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Life is complex and nobody has all the answers. However, sometimes even the things that we think should be common knowledge turn out to be not that common.

A couple of days ago, Reddit user Lowertier4848 made a post on the platform, asking everyone to share "cheat codes" in real life that are overlooked because of how few people use them.

From admitting your own mistakes to listening instead of talking during conversations, here are the ones that have climbed to the top of the discussion.

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30 "Cheat Codes" That Are Overlooked In Real Life Because Of How Few People Use Them If you hate everyone, have something to eat.
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If you feel like everyone hates you, get some sleep.
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If you hate yourself, have a shower.
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If you hate the world, get out into nature.

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30 "Cheat Codes" That Are Overlooked In Real Life Because Of How Few People Use Them Honestly learning how to say no without feeling guilty is like a life cheat code it saves you so much time, energy and stress.

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We got in touch with the author of the post, who is actually quite new to Reddit, and they agreed to chat with us about it.

"[I got the idea to ask this question when] I was ... reflecting on how life can sometimes feel overwhelming, but there are always those little things you pick up that can make it easier, like tricks that save you time or stress," Lowertier4848 told Bored Panda.

"As a new Reddit user, I thought it would be fun to see what kinds of 'cheat codes' others have discovered. The question came to me when I realized how powerful some of these simple insights can be, and I wanted to see what the broader Reddit community thought."

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30 "Cheat Codes" That Are Overlooked In Real Life Because Of How Few People Use Them When you f**k up, admit your guilt and apologize. People will respect you. Deflecting and passing blame makes you look like an a*****e.

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30 "Cheat Codes" That Are Overlooked In Real Life Because Of How Few People Use Them Listening to understand, not to reply. This is all the vast majority of people need for you to be on their good side.

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Lowertier4848 also said that as their post went viral, they recognized a few common topics.

"I've noticed a lot of answers centered around communication," the Redditor noted. "Another recurring theme is self-discipline, with people mentioning how small habits and consistent efforts can lead to big changes over time."

"It's interesting to see how many of these 'cheat codes' are things that we might overlook in daily life but can have a huge impact when applied."


#5

30 "Cheat Codes" That Are Overlooked In Real Life Because Of How Few People Use Them NOT GIVING A SINGLE F WHAT OTHERS THINK. I'm almost 51 and spent 50 yrs people pleasing,dieting,all of the things. For what?
So, the last year I've just done whatever I wanted.
It's a beautiful thing to give ZERO Fs.
True story.

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30 "Cheat Codes" That Are Overlooked In Real Life Because Of How Few People Use Them Learning how to make use of all the free stuff provided by the local library - audiobooks, movie rentals, museum tickets, access to major newspaper publications, free wifi hotspot rentals, tax assistance, etc, etc, etc.

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It makes sense that a lot of the answers center around emotional intelligence. Research by psychologist Dr. Travis Bradberry revealed that only 36 percent of people can be considered good at self-awareness, self-regulation, social awareness, and social skills.

According to Bradberry, those who are, among other things, have more curiosity, embrace change, can accurately judge character, are difficult to offend, and appreciate what they have. Surely they know more "cheat codes" than the average folk.

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30 "Cheat Codes" That Are Overlooked In Real Life Because Of How Few People Use Them Keeping your mouth shut and just observing.

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30 "Cheat Codes" That Are Overlooked In Real Life Because Of How Few People Use Them Water. Seeing it, hearing it, being submerged in it, and most of all drinking it. I can’t count the number of times I felt like a new person after washing my face or showering immediately after a long day, or calmed down just by the sounds of rain or flowing water, felt rejuvenated after drinking it… honestly i’m surprised everyday by the healing effects of water. Can’t be overstated imo.

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"I think a big part of [people struggling with applying these seemingly simple real-life 'cheat codes'] is that, even though these principles seem obvious once you realize them, they're not always easy to spot," Lowertier4848 told us.

