Every parent has their own way of handling their kids’ mischief—some go for punishment, others for reasoning. But when it involves a sibling’s kids, things can get complicated.

This was precisely the case for one man who had to get creative when his brother’s child “borrowed” his kids’ Lego pieces and took them home. When his brother repeatedly “forgot” to return them, the author decided to let his kids “reclaim” anything they wanted from his house, sparking a funny family standoff. Keep reading to find out how his brother reacted!

Kids are always ready for a bit of mischief, but it’s up to parents to take responsibility for their actions

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One dad let his kids take remotes and small electronics from his brother’s house after he repeatedly failed to return their missing Lego pieces

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The author later provided more details about the dog

Firstborns often have to follow more rules compared to their younger sibling

Growing up with siblings often leaves you wondering if you were even raised by the same parents! Especially if you’re the eldest, you might’ve noticed a difference in how things are handled with you versus the younger ones.

Being the firstborn can feel like carrying an extra set of expectations. There’s often more structure, rules, and maybe even pressure that comes with being the “practice run” for parents navigating their parenting journey.

For instance, remember that time you had to ask for permission to go to a party just down the block, only to hear a firm “no”? Meanwhile, a few years later, your younger sibling’s off to another country at 15 for a music festival, and all they get is, “Have fun!”

Research suggests that this experience may be heightened if the first child is female, as parents tend to be more protective of daughters. Plus, the firstborn usually gets some uninterrupted time with the parents before any siblings arrive. This helps shape a unique bond and experience.

Because of such factors, firstborns often grow up a bit more cautious, perhaps more academically focused, compared to later-born siblings. While these are only tendencies and won’t hold true in every family, birth order does seem to shape some of our personality and life outlooks.

On the other hand, the second child usually benefits from parents being more relaxed. As Lynn Berger writes in ‘Second Thoughts: On Having and Being a Second Child,’ the second child is less of “an experiment,” as parents have had a chance to learn from their experiences with the first.

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Regardless of how your parents raised you, siblings usually end up raising their own kids differently

No matter where you fall in the birth order—whether you’re the firstborn, middle child, or the youngest—growing up brings its own perspective on how to raise a family. Once you have kids of your own, you might reflect on how you were raised and think about which values, habits, and traditions to carry forward or let go.

For instance, some of us might find comfort in following the same approach as our parents, appreciating the familiar routines that we grew up with. Others may seek to make some adjustments based on our own experiences. A strict upbringing, for instance, might inspire one parent to raise their children with a little more flexibility. Often, it’s a blend—taking the best from what we know and adapting along the way, as no two parenting journeys look exactly alike.

Regardless of which path we take, siblings often end up raising their children differently because perspectives naturally evolve. So, even siblings raised in the same household end up shaping their own unique parenting styles.

Just like in this case, where the author felt differently about his nephew’s behavior than his brother did. While his brother brushed off his 8-year-old’s “borrowing” a few Lego pieces, the author felt it was wrong, especially when his brother forgot to return them. The author was even willing to let his teenage kids “reclaim” items from his brother’s house as a response! What’s your take on this situation? Let us know your thoughts!

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Many people online agreed that a tit-for-tat approach was justified in this situation

Some felt he was in the wrong for encouraging his kids to take things

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