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30 Important But Hard-To-Swallow Life Truths, As Shared By Women In This Online Group

Life is full of surprises, and nobody can guarantee you that these surprises will only be positive. There are nearly 8 billion folks on this planet, living with their own quirks and personalities, and chances are someone on your way will end up disappointing you. It's safe to say that one of the most crucial reasons why everything is, more or less, emotionally tiring is because we attach our happiness to others.

We struggle to accept our importance, and we only pay attention to how we can satisfy everyone else around us. We put ourselves aside, forgetting that we're supposed to thrive and not survive – though, for most of us, this sort of epiphany comes with age when you finally understand that there's no more room for negativity.

An online user wondered and took it to one of Reddit's communities to ask women to share their own versions of hard-to-swallow pills they've managed to learn over the years. The post received nearly 4K upvotes and 1.5K worth of emotional yet encouraging stories.

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30 Important But Hard-To-Swallow Life Truths, As Shared By Women In This Online Group You can do everything right and still get f**ked. You can’t control that.

definitive-airwave , Nenad Stojkovic Report

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30 Important But Hard-To-Swallow Life Truths, As Shared By Women In This Online Group That no one cares. This sounds pessimistic but I really don’t mean it that way. When it comes to medical issues, boundaries with friends, or relationships, no one cares about you the way you do, and no one will advocate for you the way you can. You need to value yourself and take action as if no one else will, because in all likelihood, they won’t.

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30 Important But Hard-To-Swallow Life Truths, As Shared By Women In This Online Group Don’t assume people will treat you with the same kindness you treated them with.

motherofsmallones , Brian Evans Report

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30 Important But Hard-To-Swallow Life Truths, As Shared By Women In This Online Group You can be every thing they want- and they will want something else.

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30 Important But Hard-To-Swallow Life Truths, As Shared By Women In This Online Group I am never going to be thin and that’s perfectly fine. Turns out it’s a lot easier to live your life when you’re not constantly consumed with hating your own body!

s**tforcompassion , Jamie Report

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30 Important But Hard-To-Swallow Life Truths, As Shared By Women In This Online Group The world isn't fair and sometimes people just suck.

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30 Important But Hard-To-Swallow Life Truths, As Shared By Women In This Online Group You can do everything right in college and have honors, connections, and experience, and still not find a career when you graduate

everythinglatte , Jacob Roeland Report

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30 Important But Hard-To-Swallow Life Truths, As Shared By Women In This Online Group If a man is pushy about small things he will probably be pushy in other ways too.

SnooTigers6225 , Marco FrontSoldier Report

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30 Important But Hard-To-Swallow Life Truths, As Shared By Women In This Online Group Not everyone who comes into your life is meant to stay. Regardless of how much it hurts, sometimes you just have to let people go.

Imperfect-Magic , Quinn Dombrowski Report

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30 Important But Hard-To-Swallow Life Truths, As Shared By Women In This Online Group That sometimes you can be the toxic one, even if you have the best intentions. Accountability is important

lioness-2208 , SNappa2006 Report

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30 Important But Hard-To-Swallow Life Truths, As Shared By Women In This Online Group Your parents are people too with their own issues.

underscorehey , stanze Report

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30 Important But Hard-To-Swallow Life Truths, As Shared By Women In This Online Group That misogyny is so deeply ingrained in most cultures that most people don't recognize it when they look it in the eyes.

And that women, acting from internalized misogyny, can be as dangerous to you in non-sexual ways as men.

pucemoon , Mike Maguire Report

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#13

30 Important But Hard-To-Swallow Life Truths, As Shared By Women In This Online Group That there is often little to no correlation between effort and outcome. I've been successful at some things with little effort and a lot of luck. I've poured my entire soul into other things and still utterly failed.

ultimate_ampersand , pennino Report

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30 Important But Hard-To-Swallow Life Truths, As Shared By Women In This Online Group There’s going to come a point where the right thing to do won’t feel good at all. There are some things in life that you have to do, and they will break you down and hurt more than anything. But they’re still the right thing. And you will have to live with that.

fill_the_birdfeeder , Sascha Kohlmann Report

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30 Important But Hard-To-Swallow Life Truths, As Shared By Women In This Online Group Your parents don’t actually always know or want what’s best for you, sometimes it is what’s best for them and/or the society they lived in.

