*sigh*. Sometimes I wish I had magic power to string this idiot up by his balls and give a few women a baseball bat. This makes smoke come out of my ears. Pity we as a group of Pandas can't help this poor woman. I sincerely hope she gets her firstborn back and can get on with her life without this toxic, deranged, very dangerous idiot.

So if breastfeeding and bathing a helpless infant or toddler is incest, he started by "punishing" her, but how long before this nut starts viewing his own sons as actual rivals and turns his aggression on them? One is seemingly safe with her (for now) but it's the firstborn in his possession that I'm worried about. That child is in very real danger.

Ohhh boy. I am just....too mad to write.

How...How do people end up with a dumpster of such epic proportions festering in their heads?? Seriously, how??

This man's abusive jealousy surrounding his wife's motherhood is very typical for a perpetrator of domestic violence. The #1 cause of death for pregnant women in the US isn't pre-eclampsia or pulmonary embolism... it's HOMICIDE. The abuser is so possessive of their pregnant partner's body and attention and affection that they view the embryo/fetus/infant as an invader; a threat to their sense of power and ownership. Using the child as a p**n to coerce their partner is also common, like this man's threats about custody. This woman is in DANGER, and if he did abscond with their older son, her son is potentially in danger too. He has firearms, and he is probably capable of murdering his wife and/or son/s. Deadly weapons, recent pregnancy and childbirth, threat of separation... these are check marks on the list of lethality factors used to assess level of active mortal danger for DV victims.

I first admired how calm she is able to stay after his irrational accusations... until it slowly dawned on me that she probably had to de-escalate situations where he became irrationally angry before... He sounds like he is one step away from becoming violent and it wouldn't be the first time...

This dude needs to be admitted into a clinic. Like, for real. I can't believe people like this also have the right to vote.

What an idiot. Just leave him and send him to Uranus. That way the planet's name will make sense.

Please please please let there be an update that the 2 year old is rescued!! He is 1000% the type to kill his own child. Whether for complete control or just to cause eternal torment to his ex he will eventually harm the child or use him to lure her into a place he can get rid of her. He’s obviously severely mentally unstable and can’t contribute in any healthy way to the best interests of his children, can’t a court see that???

Must be a MAGA. They don't have a clue about anything when it comes to women and their bodies, other than they want total control over them to protect their breeding stock.

This man is a dangerous, deeply disturbed person. Divorcing him is imperative. And he should never be allowed to see the children either. Some of the comments say that he is deployed right now on active duty, some say he's run off with her older child. I hope he's nowhere near the family. She and her whole family are in deep danger from him. I hate that people like him exist in our world…where do they get such f-ed up ideas from?

When did breasts become a sex organ? This is learned behavior starting with "girls must cover up because their breasts are dirty pillows". Men who know better need to shame TF out of men like this.

The insecurity and fragility is off the charts. Guarantee he's one of those guys who doesn't wash his a*s because he thinks that's gay.

What does a mentality like this do while in another country during combat?

Unlike NAMING a new baby, how an infant is fed is a "one yes" situation. Mom gets the only and final say on breast, formula, or supplementing, as all of these decisions directly impact her body and overall wellbeing. If it's a matter of her partner genuinely wanting to take on a share with feeding, there's certainly room for negotiation, but even then the final say is with mum, so long as baby is fed and healthy.

Well....when you sexualize boobs, you don't educate people about their own bodies and all its functions, and you don't really educate boy/men about how a woman't body functions, and that not all the buttons are for them only.....this is what you get.

I wish I could be there when he makes his argument to the court.

Holy s**t!

I'm born and raised in Chicago and now reside in Sweden 🇸🇪. I have never heard of a more absurd reaction in all my life. Why are the Americans so uptight about the human body? I really don't understand it at all. In Sweden it's as natural as going for a walk or driving a car. Woman here breastfeed in public without even blinking a eye or having to cover up. It's absolutely ridiculous! The human body is beautiful and woman are only doing what's natural and mother's milk is the best possible nourishment for her child. I'm sorry but formula does not have the antibodies that a mothers breastmilk has. What's next, are you going to say animals can't breastfeed their young?! Get over your hang-ups and grow the hell up!! These men sound like complete imbeciles and American society needs to change their views on the human body. I'm absolutely appalled on their way of thinking, if you can even call that thinking.

I used to have to deal with SFs on occasion. About half struck me as so tightly wound you never knew when they were literally going to off about nothing. Some of them are really not right. Depending on his duty stations it sounds like some severe psychological problems have developed.

What? He considers his newborn baby a grown man? Why is he thinking like that? This can't be normal. I don't want to give him any excuses, but is there any chance he was molested as a child and now he has some kind of distorted perspective? I dunno, this can't be real.

He probably also thinks its gay to wash his butt.

This guy is sick in the head and needs major psychological help. Best she leaves him. Being a single mother is by far preferable than being with this sicko.

As horrible as it is, I'm glad this "man" put this online. Hopefully it will help her get full custody of both kids

OMG WHAT did I just read?? This man is insane! He had her have C-sections?? Another man's mouth has been on her boobs?? And the way she speaks to him so softly and subdued.... that poor, poor woman. I really hope she will get custody of the children. This dude is not fit to be a father.

*Gasp* Her breasts were used for their biological function! The horror! WTF did I just read??? First of all, I do not think it should be a man’s decision whether a woman uses formula or breastfeeds, the mother and child need to figure out what works best for them. Secondly, the fact that he is divorcing her because her breast was “in another man’s mouth” is appalling. That “man” is a baby for god’s sake. This man is dangerous, and I really do hope it works out for her

I rarely advocate violence but this is a clear case (from what we know) of one specific revenge being required. Put him in service to others (doesn't matter what kind) and knock him to the floor every time he objects. No more than that. When the only way to make it stop is to be obedient, he'll break.

No judge in their right mind is going to allow this man to be around those children, whom he deems sexual rivals, unsupervised. Furthermore, I personally feel that much more unsafe knowing that people like him are allowed to exist out in the open.

Too bad the media hasn't gotten hold of this story...probably the only way to get her other son back.

Wylder wasn't just bigger than him at birth, he's a bigger man than the father at whatever age his is. What an alpha a-hole.