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“Never Be Loyal To Your Employer”: Employee Loses The Job She’s Had For 2 Years In 15 Minutes
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“Never Be Loyal To Your Employer”: Employee Loses The Job She’s Had For 2 Years In 15 Minutes

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Usually, we’re told that being a hard and loyal worker is the way to go. Yet, sometimes, even being one can not be enough. For example, you might get laid off from a company without any warning the day you’re celebrating your anniversary with them. Yes, this exact thing happened to today’s OP — a profitable worker for the company was laid off after she celebrated being on the job for a second year. And you can surely guess how she felt afterward — crushed, as two year’s worth of work was snatched from her.

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Sadly, occasionally, even being one of the finest employees in the company might not save your job

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The woman gets invited to a meeting on her 2nd job anniversary, but she doesn’t worry, as she feels secure in her position

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The meeting turns out to be a layoff announcement, making the woman lose all hope in company loyalty

Bored Panda reached out to the post’s author, who provided the additional context for the whole story, and Dr. Catherine Connelly from McMaster University for a deeper understanding of layoffs. 

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The post’s author recently celebrated 2 years on the job. And let’s just say that, very quickly, the celebration turned into a not-so-fun occasion. The night after the anniversary, the OP got an invite to a skip-level meeting. 

skip-level meeting is when a manager’s manager meets directly with a team member. Usually, these meetings are meant to advance communication between the leader and the whole team, not just their direct reports. So, after Googling revealed to the OP that this meeting was supposed to be just a chat with upper management, she decided not to worry. 

She was always told how important she was, as she was the only one trained to look for and bring in new money. Naturally, she didn’t think there was anything particular to worry about: “I thought I was a valuable member of the company, and the same VP made sure I knew it each time we met.” The company was even making plans with her, so why worry, right? 

The woman joined the skip-level meeting with excitement, but very soon, her excitement was crushed, as she was informed about being laid off. Without any warning, the OP lost access to everything she was signed into, and she lost all the work she had done for 2 years. The author described it as a “shocking and humbling experience.” 

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She added, “Looking back, I was very easily fooled. I believed everyone too blindly, and I definitely might be less trusting going forward. This was one of my favorite jobs, and I do admit [that] I did learn a lot, but I was too comfortable and did not have any plans lined up since I planned on staying for another year.”

Dr. Catherine Connelly explained that in cases when an employee isn’t unionized and they’re costing a lot to a company, even their excellent track record or seniority may not protect them from being laid off. Which, apparently, was the case for the post’s author. 

The layoff didn’t only come as a surprise to the post’s author. Not counting many people on LinkedIn, her direct supervisor didn’t even know about it until it happened, so she wasn’t able to stop it. 

Yet now, when the OP looks back on the whole situation, she suspects financial troubles in the company. During the annual evaluation, there were no mentions of bonuses, but there was talk of the loss of clients and staff members being moved around between departments. Still, all these red flags weren’t enough for her to suspect the layoff. 

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Luckily, the woman has a good support system in her life, and they didn’t let her spiral into panic. She also had some ex-coworkers and other people who were laid off, who offered her help: “We went through all stages of grief together, from sadness, anger, to acceptance. That also helped me greatly in not feeling alone, and since we all shared the same experience and shock, it was a bonding experience as well.”

Many people in the comments showed very similar sentiments after being laid off — feeling glum, losing hope in company loyalty, and having a hard time overall. What a lousy thing those layoffs are, right?

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Even so, the experience still took a toll on her: “I had to mentally tell myself that this wasn’t my fault, and I did nothing wrong to be put into this situation.”

Now, she is still looking for a job but not letting it consume her whole life: “I’m trying to not let this be a setback, and I’m hoping this mindset continues moving forward as the job search continues.”

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So, it’s no wonder that the woman feels like she learned a harsh lesson here — companies will kick you out heartlessly without any hesitation. “Now, looking back and when going forward, I don’t plan on showing as much loyalty to these companies. We really are just a number to them and nothing more. We are replaceable. Even those who appear as friends and mentors at work would toss you aside to better themselves and their jobs. I know not everyone is like that, but I’m definitely going to be more skeptical going forward.”

