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Flight Attendant Arrested In Dubai After Her Husband Attacked Her
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Flight Attendant Arrested In Dubai After Her Husband Attacked Her

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Trigger warning: explicit description of self-harm and spousal abuse

A United Arab Emirates flight attendant from Ireland will finally be able to fly back to her home country after enduring an absolute nightmare in Dubai, UAE. The cabin crew worker had been detained in the Emirati capital city after being charged with attempting to end her life amid domestic abuse.

Highlights
  • Irish Prime Minister Simon Harris announced that the travel ban keeping Tori Towey captive in Dubai was lifted.
  • Tori Towey, an Emirates flight attendant from Ireland, was detained in Dubai after being charged with attempting to end her life amid domestic abuse.
  • Tori was put in a cell with 50 women, had no information, and was not told why she had been arrested or what she was being charged with.

On Wednesday afternoon (July 10), Irish Prime Minister Simon Harris announced that the travel ban keeping Tori Towey captive in Dubai was lifted.

Radha Stirling, chief executive for the human rights organization Detained in Dubai, also confirmed that the Dubai authorities officially withdrew the charges against the 28-year-old.

The Irish embassy in the UAE will now bring the domestic abuse survivor and her mother, Caroline McElroy Towey, who traveled to be with her daughter, to the airport to get a flight home as soon as they are ready to do so, the Irish Examiner reported on Wednesday.

Emirates flight attendant Tori Towey will finally be able to fly back to Ireland after enduring an absolute nightmare in Dubai

Image credits: Detained In Dubai

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Tori’s case was raised earlier this week in the Dáil Éireann, the lower house of Ireland‘s parliament, where elected officials make and discuss laws.

After being hospitalized with extensive injuries following an alleged assault by her husband, the airline worker’s plight was brought up by Irish republican and democratic socialist political party Sinn Féin’s Mary Lou McDonald.

“Her passport has been destroyed,” McDonald said, the Irish Examiner reported on Tuesday (July 9). “There was a travel ban imposed on her and she had gone to the authorities seeking protection many times but to absolutely no avail.”

Image credits: Detained In Dubai

The Irish politician continued: “But following one particularly severe beating in which her husband repeatedly tried to slam doors on her arms and break her limbs, she escaped upstairs, and she attempted to take her own life.

“The system over there, rather than protecting this woman, who is an Irish citizen, chose instead to detain her, to charge her.”

In the UAE, women often face significant challenges in securing protection and justice, especially in cases of abuse and sexual violence

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Tori had been detained in the Emirati capital city after being charged with attempting to end her life amid domestic abuse

Image credits: Detained In Dubai

Victims of rape risk being charged with “illicit sex,” which can lead to imprisonment or flogging, as seen in the 2010 case of an Emirati woman sentenced to jail after reporting her gang rape, as per the United Nations’​ PeaceWomen

Despite some legal reforms, Emirati laws still discriminate against women, particularly in areas like personal status and domestic violence, leaving many without adequate legal protection or recourse, Human Rights Watch stated in 2021.

Tori moved to Dubai last year to work as an airline attendant. She married a man in March, whose identity has not been revealed.

Image credits: Detained In Dubai

According to Roscommon, Ireland Member of the Dáil (TD) Claire Kerrane, the cabin crew member soon began being mentally and physically abused.

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At the time of the Dáil session, Kerrane said that Tori’s mom, Caroline, was in Dubai with her daughter and it was “a living nightmare.”

The TD revealed: “She was put in a cell with 50 women, there was no information, she wasn’t told why she had been arrested, what she was being charged with.”

After being hospitalized with extensive injuries following an alleged assault by her husband, Tori’s plight was brought up in the Dáil Éireann

“Then there’s the language barrier too. It’s just horrendous.

“There was a small bit of alcohol in her system so she was charged with alcohol abuse. And with ‘attempted suicide.’” 

Although Tori went to the police, she was told to go home to her abusive husband, as Kerrane explained: “He ripped up her passport, so she couldn’t work as an airline attendant, then she had no money, so she couldn’t come home.” 

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Image credits: sinnfeinireland

A travel ban was subsequently placed on Tori’s passport, so she could not escape.

During one allegedly brutal attack in her home, it’s understood she escaped into the bathroom and tried to take her own life in a bid to escape her husband, fearing he would torture her to death, the Irish Examiner reported.

Kerrane recounted: “The next thing she knew, paramedics were there.”

Irish Prime Minister Simon Harris announced that the travel ban keeping Tori captive in Dubai was lifted on Wednesday (July 10)

“Then she was arrested on June 28 and had no idea what she had been arrested for.” 

Tori’s aunt, Anne Flynn, told RTÉ radio’s Morning Ireland at the time: “We are just all very, very anxious.

