Join the Fun!

Nothing Good Will Happen To Me Bcz I Told My Mom I Could No Longer Help Her After Moving On My Own At 19 Because She Got Evicted Twice In The Span Of 4 Months And Put A Power Bill In My Name Without Me Knowing Which I Now Owe 700 To The Power Company

Nothing Good Will Happen To Me Bcz I Told My Mom I Could No Longer Help Her After Moving On My Own At 19 Because She Got Evicted Twice In The Span Of 4 Months And Put A Power Bill In My Name Without Me Knowing Which I Now Owe 700 To The Power Company

Final score:

269points

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Wil Vanderheijden 5 years ago

The daughter has higher standards and lifegoals than the mother.

244points

Sometimes Insane Is Just A Birth Defect!

Final score:

236points

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Foxxy 5 years ago

I think this parent is missing some brain cells.

276points

Now, some of us have heard our parents joke about how they’ll install security cameras in our rooms if we can’t behave ourselves. Well, that’s exactly what one Reddit user’s mother did. Fortunately, the internet user didn’t give in. They wrote online that they’re doing something about it: “I've got into the account she’s using for the camera and disabled playback and sound recording. I'm also trying to move the camera to a point where it doesn't actually see anything.”

“If you haven't done anything to provoke [putting up] cameras or helicopter parenting, then I'm pretty sure you can call CPS [Child Protective Services] and they will help,” the Redditor told Bored Panda some advice on what to do in situations like this one.

Mom Of The Year Over Here...

Final score:

225points

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Wil Vanderheijden 5 years ago

Well that's a nice start she's giving her daughter. I looked Monat up and it's just another pyramid scheme that sells useless hairproducts. The mother will end up with a shedload of "hair care" products and the daughter will pursue a career in the fastfood business. Nice going, mom.

239points

My Mom Is Putting Up Cameras In My Room Now

The Reddit user talked to Bored Panda about the unusual situation: “My mother is out quite a bit, so maybe that was the reason she put up the camera. Maybe she felt that she needed to watch me while she was out, but she never told me the exact reason.” They also said that they have “already confronted” their mother “with the argument that what she's doing is illegal and an invasion of privacy. So now I've taken them down and plan to keep taking the cameras down if she puts up more.”

cenny420 Report

Final score:

220points

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Foxxy 5 years ago

That is so inappropriate for even a parent, especially if the child is a teenager.

213points

Ah Sweet Unconditional Love

Final score:

212points

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S. 5 years ago

The last reply was perfect.

247points

Meanwhile, Redditor CHIEFXx posted how their mother asked for a 600 dollar loan, even though they work a minimum wage job.

“My advice for others dealing with the same [crap] is to just push through it. If you know you’re right then you’re probably right. Don’t get pushed around, stand up for yourself and make your feelings known, regardless of how your parents may feel,” the Reddit user explained their thoughts to Bored Panda.

Another mind-boggling case of ‘insane’ parenting happened to Reddit user TheCityKitten, who couldn’t believe that their father was tracking them while they were out on a date.

My Father Tracking Me While I’m On A Date

Final score:

208points

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Wil Vanderheijden 5 years ago

Controlling your kids in this way is a sure way to make them leave the house as soon as they can and not coming back anymore.

219points

Mom Makes Son Show Her All Of His Social Media Accounts

Final score:

201points

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Cyndi H 5 years ago

And this is how serial killers are made people!

191points

I Dont Even Know What To Say

Final score:

187points

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Foxxy 5 years ago

Yes, yes you are an a*****e and many other not so nice words.

355points

You’d think that stories like these were rare, but that’s not entirely true. Turns out, there’s a whole community on Reddit called Insane Parents that chronicles just such events. The subreddit describes itself as “a weird place where you can post those crazy parents who post in those woo-woo anti-vax groups on facebook and do things harmful (directly and indirectly) to their children.” The group’s description also states that it’s a place for both support and laughter.

#10

Shooting A Schools Computer Because Your Daughter Is Talking To Boys...

Final score:

187points

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Iggy 5 years ago

That parent is unhinged. I presume the school will be seeking compensation for their property. I would hope that the police would take such a hotheaded and irresponsible use of a firearm seriously and, at the very least, give him/her a very stern talking to.

349points

#11

Mom Just Asked Me For 600$ When I Work A Minimum Wage Job Then Tells Me To Stop Spending?

CHIEFXx told Bored Panda that when their mother asked them for money, “before seeing the amount i was ready to give it, yet 600 dollars is a lot of [effing] money. So i was confused after seeing all that money expected from me.”
“We had a talk about it a little afterwards through text but it didn’t do anything, all it accomplished was her thinking I was a selfish piece of [crap]. I don’t really plan on talking to her much about this,” the Redditor explained.

CHIEFXx Report

Final score:

178points

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Rissie 5 years ago

Parent of the year..

112points

#12

What The Hell

Final score:

166points

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Foxxy 5 years ago

I do not agree with public shaming children.

273points

Bored Panda talked to the head moderator of the subreddit more about the community itself — mynameisethan182. According to the Redditor, the subreddit “started off just as a one-off comment” on one thread.

“From there it kinda morphed into what it is today. This weird chaotic place where people can post about their real issues and hopefully some awareness can be raised about some of the darker sides of the internet.”

When asked what the most insane stories about parents the moderator has come across, he replied that it’s “two cases of mothers giving their children bleach,” while “the proper authorities were alerted, given the information, and did nothing to stop it.”

#13

I Hate It When Doctors Act Like They Have A Medical Degree

Final score:

164points

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chi-wei shen 5 years ago

In order to reduce the costs of the health care system all expensive doctors and nurses should be replaced by informed moms who received their education at Google University. It should be good for patients because these Google graduates know everything better than anyone else.

199points

#14

My Parents Force Me To Update Everything I Do To Them And Verbally Abuse Me If I Don't. They Wonder Where The Depression Came From

Final score:

153points

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Wil Vanderheijden 5 years ago

That's what they call child abuse.

227points

#15

She's Old Enough To Get Married But Not Old Enough To Be Trusted Around Another Man's Penis In This House

Final score:

149points

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Bored Cat 5 years ago

I feel so bad for the daughter and the fiancé.

263points

“If you can — reach out to a trusted authority member (teachers, principals, professors, etc.),” mynameisethan182 gave advice to kids dealing with ‘insane’ parents. “If you can, document what is happening; however, things do get better. There is always the opportunity to get away from these people and cut them out of your lives. Whether it is joining the military at age 17 or 18 or any other available option. You can get away from it.”

#16

My Mother, After She Kicked Me Out When She Found Letters My Girlfriend Wrote For Me (We're Both Girls)

Final score:

127points

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Max Roma 5 years ago

oh, no, she will call the cups!

393points

#17

The Children Deserved Better Than Her Anyways

Final score:

126points

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Remia C 5 years ago

Awful

121points

Chicago Kitty 5 years ago

The terrible thing is, being this obviously irresponsible, she'll probably have another on the way by the end of her "lit" summer.

52points

Foxxy 5 years ago

Hope she never gets her kids back EVER, they are obviously better off without her.

49points

Martha Meyer 5 years ago

Just the kind of person who will “accidentally“ be making more kids while having “fun“.

27points

Dave G. 5 years ago

they do it to get more WIC money. welfare queens

1point

Kim Shannon 5 years ago

That's probably the best thing that could have happened to those kids

20points

TheExtremeSmell 5 years ago

Yeah I was gunna say it sucks she already has been some kind of part in their lives but if she doesn’t want them

1point

Sardonic Scribe 5 years ago

People like this are the reason we need IQ tests before breeding.

14points

Dave G. 5 years ago

99% of america's ghettos would be immediately disqualified and they'd protest in the streets about how 'racist' it is to stop them from popping more kids out exclusively to game the system for more wic money

2points

Marleen 5 years ago

What a b***h

8points

Shelli Perez Lorton 5 years ago

Please tell me this was saved for future hearings.

7points

Twenty øne doggos 5 years ago

Why would you post something like that? Who in their right mind would think that this would go over well??

4points

jaysko 5 years ago

I cant believe someone really f*****g responded with haha's..