DisneyUp , Joe Shlabotnik Report

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30 Important But Hard-To-Swallow Life Truths, As Shared By Women In This Online Group After about the age of 25 I realized I had to work to stay healthy - physically and otherwise. Did not see that coming and it felt really unfair at first, then I realized that if that's my bar for unfair then I've had a pretty f**king good life so far and I should count my blessings and go run.

thewhitewallisblue , Nenad Stojkovic Report

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30 Important But Hard-To-Swallow Life Truths, As Shared By Women In This Online Group I overthink too much. Don't overthink everything or you will make yourself miserable.

Ian Sane , Ian Sane Report

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30 Important But Hard-To-Swallow Life Truths, As Shared By Women In This Online Group Depression doesn't go away.

nosiriamadreamer , Nenad Stojkovic Report

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30 Important But Hard-To-Swallow Life Truths, As Shared By Women In This Online Group People still dont owe you anything even if you're willing to risk your life for them. It's still their decision if they're gonna lift a finger for you and you shouldn't feel entitled for anyone's time and attention.

adobocute , jeanbaptisteparis Report

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30 Important But Hard-To-Swallow Life Truths, As Shared By Women In This Online Group Financial freedom is the only freedom

The-Clumsy-Pirate , David Baron Report

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K Witmer 2 years ago

It's truly the only way you can be independent and not have to rely on anyone

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Leodavinci 2 years ago

Everyone is an island... but no one lives in a vacuum.

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Julia McElroy 2 years ago

So not true at all

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Julia Purdy 2 years ago

Fun fact: you reky on an entire enabling structure that supports yr wealthy lifedtyle, from your plumber and groundskeeper to the steward on yr luxury yacht, to the road crews to the workers who orocess your garbage and the city that provides a multitude of unsung srrvices, to the miners who mine for the exotic metals that go into your Rolex ... and your $5,000 bicycle, no, my friend, you are a slave to yr money that can buy all these goodies..

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Mike Rodrick 2 years ago (edited)

Is that really how you want to live? That's just lame. You actually BELIEVE that money makes you independent? If you want to be independent, go live in the woods away from society. Let me know how it works out.

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Otter 2 years ago

"Freedom" is the most nebulous word in the world. I ask "Freedom from what?", while others are dying or killing in the name of what they call "freedom", something they can't even define.

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Angelar 2 years ago

I think many people didn't read the title of the post. It is from women, about being a woman...and that to be free, a woman must be financially free. At least that's how I understand it :)

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Julia McElroy 2 years ago

Intellectual freedom, emotional freedom sexual freedom, gender freedom, racial freedom, religious freedom... I'm not rich. I struggle financially. I don't have kids so I don't have that obligation but money isn't a freedom for me. No. It is most certainly not the only freedom. And so very far from being the most important.

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Wandering spirit 2 years ago

And yet they are all to a certain degree dependant on your financial freedom to maintain

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UpQuarkDownQuark 2 years ago

That can mean having a lot of money, or having few needs so you’re not tied to making a lot of money. A friend of mine does this well. She works part of the year, rents a room, can fit all her belongings in a pickup truck, and has a ton of free time and travels. She just just hiked the PCT last year (minus the parts closed from wildfires)!

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Ogidi Girl 2 years ago

This is a great balanced view. I think I was stuck in the lots of money view. Good to read this, thanks!

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Amy Stone-Chandler 2 years ago

If you live on a grid, there is no such thing as real freedom.

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Fiona Aitch 2 years ago

Very much a downvote from me.

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R.L. 2 years ago

From the age of 14 to30something, I was financially free! Then disability attacked and now I'm screwed. Thanks for the reminder that I don't have freedom.

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Paula Marowsky 2 years ago (edited)

Even if people then turn to slaves to their jobs/work for "finantial freedom"??

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No you can't have my name 2 years ago

Just think about that question for a minute there.

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Courtney Lunsford 2 years ago

The love of money is the root of all money. Render unto Ceasar what is Ceasar's

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Unnamed Panda 2 years ago

Well then we are an unfree society. ;p

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Accidental Genius 2 years ago

Its quite sad really...

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Random Anon 2 years ago

If only we could attain ascension like the Atlantians...

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Rijkærd 2 years ago

Louder for those at the back....

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Steven Livingston 2 years ago

People who say money doesn't matter to them have enough.

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Kimberly Wilson 2 years ago

This is definitely false. Financial security for most people is a myth, and even wealthy people can be enslaved mentally, emotionally, legally, and otherwise.

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Andrew Ender Frost 2 years ago

See #12. you can do everything right and still fail. Financial freedom is not a choice, it's just luck. For example, my mother grew up in a fundamental religion and believed she would go to hell if she didn't have a bunch of kids and then her husband divorced her. She made the "right" choice with the knowledge she had and she's pretty much f***d until they all grow up and move out. This could easily happen to someone else with a good job if they have a death in the family or an expensive disease.

