“5 Years Of My Life Down The Drain For Nothing”: Lifestyle Choices That Scream “Red Flag”

Emilu Premium 8 months ago

That’s your fault it’s super tough. I was awesomely tough before you came along. /s

-1point

Ravenkbh 8 months ago

Well It certainly can't be MY fault!

1point

CP 8 months ago

Technically it's true.

0points

PeepPeep the duck 8 months ago

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person (i think) 8 months ago

Is it actually helpful in business? (Genuine question; it does track since we now have a president that is ‘never at fault’ (US))

4points

mackenzie._.spence , Roberto Nickson / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

#2

Anti-Vaxxers, people who refuse to spay/neuter their pets, Back Yard Breeders, only reading/listening to one sided new sources, people who believe there is only one true religion.

Final score:

50points

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person (i think) 8 months ago

I know a “fun” lady who is so anti-vax that she won’t fix her dog because he has to get vaccinated before he gets fixed.

18points

A_UserHere 8 months ago

I bet shell be renouncing her ways when she becomes a real zombies because her dog got rabies.

6points

patricia patricia 8 months ago

I've never heard animals have to be vaccinated before getting fixed. One thing has nothing to do with the other.

0points

Sarah Belt 8 months ago

At that point, I'm just confused. I thought anti-vaxxers were afraid of the debunked theory that vaccines cause autism. Obviously, I'm misinformed.

0points

Child of the Stars 8 months ago

My best friend's husband is a retired veterinarian. People who don't vaccinate their pets infuriate him like nothing else.

12points

Nimitz 8 months ago

The number of f*****g morons I've known who bought an expensive dog "with papers" then refused to neuter/spay them because they think they'll make money breeding the animal. Then they always end up with a poorly trained animal they can't manage

5points

Emilu Premium 8 months ago

*Cough* Measles *cough*

3points

Sonny 8 months ago

While I do not agree with not getting your pet fixed, I have some qualms with vaccines. We do not really know what we are putting into our and our pets bodies, and we just have to take someones word for it that it works. I have seen many people get the vaccine, yet still get the sickness they got vaccinated against. I beleive it should be a persons choice, not forced upon you. People claim to be pro-choice about things, yet get mad when people make choices about their bodies (unless it is about specifically what they want you to do) Im not trying to force my opinion on people, I just want to show a different side of the coin 😊

-3points

Emilu Premium 8 months ago (edited)

Sure, you have a choice. But when you have people dying of diseases that don’t need to be fatal (eg: recent measles outbreak) or stuff that was eradicated because of vaxxing years ago (eg: TB, whooping cough, polio), don’t cry about it. It was your choice; you live (or die) with it. Just hope the people dying aren’t people you care about. (General you, not you specifically, Sonny).

2points

Moira Munguia 7 months ago

We DO know what we are putting in our pets bodies and our bodies. We have the SCIENTIFIC proof from SCIENTISTS who have tested and researched the vaccines that are being used today. If you had actual proof for your doubts I would be sympathetic, but when you have proof coming out the wazoo that vaccines work and have done so for many years, I can just feel sorry for your ignorance and the people and the pets that you put in danger

1point

Lyoness 8 months ago

Vaccines only work if there's herd immunity. In other words, only if an entire population is vaccinated. If they aren't, the disease persists and can come back (think the return of polio, which is incurable and a single case is considered a public health emergency because of how communicable it is). If the disease is viral it mutates until even vaccinated people can get ill from the new iteration (that's why people need COVID boosters). To sum up, by not being vaccinated others have allowed diseases to return and viruses to mutate, so "old" vaccines only protect against the previous versions of a disease. Anti vaxxers simply don't see how selfish they are, because their choice not to get a vaccine impacts everyone else. Emilu is absolutely right; if you choose not to be vaccinated you best hope that it isn't someone you care about that dies because of someone else's selfishness.

1point

thekingdouglas223 , Musa Ortaç / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

#3

I'm 27. The biggest red flag to me is when someone tries to live a life they cannot afford on their income.

Final score:

43points

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Sarah Belt 8 months ago

Sadly for a lot of people that means buying food.

9points

Emilu Premium 8 months ago (edited)

And this is why donations are an amazing thing, although I get they’re so much harder to make with the cost of living nowadays.

1point

Emilu Premium 8 months ago

What is considered a life they can’t afford on their income? Serious question. When I was healthier I worked hours that would let me buy designer bags (my weakness, judge me all you want) until my wardrobe filled up. I can’t now because my health has declined (and my wardrobe prolly doesn’t close. Oops). Less hours = less bag money. So does that mean that my still owning the bags I owned when I could indiscriminately buy them means I’m living beyond my means by OP’s judgement? Or do I escape their judgement because I had them before I ‘became poor’? (I am still fortunate to live comfortably, even without selling the bags I have). OP, if you ever read this… don’t judge until you know the facts. Just because you know what someone earns right now doesn’t mean jack in the scheme of things.

5points

TheMFKNXerdo 8 months ago

This person knows things. Everybody judges, but almost nobody actually sees context.

3points

Annabelle 8 months ago

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0points

tapinwithted , Lia Bekyan / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

#4

Friends who cheat on their partner.

Final score:

42points

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Bobert Robertson 8 months ago

Also a red flag to stay friends with someone who cheats. "What you permit you promote"

9points

Aelin Wildfire 8 months ago

Yes, that's what the post is saying: if they have friends who cheat, that's a red flag.

0points

ORSOrama 8 months ago

No way. How can you be friends with someone who has no respect for his own spouse/family? Do you really think this person respects you?

0points

thegaurilla , Clem Onojeghuo / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

#5

Anyone that makes their political views their whole personality.

Final score:

40points

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Mike F 8 months ago

Or bring that 💩 to work.

14points

CP 8 months ago (edited)

Politics magically stops at the entrance to work? I don't understand this statement, almost everything involves politics.

5points

Earonn - 8 months ago

Our colleagues are citizens, too. We SHOULD talk about politics, because it affects all of us. More than the weather or potholes in front of the office building. And it doesn't go away just because you avoid it. I get it that it's unpleasant when the politics in question is the s**t MAGAs say, but it can be very enlightening and even bonding - even across different 'sides' - when it's normal people discussing rationally about some political topic.

0points

Mariotevez 8 months ago

Or the overly one-sided pieces on BP...

-1point

Bobert Robertson 8 months ago

So basically the USA is a red flag. All I hear is "typical leftist" or "they definitely voted Kamala" as if democrats and Republicans could never agree on anything and it's that black and white...

-1point

maddylippmann , Marten Bjork / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

#6

- Constantly involving other people in things that should be kept personal.
- Airing dirty laundry on social media. It’s embarrassing 🤡
I could go on for hours..