4points

Jeff Heinemann 5 years ago

for the sake of those kids, let them stay lost! #notfitforparenting

4points

athornedrose 5 years ago

good. so glad they've been taken from you.

4points

Sandra Simpson 4 years ago

They shouldn't have had kids in the first place

2points

Dani 5 years ago

I'm kind of glad she lost her kids, to be honest.

2points

AP 5 years ago

Sorry, but you didn't lost custody if you didn't want it in the first place. You gave up your children. I would think the kids are probably grateful.

2points

Claire Sylvester 5 years ago

Oh my goodness. This is just disgusting

2points

Dave G. 5 years ago

not even kidding by the way i lived in east oakland myself and personally saw this. ive been in the hood for a long time now. this is every day for probably more than half the black population in the us

2points

Felicia.B 5 years ago

I hate people -.-

2points

Cesar Grossmann 5 years ago

Best summer ever, for the ex-parent and the kids. Probably more for the kids.

2points

AzKhaleesi 5 years ago

W.O.W..... I can't even.

2points

Ian Taggart 4 years ago

Okay, I find this about 88.7% infuriating, but 2.3% relatable. Please note that the fact that I'm presenting this in statistical form means that I am not taking sides in this.

1point

Dave G. 5 years ago

another ghetto ratchet mom from the hood, of course bored panda doesnt want to mention that because its "racist" even though everyone here including the radical left wingers know deep down in their heart that its true

1point

Mama Panda 5 years ago

I wonder if this will go in her file too

1point

Mia Cardenas 5 years ago

Revolting human

1point

L McN 5 years ago

This. This is why you lost. What a poor excuse for a human....

1point

Kai 5 years ago

I can imagine some of the divorce reasons...

1point

tabatha brogan 2 years ago

divorce reason: husband talking how he would love to see the kids...

0points

Asher Mills 1 month ago

Roses are red, violets are blue, god God me 5 fingers, the Middle one is for you -the kid

0points

Overlord-zon 2 years ago

Disgusting

0points

Chris Clubine 2 years ago

YOU ARE A HORRIBLE Parent AND YOU SHOULD NEVER BE ABLE TO GO NEAR YOUR CHILDS HOUSE IT'S A GOOD THING YOU DON'T HAVE CUSTODY OF YOUR KID

0points

Ron Santos 3 years ago (edited)

This has to be a joke or someobe just trolling.

0points

GARRETT O'BANION 4 years ago

F****r. Absolute a*****e

0points

Clavelle 4 years ago

OMG. Those poor kids. I hope she lost custody to the other parent and that the kids didn't get taken by the state. This is just sad.

0points

Karina Andersen 5 years ago

what?

0points

David Roughton 5 years ago

Local news (South West England). Back in June 2019, a woman was sentenced to a minimum of 15 years TWICE (to run concurrently) for strangling her 4yr old & 18mth old children. Her explanation to police at the time of her arrest? "They were messing with my SEX LIFE" I'm glad THIS woman had her kids taken from her.

0points

Artahmiss 5 years ago

What the ever loving f**k

0points

Jenna McCoy 5 years ago

Her kids deserve better.

0points

Teri Donovan 5 years ago

Ok, kids are obviously better off. Let's hope they permanently sever her parental rights and sterilize her too so she won't have any more intrusions on her social life. If there is any justice in the world she will OD over the summer.

0points

Teri Donovan 5 years ago

Obviously the children will be better off.

0points

Sean Reynolds 5 years ago

wait wait wait did I just read that correctly? happy to lose custody of the kids?

0points

Callie Duncan 5 years ago

I'd like to punch this person in the face....many times over

0points

Natalia Brown 5 years ago

Those kids are better off away from that c*nt.

0points

Shelley Jennings 5 years ago

Trust me.. They're better off without you. Deadbeat..

0points

TheKnightOwl 5 years ago

Just evil. I know forced sterilisation is a human right issue, but what about a kids right to have a loving, caring, responsible parent?

0points

Jaybird3939 5 years ago

I hope someone did a screenshot of this and brings it up at the next custody hearing.

0points

Christine M Quigley 5 years ago

This is why certain people should not be parents- and then there are some people who can't have kids, that want them...

0points

Amaranthim Talon 5 years ago

I hope this worthless piece of s**t doesn't have pets either- they may forget to feed them at all

0points

Chris Sprucefield 5 years ago

I have an inkling, sad as it is, that the kids will actually be better off withe the other half...

0points

Jessie Cooper 5 years ago

You guys should really put their full names on here

0points

Dave G. 5 years ago

yeah and their photos but then they'd quickly get labeled as "racists" so they don't do that. facts are racist we have to suppress them

1point

Lisa Reuss 5 years ago

Absolutely horrifying. I don't even know what to comment on this.

0points

SBW71 5 years ago

Good thing she lost custody

0points

Id row 5 years ago

I'd contribute to a gofundme to have this person sterilized.

0points

K. LNU 5 years ago

I'm hoping that having her tubes tied is part of her summer "party" time.

0points

Kayla 5 years ago

rejoicing that you've lost custody of your kids?!?! What kind of parent are you!??!!?

0points

Phoenix VW 5 years ago

What a stupid b***h!! Keep your pussy on lockdown b***h!!

0points

Gonbei Nanashino 5 years ago

I really hope that someone hacked this person’s account.

0points

AndersM 5 years ago

Congratulations kids! Hope your dad loves you more than your "mom".

0points

Cindy Snow 5 years ago

Hope youre sterilized, b***h. But probably bot

0points

Cindy Snow 5 years ago

* not*

0points

Anne-Marie Wigley 5 years ago (edited)

Wtf did I just read omg!!!

0points

aiyshag 5 years ago

so lit that she will be half naked and have unprotected esx and have more babies........great!

0points

Pseudo Puppy 5 years ago

I hope that parent got steralised to celebrate. Gawd... some people are just horrific.

0points

Dave G. 5 years ago

they'd never do that because then they wouldn't be able to continue their traditional process of pumping more kids out for more wic money. ghetto is a disease

1point

NWB 5 years ago

sounds like the kids got a lucky escape!

0points

Luisa Vasconcelos 5 years ago

OMG, how come ?!?!

0points

LaDonna Hulcy 5 years ago

People need to feel it's ok not to have children if they don't want them.

0points

Mindy Keys 5 years ago

I would say the poor things are MUCH better off being away from Ms. Wordsworth.

0points

Stephanie Klein 5 years ago

When I read stuff like this, I'm almost glad that I grew up in a children's home.

0points

Sinkvenice 5 years ago

What a colossal a**e hoist.

0points

Cindy Snow 5 years ago

Sadly i know people like this.

0points

Marcellus the Third 5 years ago

There's only winners here!

0points

Yvonne Blau 5 years ago

why did she even fight for it then? I just hope this is a "joke" or something :-(

0points

Iva Kazalova 5 years ago

Castration should do it for you

-2points

Dave G. 5 years ago

how do you castrate a female you r****d? why am i not surprised to read more dumb and psychotic comments from your user name

1point

#18

Poor Poor Kid

Final score:

125points

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Wil Vanderheijden 5 years ago

I'd suggest Turbo Diesel 5W40.

73points

“I wish more people knew about certain issues kids are seeming to face today. There are parents who seem to think it is okay to track their children — it is the most common thing I see. It causes nothing but problems and resentment,” the subreddit moderator remarked. “You may think you're doing the right thing, but you're not. You have to trust your kid and allow them to make mistakes. They cannot grow into fully actualized people without those mistakes. Your job is to guide them and to be there to pick them up when they do make those mistakes.”

#19

Saw This On Twitter

Final score:

125points

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Wil Vanderheijden 5 years ago

Move out.

113points

#20

Already Dislikes Her Baby Before It’s Born...

Final score:

124points

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Foxxy 5 years ago

This is quite sad for the baby.

237points

#21

My Financé Son Used Some Of My Daughters Nail Polish And He Posted It To Twitter

Final score:

123points

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Foxxy 5 years ago (edited)

Ahhhh so there is a gay gene in the nails, good to know.

