It's a tragedy that male victims of abuse including cases such as this, as well as male victims of domestic and sexual violence are dismissed. No wonder men don't come forward. Many people don't even believe that men can be taped by women, and male victims of domestic abuse as often viewed as weak. It's abhorrent. If you are a male victim, please know that there is help out there even if it doesn't seem like it. You don't have to suffer in silence.

I feel like we need to grow up as a society and realize that anything can happen to anyone your trauma and experiences matter no gender or race no matter what you said or did its not your fault its sad shame on everyone who laughed at him!!!

I think I may have shared this story before. I used to work with a registered sex offender who was actually the victim of the crime. When he was 21 years old, his roommate’s 15 year old sister drugged and raped him. The roommate finds the two naked together and in order to protect her own ass, the girl cries rape. Her story falls apart in court and she eventually confesses that she wasn’t raped but she had actually drugged and raped my co-worker. The judge immediately releases my co-worker from custody. Two weeks later, he’s arrested again. The state decided, despite the fact he was the victim of rape and did not consent to sex, he still engaged in sexual activity with a minor and it’s an intolerable offense in which he was not immune from punishment. He spent six years in jail for statutory rape and has to spend the rest of his life as a registered sex offender. This is the condensed version of the story but it is 100% legit. I did his background check and saw the court documents myself.

As a female, it absolutely disgusts me that people are willing to downplay assault on men because they "should be stronger" or because "a man can't be r*ped", then turn around and are advocates for people to not dismiss female trauma. Honestly, we NEED to stop with toxic masculinity. While I'm 100% for taking women's assault seriously, I refuse to be a person who supports hurt women then laughs at hurt men.

Once drinking with a buddy, we ordered a shot ironically called a memory eraser. It was the last thing either of us remember for hours. I woke up at home on the couch with the front door wide open. We had both been drinking beer before, so we told ourselves it must have been a bad drink combo, but it was so odd I have never forgotten. I have always been embarrassed by it so I don't typically tell anyone.

Very surprised now that people are still drugging drinks. It's so disrespectful. He should go back to that bar and demand to see the security tapes and who was charging on his tab. If they refuse he should call the police. Honestly male or female it's endangerment and luckily he didn't drive. Also theft. Prob more too. Just angry this happened to him.

I used to work at a Rape Crisis hotline and all the calls I got were men telling me this exact story.

There's a certain RnB/Pop star who has stated that she used to drug men regularly to rob them. Despite a public confession on social media she has never faced prosecution and many of her fans still love her. Having been drink spiked more than once, I think she's scum.

I'm a female teacher and always tell both my female and male students to be careful with their drinks! Some of the male students joke about it at the start, but when I tell them about they could get robbed or a girl could try to force a child on them they sobber up.

"Check bum for abrasions" - seriously? That's a bit callous!

I didn't get drugged but I was harassed and sexually assaulted by a female boss. She would constantly ask me about whether I was circumcised or snipped. Told me about her gentalia, told me about explicit dreams she had about me. On a work trip, after drinking she put her hands down my pants in public. In addition, she would constantly put down and attack my spouse, despite not knowing her; trying to sow division. Eventually, after we no longer worked together but had stayed in contact - she was well connected in a small industry and could damage my career - she turned on me, started spreading lies, and then started threatening to falsely accuse me, which forced me to engage a lawyer. Despite this, despite evidence, where she admitted to assaulting me, no one took it seriously. Successful, attractive woman - i'm an average guy at best - so it was dismissed with the usual, I must have liked it, wanted it, was lucky to have it happen, "if it did happen".

yo have to be a super shitty friend if one of your friend, man or woman, come to you telling that something happen to them, and you laugh

My work mate was spiked one night, a big dude as well, luckily he managed to make it to our office building about 15 mins away from where he was. He was found outside the lift (elevator) passed out and covered in puke, by the security guard, the dude doesn't even drink alcohol.

It has happened to me in Miami, Munchen, and Elkins West Virginia, where they wanted to know where I really was from. But I know a bit of drugs and it's difficult for me now to loose control.

Anybody can be vulnerable.

Why would I disbelieve a man being drugged? For theft, for a "joke" (that has happened), to be assaulted sexually (yes, it happens).....It may be "less likely", but that doesn't mean it doesn't happen. I'm tired of this being a gendered issue. It's wrong. The end.

Unless men are being drugged by other men, no one cares. Don't go pretending that women drugging men is even remotely common.

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l have one last chance on socity if this happens again we shall plot on jan 17 on google meets and enter the code timeforwar and plot