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Ashley Mccullough 2 years ago

They say money can't buy happiness but it sure can make things a lot better when you don't have to stress and worry about paying the bills and feeding your family

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Jacob McDorman 2 years ago

If you're unhappy without money, you'll be unhappy with it as well. Just wait.

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Nojman 2 years ago

I would disagree that it is the only freedom. I don't give two craps about what people say about me. That's freedom but it isn't financial.

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R Carson 2 years ago

Security

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Joey 2 years ago

We are free to live with debt if that's what we choose. Not smart, but free to do so.

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Nancy White 2 years ago

Being free from financial concern is freedom, but one can have lots of money and still be enslaved by greed or enslaved by the fear of losing one''s money. Perhaps having enough money is freedom, but I'd rather be enlightened, then there would be no fear or attachment to anything. In regular ( non-enlightened) life one needs enough provision, most people crave more than enough, so they are not free.

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JayJay 2 years ago (edited)

Got the feeling there is something missing, like in the structure of modern capitalism?

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Eb 2 years ago

Disagree! Freedom of speech and thought, freedom to love who you love, freedom to practice your faith openly, freedom to be the gender you are, freedom of leisure time and relaxation, freedom to walk alone without fear of rape or murder, freedom to vote and freedom of an educated mind (the greatest independence of all to me). I could go on.

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miss miss 2 years ago

What about religion etc

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Katinka Min 2 years ago

True. It helps, though, to be happy with less money. The less you need, the easier it is to achieve that freedom

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Jonna Blevins 2 years ago

I've lived with depression for year Take meds for it llt changedLike a memory a song or just the weather then you are back in that space you just got out of day by day z You have good times Then something can come along

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Deberra Engelke 2 years ago

One exception is the freedom of thought.

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Nicole Trista 2 years ago

You can be poor and still have financial freedom. Financial freedom to me is paying my own way. I don't have to be in a relationship because of finances.

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Sonja Wells 2 years ago

Amen!!!! I never knew how freeing until I was able to retire early from earning money with my digital currency savings plan!

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Dawn Shackleford 2 years ago

Freedom is the only freedom. If you are not locked up then you are free!!! Free to work and live as you choose so be happy if you are strong and healthy you have everything you will figure out the rest as you go along.

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Nadia Komorova 2 years ago

Not only there is zero of true freedom within monetary system, there is only slaviest slavery where masters too are the slaviest slaves themselves. Both sides are junkies really.

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Jacob McDorman 2 years ago

This one is a joke and is entirely based on a capitalist ideology. Money means as much to your happiness as you want it to. In truth, money is merely an excuse. Happiness doesn't come from money, it comes from doing what you wish with the time you have. Money doesn't grant this. Money is a means to an end. The end result is what you actually want. When people wish for money, it means they don't actually know what they want out of life, OR they aren't taking the proper steps to get it. Grow up and you'll realize this with time. Or you'll spend your whole life chasing your tail like a dog.

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miranda sparkman 2 years ago

I think the Queen would beg to differ.......

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Solly 2 years ago

This is pretty sad though. Capitalism has won

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Kathy 2 years ago

Yes, but it's still only financial freedom. Money is portable, negotiable power, it is vital that you are financially independent if you want to attempt to achieve total freedom, but it can only buy you so much. There are many other freedoms you need to be truly free (physical freedom, freedom of speech, religious freedom, educational freedom, etc, etc) and unfortunately there will always be someone out there trying to deny you your freedoms...

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abby smink 2 years ago

Financial freedom brings with it all the other freedoms.

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Abb 2 years ago

No one tell Britney Spears

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Patty Knox 2 years ago

No. Freedom goes so far beyond finances. Most of us Americans don't know what it's like not to have freedom. Talk to a former POW or someone who escaped from a communist country back in the day, or a political prisoner in Afghanistan. We've got it easy.

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Bex 2 years ago

And it's way easier to get out of those places with...you guessed it!

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Diane Wissinger 2 years ago

True

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Naima Major 2 years ago

Absolutely and watch your coins!

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colin dinsdale 2 years ago

Right on! The only way a person can be & not have to worry about not having enough money

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LucyGoosey 2 years ago

And it's impossible to reach unless you're born rich.

