Yes, but it’s their responsibility to not abuse people.

Amen to that. It’s a stereotype that people with borderline or PTSD are violent, they are much more likely to hurt themselves. Kinda makes her suck even more for re-enforcing that stereotype.

No, it doesn't. But some of them have a tendency to gaslight, manipulate, and push people away. I know someone very close with it.

She's a narcissist and a sociopath.You can see in her expression that she knows exactly what she's doing and enjoys doing it. She wants to hurt, be it physically or emotionally, and can control it if she wants to. She doesn't want to. I'm bipolar and have had some emotional storms when I was manic. I've done some things that I'm not proud of, but I knew that something was wrong with me, not everyone else. I got help. She scares me because she doesn't care about anyone but herself... people like that are dangerous, and I don't just mean in a physically violent way.

Don't let nurses know you have it if you can avoid it though - much of the medical community has demonized it and conflated everything they find annoying or awful about patients as being "BPD". They'll talk about working with people with "BPD" and actually be describing people with paranoid schizophrenia or antisocial personality disorder. Source: I went through nursing school and had to listen to the instructors talk about BPD people like that.

But pooping on someones bed does. 💩

But it does make it harder to not turn into an abusive rage monster when things don't go your way...

I got shanked by a lady who proudly had it, so I might be biased XD

I had at one point a very close friend with BPD. Although I’m not friends with her anymore, I wouldn’t say it’s because of her disorder, more because of actions of hers I didn’t agree with. I don’t think she’s a bad person nor do I think I’m not friends with her because of her BPD. It definitely is not “incriminating” or innately wrong

No, definitely not, just like it doesn't inherently make them violent- she did that and she can't blame her disorder for it. But I still don't want to spend any time with someone with BPD either

Nope, that’s just the other b***h half of hers.

Unless you are Amber Heard.

This! Leave the Cluster Bs alone! They suffer from their disability just as much as they can cause others to suffer!

Inherently? No. But it is equally if not more dangerous than narcissistic personality disorder because it's so unpredictable.

But it does tend to make them VERY difficult to live with.

Oh, but Borderline Personality?! Ever see the movie "Fatal Attraction" and do some research, it makes for some nasty, lying, screwed up woman who abuse their spouse's nightmare comes true. If half of Ms fiery Ambers testimony were true after marrying Depp with all the BS testimony, she really is a Sadist and loves to be beaten up unlike any of Johnny's X's - all coming to his side after this sociopath - next diagnoses I predict liar, bully (just listen to the tapes and cutting his finger off) ingrate like Basic Instinct. Funny how truth follows fiction or visa versa.

No but sadly they frequently lie ad exacerbate the situation to try and control what's happening 😕

Please also be reminded that this thread is not about some random person.

I have been diagnosed with quiet BPD last year and fully agree with you. It makes everyone with BPD look bad and almost ashamed to talk about it.

She seems shameless, which is not a BPD characteristic.

Do you need glasses to see the images/