175points

We can understand why kids would be ashamed of their parents when they monitor them or ask for ridiculously large loans. But why is it that kids are embarrassed by their parents in general? Well, Fatherly writes that this embarrassment usually starts appearing between 9 and 13 years of age, right when a major shift in attitude occurs. As kids become more independent and try to figure out the ‘rules of the game’ in society, they reject what their parents stand for.

Meanwhile, Empowering Parents suggests that parents shouldn’t take things personally when kids act up and should give their offspring some space grow. And, whatever happens, we can all agree that setting up cameras in someone’s room should be avoided at all costs.

#22

My Mom Tried Calling Me Multiple Times In Less Than A One Minute And Then Threatened To Not Help Me Fix My AC. (What’s Even Funnier Is That They Live With Me So They Wouldn’t Have Ac Either)

Final score:

113points

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Bredan TheGreat 5 years ago

Jerk

57points

#23

All Because I Wouldn't Pay Rent In Advance Because She Spent Her Pay On Endone Like She Asks For Every Week Because Of Drugs

Final score:

112points

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$copper-fractions avatar$

Tiny Dynamine 5 years ago

The last bit's true. She should have been sterilised.

231points

#24

My Mum Is Abusing Our Brand New Security System

Final score:

107points

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Clinton Yew 5 years ago

"no tech" day, she is actually asking you to throw all tech out of the house, including the security, now please do as you are told.

179points

#25

Mother Impersonated Me To Bofa To Remove $1500 From My Account Of My Awarded Scholarship Money As Punishment For Her Ex Husband Not Paying For Her Vacation

Final score:

104points

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Clinton Yew 5 years ago

Get the cups for help, this is stealing.

428points

#26

My Dad Is Sending Me To Boot Camp This Month Because I Didn't Get My Hair Cut The Way He Wanted But He Didn't Tell He How He Wanted It. I Was Sobbing In The Back Off My Work When He Sent Me These Messages

My Dad Is Sending Me To Boot Camp This Month Because I Didn't Get My Hair Cut The Way He Wanted But He Didn't Tell He How He Wanted It. I Was Sobbing In The Back Off My Work When He Sent Me These Messages

Final score:

99points

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Foxxy 5 years ago

I am curious to know how old some of these kids are. These parents are friggin insane.

198points

#27

One Of Many Times My Narcissistic Mother When She Took Her Frustrations Out On Me

Final score:

96points

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Laura Zappenduster 5 years ago

damn, that must be so painful to deal with... poor kiddo

153points

#28

So I Forgot To Do One Thing While I Was Rushed To Get Out The Door, They Are Apparently Charging Me Money? Also The Second Charge Is Literally Made Up. So She’s Piling On Debt Charges For Things I’m Not Doing Now, And If I Don’t Pay Her I’m Screwed. Feels Like 1700’s British Debt

So I Forgot To Do One Thing While I Was Rushed To Get Out The Door, They Are Apparently Charging Me Money? Also The Second Charge Is Literally Made Up. So She’s Piling On Debt Charges For Things I’m Not Doing Now, And If I Don’t Pay Her I’m Screwed. Feels Like 1700’s British Debt

Final score:

93points

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S. 5 years ago

What? The? Hell?

151points

#29

That Guy That Had His Parents Put Up Cameras? Heres Mine. There Are More

Final score:

85points

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Magic567 5 years ago

put a photo of Danny devito ( our lord and saviour) on it troll the s**t out your parents!

110points

#30

She's A Good Mom She Just Has Her Moments

Final score:

84points

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反社会的 5 years ago

What in the actual f**k?

110points

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#31

She Can’t Be Serious... Can She?

Final score:

31points

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Max Roma 5 years ago

number 14 explains A LOT

116points

#32

Meet My Loving Father

Final score:

31points

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martin734 5 years ago (edited)

I manage to be Jewish and Bi and I assume that as I haven't been struck by lightning yet or struck down with some form of pestilence, God is probably OK with that or that he has better things to worry about than who is in love with who.

7points

#33

My Mom Texts Me And All My Siblings Every Sunday To Tell Us To Go To Church. The Youngest One Of Us Is 19 Years Old And We All Live Hours Away From Her Now. I Had To Do It To Her

Final score:

29points

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LuckyL 5 years ago

I think I don't understand

33points

#34

All I Wanted Was To Go To Waterworld With My Dad (Who Divorced My Mom 10 Years Ago) Somehow, That Escalated To My Mom Thinking I Never Wanted To Be Part Of The Family Again, And Posting It On Facebook For All To See

All I Wanted Was To Go To Waterworld With My Dad (Who Divorced My Mom 10 Years Ago) Somehow, That Escalated To My Mom Thinking I Never Wanted To Be Part Of The Family Again, And Posting It On Facebook For All To See

Final score:

29points

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Bonnie Blue Bird 5 years ago

What ever happened to never airing out your dirty laundry in public. Is the need for validation so great?

33points

#35

Not Sure If This Qualifies, But About A Year Ago My Stepmother Used My Younger Sisters Phone To Ask Me For Money. No, I Did Not End Up Giving Money To My Stepmom For “Field Day.”

Final score:

29points

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Wil Vanderheijden 5 years ago

This is just pathetic. And illegal. Report it to the police.

34points

#36

She Should Have Been Proud Of Him

Final score:

28points

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Rue Granger 5 years ago

This reminds me of Matilda

45points

#37

Imagine Seeing Your Mom Post This

Final score:

27points

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Magic567 5 years ago

lets hope she doesnt do drugs...

64points

#38

Asking For Pictures Of Children.. Not Weird At All

Final score:

27points

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Remia C 5 years ago

Creepy

42points

#39

It's Horrible To Think That The Kid Had To Beg Her Parent To Take Her To The Emergency Room, But I'm Glad She Did

Final score:

27points

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Iggy 5 years ago

"Weeks of trying natural remedies"! Weeks! The poor kid!

14points

#40

You Brainwashed Your Daughter Into Thinking The Solar System Is A Lie? Okay...

Final score:

26points

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Foxxy 5 years ago

Wait, what? Surely they aren’t serious.

37points

#41

Hold Up

Final score:

25points

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Demi Zwaan 5 years ago

And that's when you learn that 3500 Facebook friends aren't really friends at all.

25points

#42

Mom Took Away Therapy Because I Wasn’t “Getting Better” Even Though It Was Less Than A Year And She Refused To Medicate My Condition

Final score:

23points

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Holosexual 5 years ago

My mom told me to "stop pretending" and "stop having an existential crisis at such a young age" when I told her I was struggling with depression. I will never forgive her for making me feel worse when she should've made me feel better. Never told her about my anxiety attacks either. Once she saw me having an attack and just kept saying "what's wrong" in a very authoritarian tone. I didn't even want to tell her.

45points

#43

Let Another Dog Lick It

Final score:

22points

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S. 5 years ago

Thoughts and prayers!

40points

#44

10pm. I Wanted To Go For A Walk, Went Through Some S**t And Had To Clear My Head

Final score:

22points

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$copper-fractions avatar$

Tiny Dynamine 5 years ago

Just liberation from a psychopath.

41points

#45

Titles Are Hard

Final score:

22points

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Wil Vanderheijden 5 years ago

Parents stealing from their kids and finding excuses to justify it.

52points

#46

We’re On Different Continents

Final score:

22points

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Bonnie Blue Bird 5 years ago

Awwww, the controlling parent ... I remember this parent. Then I joined the Army at 18.

33points

#47

My Biological Father Who, Assaulted Me A 5-8 Y/O Keeps Making Facebook Accounts To Message Me

Final score:

20points

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Nikki Levek 5 years ago

I hope the OP can rid themselves of this horrible POS.

28points

Dutch Swimmer Goes Viral For Super Revealing Trunks During 2024 Olympics: “Is This Legal?”

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Thrill-Seeking Diver Jumps Down Extreme Waterslide, Ignoring The Strict Ban For Women

#48

I’m Going To An Iron Maiden Concert. I’m Also Almost 30

Final score:

19points

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Clinton Yew 5 years ago

Dad: "damn you kiddo!"

47points

#49

My Estranged Caribbean Father Who I Haven’t Seen In Person Since I Was 4 Believes I Can’t Know My Type Since I’m Not Dating A Black Guy...