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Kathleen Schwark/Steppler 2 years ago

This!! YES! Don't go into debt except when necessary. My finance professor would say, "if you cannot afford it in cash, you cannot afford it." This didn't mean you had to pay with cash, just accountability.

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September 2 years ago

Sorta

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Kimberly Poole 2 years ago

So true. I've told my son this since he was a baby. He has goals for a successful future now.

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Christina Keenan 2 years ago

I discovered this too late.

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Thomas Sweda 2 years ago

Oh yeah ? Ask Bernie Madof !

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Shaun Colby 2 years ago

You can't truly believe in this statement and also believe in things like slavery or the Holocaust

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Eagle Girl 2 years ago

Mentally Free is The Only Freedom. When you control your mind & stop listening to the bs , You are truly free & the money will find you

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Marita Berndt 2 years ago

It's close enough

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Angelar 2 years ago

It is really not that esoteric an issue. Can you finance yourself? yes/no

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30 Important But Hard-To-Swallow Life Truths, As Shared By Women In This Online Group Very few people care about you. Like at all. Even most of your acquaintances and relatives; often even so-called friends.

Exceptions exist for a select small group of "special" people.

VeronicaMarsupial , Ricardo Moraleida Report

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30 Important But Hard-To-Swallow Life Truths, As Shared By Women In This Online Group People will think the worst of you no matter how good you try to be.

hopkins_notakpopper , TheOneShot Report

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30 Important But Hard-To-Swallow Life Truths, As Shared By Women In This Online Group You can wait until circumstance motivates you out of your bad habits, but banking on future motivation risks you wasting most of your life.

coconutfi , Rennett Stowe Report

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30 Important But Hard-To-Swallow Life Truths, As Shared By Women In This Online Group That seeing someone's potential means nothing unless they try to fulfill it on their own

ScorpioWaterSign , Mike Burns Report

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30 Important But Hard-To-Swallow Life Truths, As Shared By Women In This Online Group That the only person who’s gonna take care of me, is me.

msha7 , Andrew Kuchling Report

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30 Important But Hard-To-Swallow Life Truths, As Shared By Women In This Online Group If they like you, you won’t be confused

Persiope , freestocks.org Report

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30 Important But Hard-To-Swallow Life Truths, As Shared By Women In This Online Group Only you can be the hero you needed as a kid.

Sanaria21 , Giovanni Report

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30 Important But Hard-To-Swallow Life Truths, As Shared By Women In This Online Group "You let them treat you that way."

-My therapist on the takers in my life of giving endlessly.

ThankGrace , arda Report

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30 Important But Hard-To-Swallow Life Truths, As Shared By Women In This Online Group Looks do matter. To be successful, you need to put effort in your appearance to get the proper respect you deserve. Steve Jobs and Mark Zuckerberg may be able to get away with wearing the same shirt and jeans but if you do it, no one will take you seriously

VariousGift9742 , Lauras Eye Report

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30 Important But Hard-To-Swallow Life Truths, As Shared By Women In This Online Group He's just not into you

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#31

30 Important But Hard-To-Swallow Life Truths, As Shared By Women In This Online Group At work - I will have to work twice as hard for half the respect.

Three3Jane , Ankur Gulati Report

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My instinct was right and i let others talk me into ignoring it for years.

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#33

30 Important But Hard-To-Swallow Life Truths, As Shared By Women In This Online Group Sleeping with someone too early into the relationship probably isn’t a good idea.

cookieana , Rebecca Siegel Report

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#34

30 Important But Hard-To-Swallow Life Truths, As Shared By Women In This Online Group That our bodies have an expiration date to have children. The longer you wait, or the longer it takes to find a partner that you can actually see your life with, the higher the risk it is to try and conceive.

Sometimes I also believe women often feel pressured to have kids before they are truly ready (mentally, physically, financially), just because the chances to have a healthy baby are higher at a younger age.

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Being single over 25 will lead people to harshly judge you. Being single over 30 will lead to even more criticism and people will try to shame you

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30 Important But Hard-To-Swallow Life Truths, As Shared By Women In This Online Group He doesn’t want to just be your friend

ItsjustaFearBoner , Vincent Diamante Report

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Susie Elle 2 years ago

So many 'You can only trust yourself' type of posts. I find it a little sad (in a non-condescending way).

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Did you hear that? 2 years ago

We are social creatures. We need to trust others. So these are just negative views. Instead of being narcissistic jerks we need to be loving and understanding. Yes people have bad days but as a whole we shouldn't be doing things that hurt others. This "me first" mentality is destroying humanity. Continue being kind, hold the door for someone, smile and cut out the sarcasm the world will be better for it.