"Life moves fast, and people might not have the time to reflect and see these solutions. Plus, some 'cheat codes' take practice or a mindset shift to implement, and that's not always easy to do consistently. It's easy to overlook simple solutions when we're caught up in the complexity of our daily lives."


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30 "Cheat Codes" That Are Overlooked In Real Life Because Of How Few People Use Them Showering when you're feeling down about yourself or mildly depressed.

Shower, then go outside for a walk, get some air. It does wonders.

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30 "Cheat Codes" That Are Overlooked In Real Life Because Of How Few People Use Them Being kind to people, even when you don’t have to be. Seriously, it’s like a life hack with hidden bonuses.

People tend to remember those who made them feel good, whether it’s a compliment, a simple “How’s your day?” or just listening when they’re having a rough one. It opens doors, creates opportunities, and builds connections in ways that are more powerful than people think.

Also, being kind doesn’t just help others; it makes *you* feel better too. It’s like a cheat code for leveling up in life, and it’s free!

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This suggests that older people are 'better' at life—they've had more time to collect the 'cheat codes' to it, including arguably the most valuable one, acceptance of the inevitable. One study found that people in their 40s and 50s expressed a greater fear of death than those in their 60s and 70s. A later meta-analysis of 49 papers confirmed this and said that fear of death grows in the first half of life, but by the time we hit the 61-to-87 age group, it recedes to a stable, manageable level.

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30 "Cheat Codes" That Are Overlooked In Real Life Because Of How Few People Use Them Getting enough sleep. It’s like a secret hack for everything—productivity, mood, health.

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30 "Cheat Codes" That Are Overlooked In Real Life Because Of How Few People Use Them I hate to say it, but being thin. After losing a lot of weight, it's crazy how different the world treats you.

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"We definitely learn some of these cheat codes through personal experience," Lowertier4848 said. "But I also think mindset and attitude are very crucial. Some people are quicker to adjust their mindset and spot opportunities for improvement, while others may need more time or a change in perspective to see these 'cheat codes.' It's about learning, but also being open to new ways of thinking."

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#13

30 "Cheat Codes" That Are Overlooked In Real Life Because Of How Few People Use Them "I have been disfellowshipped"
Permanently gets rid of Jehovah's Witness from ringing your doorbell.

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#14

You're allowed to change your mind at any point in the process.

No matter how much money or time or emotion others have put into it.

You're gonna need this tip at least a few times in your life to avoid major f**k-ups.

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wowbagger
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

True, as long as you're willing to accept the consequences. If you've signed a contract, there will be some kind of penalty for pulling out. If you've made a verbal promise and now go back on it, people may lose trust in you. Be prepared to make amends.

Debbie
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ironically this is now beneath the post: "Show up on time and show up to events you've committed to. People love to know you're trustworthy and pleasant to be around. You will be invited if you are the type of person who shows up when and where you say you will." So no, you are not allowed to change your mind all the time. If you have committed to something, make sure you follow through. So think before you commit. Both of these posts are right in the right context, but without, it's clashing. The commitment part: yes if you agree to go to a party. If you said you're coming, the only reason not to come is reasons outside your control (sick, cartrouble etc). The changing mind: depends. It sounds a bit selfish.

Jeff K
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

#truth. Earlier this year, my wife and I moved halfway across the country for her post-graduate job. We only knew one couple in the region. After a couple months of looking and interviewing, I accepted a good job offer at a small firm (15 people) in one town, and later had an offer on a home accepted. Within the week, another larger (closer to 50) and more appealing firm reached back out for an interview. I went and it was just what I was looking for, but they were in a city over an hour's drive away. I accepted the second offer and painfully went back to the other guys and tell them "no". We backed out of the home offer and lost $10k. Big ouch. 4 months later, I've gotten to know a couple dozen people at the bigger firm, I think the work life balance is better than it would've been at the other place, and we landed in a dream home. I suspect I'd be struggling at the other place

Colleen Glim
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Also, if something seems too good to be true, it probably is. My son-in-law was scammed to the tune of $30000 because he didn’t understand this

Fellfromthemoon
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It applies only when your withdrawal doesn't mean gain for you and loss for the other party.

goldenwood_cottage
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

read up on the sunk cost fallacy. If you understand that and can ID it when it happens to you you will get ahead of situations like this.

