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“His Face Was Terrifying”: Wife Terrified After Husband Turns “Psychotic”
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“His Face Was Terrifying”: Wife Terrified After Husband Turns “Psychotic”

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By the time you’re married, you should really know your partner. After all, the two of you are planning to spend the rest of your lives together.

Reddit user Substantial_Chair588 adored her husband. She loved him deeply, and believed she had an accurate picture of his values, goals, and how he handles challenges.

But one day, something happened that shook her to her core, leaving her questioning everything she thought she knew about him.

As she explained on the subreddit r/AITAH, the man took out his weapon and pointed it directly at her pregnant belly.

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This pregnant woman was excited to become a parent, but her husband had a scary episode

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And now she doesn’t know what to think

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The incident could’ve ended disastrously

There are at least 49 million households with firearms in the US, and 21 states have safe storage laws where a homeowner can be punished for having unsecured firearms in the home or if a prohibited person accesses one in the home.

In 2021, 48,830 people died from gun-related injuries in the country.

(This equates to 14.6 deaths per 100,000 people – the highest rate since the early 1990s, but still below the peak of 16.3 gun deaths per 100,000 people in 1974.)

Though they tend to get less public attention, gun-related suicides have long accounted for the majority of the figure. In 2021, 54% of all gun-related deaths in the US were suicides (26,328), while 43% were murders (20,958).

However, even if we believe the woman’s husband and accept that he “wasn’t thinking,” it still doesn’t make the entire ordeal any less serious.

During the same year, 549 gun deaths were accidental and 537 involved law enforcement.

About three out of every 100 people will experience an episode of psychosis during their lifetime. When the first one occurs, it is often very frightening, confusing, and distressing, particularly because it is such an unfamiliar experience.

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If this was the case this time, hopefully, it will never happen again.

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People who read the woman’s story didn’t think she was overreacting at all

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In this situation, do you think the husband's actions can be dismissed as a mere joke?
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Alexia
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He's a psychopath and the OP is in serious danger. I hope she listened to the commentators, especially the lady who went through something similar.

Alro
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"so out of character" in general, shouldn't that trigger a visit to a mental health place?

Jill Rhodry
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

possibly. it's also fits abusive m.o. - first sign of abuse during pregnancy, testing the boundary of how far he can go.

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Verena
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Guns and jokes? And not by a stupid teen but a 32y professional? Seriously? Run, and have a chat with his superior

Papa
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I agree. While I go years without ever touching one, I've been around guns my whole life. The very first rule is that you never point a gun at a person if you are not threatened by them, even if you are 100% sure the gun is unloaded. There are no exceptions and no excuses.

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SuperChicken
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Damn! WTH? Even my heart dropped, upon reading the title. Who does that to their pregnant wife? Or, anyone, for that matter? It's never a joke to point a gun at anybody. I agree with the commenters, he did not turn into a psycho, he revealed that he is one. OP needs to report him and she needs to find a safe place. I wish OP all the best and hope she's able to run away safely from that psycho.

Kel_how
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Isn't there some issue with Reddit where if you publish a post on another website that they close the post on Reddit? This was posted only one day ago and I'd think it would be in OP's best interest not to have the post removed. She needs access to the commenters' advice. I wish BP would wait to post these. They're not some interesting fiction; it's real people's lives.

Paul C
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Every single firearms course I have been on has always pointed out you never, ever point a weapon at another person, even if you are 100% certain it is not loaded. He should have his guns taken away and be in prison until he learns that. Deaths occur when people are sloppy with firearms safety. A gun is not dangerous, but the person holding it can be.

Fellfromthemoon
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The only "weapon" that is ok to point at anyone is a neon-bright pink watergun filled with tap/pool water, and even this is not true in every occassion. Everything else that REMOTELY looks like a real firearm shall never be used without everybody knowing that it is a toy.

justagirl
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2 months ago

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and spoons! don't forget spoons can be fearsome weapons when gouging out eyeballs/jk

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Monica G
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Pregnancy can trigger true colors in men that faked normalcy untill then. 🚩🚩🚩

Gen X Feral
Community Member
2 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Christt on a crutch, cracker and a crusade!!! RUN!!! I had to ride with my husband to restart our well and that meant bouncing around on a atv in the dark past his mother's chicken coop. I wanted to see the chickens and accidentally pointed my 9m at them instead of the spotlight I had in my other hand. If not for the safety I could of shot at the chickens! I had a total guilt laden panic attack. And those were chickens I didn't even know, let alone my loving wife and unborn baby ffs.