Final score:

38points

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Lila Allen 8 months ago

Constantly posting about how perfect their life is... definitely not perfect

17points

CD Mills 8 months ago

About a decade ago I noticed a pattern on the book of faces, whenever a couple started posting overly dramatic "I have the best, most perfect Partner in the world' posts within a year they had split up. The couples that "share" a FB page are suspect too, I see that and I know with 99% of them it's because one of them don't trust the other. Those seem to crash out as well.

3points

oglovewitch , Anastase Maragos / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

#7

Thinking you're a superior human being because you exercise daily; eat healthy; don't watch TV; have a clean house; pursue expensive hobbies; don't drink or do dr**s; have a college degree; have a savings account; have zero debt....... Basically, garnering your self esteem through comparison to others 🚩

Final score:

37points

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veirdbuttrue 8 months ago

This list certainly doesn't make this person superior but they have obviously made some good choices. I wish I had my s**t together like that. But to be honest, I don't know anyone who does.

23points

Ms.GB 8 months ago

I think most people that act superior for having everything on that list don't actually have everything on that list.

5points

Paulina 8 months ago

Those aren't necessarily "choices". That would imply that people "choose" to not afford healthy foods, college degree, savings etc.

3points

person (i think) 8 months ago

I think these are all “ors”

1point

Aelin Wildfire 8 months ago

I think this is less about people who have everything on the list, and more about people who act condescending toward anyone who -doesn't- have everything on the list...

0points

Karl der Große 8 months ago

I know some people who like to compare themselves to others, but I'm better than them.

7points

Dilly Millandry 8 months ago

😆

3points

Tams21 8 months ago

Thinking you're a superior human being, period. Everyone is different and you never what people have gone through to get where they are.

4points

C .Hunger 8 months ago

If you have to p**s in someone else's Cheerios, you are not a happy person.

3points

Tiffany Sauter 8 months ago

I just saved this list as "goals".

2points

Earonn - 8 months ago

The first 5 words are enough. That's a red flag right there.

1point

Charles McChristy 8 months ago

Patrick Bateman

1point

VNES101 8 months ago

Welp, this person is most def superior to me LOL.

1point

karen snyder 8 months ago

Wait, which side has self esteem issues from "comparison to others?" This is such a self-own it's hilarious. Like, "people who I think are better than me are red flags because I feel inadequate when I think that they think they are better than me." Please get some professional help.

-1point

Earonn - 8 months ago

That's not what the text says, but hey, make up in your mind whatever you need to feel better about yourself, Karen.

3points

_moetmimosas , Olena Kamenetska / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

#8

Overworking to the point of burnout.

Final score:

36points

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Dr Jimmy 03 8 months ago

Been there. Learned enough from it to not repeat!

14points

Littlemiss Premium 8 months ago

Yep definitely. The job doesn't care if you drop dead, they'll have a new job listing within the week.

4points

axnyslie 8 months ago

For some not a red flag, just an unfortunate reality of life.

3points

Magenta Blu 8 months ago

As if was another choice for earning enough.. and not even then

0points

river.rose.o , Alexander Grey / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

#9

Anyone involved in a Pyramid Scheme.

Final score:

35points

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VNES101 8 months ago

I prefer circle schemes.

6points

Sarah 7 months ago

Personally , I like a prism

0points

CP 8 months ago (edited)

The entire world is guilty due to capitalism.

0points

HF 8 months ago

Luckily, all the pharaohs have died by now

0points

Peeka_Mimi Premium 8 months ago

I no longer sell Avon but I miss it. I might go back to it just for fun.

0points

digital_wendigo , Sandra Seitamaa / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

#10

Unemployment when you’re perfectly capable of finding a job.

Final score:

33points

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nunya bidness 8 months ago

i was married to a financially a*****e misery. he controlled my salary. once i stopped working i refused to return to work, why work if i have no say in what happens to my salary. later found out he controlled all the finances so he could hide his "hobbies" i wasted 30 years of my life

5points

Cpt. Christan "Panda Bombero" 8 months ago (edited)

Questions; Are you meaning someone who purposely choosing to stay unemployed? Which I would refer to a staying jobless. Or, are you referring to someone who chooses to collect unemployment payments that they are eligible for, while searching for a job, because they were let go from their previous employment. Because that is what I use the term "Unemployment" for.

3points

StrangeOne 8 months ago (edited)

Yeah. In Canada, we have Employment Insurance, which is what Americans would call Unemployment benefits, that can only be collected after being wrongfully dismissed or laid off, and you pay into it through your previous jobs. And then there's Employment Income Assistance, otherwise known as welfare, which is for those who are in a compromising situation that has rendered them temporarily unable to work. However, there's still an expectation to try, and prove you're trying to find work, childcare, etc. And then there's disability. Temporary disability is through EIA. Permanent disability has been moved to Manitoba People Living With Disabilities. (Okay, that's for MB, not sure what the other provinces have done with that.) I don't look down on anyone, unless they are committing fraud, which does happen. My British bf gets carers allowance and universal credit for taking care of his very disabled parents. The Redditors in the subreddit for long distance relationships would tell me that he's capable of working and should throw his parents in a care home. Well, someone is going to be paid to take care of his parents. It's either him, or the NHS. At least he knows his parents aren't being neglected and abused in his care. (sorry, got on a little rant.)

2points

Mike F 8 months ago

The dog seems to be doing OK with it, lol.

3points

ORSOrama 8 months ago

Just to vent: I have sad memories of when I was depressed and working was extremely hard, and I just wanted to stay home. I begun to work in factories when I was 14, and at a certain point when I was around 34 I just couldn't do it anymore. For everyone I was just lazy, and everyone was mean to me, until I fell on the floor one afternoon and have been taken to ER with ambulance. There I discovered there was something weird going on inside my head, had to go through brain surgery and after 3-4 years I begun to feel much better. But it is hard to forget what people said about me before.

1point

Emilu Premium 8 months ago (edited)

This would be a dealbreaker for me. I don’t mind legitimate issues but if you’re taking the p**s, you’re out the door with a “thank you, see you never”. I knew someone who was waiting for that perfect job because she “had a degree and retail was below her”. Retail spiralled me to my current role in law and meanwhile, she continues to be a b*m-scraper on Jobseeker (welfare) because everything is “below her”. Don’t be like her.

0points

Emilu Premium 8 months ago

My bad! Didn’t know ‘b u m’ was a swear word! 😳

0points

Niels AirMax 8 months ago

He looks fine tho... 🤔

0points

katerandio , Wesley Tingey / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

#11

- When you still go out to party and "get wasted" more than 2x a week.
- When you have abandoned a child and pretends you're a bachelor, single & free.
- When you don't have savings and is still in between jobs or can't stay in a company/employer longer than 3 months
- Can't clean or practice proper hygiene
- Dr**s & Gambling
- Likes to date 18 year olds because they're "fun"

Final score:

31points

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Mike F 8 months ago

OP needs to run with a better crowd.