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K Witmer 2 years ago

You can get used to anything. Don't get used to the thing that makes you complacent.

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Chuck daniels 2 years ago

That is honestly high quality advice.

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Kristin Ingersoll 2 years ago

All personal opinions.

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Victoria Pitt 2 years ago

They are meant to be opinions.

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Mazer 2 years ago

I had a friend, she was chilling with another person, starting a relationship. One day her buddy came home from work and told my friend that if she was going to use her things, she needed to put them back the way she found them. My friend was upset and hurt. I spent almost a week validating her feelings <——key word.. When the time was right I asked her…”do you want to know how I perceive this issue, having not dog in the fight”, she said yes. I told her she was 100% in the wrong and why, and asked her to put herself in her buddy’s position. She stared at me wide eyed, picked up the phone to immediately start to apologize to her buddy. Some people need those feelings validated and expressed before they can see or accept reality. That’s okay, it was her process. Not good, not bad, not right, not wrong. The process just is, it’s what you do with the knowledge you gain that matters. Some of us can do better, some are doing all they can, some don’t give a s**t.

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Heidi 2 years ago

Exactly! I wish I could upvote this more.

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Dani Alexander 2 years ago (edited)

Some of these are mildly subjective I think. EDIT: lol VERY subjective

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John Baker 2 years ago

Mildly?

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El muerto 2 years ago

so many contradictions

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Aliquid 2 years ago

That's life

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Celestino Madeiros 2 years ago

You can't make someone love you more by trying to make them love someone else less.

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Mer☕️🧭☕️ 2 years ago

"Why not me". A Universe full of bs has happened to me during my life and for a long time I was bogged down in the "why mes" until one day I realized...why NOT me.

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Ham Explosion 2 years ago

Why is women a selling point?

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El muerto 2 years ago

demographics and clickbait

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Brandy Galloway 2 years ago (edited)

This is a real pessimistic way of looking at life and people. We need to trust others, love one another, dare to be loved and hurt by others (Because this is how we learn)and most of all dream big! Life's to big for this negative pessimistic point of view.

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Kathleen Schwark/Steppler 2 years ago

Learn to say "No", professionally and socially. People want your time, money, or emotions. While helping can be what makes you happy, sometimes it's what drains you.

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Tiredofpayingforothers 2 years ago

People need to learn they can't change others. They are entitled to their own opinions and to be who they want. You can only change your own actions to become the best person you can. Once we all figure that out, we'll all be in a better place.

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Ron Short 2 years ago

One of the hardest lessons in life to learn is that your s**t DOES stink!

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David Dazo 2 years ago

I love how it blames men mostly.. How about you guys tell little girls stop being wh#$- or stop idolizing musical woman who are half naked always.. Stop thinking only fans makes you independent.. No showing your body just because it's yours doesn't make it right.. It's no feminism it's stupidity.. Stop blaming men and start looking in the mirror.. sad to see these post... They always blame some race or gender ands it pathetic

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Kathleen Schwark/Steppler 2 years ago (edited)

Oh. This hit a nerve ehh? Guilty conscience? Been accused of being an ass much? Wondering why women don't like you?

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DrNefariousMcFarious 2 years ago

Why is it always "Ladies"

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Erik Granqvist 2 years ago

You are not good thru and thru, and neither are you totally evil. Everyone has both good and bad sides. The trick is to work to strengthen your good sides and make the bad sides smaller.

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gdogTonight 2 years ago

Doesn't Explain WHY God made You for HIS Worship and PRAISE

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Valli Weidemann 2 years ago

These people should move to republican land. None of that bad stuff happens in republican land.

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Valli Weidemann 2 years ago

These people should move to republican land, none of that bad stuff happens in republican land.

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David Raley 2 years ago

This could have been an article to people, not just women. #31, people will try to divide you into tribes to increase their control over you.

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Anthony Franco 2 years ago

Life wouldn't be that difficult if you ladies would just accept the facts women belong in the home, behind the kitchen. Raising the children and instilling core values and morals. This is a man's world. And you lack the strength to change that. Why did we change what was working for hundreds of years. Capitalism happened. A cheaper work force, means more profits for big businesses. Corporate Capitalist Pigs. Women had a moment, but they squandered that chance. Now it time to rein that s**t in!

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Ticci toasty 2 years ago

if you read all of these and feel like garbage afterwards, you might just not be one of those people who experience these issues every day. we need to accept that people aren’t always going to be there for us and that our issues aren’t going to disappear bc we had a good day. these will lead to more healing than you want to believe. ik i sure need to hear it from time to time. reminds me that i can’t expect the world to heal bc i want it to. i can only do what i can do and that’s okay.

