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The “CouplesNote” Instagram page shares cute, romantic, and funny memes that are perfect for sharing with your significant other. We also contacted relationship coach and writer Silvy Khoucasian to learn more about important questions to ask yourself when thinking about a relationship. 
So get comfortable as you read through, upvote your favorite relationship love memes, and be sure to share your thoughts and experiences in the comments section below. 
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Bored Panda got in touch with relationship coach and writer Silvy Khoucasian to discuss long-term relationships and some important things to consider before diving in headfirst. After all, love can be blinding, and sometimes not in good ways

“A few questions that are really important for someone to ask themselves before entering a relationship are: What is the relationship vision you are seeking to create? Taking some intentional time to get clear about what you envision in a relationship can help you not waste your time when someone is not on the same page.”

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Natasha Arruda
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I mean, maybe be a little bit conscious of the fact that a marriage is a legal agreement that can definitely bite you in the butt if it goes wrong and treat it as such still but that's just my opinion. 🤷‍♀️

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“You would be amazed at how many people don’t really think about what they are actually looking for in a relationship before they start dating. It’s also okay to not know what you are looking for yet as you may be in an exploratory stage of dating and still getting to know yourself. You can be honest and upfront about that in a way that honors your current stage,” she added. 

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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Bouche and Audi love that little note. It means a new box to eat and packing paper to shred and leave all over the house.

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Jill Rhodry
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh...I love this!!!!! - so many seem to have a 'list' but somehow forget to reflect on what they're offering.

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“What relationship needs are most significant for you? An example of this might be someone who needs a high level of communication or depth. Everyone has certain needs that are significant to them and it’s important to get to know what those things are,” she shared. Even in a perfect relationship, it’s only possible to avoid conflict if both parties are honest and understand boundaries. 

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She also suggested some other questions to keep in mind if you want your relationship to work. “What are your core vulnerabilities that you want to express (early on) to see if the person you’re dating can be sensitive to them? How might you also be curious and sensitive towards the vulnerabilities of those you date?”

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Natasha Arruda
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What?! No! I need to know so I can talk shìt about them with you and have you regal me with how badáss you were doing so!

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We also wanted to hear her opinion on sharing relationship stories and experiences and if she believes it’s important. “I do! I think there is a tendency for some people to only share the highlight reel stuff - And I get that because we all want to impress and be liked. People who have more avoidant tendencies tend to be less vulnerable and transparent in general.”

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“They tend to present the more socially ‘acceptable’ parts of themselves. People with more anxious tendencies can get stuck sharing the really intense and vulnerable stuff a bit too soon because they try to ensure acceptance and want to feel chosen (and not abandoned). Having a balanced approach is being able to share the positive relationship milestones as well as the challenging ones — the range of life experiences makes people who they are!”

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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm red/green color blind and thought those flags were red... and that sums up my dating history rather well.

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Emma S
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Two people can love each other and still not be compatible. Love on it's own doesn't make a successful relationship. You also need honesty, trust, respect, commitment and shared values. For example, if one person really wants children but the other adamantly doesn't then no amount of love is going to change that.

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“Sharing both sides allows people to be seen in an integrated and honest way. Timing and pacing matters a lot too; being able to share things in small doses and gauging how somebody responds before continuing to share more is really important.” The truth is that love is not blind, or at least we shouldn’t blind ourselves just because it can feel exciting. 

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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Keep in mind that maybe they feel comfy enough around you to just not say much at times. You know, like the friend where silence ist just as fine as talking

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Mia Black
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am a person that has difficulties to laugh and being happy but my partner can laugh out loud. I love it and say that my partner is the laugh of my life, because through partners laughing I feel happy

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We wanted to know if she had any parting thoughts. “There is a really unique balance people are navigating in the early dating phase that deserves to be named. There is this constant dance between being vulnerable and also having necessary boundaries. There is an unfolding process that needs to happen to see if there is connection and compatibility forming. That process takes time.”

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Adrian
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ha, ha! I just had a conversation with my GF about this. I always sleep naked and she thinks it's weird.

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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't work but my husband does i get up make his breakfast and lunch and get to spend an hour with him before he leaves. My favourite time of the day. Before anyone comes at me i don't work because I'm disabled. I can't walk.

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“Being able to be vulnerable is deeply important but it has to be done contextually and generally on the lighter side in the beginning. You can’t reveal the most intimate parts of yourself right away and expect someone to be able to hold that. You also can’t withhold who you are and expect someone to feel connected to you.”

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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If she knows you are aware of her bf, she probably feels safe enough to be your friend. Just enjoy the relationship as it is. Sounds fun

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“So, share a little, and witness how someone responds. See if they share parts of themselves too. See if they can appreciate and respond warmly and in connected ways as you deepen into more layers of your vulnerability,” she shared. You can find more of Silvy’s work on Instagram and on her website

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Did I say that out loud? (he/him)cis/het
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My partner and I happily not married for nearly 25 years now with one teenage daughter. Ignore societal norms and pressure, you do you.

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BoredPossum
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, it's like one of those drawings where you can see either a young woman or a granny depending on how you focus.

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Duvet Woman
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Actually, having insomnia with someone sleeping next to you makes you feel 100 times more lonely.

Giraffy Window
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6 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not always lonely, but SUPER conscious of how often you have to move to stay comfortable, because you're not trying to share your insomnia.

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Cooking Panda
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd say this to my kids, but the last sentence would be "the world won't seem so peaceful" 😂

Giraffy Window
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wake up, look next to me and see him sleeping peacefully beside me. Then I give him a hard shove to get him to roll to his other side so he stops frikking snoring.

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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I legit get my feelings hurt if my husband of 24-years calls me by my name. Absolutely not! - I'm "honey" or "baby doll", you a*s! LOL

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