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Man Takes Action After ‘Nosy’ Neighbor Leaves Odd Note On His Parked Vehicle
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Man Takes Action After ‘Nosy’ Neighbor Leaves Odd Note On His Parked Vehicle

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Explain your plans or reason for parking here,” read a bizarre note left on a car windshield of a content creator, who then shared the story on a viral clip on TikTok.

Dan Lawrence shared a video of his reaction, which has more than 4,000 likes and 300 comments at the time of writing, after finding a handwritten note on the windshield of his parked car.

Highlights
  • A man confronts a neighbor after finding a note on his car asking him to explain his reason for parking there.
  • Dan Lawrence shared his reaction to the note on TikTok, garnering more than 4,000 likes and 300 comments.
  • The neighbor, an elderly woman, mistakenly thought Lawrence might be a car dealer because of his parked vehicle.

“When I was 18, did I get notes on my car?” said the TikToker, feeling that he was being compared to a younger, more irresponsible person.

“Yeah, because I parked in silly places. Of course, I did. I’m 40, nearly 40, late 30s, if you want to.”

“And I’ve got a note on my car for parking in a sensible place,” he continued.

Lawrence then went on to confront the neighbor responsible for the note and found out, to his surprise, that it was an old lady who thought he might’ve been a car dealer.

A man goes viral after confronting a “nosy” neighbor who left a note on his parked car asking him to “explain his plans” for leaving his vehicle in front of their house

Image credits: danlawrence

I parked in a nice part of town because my car is my pride and joy. I worked really, really hard to get back on my feet and to try and get myself a car,” the TikToker explained, noting that he takes special care not to have his vehicle involved in misdemeanors.

“But it’s just a normal road. It’s a little, just a normal road, not even a cul-de-sac.”

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He then proceeded to show the note to his viewers, and it read: 

“We are concerned about cars left outside our house for so long. Please call at number two to explain your plans or reason for parking. If we know you, we can help. Thank you.”

Image credits: danlawrence

“I’ve just popped off to Scotland and certainly I don’t need to let you know my plans,” he replied.

Feeling treated like a suspicious person and being asked to disclose his intentions for being in a public place, Lawrence decided to go and confront the nosy neighbor himself.

“Here’s some advice,” he continued. “Don’t put notes on cars, especially if you’ve got your own driveway that holds about four cars.”

“I’m not obstructing anyone. I’ve paid my road tax.”

A second video uploaded shortly after sees Lawrence approach the house of the person who left the note

Image credits: danlawrence

Lawrence was taken aback after being confronted by a woman who was “visibly 80” and who explained in a polite manner the reasons for her leaving the note.

“When there’s a car out there, we tend to take concern if it’s right outside our door.”

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“Usually, when people do that they might be my visitor or they come and tell me what they’re doing,” she said.

“Obviously, I didn’t think I would have to knock on someone’s door. I pay my taxes. I can park in any public place I want,” Lawrence replied.

Image credits: danlawrence

“Well, there was a man who had been putting a fiesta out there, so I thought you might’ve been a car dealer,” the woman revealed.

“I was thinking of checking if the vehicle was registered or insured. I might’ve even called the police.”

“It’s alright, but keep in mind that not everyone that parks outside your door is going to be a car dealer,” the TikToker told her, trying to reassure her of his intentions.

“I’m really glad you came, thank you,” the woman said before closing the door.

In the UK, as long as vehicles are properly taxed and authorized for the road, drivers can park without issues in public spaces

Image credits: danlawrence

However, in cases of businesses or cars left on the street for repair purposes, legal action can be pursued.

A car business, in British legal terms, occurs when an individual “leaves two or more cars for sale on the road within 500 meters of each other.”

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The country has also determined different parking zones with specific rules that drivers must follow:

Controlled Parking Zones (CPZ) restrict waiting and loading during certain times, while Restricted Parking Zones (RPZ) enforce restrictions without visible road markings, requiring drivers to check signs for details. There are also Permit Parking Areas (PPA) that require authorization beforehand.

As a rule of thumb, as long as a street is open to the public, clear of any yellow, white, or red lines, and without specific signs limiting their access, users should be able to park without issues.

Penalty fines can range between 50 to 70 pounds, with both rates being reduced by 50% if the person pays within 14 days, according to the UK’s government official site.

Lawrence’s viewers empathized with his annoyance, sharing similar experiences they’ve had in the past and agreeing with his views on the matter

Image credits: danlawrence

@danlawrence I cant believe they put an actual note on my car 😱 pt1 #wtf #fyp #fyppppppppppppppppppppppp #fypage #adult #busybody #driver #tax #weird #right #wrong #help ♬ The Champion – Lux-Inspira

“I laugh at people who think they own the roads outside their houses,” said one user.

“That’s the nicest passive aggressive note ever,” wrote another.

“Unless they own the space that you parked in, then they should mind their own flaming business,” agreed one of his fans.

“I mean that’s the nicest note I’ve ever seen. I got my car keyed 3 times for parking in a street legally so think yourself lucky,” shared one woman.