Alexandra Rupp
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Statistics say that women are in the most danger from spousal abuse/being murdered by their partners when they are pregnant. Also, people in law enforsement and the military have high instances of narcissism and the reputation of being abusers.... this is serious, the OP's life is in severe danger... listen to your gut and RUN

Grenelda Thurber
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh no, honey, please, please get away from this man. My very uneducated, backwoods (but wise) grandfather said to never point a gun, loaded or unloaded, not even a toy gun, at something you don't intend to kill. Your husband is a trained law enforcement professional. He was trying out how it felt to point at gun at you and your unborn child. He wanted to see how you would react. He knew exactly what he was doing. It wasn't a joke. Nobody's laughing.

Schmebulock
Community Member
2 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

RUN and get a good lawyer immediately to start the divorce.

Lee Banks
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Get out. I have lived with and worked with domestic violence situations. This act was just the start. He knew better. Many partners don't show their colors until a pregnancy happens. A shocking percentage of perpetrators we dealt with were some form of law enforcement. That was not a joke. He knew better. Get out.

UpupaEpops
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Do you think I scared him?" What the actual f**k?! You point a gun at your unborn child with the explicit intent of scaring them?! I'd be out of there so fast, I'd set a world record.

Ge Po
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Doesn't need to be a psychopath, but it sounds psychological. Could be anything from unrecognized PTSD to a passing TIA. (Miniature stroke that passed without causing lasting damage.) Anyway, as some commenters suggested, she should report it to his department. They should know something is going on. And he should be willing to go to a doctor or therapist, to make sure there are no underlying psychological or cerebral issues. Anyway, she would do good to create distance from him, even only until things are sorted out.

Seanette Blaylock
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm dubious about the TIA theory, having had one myself (a couple of years ago, I'm good now). I basically had standard stroke symptoms, such as being unable to move limbs on one side and speech problems, which resolved within an hour (DH did call 911 when he realized I could NOT get up, which got me a fast trip via ambulance to a nearby hospital). Being me, I did read up on the subject when I could, and that kind of psychiatric incident doesn't seem to be associated with TIA/stroke, so far as a non-medical-professional can tell.

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tracie Rondeau
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No and he can't be trusted a d he puts the baby under stress for fun of it sick when she's stressed baby's stressed n more of this After birth he'll have mentally ill issues Totally wrong g n u accept ut what's next just pointing it is basically abuse psychological abuse tell your lawyer too do t wait so they said why u wait to tell Jealous immature whatever it's tktalky dysfunctional

Deborah B
Community Member
2 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He didn't "turn into" a psychopath, his mask slipped. "so out of character" is really just the end of the love-bombing. She's married, she'd pregnant, she's past the easy-access-to-abortion point, and she's trapped. It starts with a test - can he terrify and threaten her and then convince her (or outsiders) that it's a joke or an accident? If she leaves, he will play the remorseful, didn't mean it, she's over-reacting husband and escape other consequences. If she stays, he's chipped away at her sense of self, her boundries, and her understanding of normality, and he can errode her confidance a little more, and make it harder for her to leave. She needs to leave. Right away. Tell her family. Tell his family, report him to his work, and the internal affairs department. Unless you actually are a psychopath "He theatened me with a gun." is not a joke, it's a death-threat. Either way, run fast, run far.

Jackie Lulu
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was thinking, perhaps he is terrified at the thought of becoming a father, and was acting out. Of course, that is totally beyond inappropriate! Abusers start out slow; first ugly "jokes " like this, then verbal abuse and gaslighting, then pushing and shoving, then increasing forms of violence. You should get out now and don't look back.

Kaeda
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My husband and I live in an open-carry Midwest state and are legal gun owners. The FIRST rule that you learn with gun ownership is that you NEVER point the gun at anything you do not intend to shoot, even if you KNOW it is unloaded and the safety is on. And you sure as hell NEVER point it at a person. Run, OP. What your husband did was not a joke and should not be taken lightly.

Jerome Lenovo
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

sooner or later, this "guy" will commit an atrocious act. He's dangerous, like most cops.

Orysha
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Another bastard cop...What a surprise...Point a gun at his head and see how he reacts. Run fast, run far and never return.

Lyoness
Community Member
1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

People saying she should seek counselling or talk to a family member have never been in an abusive relationship. She needs to get to a safe place first, then she can consider other options. It's not worth the risk to wait.

blinkaoa187
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My mind didn't automatically go to him being an abuser, but even if he isn't, his actions would definitely suggest to me he is not currently stable and his work superiors should be informed. Law enforcement has to be a high stress job, and that absolutely doesn't absolve him of this being extremely inappropriately and the first sign of possible abuse, it could also indicate that he is not dealing with work stressors in a healthy way. The reaction of her law enforcement brother is also highly concerning. The important thing would be to document with his work his actions and to make sure she is safe as others have said.

