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“This Is What Women Look Like”: People Defend Kate Middleton Against “Ageist” Trolls
“This Is What Women Look Like”: People Defend Kate Middleton Against “Ageist” Trolls
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“This Is What Women Look Like”: People Defend Kate Middleton Against “Ageist” Trolls

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Once again, a famous woman has become the subject of critique based on impossible beauty standards, but this time, people have jumped to her defense.

Following a picture uploaded by British Vogue on Sunday (November 12) of Kate Middleton from Remembrance Sunday, heartless trolls started flooding Instagram’s comment section with adverse reactions.

According to the publication, which shared a headshot of the princess dressed in black and keeping a very serious gaze, Kate had joined Queen Camilla on a balcony overlooking London’s Cenotaph, which symbolizes the unprecedented losses suffered during the First World War.

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    Kate Middleton received negative reactions after a headshot of her on Remembrance Sunday was published on British Vogue’s Instagram

    Image credits: Samir Hussein/Getty Images

    The princess of Wales decorated her black robe with a silver brooch, which she was awarded when she became Commodore-in-Chief of the Fleet Air Arm earlier this year, Vogue reported.

    To most, the 41-year-old mom-of-three exhibited class and appropriate demeanor, considering the event’s seriousness.

    Nevertheless, some people thought her photograph was unflattering, pointing out that she looked much older than her actual age.

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    Image credits: Max Mumby/Indigo/Getty Images

    “My gosh, she looks like she’s about to turn 60! The actress Bianca Lawson is older than her at 44 and could easily pass as a hot 25-year-old,” a shocked Instagram user commented.

    “40 is not that old. This is obviously stress showing on her face,” another person wrote.

    A third commentator chimed in: “I like her, but this girl is not happy and it is obvious.

    “At the age of 40 with such care & possibilities, she really does not look good.

    “Something is going wrong in that family.

    “Mother of 3 with an army of nannies and cooks and maids should not look that tired and sad.

    “Sorry for her.”

    “Looks so old and angry,” an individual wrote.

    A separate Instagram user added: “I’m 41 and I don’t look as old and tired as she looks.

    “Neither does Megan Markle.

    “People age differently, but ugly hearts and cold decisions usually make their marks pretty apparent.”

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    “Something is going wrong in that family,” a troll wrote on Instagram

    Image credits: princeandprincessofwales

    Nonetheless, some fans emphasized Kate was displaying some faint signs of aging like a normal human being.

    “To all the people saying ‘I’m 45 and I look better than that’, I’m 30 and I look worse – some of us have just been tired for a long time and it shows, criticize the monarchy all you like for their actions but can we leave her alone for not being ageless/made of plastic,” a person defended.

    An Instagram user pointed at the sexist attitudes: “If this was a man her age, no one would be commenting on how ‘old’ he looks, gosh I hate it here.”

    Someone wrote: “Every time a woman over 40 is posted here, everyone moans about them looking old or ugly.

    “This is what women look like.

    “The age they are supposed to look without ridiculous procedures and filters.

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    “Stop adding to the problem.”

    Another person penned: “So many ‘she’s not aging well,’ ‘oh my gosh she looks terrible, comments’ because everybody’s so used to all these celebrities having so much work done on their faces that natural aging doesn’t look right.”

    Many people defended the Princess of Wales, arguing that aging should be normalized

    Image credits: princeandprincessofwales

    In an opinion piece published by Marie Claire, in response to the backlash emerging from Kate’s recent headshot, the author condemned the comments “around the Princess of Wales’ appearance” as it “proves tweakments have moved beyond the reals of being normalized, and that actually, they’re now expected.”

    The author further questioned: “If our society is willing to pick apart someone like Kate Middleton, who is as objectively close to Western beauty ideals as you can get, what does that mean for the future of beauty standards?”

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    She continued: “And what message does it send to women everywhere, who are constantly being told that aging ‘gracefully’ should be embraced, but only if you look young while you do it?

    “The ageist narrative around Kate Middleton right now is more than just problematic, it’s downright scary, and there should be no place for it in 2023.

    “We simply cannot afford to lose natural aging as a standard of beauty.”

    Critics judged Kate’s appearances online

    A study published by the Harvard Business Review revealed that women in leadership suffer from constant age bias, facing ageism at every age.

    According to the research, as women age, they are often not seen as valuable or relevant in the way that their male counterparts are.

    Additionally, “while men become wells of wisdom as they age, older women are seen as outdated, harpy, strident.”

    Meanwhile, younger women often experience getting called pet names or even patted on the head, as they regularly suffer from role incredulity.

    Women in the study reported being mistaken for students, interns, trainees, support staff, secretaries, paralegals, and court reporters.