21points

Tiffany Sauter 8 months ago

I'm glad you said it.

0points

StrangeOne 8 months ago

This is oddly specific. Sounds like someone was hanging with Casey Anthony.

3points

Lyoness 8 months ago

To be fair not having savings isn't necessarily a red flag. A lot of people can't afford to save when they're living hand to mouth. Sometimes you need every buck for food or to make rent.

1point

Anne Young 7 months ago

Yeah but a person can go a long time w/o food so.

0points

Charles McChristy 8 months ago

More than 2x a week? More like 2x a year if that.

1point

g90814 8 months ago (edited)

"get wasted" more than 2x a week. How about "get wasted" after you are out of college, or older than early 20s. Even then...

1point

David Houde 8 months ago

To be fair, when I was 25 I dated an 18 year old for a while. And yes, it was a lot of fun. But it also got old pretty fast.

0points

mordie1k , Levi Meir Clancy / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

#12

Nails (this one a bit less), lash extensions, fillers, Botox, bbl etc.

Final score:

29points

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Susan 8 months ago

I know people do these to make themselves look "better" but it usually looks weird and gross

11points

Jaya 8 months ago

How do you know? I recognize the people who've done it too extremely, but do I recognize all the ones who have done it in a subtle and beautiful way, for all I know I might only recognize it in 10% of the people who've done it.

3points

Emilu Premium 8 months ago

Was gonna say there is a massive difference between getting your nails painted and Botox done to your face. It’s like chalk and cheese.

2points

StrangeOne 8 months ago

Why nails? Are they referring to extra long extensions? Or just any sort of nail care, with a reasonable length?

0points

Lyoness 8 months ago

Not sure what they mean but personally I find the super long pointy talons worrying. How do you function? Open a can? Type? Wipe? It just seems so impractical and unsanitary.

3points

Lila Allen 8 months ago

Why though?

0points

Ann Kapoxeet 8 months ago

Once it stops being so gendered, a way to judge women's beauty, ill be more accepting.

-2points

girlsloveamanda , Irena Carpaccio / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

#13

Having kids and only seeing them on holidays.

Final score:

27points

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Magenta Blu 8 months ago

If they see the kids, because those parents are always looking for summer camps and such

4points

CP 8 months ago (edited)

What if they live far away and travel costs are too much.

2points

Charles McChristy 8 months ago

...or not seeing them at all and paying no support because you spend all your money on your motorcycle and tattoos.

1point

StrangeOne 8 months ago (edited)

I would ask for context and more details. Sometimes it's the other parent alienating and keeping the kids from the other. This is where I just let it be not my business, and not my problem. Now, if spending time with kids had to be at a supervised visitation center, then I would high tail it out of the relationship.

1point

katc.johnson , Devin Nelson / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

#14

Thirsting heavily over random people, making crude sexual comments about appearances. Signifies a lack of self control.

Final score:

25points

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Mike F 8 months ago

Signifies lack of maturity and or situational awareness.

19points

Cpt. Christan "Panda Bombero" 8 months ago

That photo, looks like a hotel in Austin, where I stayed at for an ESO Fure & EMS conference.

0points

sanji.a.hewson , Erik Mclean / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

#15

I’m a 31F. For me it was a 🚩when the 27y old guy I was dating told me that his breakfast every day was a Monster can. Every.Single.Day.

Final score:

23points

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Peeka_Mimi Premium 8 months ago

I'm 52yo and love Rockstar Energy for breakfast. How is that different than just having any other caffeinated beverage for breakfast?

11points

Huddo's sister 8 months ago

My concern would be the amount of sugar

3points

Scott Rackley 8 months ago

My doc threatened me if I started drinking those again

3points

Johnnynatfan 8 months ago

But I’m sure coffee would be just fine. 🙄

3points

turk 8 months ago

As long as it's not loaded up with sugar, yes.

4points

veirdbuttrue 8 months ago

Yeah, that's not healthy. Full of sugar, full of caffeine

3points

Magenta Blu 8 months ago

What's the difference between that and people who drink Starbucks coffees??? Sugar and caffeine. Both the exact same

7points

Maren Villadsen 8 months ago

A cup og coffie with sugar is full of sugar and caffeine. If it is a sugarfree monster, it is not wors than coffie.

1point

TheMFKNXerdo 8 months ago

White Monster is zero sugar, though. :)

0points

CP 8 months ago

Drinking coffee is somehow different?

2points

Inigo Montoya 8 months ago

Yes, it is.

1point

Bec 8 months ago

I briefly dated a guy in college and went grocery shopping with him, bologna, hot dogs, and wine - that was what he lived off of. He was also type 1 diabetic.

1point

Susan 8 months ago

Gross 🤢

1point

Melissa Nielsen 8 months ago

Hmmm, 64g carbs and 63g sugar not to mention all the other ingredients. Coffee and tea...zero calories.

0points

StrangeOne 8 months ago

I have to words for that diet: Kidney stones.

0points

Anne Young 7 months ago

From you to words. And now words has a gift.

0points

itselliebb , Markus Spiske / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

#16

Carnivore diets. Anyone who tries to tell you that fruit is unhealthy is lying to you (exceptions for diabetics because they need to monitor all sugar intake)

Final score:

23points

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Dr Jimmy 03 8 months ago

I identify as an Omnivore. Love me all kinds of meat, and I also love me all kinds of veg & fruit.

26points

Len Hill 8 months ago

Who would ever say fruit is unhealthy? I've never heard anyone say that

5points

person (i think) 8 months ago

“Fruit has too much sugar”

9points

Shawn Adams 8 months ago

Then you haven't seen any Carnivore diet videos.

5points

Dilly Millandry 8 months ago

It likes most things - moderation!

1point

StrangeOne 8 months ago

Anyone who calls fruit and veggies "rabbit food" and "food for pansies". Enjoy the scurvy.

3points

Mary Green 8 months ago

Any diet that tells you not eat things that are healthy is not a good diet. Unless you're on a medical diet for a properly diagnosed medical condition.

1point

Anne Young 7 months ago

Being dishonest. Not lying. Not the same thing.

0points

Earonn - 8 months ago

Especially if they act as if eating meat was more "masculine". In fact, everyone who does X because "it's more manly". You all know the type. Eww.