“We keep hoping that we’ll get word that they’re on a plane. On the way home. I don’t know.” 

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Image credits: Tori Towey

“Will this court case go ahead? Or if it goes, what will happen? 

“You know, we’re just very hopeful. And it’s really terrible that this has happened to a young woman that was full of life and full of adventure.

“And she loved traveling. And, you know, she’s a beautiful young woman.”

Tori moved to Dubai last year to work as an airline attendant. She married a man in March, whose identity has not been revealed

Image credits: Detained In Dubai

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Flynn added: “We’re hoping that just something will happen that it won’t go to court. It’s hard to believe that this young woman has been charged with trying to commit suicide.”

Now that Tori is finally heading back to Ireland, Irish Minister for Foreign Affairs Micheál Martin reportedly welcomed the positive resolution to the case.

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He said it has been a challenging and traumatic time for Tori, but she is now doing well, as per the Irish Examiner.

It is reportedly not yet known when Tori and her mom will be getting a flight home, but Martin said that work is underway to facilitate their return as quickly as possible.

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JayWantsACat
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why, as a woman, would anyone move to Dubai (other than money and ignorance, I guess)?

BeesEelsAndPups
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Love, opportunity, family? I am not comfortable with blaming the victim here. I am assuming she didn't marry her husband knowing that he was a monster. This was a young woman who had dreams of an international life with a man she loved. I feel bad for her. For her experience and for the loss of that dream.

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BeesEelsAndPups
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have lived in a number of muslim countries, including UAE (Dubai specifically). And in all of them I can say that foreigners have few rights, women have zero rights, and foreign women married to locals have negative rights. Women are property, an so abusing or assaulting women is treated as abuse or assault of property. At worse, it will be considered an act of vandalism. Often women are punished for crimes committed against them, whether that is punished by the state, or punished by her own family. And while honor killings are illegal in most countries, the law tends to look the other way. Also, while Dubai and Lebanon are probably the "best" places to live in the Arabian peninsula, that's like saying getting stabbed to death is better than getting bludgeoned to death. Sure, but you're still dead. The safest country for women there was Iraq during Saddam Hussein.

Auntriarch
Community Member
3 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I lived in Abu Dhabi, Sharjah and Dubai in the 80s. Everything was fine, as long as nothing went wrong. But when it did... One of my best friends was raped. She was close to being charged with interfering with a minor (he was 17) until her father entered the courtroom, then suddenly she was the victim of rape. She was so badly injured that the attacker was almost charged with attempted murder. The difference between her being accused of interfering with a minor and him being charged with attempted murder depended on her having a "responsible male guardian" who could technically have stuck out for blood money.

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Pyla
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

After living in Saudi, I know the men have a spoiled attitude about women. Notice how he's protected.

Donald
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I find it odd that his identity is being protected, let us know who this waste of oxygen is.

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greenideas
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My cousin (a pretty blonde) went to Turkey with her parents at 17 and some old guy wanted to buy her from her father. Nope, I'm not travelling to that part of the world. On a side note, I wonder what those other 50 women she was with are in jail for?

Virgil Blue
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Looking at other men funny? Having a little hair showing after the wind blows of their headdress? Whistling on a Thursday? Who knows when religious law is in effect and can change on the whim of the priesthood.

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Lisa Westerfield
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think all of the goodwill the Real Housewives of Dubai tries to sell about Dubai is major BUNK.

Bette
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How terrible that another young woman is subjected to having her dreams literally shattered by a man she entrusted with her life. How tragic that a government would protect her abuser and punish the victim.

TheBlinkingDuck
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So BP posts the photos but BLURRS them out? What's the damn point?

Upstaged75
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's what you're complaining about?? The poor woman went through a horrible ordeal and you're whining because you don't get to see her blood? They're blurring out the more gruesome injuries because some people are sensitive to that. I'm sure you could go find the original ones if it's so important to you.

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Nils Skirnir
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Boycott the religious terror states. Muslim, Jewish, Christian, whatever

Ephemera Image
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hope you're including the US states in that boycott. Many are going the same way.

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Carl Roberts
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm surprised BP had the cajones to post this, since they tend to avoid saying anything negative about the Middle East. But, then again, they made no mention whatsoever of the religion behind the appalling backwards views in the UAE. But, boy oh boy, would BP go out of their way to mention the religion (multiple times) if it was Christianity.

LaserBrain
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah I would have to agree. I'm not a fan of Christianity, but that other religion seems so much worse.

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Batwench
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Premium
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My hubby gets job offers from that area all the time. One of the many reasons he turns them down is that I would probably get arrested within hours of me being there. I take great pride in being called an “ an opinionated woman” by a previous manager.

Roberta Surprenant
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why would any sane/sensible woman go to either the arabian countries or to Indian sub-continent?