LaserBrain
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Can't be a good law enforcement worker if he ignores the first rule of firearm safety: Never aim at anything you're not willing to shoot. Somehow I'm not surprised to read that, though.

T Barth
Community Member
Premium
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If he's in law enforcement I would go to his superiors and report what happened.

Debra Robinson
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hope she got/ get out and never has to worry about that psychoshit anymore

Eve Mraz
Community Member
1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Off and on topic, the comment calling him a predator saying he was 'f*****g a 19 year old', she clearly stated that this is their first baby together and they've been married for three years. How in the hell is he a predator?

Steve Hall
Community Member
2 months ago

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He is an idiot and she is full of hormones, not a great time to listen to the people on the internet.

Tamra
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He's more than an idiot. No sane, reasonable person would point a gun at his wife's pregnant belly.

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Alexia
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He's a psychopath and the OP is in serious danger. I hope she listened to the commentators, especially the lady who went through something similar.

Alro
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"so out of character" in general, shouldn't that trigger a visit to a mental health place?

Jill Rhodry
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

possibly. it's also fits abusive m.o. - first sign of abuse during pregnancy, testing the boundary of how far he can go.

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Verena
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Guns and jokes? And not by a stupid teen but a 32y professional? Seriously? Run, and have a chat with his superior

Papa
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I agree. While I go years without ever touching one, I've been around guns my whole life. The very first rule is that you never point a gun at a person if you are not threatened by them, even if you are 100% sure the gun is unloaded. There are no exceptions and no excuses.

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SuperChicken
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Damn! WTH? Even my heart dropped, upon reading the title. Who does that to their pregnant wife? Or, anyone, for that matter? It's never a joke to point a gun at anybody. I agree with the commenters, he did not turn into a psycho, he revealed that he is one. OP needs to report him and she needs to find a safe place. I wish OP all the best and hope she's able to run away safely from that psycho.

Kel_how
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Isn't there some issue with Reddit where if you publish a post on another website that they close the post on Reddit? This was posted only one day ago and I'd think it would be in OP's best interest not to have the post removed. She needs access to the commenters' advice. I wish BP would wait to post these. They're not some interesting fiction; it's real people's lives.

Paul C
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Every single firearms course I have been on has always pointed out you never, ever point a weapon at another person, even if you are 100% certain it is not loaded. He should have his guns taken away and be in prison until he learns that. Deaths occur when people are sloppy with firearms safety. A gun is not dangerous, but the person holding it can be.

Fellfromthemoon
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The only "weapon" that is ok to point at anyone is a neon-bright pink watergun filled with tap/pool water, and even this is not true in every occassion. Everything else that REMOTELY looks like a real firearm shall never be used without everybody knowing that it is a toy.

justagirl
Community Member
2 months ago

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and spoons! don't forget spoons can be fearsome weapons when gouging out eyeballs/jk

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Monica G
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Pregnancy can trigger true colors in men that faked normalcy untill then. 🚩🚩🚩

Gen X Feral
Community Member
2 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Christt on a crutch, cracker and a crusade!!! RUN!!! I had to ride with my husband to restart our well and that meant bouncing around on a atv in the dark past his mother's chicken coop. I wanted to see the chickens and accidentally pointed my 9m at them instead of the spotlight I had in my other hand. If not for the safety I could of shot at the chickens! I had a total guilt laden panic attack. And those were chickens I didn't even know, let alone my loving wife and unborn baby ffs.

Alexandra Rupp
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Statistics say that women are in the most danger from spousal abuse/being murdered by their partners when they are pregnant. Also, people in law enforsement and the military have high instances of narcissism and the reputation of being abusers.... this is serious, the OP's life is in severe danger... listen to your gut and RUN

Grenelda Thurber
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh no, honey, please, please get away from this man. My very uneducated, backwoods (but wise) grandfather said to never point a gun, loaded or unloaded, not even a toy gun, at something you don't intend to kill. Your husband is a trained law enforcement professional. He was trying out how it felt to point at gun at you and your unborn child. He wanted to see how you would react. He knew exactly what he was doing. It wasn't a joke. Nobody's laughing.

Schmebulock
Community Member
2 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

RUN and get a good lawyer immediately to start the divorce.

Lee Banks
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Get out. I have lived with and worked with domestic violence situations. This act was just the start. He knew better. Many partners don't show their colors until a pregnancy happens. A shocking percentage of perpetrators we dealt with were some form of law enforcement. That was not a joke. He knew better. Get out.

