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Sue Perkins Apologizes After Matt Smith Elegantly Corrects Her When She Misgenders His Co-Star
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Sue Perkins Apologizes After Matt Smith Elegantly Corrects Her When She Misgenders His Co-Star

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British actor Matt Smith proved himself to be a real LGBTQ+ ally and friend when he subtly corrected an interviewer who misgendered his House of the Dragon co-star Emma D’Arcy. Emma identifies as non-binary and uses they/them pronouns.

Taking to the red carpet on Monday (June 10) at the House of the Dragon Season 2 London premiere, Matt was speaking to a reporter named Sue Perkins about the Season 1 finale, in which Daemon (Matt) informs Rhaenyra (Emma) about her son’s death, The New York Post reported Wednesday (June 12).

Highlights
  • Matt Smith corrected an interviewer who misgendered his co-star Emma D’Arcy, showing support for LGBTQ+ allies.
  • Emma D’Arcy identifies as non-binary and uses they/them pronouns.
  • The correction clip went viral with 1.2 million views, showcasing Matt's quick and respectful response.

A clip of Sue, who hosts the Apple TV show House of the Dragon: War Room, interviewing the 41-year-old actor was shared on X (formerly known as Twitter), amassing 1.2 million views and quickly going viral.

In the segment of the interview, Sue was filmed referencing Emma, saying: “She gave you all the credit” for the scene.

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    British actor Matt Smith proved himself to be a real LGBTQ+ ally and friend 

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    In the viral clip, Matt seemed to quickly pick up on the wrong use of pronouns, as he quickly replied: “I can’t take the credit, [but] I have to say, aren’t they brilliant?” 

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    The Crown star further emphasized the right pronouns, adding: “They are absolutely brilliant, and you’re in for a real treat with Emma this year. 

    “I think Emma’s put in … a really great performance.”

    “Also how tf was more than one interviewer not prepared enough to address Emma correctly??? how hard is it smh (shake my head),” the original poster (OP) wrote on X. “Yes this is the bare minimum from Matt & Harry, I just love how protective Matt is over Emma in general.”

    Matt subtly corrected interviewer Sue Perkins, who misgendered his House of the Dragon co-star Emma D’Arcy

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    Image credits: LadyDaenaera

    Harry Collett portrays Prince Jacaerys Velaryon in House of the Dragon.

    The OP went on to highlight Matt’s open-mindedness, as they shared a clip of Matt from the same event having a “flirty” conversation with RuPaul’s Drag Race UK Season 4 alumni Cheddar Gorgeous.

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    The short video showed Matt telling Cheddar: “You look lovely, you look great, look at your eyes as well.”

    The same X user further shared a picture of the actor, this time posing while holding up a huge transgender flag, pointing out Matt’s progressive attitude yet again.

    Emma identifies as non-binary and uses they/them pronouns


    Video credits: uncledaddyism

    With the initial clip of Matt and Sue spreading on social media like wildfire, many people supported the award-winning actor’s gentle pronoun correction.

    In another video shared on X, where people were commenting on Sue’s interview with Eve Best, who plays “The Queen Who Never Was” in House of the Dragon, a person seemingly replied to some critic, as they wrote: “I highly doubt @sueperkins of all people would misgender on purpose, it’s hard to know everyone’s pronouns without guidance.

    “I would have made the same mistake.”

    A person argued back: “It’s not hard to do research on the lead of a show before interviewing at the premiere of that show, in fact, it’s absolutely the bare minimum that should be expected.”

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    Image credits: sueperkins

    This prompted the reporter herself to come out and clarify: “It was a sh**ty mistake.” 

    Sue added: “Had loads of stuff going on in my earpiece and so wasn’t as focused as I should have been. 

    “No excuses though. 

    “These things matter and I feel terrible about it. 

    “[I’m] a massive fan of their work and would never want to be disrespectful x.”

    In the House of the Dragon Season 1 finale, Daemon (Matt) informs Rhaenyra (Emma) about her son’s death

    Image credits: HBO

     

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    Emma has previously opened up about their gender identity, telling The Hollywood Reporter in 2022: “Rhaenyra has an ongoing battle with what it means to be a woman and is a fundamental outsider.

    “She’s terrified of getting locked into motherhood and is aware of how her position would be different if she were male. 

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    “I’m a nonbinary person

    “I’ve always found myself both pulled and repelled by masculine and feminine identity and I think that plays out truthfully here. 

    “She can’t attend court in a way that comes easily to other people.”

    “It is that easy,” a reader commented

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    cerinamroth
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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't get me wrong, but I'm actually more impressed with Sue Perkins here than with Matt, perhaps. It's much harder to admit you were wrong than it is to correct someone. I have every faith that she'll pay more attention in future. I think Matt went about his correction in just the right way too. Well done all round.

    Ample Aardvark
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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm positive it was unintentional, Sue is such a lovely person and I believe she was genuinely mortified to have misgendered Emma. And Matt was just awesome as usual!

    Ross “Sarcastic Dad”
    Community Member
    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think everyone wins with this, because it's a teachable moment for all of us. No one feels worse than Sue Perkins. This was a mistake, and she owned it.

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    FreeTheUnicorn
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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Great job. Part of being an ally is to recognise when people slip up and when it is a deliberate misgendering. He does a great job correcting it, but not being a d**k. Perkin's apology was clear and shows she knows how important pronouns can be. She will likely be more careful going forward. It's nice to see a point made and a point received in a way that brings people along instead of scolds them. (I will clarify it was the right approach because it wasn't intentional and it wasn't a pattern)

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    cerinamroth
    Community Member
    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't get me wrong, but I'm actually more impressed with Sue Perkins here than with Matt, perhaps. It's much harder to admit you were wrong than it is to correct someone. I have every faith that she'll pay more attention in future. I think Matt went about his correction in just the right way too. Well done all round.

    Ample Aardvark
    Community Member
    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm positive it was unintentional, Sue is such a lovely person and I believe she was genuinely mortified to have misgendered Emma. And Matt was just awesome as usual!

    Ross “Sarcastic Dad”
    Community Member
    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think everyone wins with this, because it's a teachable moment for all of us. No one feels worse than Sue Perkins. This was a mistake, and she owned it.

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    FreeTheUnicorn
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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Great job. Part of being an ally is to recognise when people slip up and when it is a deliberate misgendering. He does a great job correcting it, but not being a d**k. Perkin's apology was clear and shows she knows how important pronouns can be. She will likely be more careful going forward. It's nice to see a point made and a point received in a way that brings people along instead of scolds them. (I will clarify it was the right approach because it wasn't intentional and it wasn't a pattern)

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