For people who are facing or fearing layoffs, Dr. Catherine Connelly proposed several practical steps. 

First, update your resume every few months or so, no matter if there are any layoffs in the air: “Keep track of new skills that you have learned or projects that you led or participated in. A year after a project is complete, you may not remember the details, but those details may be what helps you to get your next job.”

Maintaining a professional network is also important, even if it can be quite difficult. But, in the end, if you end up needing to find a new job, it can be very useful to know people from outside of the company you have been laid off from. 

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Then, if you’re invited to a layoff meeting, Dr. Connelly advises you to “stay as calm as possible, even though it’s a really upsetting thing to go through. Try to find out as much as possible about your severance and what else is being offered, such as placement services.” After the meeting, a person can talk to a lawyer if they feel they could have been targeted due to being in a protected class, like parental or medical leave. 

Then, according to Catherine, during the search for a new workplace, it’s important to not panic and make peace with the fact that it might take a while to find the right match: “Don’t take the first job that you are offered, and use the interview process to evaluate the potential employer just as much as they are evaluating you.” 

She added that starting your own business in such a situation might not be the best idea for some, even though a lot of people say it is. After all, building a business from scratch requires a different skill set, which can cause a person to lose a lot of money. 

As we said — layoffs are a lousy thing. Losing the work you put so much effort into throughout the years can in no way feel good. And if, in the upcoming months, there will be more layoffs due to a recession, sadly, we’ll be witnessing even more people losing hope.

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Comments showcased that the woman isn’t the only one who felt this way after the layoff. In fact, it’s quite a common feeling

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Ugnė Bulotaitė

Ugnė Bulotaitė

Author, BoredPanda staff

I am a writer at Bored Panda. I have loved creating and writing down stories about people and things since I was little and I think this passion led me to get degrees in sociology, communication, and journalism. These degrees opened various paths for me, and I got a chance to be a volunteer in the human rights field, and also try myself out in social research and journalism areas. Besides writing, my passions include pop culture: music, movies, TV shows; literature, and board games. In fact, I have been dubbed a board games devotee by some people in my life.

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Enlee Jones
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8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It happened to me at a company I had been with for 10 years. I didn’t even get to say goodbye to my coworkers, was just given two minutes to gather things from my desk and then walked to the door like a criminal. Don’t think for a second that you’re not expendable. Your job will kick you to curb in a second to save a buck.

MoMcB
Community Member
8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Same. Got offered a job the same week by a competitor. They tried to stop that too. Nothing in my contract to say I couldn't take it, so I got redundancy pay and a new job.

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Sonja
Community Member
8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sadly yes. I do have irregular meetings with higher ups but that's part of my job, it's not unexpected. But it's the sad part of my job as a quality manager that this is almost always the preamble of someone getting an unexpected meeting and being let go.

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Verena
Community Member
8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

USA? This is why there are standard contracts, which are for the biggest part are negotiated by unions, and workers/employee rights in most countries in Europe. Being laid off without warning and having to leave within minutes is only happening in extreme cases of misbehaviour.

DRMAGDN
Community Member
8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It sucks that some people end up on the wrong side of a spreadsheet. That's why everyone should always keep the outreach, networking and job applications happening in the background at all times. Gotta make sure that there's always offers on the table to avoid this dark truth and mess. Too many horror stories like this out there. It's nuts.

similarly
Community Member
8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I understand that having no notice, being watched by security as you pack, being walked to the front door, and feeling treated like a criminal is very heartbreaking, but please don't take it personally. I've seen the other side. We had a manager who was being let go. The company was nice about it, allowing him to continue working, allowing him access to company computers etc. etc. etc. I WARNED them not to do it, but they did it anyway. During the month or so before he left, he destroyed EVERYTHING! Years of work, erased, deleted, shredded. He left his replacement with NOTHING! Sabotaged everything he could get his hands on. EVERY bit of work he did during the last three years of his employment: all gone. Maybe if people didn't nuke their companies on their last day, the company wouldn't have to take measures to prevent it. It's heartbreaking it has to be this way, but I've seen it from the other side.