0points

Sonny 8 months ago (edited)

As Nate Bargatzke said: “Show me your fat fruit friends! Show me your friend who cant fit through a door because he is addicted to pineapples!” I think people are silly for saying that natural unprossesed foods are unhealthy. Humans are meant to be omnivores (in my opionion) Everyone is wanting to tell you something is unhealthy 🤣

0points

Sonny 8 months ago

Everything in moderation, though.

1point

Re dacted (Ace) 8 months ago

Even diabetics won't tell you fruit is unhealthy. Natural sugar is far better for us than processed, especially when combined with the fibre that most fruit has.

0points

wayne whitson 8 months ago (edited)

So you're "Vegan". I EAT MEAT Because All Those Cows "WERE EATING YOUR FOOD"!! So In Reality, "I'M SAVING YOUR LIFE".

-1point

Lady Eowyn 8 months ago

Humans are omnivores. There needs to be a balance between animal derived foods and plant derived food.

-1point

Paulina 8 months ago

Omnivore means: can survive on either and both. Not that one NEEDS both.

2points

etherealshawty0 , Getty Images / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

#17

People who judge based off looks only. i have heard every excuse, but have seen people fall victim or become bullies to what they see, and they are happy with not gathering evidence before they come to a conclusion. THIS makes me wonder who is actually trying to be an adult in those situations?

Final score:

23points

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Anony Mouse 8 months ago

This is hard to read.

11points

Ms.GB 8 months ago (edited)

It's true though. The amount of people that you hear saying not to judge or body shame and then you hear make underhanded comments about ppl they see is disheartening when only their friends are listening because they think everyone else is gonna laugh.

0points

Gaabriel Becket 8 months ago

Didn't understand what this person was trying to say

1point

_beese_churger_ , Getty Images / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

#18

I’m too young for this but: any significant purposeful investment in any kind of “alternative medicine.” even chiropractic, to a degree. anyone who buys into it is either willfully ignorant to a disturbing degree or just genuinely unable to think for themselves.

Final score:

22points

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Shawn Adams 8 months ago

Chiropractors are quacks! Very dangerous quacks. Playboy model died after a quack killed her "vertebral artery dissection, which is essentially the manipulation of the neck. It tore an artery leading to the brain." don't go to these idiots! https://abc7.com/katie-may-playboy-model-snapchat-instagram/1564102/

5points

Dr Jimmy 03 8 months ago

Chiropractic will not cure bacterial or viral illnesses, but it can help with Muscular-Skeletal problems. It's helped me.

4points

Lady Eowyn 8 months ago

You're lucky it didn't c*****e of k**l you. See the link in Shawn Adams's comment.

0points

karen snyder 8 months ago (edited)

Dude, "Alternative medicine" is a pretty broad dismissal. And, very dependent on where you live. Example, I am a state licensed body worker, specializing in pain management. In North America, I'm *alternative medicine* in most of Europe, my work is covered as legitimate medicine. In Asia, herbal medicine is considered real medicine, in North America, Doctors discourage natural health in favor of pharmaceuticals. Is there snake oil out there? Well, yeah. But don't dismiss anything that isn't the big business of hospital medicine just because your for profit doctor isn't getting a kick back to recommend it.

3points

Anony Mouse 8 months ago

In North America the quackery known as chiropractors are covered by insurance. In India they teach Ayurveda and homeopathy in medical schools. It doesn’t make it any more scientifically sound. It’s still quackery with zero science behind it.

0points

CP 8 months ago (edited)

There are alternative medicine doctors in the USA that are used when regular medicine has no answers with the hope that the placebo effect will help. Alternative medicine becomes regular medicine when shown to work better than a placebo. For example, there are homeopath doctors on the US. There is no evidence homeopathy works.

-1point

Scott Rackley 8 months ago

Then prove your method to the ADA and it won't be "alternative" anymore.

-1point

RomanceRadish 8 months ago

Chiropractic by a licensed qualified doctor is legitimate care and helps many people.

2points

Emilu Premium 8 months ago

Dunno where you live but chiropractors are definitely NEVER licensed doctors where I live, because a licensed doctor would never put their name to that s**t.

0points

Zann 7 months ago

Disagree..my total life comfort is because of a chiropractor, there are good and bad, same as gps some good some really dangerous..

0points

bemmy_fit , Javad Esmaeili / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

#19

Smoking cigarettes, being sedentary most days, not eating fruits and vegetables and drinking alcohol frequently.

Final score:

22points

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Carrie B Premium 8 months ago

😬 I need to make changes.

17points

Matt Upchuck 8 months ago

Sounds preachy to me.

5points

Re dacted (Ace) 8 months ago

Stopped smoking. Eat more fruit and vege than anything else, and I don't drink... You'll take being lazy from my cold dead hands.

0points

The_Nicest_Misanthrope 8 months ago

Don't see how smoking is a red flag, but ok

0points

Mike F 8 months ago

Same with drinking alcohol. I can smell the alcohol from several feet away and it's just not an attractive smell.

3points

turk 8 months ago

I don't find kissing ashtrays pleasant.

3points

Tamra 8 months ago

I watched my mom die a slow, painful death while gasping for breath. She was a smoker and died of COPD. Pretty big red flag, if you ask me.

2points

Kit Black 8 months ago

Somehow they never do...

1point

StrangeOne 8 months ago

I wouldn't want a relationship where the health of my, already compromised, respiratory health is at risk all the time.

0points

iamsarahmckenzie , Pablo Merchán MontesPablo Merchán Montes Report

#20

Vaping.

Final score:

21points

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Huddo's sister 8 months ago

If you are legitimately using it to get off cigarettes and then stopping, good on you. If not, it's just another a*******n that isn't doing you any good.

9points

turk 8 months ago

I thought the word you menat was "affectation", and was wondering why that was censored...but now I get it.

3points

Lyoness 8 months ago

It helped me kick nicotine 18 years ago when nothing else did. The patch or the gum or the spray did nothing. I haven't vaped in years but will always be grateful it was available.

1point

Jill Allen Premium 8 months ago

Agreed. I used one to quit smoking. It was helpful at the time

0points

turk 8 months ago

This comment has been deleted.

0points

SkyyCaramba 8 months ago

they make these scent sticks, that are vapes without the chemicals. basically just sweet smelling air sticks

0points

Jane Jayne Jain Jeign Jein 8 months ago

I think a lot of people who vape are so much more antisocial than smokers. That stuff really stinks and it is not OK that every single outside space ( and even some indoor spaces) now regularly reek of this disgusting stuff. It is so much more pervasive than cigarette smoke.

4points

StrangeOne 8 months ago (edited)

I don't smell it as heavily as cigarette smoke and it doesn't start up my asthma when I'm near vapers. But I do still worry about the chemicals in the vape smog. I'm glad it's being treated the same as cigarettes by only allowing vapes in designated smoking areas. People still try to get away with it.