Orwell
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think I get what the op is saying. Like how my sister felt pressured into getting married before they moved across the country bc of a job offer her partner got. They planned the wedding in six weeks, I learned much later that she wanted out right up until the last minute but even our mother pushed her to go through with it. Many years later, after two kids, a d**g addiction (him), an affair (her) and a whole lot of debt (him) they divorced. Another example - I felt pressured to continue on the corporate path that was bringing in way more money than I ever thought I'd make. I was wholly miserable. Eventually, with a push from my spouse and a bunch of support, I was able to quit and go back to school. Now I work as a pediatric SLP - and I love it. So much time wasted because we didn't have the nerve to step away from things that we knew were wrong for us. So much gained by finally moving in a new direction.

General Anaesthesia
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Except in politics, where voters and opposing parties call you out if your opinion differs in nuance from thirty years ago.

Michael Largey
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I like what Harold McMillian said when he was criticised for changing his position - "When the facts change, my opinion changes. What do you do when the facts change?"

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Always thanking and acknowledging service workers. Tell the person bagging your groceries “Thanks for the help!”. Tell the person cleaning the restroom you are in “Thanks for keeping the restroom clean!” When you are paying your bill at the car dealership/local garage for service tell the person/cashier they were nice to work with. Tell the people that are fixing your plumbing you understand that although they couldn’t come out to your location yesterday you appreciated that that got the work done today.

Not only is this something you should just do. But these small acts of kindness come back in spades. All of the people at these places talk to each other and they all know who the a******s are and who the nice people are.

The next time you need something extra or have to make a call for a plumbing repair, etc. there is a good chance you are first on the list , or they will give you break. Possibly jump your car in the parking lot if your battery is dead. If you do it consistently and genuinely it will help you out someday.

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#16

Minding your business is grossly underrated.

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30 "Cheat Codes" That Are Overlooked In Real Life Because Of How Few People Use Them Think before you speak, it's simple but they don't do it. Learning it makes you powerful.

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30 "Cheat Codes" That Are Overlooked In Real Life Because Of How Few People Use Them Regular exercise. During times in my life where I don't exercise, I slowly sink into anxiety and despair. A few weeks of good diet, little or no alcohol, and exercise every few days, it reverses completely and I feel like a different person.

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30 "Cheat Codes" That Are Overlooked In Real Life Because Of How Few People Use Them "Thank you for waiting" instead of "sorry I took so long." has made my general life and self esteem so much better. I do that with a lot of things now. "Thank you for listening!" instead of "sorry for talking so much" is great.

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30 "Cheat Codes" That Are Overlooked In Real Life Because Of How Few People Use Them Asking for help.

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Accepting help.

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Always poop on company time.

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Cleaning *while* cooking.

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Spending less than you make.
Seriously. It sounds stupid but a lot of people don’t really track their expenses. A lot of people fall prey to “I have it in the bank, so I can afford it.” Savings look small at first, but after a few years can add up to substantial amounts.
And I don’t mean people who have nothing left after rent, food and necessities. I mean people who get in the habit of treating themselves to things they can *technically* afford.

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30 "Cheat Codes" That Are Overlooked In Real Life Because Of How Few People Use Them A good reliable trustworthy partner.

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#25

30 "Cheat Codes" That Are Overlooked In Real Life Because Of How Few People Use Them Buying prescription glasses online. I used to pay $250-300 for glasses in a brick and mortar store and now I can get them for under $50 online.

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Smiling at people - it seems to catch people off-guard often but they'll usually return the smile back. I've seen strangers' moods completely transform after a smile.
Also, a (non-creepy) genuine compliment or acknowledgement.