Ken Beattie
Community Member
8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The interesting thing to note is the person who mentioned their laptop being remotely wiped. It's a good warning to people that if you use your laptop for both work and personal stuff that (a) you shouldn't, and (b) if you do make sure everything is backed up on an external drive cos your company could wipe it at a moments notice.

Hashim Siraj
Community Member
8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That’s why you need to cover your bases like there’s a lawyer running at you with a knife

Riche White
Community Member
8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's why I'm self employed. Don't have to deal with corporate b s

Gavin Johnson
Community Member
8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wait until you have to sack yourself, that’ll be a tricky day, how will you hide it from yourself? 😀

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aubergine10003
Community Member
Premium
8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This happened to me 14 months ago... except I had been at the company for 21+ YEARS. Yes, that's right. The call was about 10 minutes long... and no reason was given (it wasn't layoffs). I'm still unemployed 😢

Bexxperience
Community Member
8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had worked as a freelancer for an advertising company for 5 years. Over the last 2 years of that time, there was quite some turnover and two people from my department quit (one was a close friend who actually hired me and was the department head). One day, the tuesday after easter, I come in to work to find someone else sitting at my workstation. I went to the new department head to ask "what the f**k?!" (but in a more polite way, of course) and he basically answered "Whoops, forgot to tell you, we don't have a workstation set up for you, so, uh... maybe go home?" Went home, wrote my final invoice and never went back. The new department head and two web developers he hired all quit within 4-6 months, department got completely gutted shortly after, the company shrunk from close to 50 employess to less than 30 and never recovered. TbH I feel I dodged a bullet there, but I will never forget the level of unprofessionalism. The owners never even tried to talk to me. Cowards.

DarkViolet
Community Member
8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Been there, done that. Worked at a job for 17 years. They overextended themselves in terms of money. Other employees had already abandoned ship, and I was the last holdout. Cue "job evaluations," being shut out of meetings, no work forwarded my way. Given the grimy handshake, packed up my things, and figuratively (and literally) shook the dust from my shoe. Ended up with a MUCH better job before I went on disability. I wouldn't set foot on the premises again for any amount of money.

Nimitz
Community Member
8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is why one of the most important things I learned as a manager was to put meetings in context so you don't cause anxiety just by asking for someone to come in for a meeting.

Gavin Johnson
Community Member
8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You owe you company nothing but the work you do. That’s what the pay and benefits are for, nothing more, nothing less. Use your holidays, work the hours you are paid for, no more. Your loyalty is not rewarded nor is your friendly help for others, your ‘team spirit’ or your willingness to do work above your pay grade. Money in, work out. Unless you are lucky then ultimately you are just a number on a spreadsheet.

Jonathan English
Community Member
8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ffs Who celebrate 2years work anniversary, very in experience and immature. What's the saying I was told before, last one in, first to go.

Ginger Winters
Community Member
7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Celebrating milestones isn't inexperienced or immature. Lots of people do it

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Enlee Jones
Community Member
8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It happened to me at a company I had been with for 10 years. I didn’t even get to say goodbye to my coworkers, was just given two minutes to gather things from my desk and then walked to the door like a criminal. Don’t think for a second that you’re not expendable. Your job will kick you to curb in a second to save a buck.

MoMcB
Community Member
8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Same. Got offered a job the same week by a competitor. They tried to stop that too. Nothing in my contract to say I couldn't take it, so I got redundancy pay and a new job.

Load More Replies...
Sonja
Community Member
8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sadly yes. I do have irregular meetings with higher ups but that's part of my job, it's not unexpected. But it's the sad part of my job as a quality manager that this is almost always the preamble of someone getting an unexpected meeting and being let go.

Load More Replies...
Verena
Community Member
8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

USA? This is why there are standard contracts, which are for the biggest part are negotiated by unions, and workers/employee rights in most countries in Europe. Being laid off without warning and having to leave within minutes is only happening in extreme cases of misbehaviour.

