culture to minimize, excuse, and infantilize males when they commit crimes or commit mayhem, at ANY age. “Boys will be boys” - “They’re just being boys” - explains away räpe, assault, murder, etc. of girls or women.

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Men And Women In A Totally Platonic Relationship? Unbelievable, Unforeseeable, Dare I Say, Impossible !!

Men And Women In A Totally Platonic Relationship? Unbelievable, Unforeseeable, Dare I Say, Impossible !!

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“The sexist use of the innocent word has been going on long before women started noticing and speaking up about it. Anti-feminists and incels are just upset that women are calling it out. They don't get what the big deal is because there are no male-specific insults like there are for women for them to compare to,” they shared.

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Casually Calling For R*pe To Be The Law

Casually Calling For R*pe To Be The Law

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Jihana
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What about gay men who don't have a partner? Is OP volunteering to help those out?

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What’s Your Bet This Dude Doesn’t Have A Wife

What’s Your Bet This Dude Doesn’t Have A Wife

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Imagine Thinking Like This

Imagine Thinking Like This

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“A lot of men who oppose the sub will brag about how nothing offends them. It's like a white person saying they're not offended by being called a cracker and making fun of black people for being offended at being called the n word, and then they'll derail by saying "how can you compare "female" to the n word?"” 

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People Have Butts, Oh No!

People Have Butts, Oh No!

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#18

Another Example Of Using "Women" For Women They Desire, And "Female" For Women They Don't

Another Example Of Using "Women" For Women They Desire, And "Female" For Women They Don't

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“It's easy to think something is silly when you've never been oppressed and don't bother to care about or notice the nuances of the culture you're living in. One post on the sub compared using "female" to saying "the blacks" instead of "black people". It's a dog whistle.” For those who are unaware, a dog whistle is a seemingly innocuous phrase that bigots use to communicate with each other. 

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A Classic 'Nice Guy'

A Classic 'Nice Guy'

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Thomas Has Never Seen Such Bs Before

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Seen This Morning, Made Me Smile. Ty To Whomever Added That Flair

Seen This Morning, Made Me Smile. Ty To Whomever Added That Flair

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“Many users will also defend the use of "men and females" as a way to be transphobic. They're further showing their misogyny by saying "woman can mean anything nowadays, we have to say female if we mean biological women" but somehow the same logic never applies to men or males.”

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#22

Females Don't Need The Gym, They Have Men To Protect Them. Didn't You Know?

Females Don't Need The Gym, They Have Men To Protect Them. Didn't You Know?

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A New Comment On The Same Post As My Last Post Here. Might Even Be The Same Person…

A New Comment On The Same Post As My Last Post Here. Might Even Be The Same Person…

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“I just want to add, using "female" when you mean "woman" is not the end of the world, it's just one of the many annoyances of living in a sexist society. I think anti-feminists, misogynists, incels, etc. just get angry to see how women come together to fight against sexism, whether it be subtle sexist remarks or large-scale oppression.”

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Females Shouldn't Drink Water From A Bottle!

Females Shouldn't Drink Water From A Bottle!

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Charlotte A.
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We also shouldn't ride trains or cars because the speed might make our uterus fall out. Right?

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Another Incel For Ya

Another Incel For Ya

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Multa Nocte
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Don't you wish this was not a real post from someone? I am more depressed each entry I read, and should have stopped up at the top.

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#27

Mras Are Confused By The Difference Between Adjectives And Nouns

Mras Are Confused By The Difference Between Adjectives And Nouns

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Men And Females Except It's All Smoke And Mirrors

Men And Females Except It's All Smoke And Mirrors

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This Is Why Men And Girls Can't Be Friends

This Is Why Men And Girls Can't Be Friends

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me myself and i (She/Her)
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7 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

…can you guess why she didn’t ask? Also what’s up w the title?? “ This Is Why Men And Girls Can't Be Friends?! “ yeah, no, you mean MEN AND WOMEN. and also they can??? As long as they’re both respectful?? wdym EDIT: I didnt read the last sentence of the text, sorry!

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A New One

A New One

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Would You Rather I Say B*tches?

Would You Rather I Say B*tches?

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Bouche and Audi and Shyla, Oh My!
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We get offered d***s every day? Yeah, pictures of naked ones from men who think that that's the height of romance.

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#35

This Was On A Post About Sexualization Of Women In Video Games

This Was On A Post About Sexualization Of Women In Video Games

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Jesha
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

THEY NEVER WERE! I was in arcades in the 80s and the distribution was incredibly even. 90s? Didn't matter, nintendo was fun. Honestly the whole games are for GUUUUUYS thing didn't start until the 00s.

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#36

This Doesn’t Even Make Sense..?

This Doesn’t Even Make Sense..?

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Found This Under A Youtube Comment About Being A Homeless Pregnant Teen

Found This Under A Youtube Comment About Being A Homeless Pregnant Teen

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The Most Bizarre Thing I Think I've Ever Read

The Most Bizarre Thing I Think I've Ever Read

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Moë
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7 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Super classy and not gross at all talking about your son’s balls. Why don’t you teach him how to be a good PARTNER and share in the work.

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Men : Women Get Jealous So Easily When It Comes To Other Women. Also Men :

Men : Women Get Jealous So Easily When It Comes To Other Women. Also Men :

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Stevie S
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just because she's not your type doesn't make her any less beautiful, you misogynistic twat

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Spoiled Females Are Worse Than Tyrranical Oppression

Spoiled Females Are Worse Than Tyrranical Oppression

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MadRatter
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Comment nr. 2 is surely written by a "male". I refuse to call those incel twatnozzles anything else from now on.

