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“Scaring The Customers”: Man Says Restaurant Threw Him Out Because Of His Facial Disfigurement

“Scaring The Customers”: Man Says Restaurant Threw Him Out Because Of His Facial Disfigurement

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Oliver Bromley’s recent visit to a South London restaurant allegedly took a disheartening turn when the staff asked him to leave because he was “scaring the customers.”

As he lives with Neurofibromatosis Type 1, the British man revealed that it was a “horrible thing to happen,” and he took it “very personally.”

Neurofibromatosis Type 1 is a genetic condition that can lead to tumors (usually non-cancerous) developing on the nerves, which can consequently alter one’s appearance.

Oliver was receiving treatment from the King’s College Hospital when the August incident took place. He said he wasn’t in the mood for hospital food and was looking for a simple meal when he went to the restaurant in Camberwell.

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    Oliver Bromley was asked to leave a South London restaurant because the staff claimed he was “scaring the customers”

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    Upon entering the establishment, he encountered a cash-only sign, prompting him to step outside to withdraw money. However, upon returning to place his order, he reportedly faced a shocking rejection.

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    “After entering I noticed a cash-only sign, so went straight back outside to withdraw my money,” he told BBC. “I went back into the restaurant to place an order, and they told me to ‘please leave,’ because in their words I was ‘scaring the customers‘, and there had been complaints about me.”

    “There had not been enough time between the time I had been there first, and the time I went back, for anyone to have made a complaint about me so obviously the restaurant staff were not happy with the way I looked,” he continued.

    Following the incident, Oliver lodged a formal complaint but received no response from the restaurant.

    This led him to report the matter to the police, who described the incident as a hate crime but said they were “unlikely” to further pursue the matter.

    “It’s a horrible thing to happen. I took it very personally on the day,” he said about the August incident

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    Nerve Tumours UK—an organization that provides crucial medical and non-medical support to individuals and families affected by Neurofibromatosis—said they wrote to the restaurant in question but received no response.

    “We were extremely disappointed to hear news of the dreadful, but sadly not uncommon, incident that Oliver Bromley experienced whilst attempting to purchase lunch,” Karen Cockburn, Charity Director of Nerve Tumours UK, told Bored Panda via email.

    She explained that Oliver has the option to take legal action if he felt “discriminated against.”

    “We work tirelessly to raise both the profile of the condition and the work that we do to help patients; and also to educate the wider public about the condition,” she added. “If Oliver felt that he had been discriminated against, there is the option that he could have a case under the 2010 Equalities Act, in which ‘severe disfigurement’ is a protected characteristic.”

    Although the organization received no response from the restaurant, Karen noted that UK Hospitality (the trade body for hospitality in the country) agreed to work with Nerve Tumours UK to raise awareness.

    Despite the emotional toll, Oliver said the incident is allowing him to “create awareness around people with facial deformities, facial differences.”

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    “We have written to both the restaurant concerned, and to UK Hospitality, the trade association body,” she said. Whilst we have not received any response from the restaurant, I am delighted to say that UK Hospitality has offered to work with us to raise awareness of the condition amongst the hospitality sector, and I am meeting with them shortly to kick start this joint venture.”

    Despite the toll the incident took on Oliver and his family, he said the incident is allowing him to “create awareness around people with facial deformities, facial differences.”

    “It’s not about me. It’s never been about me,” he added. “I don’t want retribution.”

    He also noted that it could have been the restaurant staff’s lack of knowledge about the medical condition that led to their actions.

    “They probably thought having tumors was contagious or something,” he told the outlet.

    Netizens agreed that it was “awful” that the restaurant would turn him away because of his facial differences

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    R Dennis
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Literally anyone can become disfigured. If it makes someone uncomfortable, maybe they could try minding their own business...