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Show up on time and show up to events you've committed to. People love to know you're trustworthy and pleasant to be around. You will be invited if you are the type of person who shows up when and where you say you will.

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30 "Cheat Codes" That Are Overlooked In Real Life Because Of How Few People Use Them Biking to and from work or school. One of the very rare life trifectas, you get exercise, you get to treat the environment better and you get to save commuting expenses.

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30 "Cheat Codes" That Are Overlooked In Real Life Because Of How Few People Use Them I often feel lightheaded if I stand up too quickly since I have rather low blood pressure. If it occurs, instantly force the blood back upward by clenching your abdominal muscles.

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30 "Cheat Codes" That Are Overlooked In Real Life Because Of How Few People Use Them Building strong networks and connections. It’s like having a secret map to opportunities that others might miss.

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Being in shape. It’s beyond looks. It’s being able to move freely and without pain. It’s being able to clothes shop anywhere. It’s staying youthful into your 50s.

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#32

30 "Cheat Codes" That Are Overlooked In Real Life Because Of How Few People Use Them Wear Sunscreen.

You will look younger, healthier, and happier for longer. The sun can age people as much as smoking cigarettes if they don’t take care of themselves.

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#33

Setting boundaries.

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When writing college term papers or other such things.

Write an outline first. Writing an outline takes like ten minutes, maybe 20.

Once you have the outline, you sit down and write the paper and dude, it feels like the paper writes itself. You have this guide that leads you through every paragraph, perhaps every sentence if your wrote your outline that tightly, and even a draft of a 20 page paper can be done in like 2 hours once you have an outline.

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"Why not do it now?"

I used to procrastinate all the time. One day, though, I thought, "Well, why *not* do it right now?" I couldn't think of a reason, other than "I don't want to." Since it was something that needed to be done (in that case, I think it was the dishes), I just... went ahead and did it.

I procrastinate a lot less these days.

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#36

Not being afraid to speak up, really. It is difficult only in some cases, but if you learn it, it will help you a lot in life.

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#37

Putting actual effort into your appearance.

Regrettably, human animal is a visual creature. Even if that offends the "I'm nots!". That "inside what counts" only counts if the outside looks appealing enough, to invite exploration of that inside.

When you first realize that people will treat you differently for putting on a polo shirt and black slacks instead of t-shirt and blue jeans, you'll lose a lot of respect for people. And gain a lot of it *from* them return.

I don't like it. I'd even go as far as to say I actually hate it. But I'm also not gonna intentionally stack the deck against me by not doing it.

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#38

Daily purchase of coffee vs making it at home is a no brainer. One could afford an excellent machine, top quality beans, and still come out ahead financially.

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#39

Look into the eyes when you speak, as simple as it may sound. It helps you a lot.

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#40

Access to the internet.
You can literally learn anything you want to at any time.

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#41

I don't enjoy public speaking and am horribly blind without my contacts. Everything is a blur past one foot in front of me. When I had to give presentations in graduate school, I'd wear my glasses and take them off to avoid any anxiety I'd have from seeing all those bored faces.

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Meditation.

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Having a support system. I'm neurodivergent and I can see the difference in people around me. Like people who have self doubts actually have friends or a partner who encourages them to go for that promotion? People have someone who can do a job referral for them or who have friends who are renting out their flat? Support system / a huge circle of acquaintances should come directly after family finances as predictor for how far you'll go in live.

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#44

Cooking by yourself is one of the best cheat codes out there to save money.

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#45

Ask yourself, “what should I really be doing right now.”, be completely honest with yourself.
It’s like your brain instantly generates the correct answer and it’s up to you to listen and take action.

Be honest with yourself + take action = your life improves over time.

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#46

Getting off your phone suddenly gives you so much time to do stuff!

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30 "Cheat Codes" That Are Overlooked In Real Life Because Of How Few People Use Them Using I need to check with my spouse' as an excuse to get out of anything. It’s like the ultimate escape plan for every unwanted plan or commitment.

