It's not just retail. I'm a mechanic. I get hit on at the parts counter, explaining to customers, walking back from lunch. No, I don't want to "borrow your tool" I'm gonna need more than than 10mm

I do not know a single woman who has not been treated inappropriately at work by some creeper man. NOT ONE. Dear men: grow up and stop treating women like they're here on this planet just to please you. All this crap is why we need feminism.

When I was a teller MANY years ago, a learned to just start answering the question with a question. "Why do you ask"? They get the drift after a few times..

We should put a sign on the doors "All security videos of creeps will be put online". Flippin Heck, that poor girl. If aunty caro caro had been there .... he would have had a problem: ME.

This reminds me of when I was walking down to my car from my friend’s house at night & a group of 3 guys started asking me questions while I was waiting for the traffic light next to them. It was random question like where are you from, what’s your name etc but there was no conversation prior to that. I was uncomfortable af & ignored them, then they started saying ni hao, xie xie & random ass mandarin because I look Chinese but in fact I don’t understand mandarin or cantonese. They might think they’re being funny or cute but if you do that to a woman walking alone at night, it’s creepy as fk!!

As I trans dude that looks female I have had more than enough experience with creeps like this. I learned three very, very important things: 1. Don't give out info that [creep] could use to find you. 2. If he doesn't leave after you rack up the price and hand him bag, call someone. It doesn't matter if it's your father or a emergency officer, call someone. 3. If you call a male friend to help you out, sometimes that works as well, especially if he [creep] thinks you're single. I hope this helps anyone who's been in a situation like this.

I'm sitting here trying to think of a profession (that involves working with the public, so not a call center or lab research)that this doesn't happen in. I can only speak to working in medicine bc that's been most of my life. Yes I have to touch yoi to place EKG leads or draw blood or start an IV or splint or cast you (list that goes on and on)No that doesn't mean you can touch me too. Don't even get me started on working in physical therapy. If someone's job means they have to physically interact with you that is NOT AN INVITATION. Also, it must be so awful to have to work in a climbing gym or with zip lines. I can't even imagine helping someone in/out of one of those harnesses. Oh or working in shoe sales! I don't want to think about this anymore.

It IS that bad. For those of you say that he was "just hitting" on her, would you like being asked if you have social media, if you go to college, where that college is and how old you are? Honestly "hitting" in public (talking to random strangers who have nothing to do with you and asking them questions to see if they like you) should not even be a thing.

It takes just one bad experience of ignoring an aggressive male to scare you off ignoring them again. I made the mistake of ignoring a drunk man at some house party when I was walking past on the same street on my way home. I didn't make eye contact, kept walking, his attitude changed like a switch "You too good for me B!TCH?", and he came out into the street after me. I don't know what I would have done tbh: but I heard another voice shout "Bro leave her alone!" And I saw a dude grab him. I turned around and fast walked home(I cannot run) the last few blocks. Never again. We can't just ignore them. And thank u mystery dude who pulled his asshole friend into line.

There are probably a lot of people who wouldn't see anything inappropriate about the guy's behavior because he's not saying anything overtly sexual. I've worked as both a waitress and a retail employee, and you have to deal with all sorts of people - both men and women - who are socially inept, or lonely and looking for someone to chat with. And you have to treat them like customers, which means being pleasant and sometimes indulging them a bit. (And truthfully, sometimes you do meet cool people who you enjoy chatting with.) But that also makes it really uncomfortable when someone starts to cross a line. Or when they don't do anything technically wrong, but you're getting a weird vibe from them. Most employees do not receive any training on how to deal with this, and they don't know what do do because they don't know what kind of support they would get from their boss because there's so much grey area. (So glad I don't work in either of those industries any more.)

man , makes me feel ashamed to be a man some times

Jeez, who goes to a store that a cashier has so much time for that convo cashier: Hi, starts scanning items me: Hi, starts loading shopping cart c: That's 350€ please m: Can I pay with a card? (obviously I can, but asking anyway), I pay. Ok thanks, have a nice evening/day/weekend c: Have a nice day Who the f**k has time for a convo as long as the one in this post lol

I wish that men would stop taking up so much damn space. They're privileged and that's why they think they're entitled to a conversation with a woman. Ugh

Sometimes it's not a customer, sometimes it's your boss. The same boss who is (unbeknownst to you) underpaying you while you work you butt off but still barely make rent, cover your bills and feed yourself. Add in a shitty job market so you're too afraid to quit...

This man here has no creepy friends because he has excised all of those cretins from his life, and at anytime he finds that someone else he is acquainted with is like that he informs them of their filth and goes no contact. I can admit that as a young man I fell into some of these activities but I grew up and changed my life and circle of associates accordingly.

The man in the video believes that the entire world owes conversation and money to him.

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I get this problem with older women and gay guys where i work its so annoying

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I'v watched this video and I dont see the big deal. So he hit on a girl. He didnt say anything mean or vulgar, he didnt intimidate her, she answered all his questions. Maybe he thought she was into him, maybe he cant read social ques. He sounded young enough, and she is 19, so unless hes like over 25 its not that bad. Go back and think about how your partner got you. If you didnt find them attrative, I bet you would say they are a creep, but if you did then you were all for it. How can this guy know unless he trys. Now tell me he does this daily, and ill take him out side my self, but a one time shot, you cant blame a guy for making very very very small talk. Trying to find some commen ground. This is a classic Dopler ver Domer. Stop wating your time on this person, and look for a real issue rather than creating one where there is none. I mean really listen to the guy. he says nothing.

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She engaged him in conversation, instead of leading him on all she has to say is "beat it, pal".