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Life is complicated—we all know that, without even mentioning the relationships. Dealing with different cultures sounds even more complex, huh? What about getting stuck for months in a house during your honeymoon because a devastating virus hit the whole world in a matter of a few weeks, giving no time to pack? Well, nothing seems to be impossible for us.

My name is Milia, and I am an Indonesian pharmacist. My husband, Matteo, is a creative Italian illustrator, and we both have a passion for art. A few months ago, we were living the dream in Bali, got married on a remote tropical island, and moved for a while to Italy for the honeymoon and gathering with the family. Shortly after, the lockdown forced us to stay.

No drama, just opportunities, so we began to share our daily life bridging cultural gaps with funny illustrations. Spicy food, painful yoga, romantic moments, huge portions, overloaded bikes, sweet hopes, and much more. Our life seems to be an endless adventure! Scroll down to see our couple illustrations, and don’t forget to upvote the best!

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When She Cooks

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Farid Red
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5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Asian cooking mostly is spicy. Our lowest spicy level is western high spicy level.

Vic
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5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As an Indian, I couldn't agree more. I remember once a colleague had tears in his eyes eating our fries, Fries!!

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Leo H
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5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What I learned from Asian restraunts..they keep the white folk hot sauce on the table..the real stuff is in the back

Enuya
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5 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The man looks like my friends, whenever I am cooking anything. :D

Monika Soffronow
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5 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

On a stop-over in Singapore. The transfer from the airport took us past a KFC and the son, twelve or thirteen at the time, decided that he wanted KFC to eat and nothing else. It had been a long flight, I was coming down with a massive cold and we were both tired and hungry so this resulted in a Big Fight. In the street. In Singapore. We finally marched into a nearby commercial building with a food court. One of the eateries specialized in chicken and I chose one with a red sauce on it ... One bite and I was sweating profusely with tears streaming from my eyes and my nose was doing an incredibly good faucet imitation. They may very well still be dealing with a napkin shortage! After dinner, there was no trace of that cold and we had a great time seeing a bit of Singapore.

Ms Phit
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5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When my niece was adopted from China at age five, she brought with her a developed Chinese palate. While her sister (who is half Japanese/American) would eat pancakes with maple syrup, she insisted on eating them with Tabasco sauce!

Mangle the Fox
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5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

me when i tried kimchi for the first time...

Ralph Spooner
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5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Around my house it is referred to as nuclear hot. It is still hot days later when it comes out the other end.

Monika Soffronow
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5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Haha. That's what my friends said after a Mexican dinner I cooked them. Mole poblano is finger-licking good! https://www.mexicoinmykitchen.com/how-to-make-mole-poblano/

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Lauri La Pointe
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5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can't help but notice the strong similarities to https://www.boredpanda.com/relationship-illustrations-yehuda-devir/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=organic Same font and everything.

Up All Night
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5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

95% of all comics use this font, and it's not copyright infringe to have a black beard and draw yourself in a realistic style.

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Becca Gizmo the Squirrel
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5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Is this the couple with the little girl and baby hulk?

Bender Bending Rodríguez
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5 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No. That's another couple. Sorry I can't recall that artist's name right now.

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    #2

    When He Cooks

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    NMN
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Primo piatto, gotta wait for the secondo piatto and dessert. Now, where's the antipasto?

    Fernando
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In Spain we have also started, first meal, main one and dessert but the "prime piatto" in Italy is huge even for us.

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    Ken K
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd love to see the reaction to American food portions.

    Mark CM
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No. Not "all" of it. Just eat what you can. If he tries to force you to eat it all ... have him charged with abuse, you silly woman!

    #3

    How To Move Stuff Around Bali

    How To Move Stuff Around Bali

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    Enuya
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oww, poor kitty! Hold on!

    M.J.
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh yeah, same as in Thailand!

    Mark CM
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The cat belongs in the bag. Who let it out?

    Baali Venomax
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hey guys you need to carry your cat!

    #4

    The First Winter

    The First Winter

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    Mya
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ha, do you know there's a mountain range covering Italy's northern border called Alps? And yes people do live there. And winter season goes from november to march with heavy snow and very often below 20 degrees.

    Martha Meyer
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ha, as if what they have in Italy can be called winter! But I guess it's cold when you come directly from Bali.

    Daria B
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Having grown up in Istria (a climate similar to the north of Italy, due to geographical proximity), I thought winters were cold. Then in 2010 I moved to Seoul, and then I learnt the true meaning of the word "freezing". ×_×

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    Laura Martin
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had that just moving back from Massachusetts from Florida after 4 years!