Final score:

19points

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Wil Vanderheijden 5 years ago

She's an American girl and the father is a racist.

50points

#50

Mothers Don’t Be Afraid To Kill Your Children And Give Them An Awful Education

Final score:

19points

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Chris 5 years ago

A 7 week online course is not a degree!

15points

#51

Started Work At [Sandwich Chain] And Had To Leave Early For Illness, My Mothers Wonderful Idea Was To Instead Commit A Crime And Endanger People

Final score:

19points

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Bonnie Blue Bird 5 years ago

Pretty sure it's not normal to puke 3 out of 5 days.

51points

#52

All Because I Apparently Told Her I Didn't Wanna Be Part Of The Family Anymore (Which I Didn't Say) She's Been Cold To Me For About A Week Over It Now

Final score:

19points

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Foxxy 5 years ago

Legally the mum has no leg to stand on.

34points

#53

This User On R/Teenagers...

Final score:

19points

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Wil Vanderheijden 5 years ago

How about getting another phone for private business? You can leave the spy phone in hidden in a church....

33points

#54

Mom Thinks She Knows Better Than A Psychologist

Final score:

18points

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Miriam Brose 5 years ago

My mother thinks I am autistic...

16points

#55

Girlfriend's Mother...

Final score:

18points

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Wil Vanderheijden 5 years ago

Turn location services on and send the phone to Guatemala.

52points

Woman Put A Water Fountain With A Camera In Her Yard, Here Are 24 Photos Of Regular Visitors (New Pics)

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“Ma’am I Live Here”: Woman Refuses To Back Out Of Driveway, Learns A Lesson The Hard Way

#56

She Tried To Guilt Trip Me After I Spent Time With My Other Legal Guardian

Final score:

18points

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sforshann 5 years ago

smells Jealousssss

19points

#57

Just Wow

Final score:

18points

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Foxxy 5 years ago (edited)

Whilst it is very common for teenagers to confuse being bisexual to being bicurious, the difference is usually bisexuals have these feelings from a young age whilst sexually curious is usually around teen years (puberty).

19points

#58

My Mom Confiscated My Sketchbook For Reasons Completely Unrelated To It

Final score:

17points

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Hristina Beeva 5 years ago

I mean, this reminded me of Amy Chua and tiger moms banning drama class or any other pleasurable type of creativity, for the "hard" stuff that is supposed to make their kids...IDK, successful? Having more impressive CVs?

28points

#59

Stopped Responding To My Mom’s Messages And She Sent Me This (At The End Of A 10 Paragraph Narcissistic Rant)

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16points

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S. 5 years ago

I hope she wasn’t sober when she wrote that.

21points

#60

I Got A Tattoo And Sent My Dad A Picture... This Is From My Step Mom 3 Days Later

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15points

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Wil Vanderheijden 5 years ago

Breaking news: There's an exit date for everyone in the future.

32points

#61

Insane Dad Threatens To Empty My Bank Account For Having Too Much Fun At The Beach

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15points

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Linda Something 5 years ago

Obsessed much?

18points

#62

Mom Posted This A Few Days After She Threatened To Have To Cops Called On Me Because I Didn’t Feel Comfortable Talking To Her. I Had An Anxiety Attack And She Looked Me Straight In The Eyes And Told Me To “Quit The Act” While I Was Hyperventilating

Mom Posted This A Few Days After She Threatened To Have To Cops Called On Me Because I Didn’t Feel Comfortable Talking To Her. I Had An Anxiety Attack And She Looked Me Straight In The Eyes And Told Me To “Quit The Act” While I Was Hyperventilating

Final score:

15points

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Linda Something 5 years ago

If only you stopped being an a*****e mother....

30points

#63

Told My Parents Before I Left Where I Was Going. These Are Just The Texts. After I Didn’t Respond To His Last Text He Called Me Three Times. This Morning I Woke Up To Six Missed Calls, He Drove Past My Friends House (20 Min Away) To See If My Car Was There (It Was In The Garage). Also I’m 24

Told My Parents Before I Left Where I Was Going. These Are Just The Texts. After I Didn’t Respond To His Last Text He Called Me Three Times. This Morning I Woke Up To Six Missed Calls, He Drove Past My Friends House (20 Min Away) To See If My Car Was There (It Was In The Garage). Also I’m 24

Final score:

15points

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Jenica Thomas 5 years ago

Since when was 9 pm too late? I could see being worried if your 24 year old wasn't home by 4 am... but even then at 24 that's too controlling.

33points

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#64

She Was Commenting “Delete” On Pictures Of My Exboyfriends On My Profile. Thanks For Dragging Up Ancient History. (I’m Married Btw)

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15points

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Remia C 5 years ago

Sounds like a petty family dispute that should've stayed in the family

13points

#65

Being A Parent Isn’t A Disability

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14points

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Jess-a-men 5 years ago

Why the f**k would youleave your children in a hot car?!

46points

#66

My Parents Think I Became Trans Because Of The Roommates I Had

Final score:

14points

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Foxxy 5 years ago

Can’t argue with that logic. Coz living with straight people make everyone straight right? 🤦‍♀️

43points

#67

My Mom Implying I’m A Wh*re Because I Managed To Save Up Enough Money To Move Out In A Couple Weeks

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13points

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Wil Vanderheijden 5 years ago (edited)

Seems she made a wise decision to leave this toxic environment. I'm confident she does well in life.

37points

#68

Family Tends To Call Police After We Argue On The Phone. More In Comments

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13points

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Holosexual 5 years ago

Whenever I don't pick up my mom's calls, advertently or inadvertently, she sends some relatives living close by to come knock on my door.

18points

#69

This Freshman Is Gonna Have A Rough Year

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12points

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vogonpoet 5 years ago

Those parents are c#$ts

37points

#70

My Stepmom Gave My Lunch Meat To The Dog

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12points

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S. 5 years ago

“live with us for free” uhm, that’s essentially the basic concept of family and parenting. it's not a "favour"; and not even relevant in this specific case. Gosh . . .

41points

#71

The First Time I've (Age 20) Stood Up To My Mother, Who Loves To Make Plans For Me. This Was About The Yearly Family Reunion. For Context, I Live On My Own In A Different City From Her

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12points

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Silver Arts 5 years ago

Why are these people even parents¿

27points

Woman Moves Out Of Parents' Home After They Asked Her To Give Her Space To Brother, They Freak Out

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#72

Does This Belong Here?

Final score:

12points

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A sack of potatoes 5 years ago

The child looks sad

23points

#73

My Mother After I (22f) Was Sitting In My Car At Night Trying To Work Out An Argument With My Boyfriend Like Adults. She Demanded To Know Why I Was Sitting In My Car For So Long. I Told Her It Was Personal And We Were Just Talking. And She Says “Get The F**k In Here, Don’t Get An Attitude W Me”

My Mother After I (22f) Was Sitting In My Car At Night Trying To Work Out An Argument With My Boyfriend Like Adults. She Demanded To Know Why I Was Sitting In My Car For So Long. I Told Her It Was Personal And We Were Just Talking. And She Says “Get The F**k In Here, Don’t Get An Attitude W Me”

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11points

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Marleen 5 years ago

Asking questions but not being happy with the answers

10points

#74

(Seminary Is A Religion Class For High School Students In The Mornings Before School)

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11points

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Bonnie Blue Bird 5 years ago

Ha! I HAD to do this seminary BS too. FIGHT THE POWER!

10points

#75

Had My Mom Come Get Me From A Friends House And She Had To Wait Outside For 2 Minutes Before This Ensued. When I Walked Out 4 Minutes After The First Text, She Had Left And I Had To Get A Friend To Take Me Home

Had My Mom Come Get Me From A Friends House And She Had To Wait Outside For 2 Minutes Before This Ensued. When I Walked Out 4 Minutes After The First Text, She Had Left And I Had To Get A Friend To Take Me Home

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11points

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Sophia Trinh 5 years ago

GOD WHY DO PARENTS CONTROL YOUR MONEY?