    TheBlueBitterfly
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Friend of my husband's has this. It's horrible the way she's treated even by her own family! (She just got married, though, snd I'm insanely happy for her, her husband is a pretty decent guy. ) She gets harassed even when she's out walking her dog, got absolutely ridiculed posting a video of her and her husband singing and goofing off. People can be disgusting sometimes.

    LonelyLittleLeafSheep
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's horrifying! I hope you call out the terrible behavior to those a******s if you're a witness. They won't stop until they're shames out loud. And maybe not even then, but at least you can show your support to your friend.

    Load More Replies...
    Cee Cee
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Poor guy hasn't had an easy road through life and this bunch of mean people have made it that bit worse. Shame on them.

    Myoviridae
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is the reason I could not work in hospitality again. I would have asked the complaining customers if I could bring them pitchforks so that they may march upon the offending person in appropriate style. (I also would have charged a lot for the pitchforks, but with a discount for more than 3) /s (obviously)

    LonelyLittleLeafSheep
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can't believe none of the patrons had the balls to call them out. I will. I'm getting older and no longer care what others think so I'll make a big ol' scene in public if it shames a******s.

    Load More Replies...
    BrownEyedPanda
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am in total agreement with the "name and shame" commenters. Not only that, but I would also recommend creating a list of businesses that are guilty of the offense. Declare them blacklisted, and see how quickly the management changes its tune.

    Okiedokie
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can pretty safely say one thing I have never done in life is make fun of someone for their looks. You can't change how you look, it's how you were born. this restaurant should be ashamed.

    Douglas Tucker
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We humans always have thoughts about other diners, their fashion sense, how they slurp their soup and other concerns. As many here say, this should not be the restaurant's call any more than the race or gender of a potential paying customer. This is the moment where anyone could have stood up and let management know, "What you are doing is wrong. I hope a few of these customers went online with their review of this restaurant's decision. not right." I hope some of the diners responded on the restaurant ratings sites pointing out this injustice. Just saying...

    Laura Slade
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Illegal under the Equalities Act, restaurant should be charged

    LonelyLittleLeafSheep
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And no one else in the restaurant stood up for him. Shame on them too! If I was witness to this kind of outright bigotry, I would have stepped up and loudly shamed the restaurant right then and there. And then invited him and his wife to join me.

    lisa Sharp (Lil Purple)
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I use a wheelchair and I also suffer pain in my legs w spasms and jerks. Usually and understandably children will look but they often smile or think it funny. Adults usually!lly avoid eye contact or have been a bit rude by not talking politely to me . But I feel the eyes n hear the mumbles. If u can't be nice be nothing. All the best Oliver. I loved Kings college hospital my son was born there.

    Beak Hookage
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Another demonstration of the fact that you can look perfectly "normal" and "nice" on the outside yet have an ugly heart within, while someone who looks different and "ugly" is most definitely not the monster. Even if there's no legal consequences I hope the court of public opinion does its work and a few people get fired at the very least.

    Christopher Crockett
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would pursue legal recourse and then seek financial compensation. I don't need the money, so I would donate it to a charity that deals with this condition. Then I would make sure to let the restaurant employees and owners know where their money went. And why. And I would make it as public as possible.

    Granny's Thoughts
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I worked in a nice restaurant and once a week an elderly couple came in. The woman looked like she'd been horribly burnt. I did my best to seat them in nice areas. Very nice people. I think I'd have clobbered anyone who looked down on them.

    tori Ohno
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The customers who complained can be the ones to leave. Oh, that's right, he wasn't in there long enough to be seen, it's the staff that kicked him out. Please post the name of the restaurant, they'll get what they deserve after that.

    Iva Kazalova
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why do I think there is more to this story than he’s letting on, I seriously doubt any establishment in this day and age will deny him entry over his disfigurement

    Kylie
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You've never noticed that often on BP (and reddit obviously) often the photos have the writing backwards?

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    R Dennis
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Literally anyone can become disfigured. If it makes someone uncomfortable, maybe they could try minding their own business...