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Why Can’t Women Complement Other Women Without Ppl Like This?

Why Can’t Women Complement Other Women Without Ppl Like This?

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me myself and i (She/Her)
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7 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

first incels call us females and then you say we don’t give enough compliments. When someone finally does, now THIS????

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'man' K*lls ' Girls' Because They Rejected Him

'man' K*lls ' Girls' Because They Rejected Him

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Panflute
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow. The reason everyone was turning him down was because he had tuberculosis, which at that point was untreatable, and they didn't want to get it too. So he killed them all, plus his grandmother who raised him because he didn't want her to have to live with the shame of having raised a murderer. This is a seriously warped person.

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"Females Cheating Is Different"

"Females Cheating Is Different"

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FluffyDreg
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I thought """"females"""""" don't have feelings a d can never really love?

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#52

Such A Beautiful Post Ruined By Such A Stupid Title

Such A Beautiful Post Ruined By Such A Stupid Title

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Because “American Females” Are The Only People Who Overuse The Word “Like”

Because “American Females” Are The Only People Who Overuse The Word “Like”

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clairebear
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I agree it's annoying, but I have heard numerous men speak like this. Not a female problem.

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#54

Yeah Because We're Totally The Ones Obsessing Over Terms Like "Chad" And "Npc"

Yeah Because We're Totally The Ones Obsessing Over Terms Like "Chad" And "Npc"

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Apparently He’s Not At All Satirical. All Serious Business

Apparently He’s Not At All Satirical. All Serious Business

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#56

A Very Normal Discussion About "Females" And Tall Men

A Very Normal Discussion About "Females" And Tall Men

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No Experience For “Girls” I Guess

No Experience For “Girls” I Guess

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maka paka
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Whenever i see this, you just know the guy is really bad in bed and is terrified someone will find out

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#58

I Smell The Hentai Addiction

I Smell The Hentai Addiction

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This Has All The Red Flags

This Has All The Red Flags

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Sharkie
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Of course! You have to visit the nearest cloning factory. Just tell anyone "me hentai creep". They will understand. If you ask, they can give her little bunny or cat ears, too. Say "am am erican idio tee hentai-o arrest-o me". Just try different accents, they will probably take you there very soon.

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#60

"How Dare Females Want To Be Comfortable And Dress For Themselves Instead Of Impressing Me"

"How Dare Females Want To Be Comfortable And Dress For Themselves Instead Of Impressing Me"

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me myself and i (She/Her)
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

First of all, it’s Billie EILISH. Secondly you say you are a “man”, and you’re attracted to people in HS? Lastly, I dress up to feel beautiful for me. God forbid the day comes I dress up for you. Tight clothes aren’t often comfortable and if you like tight clothes then WEAR THEM.

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Riveting Convo On Bumble

Riveting Convo On Bumble

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Flora Porter
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's surprising how many men will use their first contact to criticise or argue with something in your profile. So helpful when they show you who you are before you've wasted time on them.

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#62

Men Are Mad That Gta Vi Will Include A Female Protagonist

Men Are Mad That Gta Vi Will Include A Female Protagonist

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LakotaWolf (she/her)
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’ve been playing the GTA games since the first game, which was probably long before OP was even BORN. What’s his explanation for that? XD

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#63

Probably Because They Didn’t Want To Talk To Someone Who Self Ids As An Incel

Probably Because They Didn’t Want To Talk To Someone Who Self Ids As An Incel

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It Just Keeps Going And Going. Mras Are Incapable Of Calling Women Women

It Just Keeps Going And Going. Mras Are Incapable Of Calling Women Women

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me myself and i (She/Her)
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

ok first of all, I’ve seen much more female rape cases, maybe even because of the incel kind of thinking shown in some posts on this list. HOWEVER, ALL rape is a serious serious problem. If ANYONE is sexually assaulted, it 1) shouldn’t have happened because WHAT in the FLYING F**K and 2) should IMMEDIATELY be addressed and the offender or more accurately PREDATOR should be thrown into life time jail. I don’t wanna say they should die but I’m really tempted. If any pandas here have ever experienced this kind of awful inhumane treatment, please please know that you are not alone and you are amazing . It doesn’t make you weaker or worse or means you deserved it. Have a lovely day x

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Recently Divorced Females

Recently Divorced Females

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Moë
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Tell me you’ve never been married without telling me you’ve never been married

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#66

When They Say “Girls And Men”

When They Say “Girls And Men”

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and_a_touch_of_the_’tism
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well, for starters, when men use “girls” or “females” instead of women like f*****g shitheads.

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#67

Classic, Call Women Females And Expect Compliments From Them

Classic, Call Women Females And Expect Compliments From Them

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clairebear
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We constantly celebrate men. What's he on about? Not getting compliments at work??

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Spotted In R/Unpopularopinion

Spotted In R/Unpopularopinion

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Zedrapazia
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's the only one I can agree with. I am a woman and I HATE being in hot rooms. I want to work, not sweat like a horse or fall asleep

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Never Thought I Would Find One In The Wild, But Here We Are

Never Thought I Would Find One In The Wild, But Here We Are

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LillieMean
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7 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm a bit confused about the sentence structure and would a comma or a period fit here? "...half naked cops..." or "...half naked. Cops throwing..." It doesn't matter, I can't bother myself with pondering verbal nonsensical vomit.

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"Lesbian Female"

"Lesbian Female"

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Flora Porter
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Because women who love women naturally identify with misogynists.

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