6points

#76

I Am 18 Years Of Age, Live Alone, Work A Full Time Job, And My Parents Demand That They Track My Phone, My Car, And Regulate The Apps I Download On My Phone To “Protect Me”. If I Turn My Location Off Or Disable Anything They Threaten To Report Me Missing To The Police. How Do I Get Out Of This?

I Am 18 Years Of Age, Live Alone, Work A Full Time Job, And My Parents Demand That They Track My Phone, My Car, And Regulate The Apps I Download On My Phone To “Protect Me”. If I Turn My Location Off Or Disable Anything They Threaten To Report Me Missing To The Police. How Do I Get Out Of This?

Final score:

11points

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Tiny Dynamine 5 years ago

Just tell the police about them. If they are expecting it, they will know what to do. Good luck.

38points

#77

My Mom Trying To Make Me Run A Booth At The Fair Organized By My Previous High School/Church (I'm 19 And Already In College)

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9points

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L McN 5 years ago

Ok, I'm going to step out here and I know a lot of people with get mad at this. I am Christian, and a strong believer. It is my life not just a faith. BUT, even the bible states to give with a cheerful heart. Meaning, if you are FORCED to donate time, money, effort, ANYTHING then it is useless. You volunteer that time gladly, willingly, and of your own free will without any reservation. There is no negative for not doing so other than you may regret being so busy later (and...maybe not). There is only judgement shown here for one person being LOGICALLY unable or unwilling to donate their time. Acknowledge this and move on, a guilt trip like this person did is very un-christian like behavior.

41points

#78

This Is The Text I Got When I Had Duty Over Christmas… It’s Not Like I Was Trying To Waste My Money And Leave To Get Yelled At [19f Active Military]

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9points

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L McN 5 years ago

Prior service here. 1) the pay is less than minimum wage. So no, she couldn't afford a dang ticket! 2) When you have duty, that is it...you have duty. There is no getting out of it, you go to jail if you do not show up. So...this parent needs to wake up.

21points

#79

Parents Got Home Late From Work, Knocked On My Window Instead Of The Door. I Asked If They Could Text Instead Next Time And This Was The Response

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6points

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Wil Vanderheijden 5 years ago

Both parties need to stop acting like children.

7points

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#80

Finally Finished

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3points

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Madeline Shafer 4 years ago

over reactive mom much

7points

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Pamela24 5 years ago

This is why I hate the whole "you should always respect/love your parents" idea. No. Some parents are complete a******s, there's nothing wrong with realizing that and acting accordingly. The basic process of creating a child really isn't that complicated to be considered this highly valued (the giving birth part sure but not that much). The taking care of for years is.

100points

John Montgomery 5 years ago

I completely agree. I never understood why the ten commandment never specified the parent honor thy children as well. Of course there's several things left out of them that are equally bothersome, but that's another conversation entirely.

11points

Randall Thomas 5 years ago

that's the thing though. My whole life, I have had respect demanded of me by people who have no idea what that word actually means or how to earn it. Why should I respect you when all you care about is yourself?

2points

Brandy Grote 5 years ago

If you read Ephesians where the verse says for children to respect their parents, the VERY NEXT VERSE says parents shouldn't p**s off their kids!

2points

ForkNBeans 5 years ago

Those type of people aren't parents, they are brood stock.

0points

Iggy 5 years ago

I had to stop halfway through. These are heartbreaking!

44points

Magic567 5 years ago

oh well, thing will change when we choose their nursing home...

32points

Pseudo Puppy 5 years ago

... IF we are willing to accept their abuse between now and then, and continue to be around them. Personally.... nope nope nope. Not hanging around abusive people. Not my job to accept their inanity, delusions and abuse, solely because they had sex and 1 of them gave birth. "Procreation" and "being a good parent" are not intrinsically linked.

15points

Samhhain Cat 5 years ago

Hahahaha, my parents can die alone. I don't give a f**k where they end up.

2points

Bacony 5 years ago

Chose the deepest pits of Tartarus.

1point

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Holosexual 5 years ago

These posts hit me really hard. I thought I had healed but turns out it's not so easy. She's gradually changing for the better but the damage has been done.

18points

Lucinda Overhoussen 5 years ago

Don't be defined by them. Look at how far you've come and how much further you want to go and keep taking steps forward no matter how little. Healing, like progress, doesn't stop- it needs working on constantly.

10points

Tiffany Weathers 5 years ago

My parents have a tendency to be pretty toxic. I'm 33 and my stepdad calls me in the middle of my work shifts, leaves me these long drawn out messages about why he's such a bad parent (he sexually abused me as a kid so I don't really communicate anymore) and how sorry he is and cries and all that... my history with the man... all that makes me anxious to be around him... yet I'm ungrateful at the same time. And if I don't answer, I hate him. Well, buddy, I kind of do

15points

Martha Meyer 5 years ago

Change phone numbers and don't give the new one to him or anyone who would give it to him.

14points

Jonahs Mrs 5 years ago

I don't know if this is possible for you to do but is there any way to save these messages then report the abuse to the police and use the voice mail as part of the evidence you have against him, or if that's not possible, use them and apply for a restraining order to stop the harassment? I hope you're getting help to heal from the horrors of your childhood and have good people around you. I wish you nothing but a long, happy and successful life. xx

6points

Pseudo Puppy 5 years ago

change your number. Stop taking his calls. YOU DESERVE PEACE!!!!!!! Inviting / accepting / including a sexual predator in your life, for any reason, in any way, is clearly not giving YOU the peace that YOU deserve. Time to put YOU FIRST. Because you absolutely deserve it.

4points

Lucas 5 years ago

Agree with Marthy and Pretty Pangolin. Could you make sure your work knows as maybe they could block his calls. Definitely ignore him and don't feel a tiny bit of guilt. You don't owe him anything.

3points

Pseudo Puppy 5 years ago

I hate him... and I don't even know him. He is 10000000000000% deserving of hatred, for what he did. There is zero room for questioning the right you have to despise that horror of a specimen. He ruined things. You owe him NOTHING.

2points

Bunzilla 5 years ago

Block his number.

1point

Kai 5 years ago

As a raised by "toxic parents kid" I recommend everyone in the same situation a book "Susan Forward - Toxic parents".

9points

Pseudo Puppy 5 years ago

If there is anyone here, who is living with this kind of parental / adult behaviour, please know that this is THEIR F****D UP S**T!!!!!!!! Yes, you have to deal with it... but it is 1000000% their f****d up s**t. Having grown up (& successfully escaped) from this insanity, this is how I did it: saved money as soon as I could. Whether it be selling stuff, or working, saving pocket money / gift money (if ever it existed). I was too young to have my own private bank account, and no adult believed the hell I was going through. So, I HID THE MONEY (imagination can be a great resource). In the down-times (lunch time at school / when parents were out etc), I did research re: getting my own place. Turned 18. Got a job. Got a small, s****y s****y flat, within walking distance of my restaurant job.... and left with the basics. You only need eg jeans, 3-5 t-shirts, coat, sneakers, work shoes & work clothes (2 sets will allow you to survive). Furniture was a sleeping bag + floor.

8points

Pseudo Puppy 5 years ago

.... PART 2.... you do NOT need a lot of furniture. You simply need to be warm, and able to eat (saucepan, frypan, bowl, plate, fork, knife, spoon, cutting board, cutting knife). THIS will enable you to GET OUT and create some real balance in your world. From there, I continued saving as much as possible (with a few hard life-lessons in there). With brilliant things like the internet etc, research, information, finding work, and selling stuff, is sooooo much easier than it was when I was in that situation. I wish you all the best. And hit me up if you have questions. Happy to pass on what I know, if it may help.

6points

K. Blanchette 5 years ago

I could add to this, my mom stole my information and signed my up for 5 credit cards when I told her to cancel them all she maxed them out instead, putting me in debt and making my credit score so low I couldn't get approved to finance a 500 dollar mattress

8points

Pseudo Puppy 5 years ago

report them for identity theft. It's punishable by law. Once established, (depending on your laws), it is often possible for that debt to then be placed on them, and removed from your record. This is not the behaviour of a mother. This is the behaviour of an imbalance, narcissistic, ARSEHOLE. Your mother's behaviour is that of a selfish, (insert a slew of profanities), and is deserving of NO SYMPATHY. There is zero excuse for the abuse she inflicted on you. None.