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#48

Hang up on telemarketers without saying a word.

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#49

Learning some body language and surrounding subjects (micro expressions, persuasion skills, negotiation skills). Game changer for every day use.

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#50

Addressing people by their name/using someone's name on a regular basis.
If interacting with someone ask their name, eg, taxi drivers, waiters/waitresses, attendants, etc, then use that name when thanking them.
You'll be surprised how far this goes, not exactly a "cheat code" but it can make all the difference, and it's free.

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#51

Compound Interest.

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On this - Warren Buffet is thought to be one of the best investors of all time. But his real wealth comes from the fact he’s been investing FOR 70 YEARS. He’s made something like 90% of his wealth in the last 10 years. He’s anthropomorphised compound interest.

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#52

Making a to-do list feels like a cheat code for adulting.

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#53

Waking up early feels like a cheat code in life that most people sleep on—literally. It’s like having a head start in a race where everyone else is still tying their shoelaces. You get a few quiet hours to yourself before the world starts bombarding you with demands. It’s the perfect time for productivity, contemplation, or just sipping coffee in peace without anyone asking you to find their socks. Try it for a week, and watch your life change—it’s like unlocking a secret level where you actually get to enjoy your morning instead of treating it like a level of Jumanji.

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#54

Being healthy with functioning organs.

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#55

Actual cheat code: I'm a boarder living with a family in a large house. I pay a measly fee for room and board, much much cheaper than living alone, and I live with good supportive people who are like family so I'm never lonely. And the location and environment is ideal. It really does feel like a console cheat. But most people would never consider it as an option.

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#56

Cold showers/ cold plunges for mood and energy boosts. Daily cold water exposure actually changed my life.

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#57

30 "Cheat Codes" That Are Overlooked In Real Life Because Of How Few People Use Them Doing House Swaps for vacations. We often trade our car as well so we end up with vacations for only the price of the plane tickets, toys for the kids, a home that looks and feels like ours, and new friends :).

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#58

If you're anything like me, a handful of supplements can solve 90% of your problems.

I had a terrible diet, can't get to sleep, can't stay asleep, always tired/falling asleep.

Daily Multivitamin fixes most of the problems caused by my bad diet. I used to get all these little random muscle twitches. Gone.

Can't get to sleep? 10mg Melatonin. Especially when I need to change my sleep schedule and like, go to bed 4 hours early. 10mg Melatonin, relax watching tv for 30-45 minutes, and slowly my eyes start to droop and I can actually fall asleep.

Can't stay asleep? Magnesium. God damn I can't thank my wife enough for introducing me to it. From about 18 to 32 years old, I could never really sleep for more than 6 hours at a time, and I'd always end up taking naps throughout the day. Magnesium before bed, bang, I'm out for 8 hours.

Magnesium and Melatonin together, not recommended, but if you really need to go to sleep, and stay asleep, for 8 hours, to pay off that sleep debt, it works. It feels like a cheat code.

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30 "Cheat Codes" That Are Overlooked In Real Life Because Of How Few People Use Them Caring parents.

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Rich parents.

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#60

Living in good places, well, these are codes that we all know and we know it directly.

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#61

Saving a part of your income each month and investing in index funds. And also keeping six months worth of expenses set aside. Even with economic crises, your wealth grows substantially quite quickly. Once you no longer live paycheck to paycheck, your life changes - less stress, much easier psychologically, you can afford certain risks you could not before etc. Being able to simply say no, at work, looking for a job, to your clients, is a big one.

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#62

Brush your teeth before having breakfast, it tastes way better!

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#63

Get credit cards that have no interest, and that have a cash bonus once you spend x amount. Spend the amount little by little, pay it off immediately. Get the bonus, and stop using it. I've made several hundreds of dollars doing this, when I first got a bank account. Simultaneously helped me build my credit up.

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#64

Being tall and having a strong body, you have too much power.

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