UpupaEpops
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Do you think I scared him?" What the actual f**k?! You point a gun at your unborn child with the explicit intent of scaring them?! I'd be out of there so fast, I'd set a world record.

Ge Po
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Doesn't need to be a psychopath, but it sounds psychological. Could be anything from unrecognized PTSD to a passing TIA. (Miniature stroke that passed without causing lasting damage.) Anyway, as some commenters suggested, she should report it to his department. They should know something is going on. And he should be willing to go to a doctor or therapist, to make sure there are no underlying psychological or cerebral issues. Anyway, she would do good to create distance from him, even only until things are sorted out.

Seanette Blaylock
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm dubious about the TIA theory, having had one myself (a couple of years ago, I'm good now). I basically had standard stroke symptoms, such as being unable to move limbs on one side and speech problems, which resolved within an hour (DH did call 911 when he realized I could NOT get up, which got me a fast trip via ambulance to a nearby hospital). Being me, I did read up on the subject when I could, and that kind of psychiatric incident doesn't seem to be associated with TIA/stroke, so far as a non-medical-professional can tell.

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tracie Rondeau
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No and he can't be trusted a d he puts the baby under stress for fun of it sick when she's stressed baby's stressed n more of this After birth he'll have mentally ill issues Totally wrong g n u accept ut what's next just pointing it is basically abuse psychological abuse tell your lawyer too do t wait so they said why u wait to tell Jealous immature whatever it's tktalky dysfunctional

Deborah B
Community Member
2 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He didn't "turn into" a psychopath, his mask slipped. "so out of character" is really just the end of the love-bombing. She's married, she'd pregnant, she's past the easy-access-to-abortion point, and she's trapped. It starts with a test - can he terrify and threaten her and then convince her (or outsiders) that it's a joke or an accident? If she leaves, he will play the remorseful, didn't mean it, she's over-reacting husband and escape other consequences. If she stays, he's chipped away at her sense of self, her boundries, and her understanding of normality, and he can errode her confidance a little more, and make it harder for her to leave. She needs to leave. Right away. Tell her family. Tell his family, report him to his work, and the internal affairs department. Unless you actually are a psychopath "He theatened me with a gun." is not a joke, it's a death-threat. Either way, run fast, run far.

Jackie Lulu
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was thinking, perhaps he is terrified at the thought of becoming a father, and was acting out. Of course, that is totally beyond inappropriate! Abusers start out slow; first ugly "jokes " like this, then verbal abuse and gaslighting, then pushing and shoving, then increasing forms of violence. You should get out now and don't look back.

Kaeda
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My husband and I live in an open-carry Midwest state and are legal gun owners. The FIRST rule that you learn with gun ownership is that you NEVER point the gun at anything you do not intend to shoot, even if you KNOW it is unloaded and the safety is on. And you sure as hell NEVER point it at a person. Run, OP. What your husband did was not a joke and should not be taken lightly.

Jerome Lenovo
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

sooner or later, this "guy" will commit an atrocious act. He's dangerous, like most cops.

Orysha
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Another bastard cop...What a surprise...Point a gun at his head and see how he reacts. Run fast, run far and never return.

Lyoness
Community Member
1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

People saying she should seek counselling or talk to a family member have never been in an abusive relationship. She needs to get to a safe place first, then she can consider other options. It's not worth the risk to wait.

blinkaoa187
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My mind didn't automatically go to him being an abuser, but even if he isn't, his actions would definitely suggest to me he is not currently stable and his work superiors should be informed. Law enforcement has to be a high stress job, and that absolutely doesn't absolve him of this being extremely inappropriately and the first sign of possible abuse, it could also indicate that he is not dealing with work stressors in a healthy way. The reaction of her law enforcement brother is also highly concerning. The important thing would be to document with his work his actions and to make sure she is safe as others have said.

LaserBrain
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Can't be a good law enforcement worker if he ignores the first rule of firearm safety: Never aim at anything you're not willing to shoot. Somehow I'm not surprised to read that, though.

T Barth
Community Member
Premium
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If he's in law enforcement I would go to his superiors and report what happened.

Debra Robinson
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hope she got/ get out and never has to worry about that psychoshit anymore

Eve Mraz
Community Member
1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Off and on topic, the comment calling him a predator saying he was 'f*****g a 19 year old', she clearly stated that this is their first baby together and they've been married for three years. How in the hell is he a predator?

Steve Hall
Community Member
2 months ago

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He is an idiot and she is full of hormones, not a great time to listen to the people on the internet.

Tamra
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He's more than an idiot. No sane, reasonable person would point a gun at his wife's pregnant belly.

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