9points

Foxxy 5 years ago

Wow, most of these parents are ridiculous. I find some so hard to believe but then again I have heard some crazy a*s s**t before so wouldn’t surprise me if these were in fact genuine.

8points

Pseudo Puppy 5 years ago

it's hard to believe when you've never experienced it (and you are phenominally lucky for that!). Trust me though, as a kid who grew up in this c**p.... it absolutely happens. Far too often, unfortunately. For those in it, they often don't realise there's a positive alternative, because this insanity *IS* their normal... and your world without this insanity, is something they don't believe is real. It took me years of being out of home, to realise just how horrific my childhood was, because I had NO IDEA that there was even an alternative.

5points

Shane Chang 5 years ago

I can't stand when people say you can't cut off your family.. you can and should when they are toxic to you. I don't have a relationship with any relatives but my mom and I barely speak to her because all she wants to talk about are my horrible siblings. Cut them out and form your own family.

7points

Pseudo Puppy 5 years ago

I have insufficient words to express how much I agree!! The ability to procreate has nothing to do with a person's character. If they're toxic, their previous choice to procreate is irrelevant.

2points

John Carr 5 years ago

This is not judgemental or anything, but think most of these were American (there was 1 Australian). What is it about Americans and the whole control thing? As a kid I used to watch US tv shows and laugh at kid characters calling their father Sir.

6points

John Montgomery 5 years ago

I think it all stems from the fact that early settlers were Puritans. I think screwed up future generations in lots of ways.

5points

Jordan W. 5 years ago

After all this, I'm openly asking all the adults who had left their parents, are your life better after moving away? Just wondering because I'm 16

6points

Lucas 5 years ago

YES! It might not be easy at first but knowing you are the one decided things for yourself now - it's freedom. Talk to any organisation that helps young people starting out - in the UK there are charities that will help provide the things you need to set up a home for example. Look on the internet and see what is available. Good luck Jordan.

4points

R.s. Potter 5 years ago

In a word, yes.

4points

Pseudo Puppy 5 years ago

YES. 1,000% "yes". Even on the worst days..... YES YES YES. Freedom to be totally responsible, & in control of my life, is always a better option than the alternative of staying. And having seen the adult lives of my sibling who proactively chose to stay - I can say that my choice to leave, was absolutely the better choice.

2points

Magpie 5 years ago

My mother decided that her "right to smoke" was more important than my "right to Not have asthma attacks". That made it clear and simple to stop contacting her. .....still in therapy undoing all the other crazy s**t.

6points

Nomadus Aureus 5 years ago

These stories make my family look almost functioning :-/

6points

R.s. Potter 5 years ago

These are the same parents who whine about their children cutting off or restricting contact years later. "My kids want nothing to do with me and I have no idea whyyyyyy!!"

4points

NCC~1701 5 years ago

My parents aren’t terrible like I’ve never been abused or neglected but I feel like I can never be right. Even if I have factual evidence to support my claims it just feels as though my parents can’t seem to accept that I might know something they don’t. I get that as a teen I don’t know nearly as much as I think I do but arguing with me about something from a children’s cartoon when I have evidence that I’m right seems to be going a bit too far.

4points

Mari Finta 1 year ago

I guess you’re an adult or an older teenager now. Hope things worked out well for you & parents.

1point

Erica Bea 5 years ago

I'm not going to say too much, but I can relate to some of these kids a little too much. I'll be 18 in 448 days, then I won't have to deal with my parent's b******t any longer.

4points

Pseudo Puppy 5 years ago

Oh Erica Bea... I totally understand EXACTLY where you're coming from. Did the count-down myself too. Biggest tip I can give you (having learned the tough way, cos I was just so damn desperate to get out).... SAVE AS MUCH MONEY AS YOU CAN NOW. Weekend / summer holiday jobs, pocket money, gift money, sell stuff.... KEEP IT ALL. You don't need much 'stuff' to get your freedom. A sleeping bag and pillow & a floor, is more liberating than a fancy bed. it will mean that you can get out faster... get freedom faster... get control faster. Kmart / Wallmart / Ikea, can be a brilliant way of setting yourself up with the essentials for cheap. Google can be an amazing resource re: costs, expectations, opportunities etc. If stuck, research "moving out of home for the first time" can be a great starting point. As someone who has walked that path before you: I wish you all the best.

2points

D. Pitbull 5 years ago

As crazy as so much of this sounds... some of it sounds terribly... uhm... "familiar" - mostly the "you didn't do the thing I never told you to do? You're going to pay for that, you horrible ingrate!" - it's one of the (many) reasons I do not, will not have children. Also, another reason I feel so uncomfortable with the "Hollywood picket fence" notion that "you should do everything and anything for your parents regardless of any abuses". Also sick of being shamed by "friends" (who, by the way, all have supportive, loving and GOOD parents...) who tell me the same "But it's your MOM/DAD" -... yeeah.. it's my mom/dad that told me pretty much everyday of my life that I'm a horrible, life-ruining mistake... and also seriously considered fostering me because I dated a white guy... heeelllooo...?

4points

Pseudo Puppy 5 years ago

They say "but it's your mom / dad"... because THEIR mom / dad would never behave in the way your parents did. I got that kind of c**p ALL. THE. TIME. from friends who didn't want to believe that *any* parent would do what mine did. So often, I'd get "but nooooo... your mum wouldn't do that!!". Um, no love... YOUR mother would never do that; but mine did. Once I got smarter friends with the ability to empathise and think independently... the attempts by others to deny my experience, stopped. (I also use it as a litmus tests for new friends - if they harp on about / try to deny / try to shame me for my experience... they simply remain as "someone I know", and don't make it into the 'friend' circle). No-one should accept abuse, regardless of who inflicts it.

3points

Isabella 5 years ago

I can relate not to one, but... almost each of those stories :( And much more. I was beaten. Abused. Yelled at, called names, slapped in the face as early as age of seven. I had to do hores for 5-ppl family. Giving up every money I got to my mother. Giving up anything I felt attached to to my younger sibling "to learn how to share" or "because he deserves it more". I was A grade student, who escaped problems that way - by kearning more - not allowed to take part in any kind of additional courses or competitions apart of my normal lessons. I was forced into relationship!!!! I was thrown away from home the exact day I turned 18. Never spoke to any of them again. Still got questions about why I do so or being lectured that I should respect and contact my family no matter what. I have no contact with my blood relatives - none of them. And I must say it is the best decision of my whole life.

3points

Laugh Fan 5 years ago

So sorry for what you went through but really glad you are now FREE!

1point

nanashi 5 years ago

I thought I had bad parents, then I realized that I was blessed that they at least don't control my every move or steal from me.

3points

Jenica Thomas 5 years ago

This makes me so grateful for my strict-but-privacy-respecting parents!

3points

Abbas Fahmy 5 years ago

This is idealistic and unrealistic, I know! But just like how adoption is a lengthy process in making sure the future parents are FIT to provide care and a healthy environment prior to approval, I'm all for a similar process before couples decide to procreate. Again, totally hypothetical.

2points

Lucas 5 years ago

Start with parenting classes in schools - it's too important to ignore. Then I do think prospective parents should jump through a few metaphorical hoops to prove their fitness.

2points

Elica 5 years ago

Some people are just not supposed to be parents. Forgot where I read it: when normal children grow up to pursue their dreams, children grow up from abusive families just try their best to undo what was done to them.

2points

Hans 5 years ago

Sadly, this is just what surfaces on social media. The proverbial tip of the iceberg. Ever wonderwhy so many children become troubled, struggling adult? Psycho and a*****e parents are to be blamed.