0points

CP 8 months ago

A red flag for what? What does vaping say about a person?

1point

Re dacted (Ace) 8 months ago

That we got addicted to something, some of us as children, which obviously makes us terrible people.

2points

ORSOrama 8 months ago

Smoking is one of the stupidest things I have done in my life, I didn't even understand how depressed I was back then. Vapes made it so much easier to quit smoking. Now I have my vapes on my desk, sometimes buy fluids and they get old before I vape them off

0points

bob_basile , Molly the Cat / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

#21

Being obsessed with dating instead of chilling out and letting things happen naturally.

Final score:

20points

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CP 8 months ago

It is obsessed with not being lonely. There is a difference.

9points

I dont know 8 months ago

Yes.

1point

Earonn - 8 months ago

One day OP will be old enough to realise that potential partners aren't flocking around in droves anymore and you will have to invest into dating if you want to find someone. Until then, leave them to their sweet, innocent judgement.

0points

Nota Robot 8 months ago

Back in the previous millennium when I was in my twenties, you'd have people obsessed with a 'five year plan'. Yeah, that was a red flag to me. Not because they wanted commitment, but because of the timeline. I'm more of a laissez faire kind of person.

0points

Susan 8 months ago

Teens today definitely need to refocus in the department, probably due to the media they absorb. Way to many teens are hyper focused on dating (or hooking up) instead of just having fun with friends.

0points

Mike F 8 months ago

This could be something mentally brought about.

0points

natsierra , tabitha turner / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

#22

Talking about high school/college friends/parties and constantly trying to re-live their “golden years” instead of striving forward.

Final score:

19points

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RomanceRadish 8 months ago

Unless it's three touchdowns in a single game.

9points

Isabel Galvez 8 months ago

Four?

0points

_faithnace_ , Meg Aghamyan / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

#23

Depend on someone for your happiness.

Final score:

19points

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ROSESARERED 8 months ago

Most people will do this at one time or another...don't punish yourself if it's you...call it a learning moment. No one will ever be able to make you completely happy, that something you have to do...find yourself, your joys, hates, dreams, sorrow, good and bad...don't give up who you are to be happy with someone else...you will be miserable.

8points

Mimi M 8 months ago

I just think we're designed to become insane for a period of our lives so that we will procreate.

0points

Emilu Premium 8 months ago

It’s sad, but some people do it. I’m sure lots of people know the acquaintance that changes as soon as they’re ’with someone’ and then if that goes south, they need your attention cos they’re lonely etc.

0points

mykacrain , Samuel Sianipar / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

#24

Starting a business with zero thought or plan 💯💯

Final score:

17points

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StrangeOne 8 months ago

I got into an argument with someone on Facebook on a video I saw on my feed. Something to do about what wealthy people do that poor people don't, or some bs like that. One of the points was "don't have a job. Work for yourself" I mentioned how unrealistic that is and someone replied how "easy it is to start a business and work for yourself" and "you don't need money to start a business." There are people out there actually encouraging others to make brash decisions like that.

5points

totesjas , Jordan González / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

#25

You don’t eat vegetables or fruit, you don’t drink water and you don’t exercise. 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 just waiting to die ain’t it?

Final score:

15points

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g90814 8 months ago

Please don't ever get depressed.

16points

Magenta Blu 8 months ago

Many people just cant afford it

4points

Lila Allen 8 months ago

Can't afford what? This isn't suggesting you eat perfectly just that you need to eat fruit, drink water, and take a walk. None of those are expensive

3points

Lady Eowyn 8 months ago

What, can't afford to drink water?

0points

Susan 8 months ago

Water is practically free if you're not picky about it being bottled and much cheaper than sodas. Banana's for a quick breakfast/snack are much cheaper than sugar filled poptarts or french fries. Don't make excuses. If someone wants to be healthier they can find a way.

-3points

Earonn - 8 months ago

"Exercise" is such a wonderful fuzzy word, isn't it? It can mean: walk 15 minutes to work every day, or it can mean: be a gym rat. Nobody doesn't eat any vegetables or fruit, because that'd k**l you. In general I'd rather judge people by their character, not if they live a healthy life up to my standards. And why would that be a 'red flag'?

1point

Anne Young 7 months ago

You don't know what I don't do.

0points

venus_vickiejlin , Jason Leung / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

#26

People who can’t keep their house / apartment clean.

Final score:

15points

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Huddo's sister 8 months ago

For me it depends what level of clean. Like if there is food/crumbs left out it is a worry. Not everyone can keep a place spotless though, especially if they are working full time and/or have a disability or mental health issues. As long as it is not making them and/or others sick or injuring them, I think there is some leeway.

23points

Lila Allen 8 months ago

I totally agree. I mean as long as it's reasonably clean and functional I think it should be fine. Some people are tidier and more minimalist than others.

3points

Malide 8 months ago

I agree. Messy and dirty are very different things. Messy is fine, it just means you're disorganized. A filthy bathroom on the other hand...

1point

StrangeOne 8 months ago (edited)

If it stinks and I see critters scurrying about, or see a bio lab in their kitchen, I'm outta there.

0points

g90814 8 months ago

Don't ever get depressed.

9points

ROSESARERED 8 months ago

As someone with depression ... sorry, bit as much as I can try, somedays just getting out of bed is exhausting. Don't judge someone unless you know their story, and if the trust you enough to tell you love them where they are at

2points

StrangeOne 8 months ago

My now-ex, I should have ran out the day I saw his room. His parents house was not exactly pristine and organized. Their coffee table and every other table, was covered in paper, magazines, books, envelopes, you name it. Their floor was at least clear. The kitchen only smelled a bit mildewy. But his room, you couldn't see the floor. The junk was at bed level. I never saw a pest, miraculously. He had a wicked sound system set up, though, with subs. But never again would I be with someone who makes someone else clean for him.

1point

Erica J 8 months ago

Or don't. My sister never cleans her house. She always says "She doesn't have time". She DOES. She gets off work any where between 3-5 and doesn't go to bed until 7 or 8. And only once in a blue moon works weekends.

0points

Zaach 8 months ago

That's why I hire it done

0points

Magenta Blu 8 months ago

Single people. Because families with small children simply don't have enough time for cleaning 24/7

0points

Lady Eowyn 8 months ago

The house I grew up in - 2 parents, 3 kids - was clean. Sometimes messy, never dirty. And the houses of my friends were never dirty.

2points

koja.kalos , Philippe Bout / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

#27

Still being in college... and has been since he was 18, full-time without any semesters off, and hasn't finished a single degree yet.

Final score:

15points

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Susan 8 months ago

I wish I could do this. I love learning and loved the huge variety of college classes available. If I didn't have to work for a living and had unlimited funds to pay for it I would be constantly taking new classes just for the fun of it.