    While some people weren’t too kind to Kate’s recent photos, others stood up for her

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    Joey Jo Jo Shabadoo
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People are so used to filters (even on themselves) that theyve lost all sense of what people look like.

    Roin
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep and plastic surgery and all other tricks to attempt to look teenagers forever and that is so sad :(

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    VioletHunter
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How dare she not be 25 anymore!

    Ponypower
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's rememberance Sunday. Not a holiday shoot. It's a solemn occasion. Don't care for the royals but the tabloids and apperance shaming need to stop.

    Spencer's slave no longer
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It was taken just over a year since Queen Elizabeth passed away and just two months before the world was told that both Catherine and King Charles were having serious health problems.

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    Maureen Matthew
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She is an active, healthy intelligent woman of 40 attending a sober event where looks should never be an issue,

    Libstak
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Trolls and insecure fake assed bullies just doing their insipid little brain thing. They do not speak for the majority of people who are just living normal lives without the vapid mindset of an amoeba.

    Lesley Christie
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It pains me so much to see comments like this. We all know ageing happens and I hate it when people comment on it. I'm 40 and my face has changed a lot, but I'm still me. I've survived a lot and have a lot of wisdom. When will we start valuing this and stop counting the wrinkles. It makes me so sad.

    Flora Porter
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Black hats are never flattering because they add shadow where you need light, plus on this solemn occasion no way to lift it with a smile.

    Susie Elle
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The color and style of her outfit doesn't suit her (my opinion), it gives her a sterner look than necessary. That said, she's 44, people are allowed to have lines on their face at 44. Get off her case, and 'looking like a hot 25 year old when 40' is an absolute batshit standard to adhere to. That standard is why Madonna can't accept growing older and is now almost 100% laminated. Middleton looks like herself at 44 years old. Accept it.

    Vinnie
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It can be pretty tough to age. I now count my blessings that I'm not a great beauty. It bugged me a bit when I was younger, but it's probably made it much easier to adjust to aging. One day, I will look like a cross between a naked mole rat and a shar-pei. Maybe I'll go pose in a drawing class and provide the art students with a challenge ("Teacher to student: "You missed the wrinkles on her bum" Student: "Of course I missed a few lines - I need more time to get them all. This class is only five hours long.").

    Captain McSmoot
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She's borderline breath taking and surely gorgeous.

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    Joey Jo Jo Shabadoo
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People are so used to filters (even on themselves) that theyve lost all sense of what people look like.

    Roin
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep and plastic surgery and all other tricks to attempt to look teenagers forever and that is so sad :(

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    VioletHunter
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How dare she not be 25 anymore!

    Ponypower
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's rememberance Sunday. Not a holiday shoot. It's a solemn occasion. Don't care for the royals but the tabloids and apperance shaming need to stop.

    Spencer's slave no longer
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It was taken just over a year since Queen Elizabeth passed away and just two months before the world was told that both Catherine and King Charles were having serious health problems.

    Load More Replies...
    Maureen Matthew
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She is an active, healthy intelligent woman of 40 attending a sober event where looks should never be an issue,

    Libstak
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Trolls and insecure fake assed bullies just doing their insipid little brain thing. They do not speak for the majority of people who are just living normal lives without the vapid mindset of an amoeba.

    Lesley Christie
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It pains me so much to see comments like this. We all know ageing happens and I hate it when people comment on it. I'm 40 and my face has changed a lot, but I'm still me. I've survived a lot and have a lot of wisdom. When will we start valuing this and stop counting the wrinkles. It makes me so sad.

    Flora Porter
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Black hats are never flattering because they add shadow where you need light, plus on this solemn occasion no way to lift it with a smile.

    Susie Elle
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The color and style of her outfit doesn't suit her (my opinion), it gives her a sterner look than necessary. That said, she's 44, people are allowed to have lines on their face at 44. Get off her case, and 'looking like a hot 25 year old when 40' is an absolute batshit standard to adhere to. That standard is why Madonna can't accept growing older and is now almost 100% laminated. Middleton looks like herself at 44 years old. Accept it.

    Vinnie
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It can be pretty tough to age. I now count my blessings that I'm not a great beauty. It bugged me a bit when I was younger, but it's probably made it much easier to adjust to aging. One day, I will look like a cross between a naked mole rat and a shar-pei. Maybe I'll go pose in a drawing class and provide the art students with a challenge ("Teacher to student: "You missed the wrinkles on her bum" Student: "Of course I missed a few lines - I need more time to get them all. This class is only five hours long.").

    Captain McSmoot
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She's borderline breath taking and surely gorgeous.

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