2points

Nicole Antoku 5 years ago

My mother used to tell me that she always wished for a girl so she was so excited when she found out she was expecting me. While giving birth to me, I apparently kicked her in the heart on my way out and ever since then I have been told what a horrible ungrateful kid I am (I am now 32). I broke contact with her and left for the last time 3 years ago. Last time I heard from her was almost 2 years ago when she sent me a message demanding that I pay for her vacation “or else”. She has always viewed me as an ATM, I have lost count of how much money she has taken from me since I was a kid. I have so many stories to match the ones in here, I could probably write a book about it. Leaving was one the hardest things in my life, but I knew I had to. I hope these “kids” will be able to move on from these parents to. It’s insanely hard and I still struggle with it, but I know I deserve better and she will never change.

1point

Nicole Antoku 5 years ago

I only hope that I someday will be able to create that loving family that I so badly crave and have wished for my whole life..

1point

KCN 5 years ago

I sometimes wonder if I'm being a good mom. This really hard-line proves to me I could be doing SO MUCH WORSE. I'm a great mom compared to these a******s!

1point

Laugh Fan 5 years ago

Listening to your children - can't emphasize enough how important that is. If you do that you are probably a lovely mum.

1point

Kelly Grace 5 years ago

I have never been so grateful for my parents!!!

1point

AndersM 5 years ago

After reading thee posts, I think Americans are nuts.

1point

Ale_Vidal23 5 years ago

yesterday i had a day off from work for which i planned to do a little excursion to a castle with my gf. my father texted me if i could be at home at 5.30 pm cause of some dude coming over to paint the ceiling in the bathroom. i answered that it wasn't possible, since i was not home and had 1 hour to come back. so what happened: he got mad at me, because he planned things while it wasn't even sure that he was home for that time. in other words it is my fault for not being at home at a day off while some dude has to paint our ceiling at a time when no one is home.

1point

Lucas 5 years ago

He's the one planning it, so he can be the one at home. Hope you enjoyed the castle trip.

1point

Meeow 5 years ago

Most of the parents need their a*s beat, and some sounds like more to the story, can't say who is more f****d up attitude and the parents act toward them kids.

1point

April Simnel 5 years ago

Control freaks, the lot of them. Some nerve, eh? I guarantee you every single one of them (not just the obviously nutty and irresponsible ones) has massive, massive personal responsibility and emotion regulation issues, among others, that they're not dealing with like adults, and are taking it out on their kids using religion and other b******t. No one needs to put up with this kind of gaslighting and abuse from ANYBODY, blood or no. #AskMeHowIKnow

1point

Dani 5 years ago

Making me realize what wonderful parents I have lol

1point

Mindy Keys 5 years ago

These are just so damn depressing. Bless. These poor kids.

1point

B 🐌🖤 5 years ago

This whole post made me feel sick. My parents are a pair of control freaks. Well, were. My "father" apparently died last year. My mother is unfortunately still alive. I'm probably a horcrux. When I stopped pandering to their every selfish whim, they turned my son against me.

1point

carmelosf15 4 years ago

B 🐌🖤 love

0points

Anna Wentz 5 years ago

My parents are great. A little unorthodox and veering into the overprotective side maybe but I always remind myself parents are just people too and they make mistakes. Now, some of these parents do not deserve the benefit of the doubt. Good parents in my opinion respect their children's views, space, and lives. That does not mean being pushovers but treating your kids as much as you'd like to be treated. Parents are people too but so are kids.

1point

lilly nyangweso 5 years ago

I feel so sorry for the kids. No wonder kids are going into therapy these days, the problem is the parents

1point

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Tiny Dynamine 5 years ago

-Do you want to delete humanity from the Earth's history? -Yes. -Restarting Earth now.

1point

Kobitka-artworks Tumblr 5 years ago

I feel much much better that I'm not alone with crazy parents <3 I'm 23 yo and they don't let me leave the house after 8p.m. becauce people will think that I'm a prostitute or druggy

1point

Demi Zwaan 5 years ago

Move out.

9points

Lisa Dee 3 years ago

My mom hates my ass. Yet I'm the one that always makes sure she's ok, safe, has what she needs, runs when she needs something, etc. I always will. But... yeah... it's a bitter pill for sure...

0points

ISAAC HARVEY 3 years ago

r/entitledparents?

0points

Natalia Brown 5 years ago

Never have I felt more grateful for my parents that love me and only want the best for me

0points

Valerica Rosca 5 years ago

Some people should not breed!

0points

Samhhain Cat 5 years ago

Hate to say I can identify with sooooo much of this. Walk away from your parents, kids. These people don't deserve you. I was unfortunately 38 before I figured this out but now at 42 (almost) I"m the happiest I have ever been and haven't spoken a word to them in 3.5 years.

0points

Alexander Brior 5 years ago

If my parents did any of these things, I’d move out.

0points

Mandy Delaforce (PC Girl) 5 years ago

i feel a lot better about my parenting skills now.. What some absolute arseholes! Disgusting.

0points

Mae 5 years ago

I'm so thankful of the kind of parents that I have :)

0points

Alusair Alustriel 5 years ago

I canąt believe people can act like that. It just is bezond mz comprehension.

0points

Anna Repp 5 years ago

How can I uproot any of these - they are all heartbreaking and deserve a massive downvote!

0points

Ula 5 years ago

So sad all these posts, parents have a problem with kids growing up...

0points

Nyx 5 years ago

Seeing controlling parenting in action makes me sick to my stomach. It is just so, so, so wrong.

0points

Mama Panda 5 years ago

I need to show my 17 year old son these. I ask for respect, not attitude. I ask that he just lets me know where he is going to be and then I tell him to have fun. I don't think I am demanding whatsoever compared to these nutjobs.

0points

Éva Nemes 5 years ago

:D move out, problem solved ;)

0points

Bunzilla 5 years ago

Sadly, it's not so easy for a lot of younger people these days. Just finding a job can be impossible. Which only makes things far worse for these poor kids.

2points

Debster 5 years ago

I have soooomany I could share. Doesn't end when you get older either.

0points

Azure Adams 5 years ago

Many of the parents are gearing up to be poisoned by their next meal. That's what I would do and its way easier than you all think it is too. Tons of toxic plants grow in your backyard without a bad taste either.... enjoy

0points

Katinka Min 5 years ago

These are terrifying! So abuse. And yyou can see how the parents think their behavious os totally normal and justified. The poor poor children. I hope they survive somehow.

0points

Ryo Bakura 5 years ago

Burn them all.

0points

Twenty øne doggos 5 years ago

Lotta Karens in this post.

0points

The Girl on Fire 5 years ago

This reminds me of my mom. She doesn't let me out of the house to do anything (homeschooled) unless I've "earned it".

0points

Midnight Dream 5 years ago

Sometimes I would love this option.

0points

Victoria Swift 5 years ago

Some of these commetments you can tell are written by people who do not have kids or are kids themselves. You can't have it both ways. You can't shame parents for not doing enough and then shame them when they do what you consider "too much". Until you have your own, stay in your lane.

-1point

K. LNU 5 years ago (edited)

I can't help but wonder how many of these are full, blown truths, (some are very heartbreaking) and how many are someone making something up on the WWW in order to get "sympathy" from people.

-1point

Derek Honeyman 5 years ago

I started reading these on reddit and then stopped. While I would agree that most of these are "insane", we also do not know the full context or story. I'm sure if we heard the parents' side of the story, it might be a little interesting.

-1point

Nicky OldfieldDesciple 5 years ago

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R.s. Potter 5 years ago

Let me guess - you're one of the batcrap crazy parents listed above.

7points

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Pamela24 5 years ago

100points

John Montgomery 5 years ago

11points

Randall Thomas 5 years ago

2points

Brandy Grote 5 years ago

If you read Ephesians where the verse says for children to respect their parents, the VERY NEXT VERSE says parents shouldn't p**s off their kids!

2points

ForkNBeans 5 years ago

Those type of people aren't parents, they are brood stock.

0points

Iggy 5 years ago

I had to stop halfway through. These are heartbreaking!

44points

Magic567 5 years ago

oh well, thing will change when we choose their nursing home...

32points

Pseudo Puppy 5 years ago

15points

Samhhain Cat 5 years ago

Hahahaha, my parents can die alone. I don't give a f**k where they end up.

2points

Bacony 5 years ago

Chose the deepest pits of Tartarus.

1point

Ula 5 years ago

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Holosexual 5 years ago

These posts hit me really hard. I thought I had healed but turns out it's not so easy. She's gradually changing for the better but the damage has been done.