10points

Rinso The Red 8 months ago

I considered becoming a professor for just that reason. College was first place I felt like I actually thrived.

2points

Mike F 8 months ago

That's what we used to call "a professional student". If that's the track they find themselves BFD. They'll settle on something eventually. Sounds like the OP has an axe to grind with a specific individual.

3points

Lila Allen 8 months ago

Right?!? I mean if they are able to do this...more power to them. They are learning and I'm not sure how that's framed as a bad thing.

4points

RomanceRadish 8 months ago

Van Wilder!

2points

Lady Eowyn 8 months ago

Needs more context. Money involved? How old is he now? Does he keep switching majors?

2points

StrangeOne 8 months ago

Okay, and how old is he? What is he struggling with? Are we talking about Van Wilder?

1point

Emilu Premium 8 months ago (edited)

This isn’t quite me in that I didn’t start at 18, but health issues have been a huge issue in me completing my degree. It’s hard to complete a subject when you miss several assignments in a semester because you’re in hospital with doctors thinking you’re on your last legs. All I can say is “have some compassion” to people who think these people are just slacking. It may be the case, but it’s not always.

1point

Nimitz 8 months ago

I had a roommate who kept taking, and failing, a Native American studies course. It was a decentralized course with only about 30 minutes of in-person class time a week. He would re-take it, a Cree language course, and nature studies for about $600 total per semester. Dude was in university for 7 years and had no degree and wasn't close to his bachelor's degree. To this day I don't understand how he wasn't kicked out of school. He just sat at home playing League of Legends, Overwatch, and Fortnite all fukcing day long

1point

tasha_briglio , Nathana Rebouças / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

#28

Constantly putting everything on credit.

Final score:

14points

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Boris Long-Johnson 8 months ago (edited)

This one is missing some context, I think. Constantly putting everything on credit when you can’t afford to pay it off might be a better statement. I put everything I possibly can on my credit card and pay it off at the end of the month. I’ve not paid a card fee or interest for at least 20 years. I’ve also not had to pay for an awful lot of hire cars and hotels because of air miles.

24points

Susan 8 months ago

Yes! Responsible card use. I put everything, including a lot of my bills on mine, pay it off with no interest, and get to enjoy the perks of all the points I've earned like free vacations every year.

1point

turk 8 months ago

Ever heard of Airline Miles?

4points

Mike F 8 months ago

I have a relative who does that. They pay for every purchase on a CC, and there's added benefits to that approach. The $ stays in an interest bearing account until time to pay the bill, and the airline miles.

2points

g90814 8 months ago

Credit isn't bad, if you know how to use it properly.

3points

Barong 8 months ago

I put everything on credit and immediately pay it off.. I get cash back that I otherwise wouldn’t. I don’t pay interest because I don’t leave a balance on the card. Nothing wrong cards if you use credit responsibly.

2points

Huddo's sister 8 months ago

I really struggle to understand people who use credit all the time, though I know it's a bit of a different system in the US to Australia. I don't even own a credit card.

2points

Boris Long-Johnson 8 months ago

UK here so can’t comment about Australia or the United States but you get a lot more protection buying goods on credit card In case of problems and you get kickbacks with the right card such as air miles et cetera that you can use on various things. All paid for by the people who don’t do it/don’t pay things off.

5points

Ruth Watry 8 months ago

I do that for points, and then pay the card off at the end of the month

0points

Ruth Watry 8 months ago

I put everything on credit card, earn a huge amount of airline miles, and pay my card off at the end of the month

0points

Emilu Premium 8 months ago

As what others have said, credit can be a boon if you know how to use it properly.

0points

Zaach 8 months ago

I put everything on my CC and have my account set to pay balance in full when it is due

0points

soydanielrengifo , Claudia Love / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

#29

Non-monogamy.

Final score:

12points

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Nota Robot 8 months ago

It's not for me, but provided everyone involved is consenting and on an equal footing I'm not judging.

9points

karen snyder 8 months ago

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Magenta Blu 8 months ago

And multiple sexual partners and promiscuity is healthier???

0points

Jaya 8 months ago

What nonsense. Polyamorous relationships can also be very healthy, it all depends on how you do it. If both partners really want it, it can work great, those relationships often have way more open and honest communication than the average relationship.

3points

BlameTheGame 8 months ago

This seems like a personal ick rather than a general red flag. Its definitely not for everyone, but people have their own lifestyles.

1point

axnyslie 8 months ago

It's a personal choice really. Personally I feel humans are not monogamous by nature, which is why cheating is so rampant in our society. Religious puritans push the whole sanctimony of monogamous relationships, whether it works or not.

1point

Lyoness 8 months ago

Hey, whatever works for the people involved. If it's ethical non monogamy and no one was pressured into it then by all means, go for it. NOOB.

0points

Emilu Premium 8 months ago

Why is this a terrible thing? I agree it’s not my thing personally, but if everyone is happy, then let them be happy. I’d rather a couple be happily poly than a party cheating on another and ruining their family etc.

0points

CP 8 months ago (edited)

Red Flag: you must be with only me for the rest of your earthly days. That sounds a bit nuts if you think about it. Be mature, have some confidence, and realize s*x does not equal love. People needlessly put s*x on a pedestal.

0points

Anne Young 7 months ago

It's called 'polygamy' stupid.

-1point

#30

Long distance relationships😩 5 years of my damn life down the drain for nothing.

_csevilla20s_ Report

Final score:

12points

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FreeTheUnicorn 8 months ago

If anything LDR gives you more time. If you wasted five years of your life when your partner wasnt even there to distract you, that completely on you.

6points

Littlemiss Premium 8 months ago

Not all long distance relationships turn to crud. Mine thankfully worked out.

4points

Petra Schaap 8 months ago

mine too!

1point

CP 8 months ago

No time is a waste if you learn from it.

1point

itsdee_303 , Simon Kessler / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

#31

Ever engaged in hook up culture/ lack of commitment to anything but themselves.

Final score:

12points

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CP 8 months ago

"Ever engaged", that seems a bit authoritarian. Is there something morally wrong with hooking up?

7points

Earonn - 8 months ago

To me judging others for having s*x in a way that hurts no one is a much bigger red flag than just enjoying s*x, tbh. Can't stand these purity chaps. Stay a virgin, I'm happy for you if that's your thing, but don't try to force it on other people.

1point

Magenta Blu 8 months ago

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Lady Eowyn 8 months ago

Here you go again. That is not normal. Commitment and relationships are real, not "forgotten customs." You need to stop judging everyone by your pathetic standards. I used to have sympathy for your apparent hard life, but the more you comment, the more it seems like you just like to wallow in misery and blame everybody in the known universe except yourself.