    Tabitha Kohl
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We had an exchange student from Thailand back when I was in high school. She was so excited to see snow. After the first week of it though she hated it.

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    #5

    Life Without Hair Salons

    Life Without Hair Salons

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    Leo H
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wish I could rock that hair..literally I would rock it

    Nathan Girard
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If only my hair looked like that dude's after two months.... more like Napoleon Dynamite for me

    Monika Soffronow
    Community Member
    5 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Drifting away on waves of locks. Your love shows.

    Brenda Owens
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love a man with long hair or a big Afro.

    #6

    Hugging Tall People

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    Lisa Chambers
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is totally me, but I am not Asian.

    Ralph Spooner
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    find a wooden chair at a thrift store and cut the legs down to where things "fit" perfectly.

    Lizzie
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Omg, so relatable! Can I upvote this 100 times??

    Jim Kang
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm Korean(ethnically), my wife is western European(ethnically). I'm 6'1", she's 5'2".

    Leo H
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What is the matter people. She seems small ..but taller in the other pics

    Leo H
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    5 years ago

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    Gee she must be tiny..he didn't look that tall in the other pics

    #7

    Learning Meditation

    Learning Meditation

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    ADHORTATOR
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He is italian, what did you expect?

    Up All Night
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have no chill with even one around, I'm ready to go battle mode.

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    Paul Jordan
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You do realise that we have different blood types so mosquitoes can enjoy different flavours. Seriously... ; p

    #8

    There Is Always Time To Be Romantic

    There Is Always Time To Be Romantic

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    Monika Soffronow
    Community Member
    5 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good relationships are a lot like ignorance - it is a matter of choice! It takes tenderness, humour, mutual respect and understanding from both.

    Saurin Apriliawan
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Huh, newlyweds. Just watch what will happen 5years later

    Daria B
    Community Member
    5 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But if they survive what happens 5 years later, a way more awesome 10 years lie ahead. (What I'm saying here is that, some relationships get stronger and better after overcoming the hardships, so good luck!)

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    Jim Kang
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh f**k that! Wait till you have three kids!

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    #9

    First Sunshine After Months

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    don't kill potatos
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is me when I sleep in too late and the light is showing through the closed blinds.

    Juririn
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For me, too: working from home made me a vampire 😱

    DYspLay ARt
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    LOL yeah. At least you can sleep in later....

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    #10

    Stay Strong

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    Monika Soffronow
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Out of lockdown here and people are behaving as though this corona epidemic is behind us. I am afraid that this will be the last summer for too many people - who were infected by the ones without a care in the world.

    #11

    Side Effects Of Isolation

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    Leo H
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ahh every dude just thought..yes... Oh wait..a minute

    Monika Soffronow
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hahahahahahaha these drawings are so funny! Well done! And stay in love.

    Paige Garberding
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If he were chocolate, I wouldn't ask. I'd just chow down,

    Jane Dorothy Warner
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Only in the nicest possible way ...ahem...

    Ralph Spooner
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    LOOK OUT if they start sniffing you and follow it up with the phrase, "You smell GOOD" and you haven't bathed in three days to a week.

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    #13

    Sunbathing

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    NQ L
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Asians do this everywhere. My aunt covers her entire body - gloves, hat and mask and refuses to sit in front passenger seat. She only sits in the middle of back seat to hide from the sun. Crazy woman.

    Yeah, you heard
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's because many Asians (and other races) believe lighter skin is prettier. It's silly, of course, as all colours are beautiful.

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    Jayne Kyra
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is about the whole pale = better thing in many Asian countries. Often there are products being promoted that lighten skin. And darker skin is only acceptable with western features. Meanwhile typical girls whine about being "paper white and cannot find their foundation shade" online as people die because of racism.

    Diandra Aurora
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Indonesians can totally relate lols.

    Alexis Martinez
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel this one as a Hispanic I'm already dark and try not to get anymore tanned Idk know why I just never even understood why people don't like their natural skin color. (no hate and no shade btw)

    LaDonna Hulcy
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Millennia of hating the people who work outside to bring you food (i.e. farmers and poor people) really works. also the target marketing.

    Brenda Owens
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is about blacks worrying about skin cancer. Which is prevalent in blacks.

    Addison Chung
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That’s offensive. I’m Asian (Korean, actually.).