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@danlawrence Would you have knocked? 🤷‍♂️ pt.2 #parking #awkward #busybody #whosright #fyp #fyppppppppppppppppppppppp #fypage #foryou #roadwars #uhoh #unhappy ♬ A Day in My Life – Soft boy

However, comments in the follow-up clip, where the lady’s age is revealed, were much more understanding of her concerns and noted the polite way in which she explained herself.

“I thought she sounded genuinely concerned and polite, at least now she knows it’s yours,” said one viewer.

“Aww she sounded lovely,” expressed another.

“I suppose maybe she was worried about it and it make her nervous so she just likes to know the person,” argued one user.

“What she did was harmless, and she was so polite, bless her. She said she was concerned, which is understandable,” explained another.

Regardless of the neighbor’s age, the TikToker remained firm in his beliefs.

“If you pay your car tax, park where you want as long as you’re not obstructing a driveway. Don’t worry about what other people think.”

“I don’t know why people take it upon themselves to decide that they own part of the road,” he said after returning to his car.

“That’s the nicest note ever” Viewers shared their own parking troubles, with many stating they’ve had worse happen to them

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shanecaraher avatar
Pedantic Panda
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3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Quite a few people park outside my home for the same reason, it's a quite rural and I do find it annoying as it reduces parking spaces for me but as was mentioned, no laws are being broken. But she wrote a reasonably polite note, you could have just talked to her without having to tik tok it. For me, that's the most annoying bit.

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TheBlueBitterfly
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3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, really, this was a total non-issue. It sounds like he doesn't live right there? (I mean I might have missed that part, I don't know.) Also like maybe she had problems in the past? I myself would be slightly concerned with a strange car parked in front of my house for days. She was polite about the whole thing. He's the one making a big deal out if it.

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karen snyder
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3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How is a completely reasonable exchange between neighbors reason to post and repost on socials? This makes me want to delete boredpanda. I'm honestly questioning my own time wasting life choices right now.

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UKGrandad
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3 weeks ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What an absolute attention seeking cockwomble. He obviously didn't want to leave his car outside his own house, either because he lives on the bad side of town or - and the longer he went on the more I think this is more likely - he's irritated his own neighbours so much by being such an insufferably smug pratt that he can't trust them, so instead he's sought out a quiet residential street in the nice part of town to leave his car. And why did he do that? Because he knows that the reason quiet little residential streets in the nice part of town are safe is because the residents know their neighbours, their neighbours' cars, and their neighbours' routines: they keep an eye out for things that are out of place. These are the things that make such streets safe and that's why he chose to park there, so why then make such a fuss when a resident demonstrates that he made the right choice? Awe, the little old lady left a note on your car? Maybe you should have had the basic courtesy...(cont)

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UKGrandad
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3 weeks ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

(cont) to knock on the door before you left your car, or even put a note through the letterbox just to let her know why a strange car was going to be parked there for a few days? But, no, you just left it there and then made a drama about it when the resident showed you exactly why it was a safe place to leave it. As a side note, not only is he smug, inconsiderate and insufferable, he also has the most punchable face I've ever seen.

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shanecaraher avatar
Pedantic Panda
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3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Quite a few people park outside my home for the same reason, it's a quite rural and I do find it annoying as it reduces parking spaces for me but as was mentioned, no laws are being broken. But she wrote a reasonably polite note, you could have just talked to her without having to tik tok it. For me, that's the most annoying bit.

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TheBlueBitterfly
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3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, really, this was a total non-issue. It sounds like he doesn't live right there? (I mean I might have missed that part, I don't know.) Also like maybe she had problems in the past? I myself would be slightly concerned with a strange car parked in front of my house for days. She was polite about the whole thing. He's the one making a big deal out if it.

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karen snyder
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3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How is a completely reasonable exchange between neighbors reason to post and repost on socials? This makes me want to delete boredpanda. I'm honestly questioning my own time wasting life choices right now.

bksf avatar
UKGrandad
Community Member
3 weeks ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What an absolute attention seeking cockwomble. He obviously didn't want to leave his car outside his own house, either because he lives on the bad side of town or - and the longer he went on the more I think this is more likely - he's irritated his own neighbours so much by being such an insufferably smug pratt that he can't trust them, so instead he's sought out a quiet residential street in the nice part of town to leave his car. And why did he do that? Because he knows that the reason quiet little residential streets in the nice part of town are safe is because the residents know their neighbours, their neighbours' cars, and their neighbours' routines: they keep an eye out for things that are out of place. These are the things that make such streets safe and that's why he chose to park there, so why then make such a fuss when a resident demonstrates that he made the right choice? Awe, the little old lady left a note on your car? Maybe you should have had the basic courtesy...(cont)

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UKGrandad
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3 weeks ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

(cont) to knock on the door before you left your car, or even put a note through the letterbox just to let her know why a strange car was going to be parked there for a few days? But, no, you just left it there and then made a drama about it when the resident showed you exactly why it was a safe place to leave it. As a side note, not only is he smug, inconsiderate and insufferable, he also has the most punchable face I've ever seen.

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