6points

#32

Financing a new luxury car.

maxvit.a Report

Final score:

12points

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Brian Droste 8 months ago

If you can afford it, I see nothing wrong with that, but if you can't afford it, then there is a problem.

8points

Zaach 8 months ago

I think you were thinking that it should be a cash transaction?

0points

megan_early , Ernie Journeys / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

#33

Supporting not-progressive political parties (republicans in the USA, conservatives in Canada).

Final score:

11points

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Nimitz 8 months ago

Canadian traitors rallying behind Little PP hoping that no one will notice him and Danielle Smith are trying to sell Alberta to the US...

2points

Xiang the lie slayer 8 months ago

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RedHairedDragon 8 months ago

Everyone should be afraid of different opinions, if they have real life repercussions. When the "opinions" of others makes it impossible for me to get access to food, water, educations and health care, then that is really scary. People that claim that "it's just an opinion" refuse to take accountability for their actions.

16points

Carrie B Premium 8 months ago

Voting for a ràpist is a pretty big red flag.

10points

turk 8 months ago

Says the MAGAt who can't get a date. There's a reason every incel has that red hat made in China.

6points

General Anaesthesia 8 months ago

It's not the opinions, it's the misanthropy.

6points

toxiicandy , Yunus Tuğ / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

#34

Eating out constantly and unable to cook for yourself, tipping 20% when you’re earning just as less as the employee, not learning basic chores, victim mentality in every situation.

Final score:

11points

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Peeka_Mimi Premium 8 months ago

What's wrong with tipping if you're poor? Just because I'm poor doesn't mean I don't have class and having money can't buy you class.

13points

Huddo's sister 8 months ago

I'm hoping they mean just if you haven't budgeted it/can't afford it, though I don't live in a culture that tips, so I'm not sure.

3points

Lady Eowyn 8 months ago

Earning just as little, not just as less.

0points

405_gus , Curated Lifestyle / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

#35

Drinking soda for breakfast.

Final score:

11points

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kzys59pcrp 8 months ago

But coffee with lots of sugar is ok?

15points

Mike F 8 months ago

Coffee with sugar? Nope.

1point

CP 8 months ago (edited)

People are weird about when you can have certain foods and I am pretty sure your body doesn't care al that much. Have a donut for breakfast and not soda!?!?!

0points

lesson_learned78 , Jordan González / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

#36

Going to every single rave.

nonchalant_d3z Report

Final score:

11points

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#37

Ordering out every night.

shannmariex3 Report

Final score:

11points

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#38

For us men I think when your primary past time is like video games. I like video games but I rarely have time for them. For women, doom scrolling TikTok while trying to maintain a conversation.

Final score:

10points

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RedHairedDragon 8 months ago

After my workday and after my family has gone to bed it leaves me around 1,5 -2 hours every day to play video games. Usually I play an hour before going to bed, since I have a newborn that I take care of during the night.

5points

Mike F 8 months ago

Overdoing anything is potentially dangerous.

0points

turk 8 months ago (edited)

I work shift work, and sometimes, depending on my shift, my wife is asleep when I get home (understandably). So, I might game for a few hours because it's night and I'm awake. Might even have a few beers...the horror!

0points

n.estevez , tabitha turner / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

#39

The "let's just live the present and let it flow" lifestyle.

Final score:

10points

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Mike F 8 months ago

I feel like, let young folks be young. Obviously not to the exclusion of their responsibilities, but d**n, you are only young once. It sure beats the 💩 out of deciding at 40 something that you need to do what you didn't/couldn't while young and bailing on a family to do it.

7points

Zaach 8 months ago

I have aphantasia and SDAP (severely deficient autobiographical memory) - I am 76 and live in an eternal now

0points

little._.xanthe , Ömürden Cengiz / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

#40

Getting a woman pregnant in an unstable relationship and no financial situation.

Final score:

10points

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G A 8 months ago

Takes two to tango....

10points

FreeTheUnicorn 8 months ago (edited)

Hetero s*x usually has a risk of pregnancy. Is this a complaint about the s*x, the birth control or the bank account? Because it just sounds like poor is a red flag.

2points

#41

Having a mini bar in every room.

authoradampowell Report

Final score:

10points

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Barong 8 months ago

The mini bar shower caddy

1point

Lila Allen 8 months ago

Explain why this is a waste

-1point

#42

Any addiction.

absentislux Report

Final score:

10points

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Mike F 8 months ago (edited)

10points

Susan 8 months ago

True, there are some "addicti0ns" that are considered healthy. Like reading books or working out. But it's likely that's not what the OP meant.

2points

CP 8 months ago

This person hates humans.

2points

Lila Allen 8 months ago

I think this seriously underestimates how many people become addicts involuntarily. The largest segment of addicts are people who started with legitimate painkillers for an injury and became addicted to those painkillers or underage kids who just don't have the frontal brain development to recognize danger or long term consequences the way an adult would.

2points

#43

No goals, no will to improve your situation, lack of self care.

daniel_requejo Report

Final score:

9points

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SkyyCaramba 8 months ago

sounds like depression

13points

Midoribird Aoi 8 months ago

This is often depression.

0points

Wintermute 8 months ago

What if you're situation doesn't need improved and you've met all your goals? Constant dissatisfaction and perpetual grind are not the virtues our society pretends they are... You should definitely shower tho.

0points

kiki_xposed , pawel szvmanski / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

#44

Only fans.

Final score:

9points

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RedHairedDragon 8 months ago

I only know only fans from memes and news stories, but the sexual content on only fans is only a part of what they offer, right?

2points

Barong 8 months ago

Not sure but the idea of people paying for it and people claiming to make a lot of money from it seems odd these days when so so much p0rn is free.

0points

val_ghe , Alex Azabache / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

#45

Living in a van.

Final score:

9points

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Lost Panda 8 months ago

Down by the river?

14points

SkyyCaramba 8 months ago

I LIVE IN A VAN, DOWN BY THE RIVER!!!

2points

Magenta Blu 8 months ago

Well..better than van than homeless, right?

3points

Susan 8 months ago (edited)

Idk, a guy that I went to high school with was always getting in trouble, as a teen and an adult. Getting fired, cheated on, doing every d**g there is and drinking. At 40+ he's now happy driving around the Pacific coast with his girlfriend living in a van. He still smokes pot but it's legal there. I met up with him when I was in the area couple years ago and he's so much happier now than he ever was before when he was trying to live conventionally. To each their own.