DRMAGDN
Community Member
8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It sucks that some people end up on the wrong side of a spreadsheet. That's why everyone should always keep the outreach, networking and job applications happening in the background at all times. Gotta make sure that there's always offers on the table to avoid this dark truth and mess. Too many horror stories like this out there. It's nuts.

similarly
Community Member
8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I understand that having no notice, being watched by security as you pack, being walked to the front door, and feeling treated like a criminal is very heartbreaking, but please don't take it personally. I've seen the other side. We had a manager who was being let go. The company was nice about it, allowing him to continue working, allowing him access to company computers etc. etc. etc. I WARNED them not to do it, but they did it anyway. During the month or so before he left, he destroyed EVERYTHING! Years of work, erased, deleted, shredded. He left his replacement with NOTHING! Sabotaged everything he could get his hands on. EVERY bit of work he did during the last three years of his employment: all gone. Maybe if people didn't nuke their companies on their last day, the company wouldn't have to take measures to prevent it. It's heartbreaking it has to be this way, but I've seen it from the other side.

Ken Beattie
Community Member
8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The interesting thing to note is the person who mentioned their laptop being remotely wiped. It's a good warning to people that if you use your laptop for both work and personal stuff that (a) you shouldn't, and (b) if you do make sure everything is backed up on an external drive cos your company could wipe it at a moments notice.

Hashim Siraj
Community Member
8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That’s why you need to cover your bases like there’s a lawyer running at you with a knife

Riche White
Community Member
8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's why I'm self employed. Don't have to deal with corporate b s

Gavin Johnson
Community Member
8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wait until you have to sack yourself, that’ll be a tricky day, how will you hide it from yourself? 😀

Load More Replies...
aubergine10003
Community Member
Premium
8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This happened to me 14 months ago... except I had been at the company for 21+ YEARS. Yes, that's right. The call was about 10 minutes long... and no reason was given (it wasn't layoffs). I'm still unemployed 😢

Bexxperience
Community Member
8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had worked as a freelancer for an advertising company for 5 years. Over the last 2 years of that time, there was quite some turnover and two people from my department quit (one was a close friend who actually hired me and was the department head). One day, the tuesday after easter, I come in to work to find someone else sitting at my workstation. I went to the new department head to ask "what the f**k?!" (but in a more polite way, of course) and he basically answered "Whoops, forgot to tell you, we don't have a workstation set up for you, so, uh... maybe go home?" Went home, wrote my final invoice and never went back. The new department head and two web developers he hired all quit within 4-6 months, department got completely gutted shortly after, the company shrunk from close to 50 employess to less than 30 and never recovered. TbH I feel I dodged a bullet there, but I will never forget the level of unprofessionalism. The owners never even tried to talk to me. Cowards.

DarkViolet
Community Member
8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Been there, done that. Worked at a job for 17 years. They overextended themselves in terms of money. Other employees had already abandoned ship, and I was the last holdout. Cue "job evaluations," being shut out of meetings, no work forwarded my way. Given the grimy handshake, packed up my things, and figuratively (and literally) shook the dust from my shoe. Ended up with a MUCH better job before I went on disability. I wouldn't set foot on the premises again for any amount of money.

Nimitz
Community Member
8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is why one of the most important things I learned as a manager was to put meetings in context so you don't cause anxiety just by asking for someone to come in for a meeting.

Gavin Johnson
Community Member
8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You owe you company nothing but the work you do. That’s what the pay and benefits are for, nothing more, nothing less. Use your holidays, work the hours you are paid for, no more. Your loyalty is not rewarded nor is your friendly help for others, your ‘team spirit’ or your willingness to do work above your pay grade. Money in, work out. Unless you are lucky then ultimately you are just a number on a spreadsheet.

Jonathan English
Community Member
8 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ffs Who celebrate 2years work anniversary, very in experience and immature. What's the saying I was told before, last one in, first to go.

Ginger Winters
Community Member
7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Celebrating milestones isn't inexperienced or immature. Lots of people do it

Load More Replies...
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