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    #14

    Learning Yoga

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    Enuya
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lol, the bandages xD

    Daria B
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm pretty good with the stretching. It's the "mental calm" that doesn't work for me.

    ruthenium the ruther
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When try, i usually end up face-down on the floor. Anyone else ever had the same experience?

    Xavier Wescott
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    now there is a sound I can relate to

    #15

    West In Asia

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    yes.
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    this one's so beautiful

    #16

    First Indonesian Traditional Massage

    First Indonesian Traditional Massage

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    Chris DiFonso
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What is going on here? What's with the scratches?

    Lemmy Atheem
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Keruk" or "kerukan" is an indonesian traditional massage where your back is scratched with a coin. and if you're wondering, yes it hurts. a lot. then you feel better the next day. the scratches remain for a few days.

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    Amy Lam
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's mainly for when you're really sick. Warms up the body and reliefs body aches.

    NQ L
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mom used to do this to me and I absolutely hated it, still do. The other one she did was the sucking cups thing.

    Triesya Aprilia
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i called kerokan. in here, we can "masuk angin"

    Freza Pratama
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ahahaha, it's true, love from Indonesia

    jleitner
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This seems to fit in the category of "because it feels so good when I stop."

    miten sasmita
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's not that bad, but yeah definitely hurts at first. You apply some massage oil or balm before and use a coin with dull edges (preferably old coins) so it doesn't scratch your skin. Indonesians do this when they are feeling cold/flu symptoms. But then again this is not for everyone.

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    #17

    Video Interview

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    Troux
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Love the Donald Duck webcam attire!

    #18

    Life Without Human Contacts

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    Leo H
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Only 14..thats still fresh

    Violet
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's not a cultural gap. Men do this all over the world.

    elfin
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    Premium
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He's going to evolve a whole new strain of deadly viruses.

    JC McQueen
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lmfao!!! Damn, That’s me bro!!😂

    Katherine Gilleland
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    First thing my husband learned when living with me:he doesn’t get the wear a shirt more that once because he is a smelly man

    Paige Garberding
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lotta people hoarding B.O. these days.

    Ralph Spooner
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My excuse, "It's my favorite shirt. It doesn't stink that bad. If you wash it, it will come apart in the washing machine. Then what will I do? LOL!!!! BUT, it works, HA HA HA.

    John L
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you use a 'Thai' Deodorant Stone, you will never have this problem. I started using one in the '80s and haven't looked back ever since. Not only will you not not smell, but you will save 'oddles' of money. Just make certain you hold it tightly, because being wet, it can slip from your fingers, and crack on impact.

    Monika Soffronow
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Crystal deodorant is a type of alternative deodorant made of natural mineral salt called potassium alum , which has been shown to have antimicrobial properties. Potassium alum has been used as a deodorant in Southeast Asia for hundreds of years" https://www.healthline.com/health/crystal-deodorant

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    #19

    Stay Safe

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    Kira K.
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    bc if ppl keep going out, corona won't be gone in time for them to go to bali for the summer

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    #20

    Balinese Memories

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    Ozzie Ogawa
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I tought he was kunto aji 🤣

    Monika Soffronow
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank you. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yNcGtKAacts&list=RDy6ZQiF8dnns&index=5

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    John Kamau
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, that's the move that got you hooked.

    #21

    Like A Fish

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    Leo H
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's to prevent his surf board from floating away

    Enuya
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    5 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What is this thing on his ankle? Some device for guarding swimming children?

    Petra Schaap
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    its attached to his surfplank so he wont lose it when he falls off (thats the reason i always assumed)

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    Garth Robinson
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    5 years ago

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    umm, looks to like its tied to her bikini top???

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    #22

    New Year

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    #23

    Traveling

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    Leo H
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Big smile..and the cat rules

    #24

    Watching Sunsets

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    Ola Polowczyk
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ooooh, Valentino Rossi's mention <3

    Monika Soffronow
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can literally feel her insides aching with laughter! Way to go Valentino! Maybe not Rossi, but anyway.

    DYspLay ARt
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Valentino isn't the best-looking if you ask me...and i don't get it.

    Garth Robinson
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    so, why did she stick a nail in the tyre, at sunset?, and why she laughing? Mmm

    #25

    West In Asia

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    #26

    Time To Travel

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    #27

    I Sea You

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    #28

    How People Celebrate Christmas In Bali

    How People Celebrate Christmas In Bali

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