1point

#46

Religious.

nxh.xll Report

Final score:

8points

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Bryan Broussard 2 months ago

Amen

0points

#47

The freeloader. No car, no job, no ambition. Or the tech- addict. I spend most my time at home and don’t travel anymore, but I’ve got lots of animals that I care for and observe. Exotic animal husbandry and observation have become my preferred hobby. I don’t even have Wi-Fi or a tv in my house 😅 I’m not saying being anything different than me is a red flag but, you gotta have a hobby that’s not gluing you to technology.

ca._.ss Report

Final score:

8points

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RedHairedDragon 8 months ago

This person sounds like a red flag to me

6points

kevingonzzales , Samuel Regan-Asante / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

#48

Partying every weekend 😬

Final score:

8points

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#49

Starving artist.

ordaz.sma Report

Final score:

7points

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#50

Using Snapchat daily.

sunnyskiesgoodvibes Report

Final score:

6points

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#51

Being a rapper.

shawnthedisciple Report

Final score:

6points

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Barong 8 months ago

Not sure why this is a red flag. Not all wrappers have the same lifestyle or viewpoints. Just as all heavy metal artists are angry, folk singers are potheads, or CW singers are rednecks that live in a small town whose truck broke down and whose dog ran away.

0points

joeb**bs69 , Daiga Ellaby / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

#52

Still wanting to have kids. I said what I said.

Final score:

6points

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FreeTheUnicorn 8 months ago

This got a lot of down votes, but if you aren't on the same page about kids, it should absolutely be a red flag.

5points

StrangeOne 8 months ago (edited)

For me, this is the ultimate red flag, especially when I explain I cannot have anymore kids, and wouldn't want more if I could. Sorry, this bakery has gone into biological foreclosure.

0points

#53

Exploiting the authentic identity of others for social gratification. Obsessed with social media exploitation. Phone addiction.

lesbian.qveen Report

Final score:

6points

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G A 8 months ago

WTF?

3points

Scott Rackley 8 months ago

I read the first sentence as "don't virtue signal". The second I got nada. Third is obvious.

0points

#54

Laziness.

bigcncguy Report

Final score:

5points

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Wintermute 8 months ago

Much like this comment.

1point

#55

One who refuses to get outside their comfort zone for growth.

theta.jada Report

Final score:

4points

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Rinso The Red 8 months ago

People who try to push me out of my comfort zone. Make a space, don't push

3points

wishonathundercloud Report

#56

An unquestioning approach to consumerism, and the oppressive systems (colonialism, capitalism, ecological violence, patriarchy, etc) that we all live within.

Final score:

4points

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#57

Saving absolutely all of your money for “retirement” and never getting at least a little tiny treat like bro i don’t even want to live until the age when people usually retire.

pepsinador , Frank van Hulst / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

Final score:

3points

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G A 8 months ago

Pathetic

2points

StrangeOne 8 months ago

The "live fast, die young" mentality is a huge red flag.

0points

#58

Resistant to change, tends to abandon tasks easily, and lacks assertiveness in pursuing growth.

pk_asis Report

Final score:

3points

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StrangeOne 8 months ago

This just describes ADHD.

0points

#59

Being a hedonist.

k.g._munro Report

Final score:

3points

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FreeTheUnicorn 8 months ago

Ah yes, who would want a partner that was interested in sensual pleasure? I'd much prefer a hedonist to an acetic/renunciate.

4points

mandi_xxg , Eduardo Ramos / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

#60

Still being part of a big family where they treat you as powerless because you’re considered younger.

gracenovely Report

Final score:

2points

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#61

Honestly roomates 🤮 if youre a grown man how tf do you expect to date a girl & have her take you seriously if youre living a dirty bro bachelor life style. Sorry i dont wanna have a sleep over with Kyle & Zach! Also too involved with the family. Soundcloud rappers. No desire to leave their hometown. Etc.

Final score:

1point

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SkyyCaramba 8 months ago

I mean, I want roommates, but that's cuz the economy is s**t. tbh as long as every one isn't nasty i'd be okay with it

7points

Mike F 8 months ago

Right, no sleepovers with Kyle and Zach but it's perfectly OK with Brittney and Kaylee?

1point

JacPot 8 months ago

There is a lot going on here, most of which I agree with, but being too involved with your family is a red flag?

4points

StrangeOne 8 months ago

That is a very privileged idealism to have in this economy.

0points

#62

Buying a harley.

normanczerny_ Report

Final score:

-3points

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Brian Droste 8 months ago

What is wrong buying a Harley?

10points

turk 8 months ago

Nothing, if it's what you need for your midlife crisis.

1point

#63

Skiing more than once a month.

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-8points

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Brian Droste 8 months ago

What's wrong with skiing more than once a month?

8points

FreeTheUnicorn 8 months ago

I guess it's good news for those with my body type that someone hates athletic people who make time for fitness and time outdoors, but seriously,, the people who ski and cycle to work are always the office hotties.

1point

#64

Wanting your steak, boiled eggs, or pasta well done.

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-11points

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General Anaesthesia 8 months ago (edited)

Red flag? Really? Control freaky vapid.

7points

Dilly Millandry 8 months ago

Food police types!! Let people eat things how they want! I'd never choose steak for a meal in the first place, not much of a meat eater, but I don't care if people want it rare or cremated, it's their meal and their choice.

0points

#65

Not having at least 1 plant. If your place doesn't have a single window, then fine. But if I walk in and there's not 1 plant or at least a dead plant so ik u tried, im leaving.

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-14points

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General Anaesthesia 8 months ago

So you want plants to die proving I tried? Your next post: "dead plants, throw them away!"

2points

turk 8 months ago

My cats eat them and puke on the floor.

0points

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#66

Gaining weight.

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-16points

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Peeka_Mimi Premium 8 months ago

WHAT?? People gain weight for any number of reasons. Being judgemental is my red flag.

15points

Child of the Stars 8 months ago

I hope OP remembers this comment when they hit middle age.

2points

#67

Waking up late. But it’s not a red flag to other people, rather red flag for you to reconsider you life choices.

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-20points

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G A 8 months ago

Judgemental emphasis on the mental

7points

Brian Droste 8 months ago

Could depend on your work schedule and when you get to bed. Example. If you work 2nd shift and longer out until 11 tak3s 20 mons to get home. Then take a shower, get a little bit to eat, maybe watch a little bit if tv. Go to bed 1 am. Don't get up until 10. I would say that is reasonable.

2points

Child of the Stars 8 months ago

I work nights. My sleep schedule is 9am-6pm. This person would hate me 😂

1point

StrangeOne 8 months ago

If I'm waking up later in the day, it's because it's my day off and I have the freedom to do so, without the panic of rushing off to work. Let people sleep.

0points

#68

For me it would be travelling to somewhere every weekend, it just shows that you cant put out roots ans settle and thats a red flag (note: I live in Europe).

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-21points

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G A 8 months ago

Ridiculously stupid comment.

14points