18points

Lucinda Overhoussen 5 years ago

10points

Tiffany Weathers 5 years ago

15points

Martha Meyer 5 years ago

Change phone numbers and don't give the new one to him or anyone who would give it to him.

14points

Jonahs Mrs 5 years ago

6points

Pseudo Puppy 5 years ago

4points

Lucas 5 years ago

Agree with Marthy and Pretty Pangolin. Could you make sure your work knows as maybe they could block his calls. Definitely ignore him and don't feel a tiny bit of guilt. You don't owe him anything.

3points

Pseudo Puppy 5 years ago

2points

Bunzilla 5 years ago

Block his number.

1point

Kai 5 years ago

As a raised by "toxic parents kid" I recommend everyone in the same situation a book "Susan Forward - Toxic parents".

9points

Pseudo Puppy 5 years ago

8points

Pseudo Puppy 5 years ago

6points

K. Blanchette 5 years ago

8points

Pseudo Puppy 5 years ago

9points

Foxxy 5 years ago

Wow, most of these parents are ridiculous. I find some so hard to believe but then again I have heard some crazy a*s s**t before so wouldn’t surprise me if these were in fact genuine.

8points

Pseudo Puppy 5 years ago

5points

Shane Chang 5 years ago

7points

Pseudo Puppy 5 years ago

I have insufficient words to express how much I agree!! The ability to procreate has nothing to do with a person's character. If they're toxic, their previous choice to procreate is irrelevant.

2points

John Carr 5 years ago

6points

John Montgomery 5 years ago

I think it all stems from the fact that early settlers were Puritans. I think screwed up future generations in lots of ways.

5points

Jordan W. 5 years ago

After all this, I'm openly asking all the adults who had left their parents, are your life better after moving away? Just wondering because I'm 16

6points

Lucas 5 years ago

4points

R.s. Potter 5 years ago

In a word, yes.

4points

Pseudo Puppy 5 years ago

2points

Magpie 5 years ago

6points

Nomadus Aureus 5 years ago

These stories make my family look almost functioning :-/

6points

R.s. Potter 5 years ago

These are the same parents who whine about their children cutting off or restricting contact years later. "My kids want nothing to do with me and I have no idea whyyyyyy!!"

4points

NCC~1701 5 years ago

4points

Mari Finta 1 year ago

I guess you’re an adult or an older teenager now. Hope things worked out well for you & parents.

1point

Erica Bea 5 years ago

I'm not going to say too much, but I can relate to some of these kids a little too much. I'll be 18 in 448 days, then I won't have to deal with my parent's b******t any longer.

4points

Pseudo Puppy 5 years ago

2points

D. Pitbull 5 years ago

4points

Pseudo Puppy 5 years ago

3points

Isabella 5 years ago

3points

Laugh Fan 5 years ago

So sorry for what you went through but really glad you are now FREE!

1point

nanashi 5 years ago

I thought I had bad parents, then I realized that I was blessed that they at least don't control my every move or steal from me.

3points

Jenica Thomas 5 years ago

This makes me so grateful for my strict-but-privacy-respecting parents!

3points

Abbas Fahmy 5 years ago

2points

Lucas 5 years ago

Start with parenting classes in schools - it's too important to ignore. Then I do think prospective parents should jump through a few metaphorical hoops to prove their fitness.

2points

Elica 5 years ago

2points

Hans 5 years ago

Sadly, this is just what surfaces on social media. The proverbial tip of the iceberg. Ever wonderwhy so many children become troubled, struggling adult? Psycho and a*****e parents are to be blamed.

2points

Nicole Antoku 5 years ago

1point

Nicole Antoku 5 years ago

I only hope that I someday will be able to create that loving family that I so badly crave and have wished for my whole life..

1point

KCN 5 years ago

I sometimes wonder if I'm being a good mom. This really hard-line proves to me I could be doing SO MUCH WORSE. I'm a great mom compared to these a******s!

1point

Laugh Fan 5 years ago

Listening to your children - can't emphasize enough how important that is. If you do that you are probably a lovely mum.

1point

Kelly Grace 5 years ago

I have never been so grateful for my parents!!!

1point

AndersM 5 years ago

After reading thee posts, I think Americans are nuts.

1point

Ale_Vidal23 5 years ago

1point

Lucas 5 years ago

He's the one planning it, so he can be the one at home. Hope you enjoyed the castle trip.

1point

Meeow 5 years ago

Most of the parents need their a*s beat, and some sounds like more to the story, can't say who is more f****d up attitude and the parents act toward them kids.

1point

April Simnel 5 years ago

1point

Dani 5 years ago

Making me realize what wonderful parents I have lol

1point

Mindy Keys 5 years ago

These are just so damn depressing. Bless. These poor kids.

1point

B 🐌🖤 5 years ago

1point

carmelosf15 4 years ago

B 🐌🖤 love

0points

Anna Wentz 5 years ago

1point

lilly nyangweso 5 years ago

I feel so sorry for the kids. No wonder kids are going into therapy these days, the problem is the parents

1point

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Tiny Dynamine 5 years ago

-Do you want to delete humanity from the Earth's history? -Yes. -Restarting Earth now.

1point

Kobitka-artworks Tumblr 5 years ago

I feel much much better that I'm not alone with crazy parents <3 I'm 23 yo and they don't let me leave the house after 8p.m. becauce people will think that I'm a prostitute or druggy

1point

Demi Zwaan 5 years ago

Move out.

9points

Lisa Dee 3 years ago

My mom hates my ass. Yet I'm the one that always makes sure she's ok, safe, has what she needs, runs when she needs something, etc. I always will. But... yeah... it's a bitter pill for sure...

0points

ISAAC HARVEY 3 years ago

r/entitledparents?

0points

Natalia Brown 5 years ago

Never have I felt more grateful for my parents that love me and only want the best for me

0points

Valerica Rosca 5 years ago

Some people should not breed!

0points

Samhhain Cat 5 years ago

0points

Alexander Brior 5 years ago

If my parents did any of these things, I’d move out.

0points

Mandy Delaforce (PC Girl) 5 years ago

i feel a lot better about my parenting skills now.. What some absolute arseholes! Disgusting.

0points

Mae 5 years ago

I'm so thankful of the kind of parents that I have :)

0points

Alusair Alustriel 5 years ago

I canąt believe people can act like that. It just is bezond mz comprehension.

0points

Anna Repp 5 years ago

How can I uproot any of these - they are all heartbreaking and deserve a massive downvote!

0points

Ula 5 years ago

So sad all these posts, parents have a problem with kids growing up...

0points

Nyx 5 years ago

Seeing controlling parenting in action makes me sick to my stomach. It is just so, so, so wrong.

0points

Mama Panda 5 years ago

0points

Éva Nemes 5 years ago

:D move out, problem solved ;)

0points

Bunzilla 5 years ago

Sadly, it's not so easy for a lot of younger people these days. Just finding a job can be impossible. Which only makes things far worse for these poor kids.

2points

Debster 5 years ago

I have soooomany I could share. Doesn't end when you get older either.

0points

Azure Adams 5 years ago

0points

Katinka Min 5 years ago

These are terrifying! So abuse. And yyou can see how the parents think their behavious os totally normal and justified. The poor poor children. I hope they survive somehow.

0points

Ryo Bakura 5 years ago

Burn them all.

0points

Twenty øne doggos 5 years ago

Lotta Karens in this post.

0points

The Girl on Fire 5 years ago

This reminds me of my mom. She doesn't let me out of the house to do anything (homeschooled) unless I've "earned it".

0points

Midnight Dream 5 years ago

Sometimes I would love this option.

0points

Victoria Swift 5 years ago

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K. LNU 5 years ago (edited)

I can't help but wonder how many of these are full, blown truths, (some are very heartbreaking) and how many are someone making something up on the WWW in order to get "sympathy" from people.

-1point

Derek Honeyman 5 years ago

-1point

Nicky OldfieldDesciple 5 years ago

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R.s. Potter 5 years ago

Let me guess - you're one of the batcrap crazy parents listed above.

7points