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Jose Cabanas 2 years ago

So of this blend in together, or just a tad ignorant, all of this applies to all sexes to not just women. Still fun read on what average people think. =:3

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Ayo Ayo 2 years ago

This article is just more confirmation for not wanting to exist

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Elaine Burch 2 years ago

It's not that other people suck. It's just that you can't change anyone but yourself. If you need a situation you're in to change, you need to change yourself. Because you are the only one that you CAN change.

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nicehar 2 years ago

The idea that, "There is someone for everyone", is a load of crap. I'm a nice and decent human being with my sh°t together. I don't brag about it, feel entitled, or think I'm owed anything. It's just who I am. Yet, I've been alone most of my life. Women are not attracted to me, even though I'm average looking. I just can't understand why the a**holes of the world are the ones who end up in relationships, and are the ones who women are attracted to. No wonder why some women think that all men are jerks.

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Ticci toasty 2 years ago

i’m seeing a baby incel come out of his shell

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KT 2 years ago

It's true. Its very hard to find someone in life who will be by your side no matter what. The only person to look out for your best interest is yourself. The world is a cold place

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King Boo 2 years ago

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Susie Elle 2 years ago

So many 'You can only trust yourself' type of posts. I find it a little sad (in a non-condescending way).

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Did you hear that? 2 years ago

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K Witmer 2 years ago

You can get used to anything. Don't get used to the thing that makes you complacent.

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Chuck daniels 2 years ago

That is honestly high quality advice.

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Kristin Ingersoll 2 years ago

All personal opinions.

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Victoria Pitt 2 years ago

They are meant to be opinions.

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Mazer 2 years ago

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Heidi 2 years ago

Exactly! I wish I could upvote this more.

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Dani Alexander 2 years ago (edited)

Some of these are mildly subjective I think. EDIT: lol VERY subjective

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John Baker 2 years ago

Mildly?

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El muerto 2 years ago

so many contradictions

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Aliquid 2 years ago

That's life

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Celestino Madeiros 2 years ago

You can't make someone love you more by trying to make them love someone else less.

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Mer☕️🧭☕️ 2 years ago

"Why not me". A Universe full of bs has happened to me during my life and for a long time I was bogged down in the "why mes" until one day I realized...why NOT me.

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Ham Explosion 2 years ago

Why is women a selling point?

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El muerto 2 years ago

demographics and clickbait

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Brandy Galloway 2 years ago (edited)

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Kathleen Schwark/Steppler 2 years ago

Learn to say "No", professionally and socially. People want your time, money, or emotions. While helping can be what makes you happy, sometimes it's what drains you.

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Tiredofpayingforothers 2 years ago

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Ron Short 2 years ago

One of the hardest lessons in life to learn is that your s**t DOES stink!

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David Dazo 2 years ago

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Kathleen Schwark/Steppler 2 years ago (edited)

Oh. This hit a nerve ehh? Guilty conscience? Been accused of being an ass much? Wondering why women don't like you?

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DrNefariousMcFarious 2 years ago

Why is it always "Ladies"

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Erik Granqvist 2 years ago

You are not good thru and thru, and neither are you totally evil. Everyone has both good and bad sides. The trick is to work to strengthen your good sides and make the bad sides smaller.

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gdogTonight 2 years ago

Doesn't Explain WHY God made You for HIS Worship and PRAISE

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Valli Weidemann 2 years ago

These people should move to republican land. None of that bad stuff happens in republican land.

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Valli Weidemann 2 years ago

These people should move to republican land, none of that bad stuff happens in republican land.

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David Raley 2 years ago

This could have been an article to people, not just women. #31, people will try to divide you into tribes to increase their control over you.

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Anthony Franco 2 years ago

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Ticci toasty 2 years ago

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Jose Cabanas 2 years ago

So of this blend in together, or just a tad ignorant, all of this applies to all sexes to not just women. Still fun read on what average people think. =:3

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Ayo Ayo 2 years ago

This article is just more confirmation for not wanting to exist

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Elaine Burch 2 years ago

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nicehar 2 years ago

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Ticci toasty 2 years ago

i’m seeing a baby incel come out of his shell

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KT 2 years ago

It's true. Its very hard to find someone in life who will be by your side no matter what. The only person to look out for your best interest is yourself. The world is a cold place

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King Boo 2 years ago

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