Freddy Ricci
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This happens when you are engaged with a muslim. It's not racism, but expect this and worst.

Just a boring person
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why, people with higher power are getting more horrible or lazy. Why can't it be like before, when things are all normal.

Ephemera Image
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Any foreign woman who marries an Arab in an Islamic country is letting herself in for a bad time. I lived many years in the Middle East (I'm a woman) and it's just too dangerous, for all women. There are no protections in any Arab countries, for Arab women or foreign. None.

JayWantsACat
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why, as a woman, would anyone move to Dubai (other than money and ignorance, I guess)?

BeesEelsAndPups
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Love, opportunity, family? I am not comfortable with blaming the victim here. I am assuming she didn't marry her husband knowing that he was a monster. This was a young woman who had dreams of an international life with a man she loved. I feel bad for her. For her experience and for the loss of that dream.

Load More Replies...
BeesEelsAndPups
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have lived in a number of muslim countries, including UAE (Dubai specifically). And in all of them I can say that foreigners have few rights, women have zero rights, and foreign women married to locals have negative rights. Women are property, an so abusing or assaulting women is treated as abuse or assault of property. At worse, it will be considered an act of vandalism. Often women are punished for crimes committed against them, whether that is punished by the state, or punished by her own family. And while honor killings are illegal in most countries, the law tends to look the other way. Also, while Dubai and Lebanon are probably the "best" places to live in the Arabian peninsula, that's like saying getting stabbed to death is better than getting bludgeoned to death. Sure, but you're still dead. The safest country for women there was Iraq during Saddam Hussein.

Auntriarch
Community Member
3 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I lived in Abu Dhabi, Sharjah and Dubai in the 80s. Everything was fine, as long as nothing went wrong. But when it did... One of my best friends was raped. She was close to being charged with interfering with a minor (he was 17) until her father entered the courtroom, then suddenly she was the victim of rape. She was so badly injured that the attacker was almost charged with attempted murder. The difference between her being accused of interfering with a minor and him being charged with attempted murder depended on her having a "responsible male guardian" who could technically have stuck out for blood money.

Load More Replies...
Pyla
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

After living in Saudi, I know the men have a spoiled attitude about women. Notice how he's protected.

Donald
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I find it odd that his identity is being protected, let us know who this waste of oxygen is.

Load More Replies...
greenideas
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My cousin (a pretty blonde) went to Turkey with her parents at 17 and some old guy wanted to buy her from her father. Nope, I'm not travelling to that part of the world. On a side note, I wonder what those other 50 women she was with are in jail for?

Virgil Blue
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Looking at other men funny? Having a little hair showing after the wind blows of their headdress? Whistling on a Thursday? Who knows when religious law is in effect and can change on the whim of the priesthood.

Load More Replies...
Lisa Westerfield
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think all of the goodwill the Real Housewives of Dubai tries to sell about Dubai is major BUNK.

Bette
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How terrible that another young woman is subjected to having her dreams literally shattered by a man she entrusted with her life. How tragic that a government would protect her abuser and punish the victim.

TheBlinkingDuck
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So BP posts the photos but BLURRS them out? What's the damn point?

Upstaged75
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's what you're complaining about?? The poor woman went through a horrible ordeal and you're whining because you don't get to see her blood? They're blurring out the more gruesome injuries because some people are sensitive to that. I'm sure you could go find the original ones if it's so important to you.

Load More Replies...
Nils Skirnir
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Boycott the religious terror states. Muslim, Jewish, Christian, whatever

Ephemera Image
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hope you're including the US states in that boycott. Many are going the same way.

Load More Replies...
Carl Roberts
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm surprised BP had the cajones to post this, since they tend to avoid saying anything negative about the Middle East. But, then again, they made no mention whatsoever of the religion behind the appalling backwards views in the UAE. But, boy oh boy, would BP go out of their way to mention the religion (multiple times) if it was Christianity.

LaserBrain
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah I would have to agree. I'm not a fan of Christianity, but that other religion seems so much worse.

Load More Replies...
Batwench
Community Member
Premium
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My hubby gets job offers from that area all the time. One of the many reasons he turns them down is that I would probably get arrested within hours of me being there. I take great pride in being called an “ an opinionated woman” by a previous manager.

Roberta Surprenant
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why would any sane/sensible woman go to either the arabian countries or to Indian sub-continent?

Freddy Ricci
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This happens when you are engaged with a muslim. It's not racism, but expect this and worst.

Just a boring person
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why, people with higher power are getting more horrible or lazy. Why can't it be like before, when things are all normal.

Ephemera Image
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Any foreign woman who marries an Arab in an Islamic country is letting herself in for a bad time. I lived many years in the Middle East (I'm a woman) and it's just too dangerous, for all women. There are no protections in any Arab countries, for Arab women or foreign. None.

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