    TheBlueBitterfly
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Friend of my husband's has this. It's horrible the way she's treated even by her own family! (She just got married, though, snd I'm insanely happy for her, her husband is a pretty decent guy. ) She gets harassed even when she's out walking her dog, got absolutely ridiculed posting a video of her and her husband singing and goofing off. People can be disgusting sometimes.

    LonelyLittleLeafSheep
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's horrifying! I hope you call out the terrible behavior to those a******s if you're a witness. They won't stop until they're shames out loud. And maybe not even then, but at least you can show your support to your friend.

    Load More Replies...
    Cee Cee
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Poor guy hasn't had an easy road through life and this bunch of mean people have made it that bit worse. Shame on them.

    Myoviridae
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is the reason I could not work in hospitality again. I would have asked the complaining customers if I could bring them pitchforks so that they may march upon the offending person in appropriate style. (I also would have charged a lot for the pitchforks, but with a discount for more than 3) /s (obviously)

    LonelyLittleLeafSheep
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can't believe none of the patrons had the balls to call them out. I will. I'm getting older and no longer care what others think so I'll make a big ol' scene in public if it shames a******s.

    Load More Replies...
    BrownEyedPanda
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am in total agreement with the "name and shame" commenters. Not only that, but I would also recommend creating a list of businesses that are guilty of the offense. Declare them blacklisted, and see how quickly the management changes its tune.

    Okiedokie
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can pretty safely say one thing I have never done in life is make fun of someone for their looks. You can't change how you look, it's how you were born. this restaurant should be ashamed.

    Douglas Tucker
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We humans always have thoughts about other diners, their fashion sense, how they slurp their soup and other concerns. As many here say, this should not be the restaurant's call any more than the race or gender of a potential paying customer. This is the moment where anyone could have stood up and let management know, "What you are doing is wrong. I hope a few of these customers went online with their review of this restaurant's decision. not right." I hope some of the diners responded on the restaurant ratings sites pointing out this injustice. Just saying...

    Laura Slade
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Illegal under the Equalities Act, restaurant should be charged

    LonelyLittleLeafSheep
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And no one else in the restaurant stood up for him. Shame on them too! If I was witness to this kind of outright bigotry, I would have stepped up and loudly shamed the restaurant right then and there. And then invited him and his wife to join me.

    lisa Sharp (Lil Purple)
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I use a wheelchair and I also suffer pain in my legs w spasms and jerks. Usually and understandably children will look but they often smile or think it funny. Adults usually!lly avoid eye contact or have been a bit rude by not talking politely to me . But I feel the eyes n hear the mumbles. If u can't be nice be nothing. All the best Oliver. I loved Kings college hospital my son was born there.

    Beak Hookage
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Another demonstration of the fact that you can look perfectly "normal" and "nice" on the outside yet have an ugly heart within, while someone who looks different and "ugly" is most definitely not the monster. Even if there's no legal consequences I hope the court of public opinion does its work and a few people get fired at the very least.

    Christopher Crockett
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would pursue legal recourse and then seek financial compensation. I don't need the money, so I would donate it to a charity that deals with this condition. Then I would make sure to let the restaurant employees and owners know where their money went. And why. And I would make it as public as possible.

    Granny's Thoughts
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I worked in a nice restaurant and once a week an elderly couple came in. The woman looked like she'd been horribly burnt. I did my best to seat them in nice areas. Very nice people. I think I'd have clobbered anyone who looked down on them.

    tori Ohno
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The customers who complained can be the ones to leave. Oh, that's right, he wasn't in there long enough to be seen, it's the staff that kicked him out. Please post the name of the restaurant, they'll get what they deserve after that.

    Iva Kazalova
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why do I think there is more to this story than he’s letting on, I seriously doubt any establishment in this day and age will deny him entry over his disfigurement

    Kylie
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You've never noticed that often on BP (and reddit obviously) often the photos have the writing backwards?

    Load More Replies...
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