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Things some of us enjoy more than anything else might sound like a total headache to others, often because of our personality type. It's especially common when it comes to extraverts and introverts. These terms, introduced by Carl Jung in the early 1920s, separate people who use socializing like a flower uses sunlight from those who need peace and quiet to recharge their batteries.

Today we’re focusing on the latter. Introverts are the perfect counterweight to all the social butterflies, but they might face difficulties interacting with them. These and similar issues are covered by the Facebook page 'Introvert Problems'. Their often amusing and oh-so-relatable content has already attracted over 3.5 million followers, and taken so many introverted people down the memory lane of such situations they’ve encountered themselves. Scroll down for some of their best examples.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ever considered that by being here with you IS out of my comfort zone? Huh? Huh??

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When my extrovert husband has been talking too long and I'm started to get too full, I say, "You're a talker". It's an inside joke we have because that scene is one of my favorites from GoT. If that doesn't work, I ask him if he has an onion on his belt, which was the style at the time. The need to decompress is very real. the-hound-...63acfd.gif the-hound-youre-a-talker-640904163acfd.gif

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Meh, it would still be uncomfortable to be in a room with people, talking or otherwise.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Technically you wouldn't be leaving your comfort zone if the zone was being made to fit your comfort. But I agree, extroverts can be absolutely obnoxious.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes too true hit the nail right on the head here thank you! ☺️

CocoHenri
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Holy cow, my world would be happier if extroverts shut up for just a little little bit once in a while

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My house has 2 extroverts that never stop talking and me. 😭 I encourage my insomnia to get quiet time to myself where I don't have to hide in the bathroom

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Alex Freetime
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well, as usual the ones making more noise about what others should do are the extroverts, it must be them!

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Y’all should try it a little. I’m saying this because that’s how I found out I was actually an extrovert held back by social anxiety. If you still feel like an introvert, you do you, but it was kind of a life changing experience for me. Although yes I agree, sometimes extroverts need to quiet down a little lol

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would guess at most 5% of the roughly 50% of the population who are introverted are just extroverts with anxiety. You having a life changing experience that revealed something about yourself in this context says absolutely nothing about anyone but you.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I do! But it usually causes others to hate me and me be even less talkative

Kawazoe
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Or they can be told but it rarely changes anything just as it doesn't for us introverts because it's hard to fight what comes naturally 🙄

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Some people are so loud I just walk away from them so that they don't talk to me

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm sadly an extrovert and I hear shut up daily. Sometimes it's not necessary to hear, but I get it. Extroverts just really like talking, because no one will listen. (expect for those introverts that we've adopted)

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

yeah cause that's ✨rude✨ and i thought i was an introvert for a very long time until i realized i was just depressed and very out of touch w my own emotions so the extroverts have a point. INTROVERTS DO EXIST OBVIOUSLY but the extroverts think they're helping so cut em some slack

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That's such BS. People need to be quiet so introverts feel comfortable? It's not a medical condition. Stay in your hermit hole if you can't handle people talking. The thing with comfort zones. The more you go outside them the bigger they get. Never leave and you built your own prison.

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Grow up. Stay in your hermit hole if you can't handle people.....talking.

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Being introverted usually means you prefer focusing on your inner world and the state of your mind instead of other people and the outer world. Representatives of this psychological type tend to be more reserved or withdrawn; they might prefer working individually instead of as a team.

Such common features often lead to a prevailing misconception that they don't like socializing. This is not true, as lots of them are happy to engage in social activities - however, they might be selective about them.

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    Because of the way the brain is wired, introverts and extraverts react differently to stimulating places with lots of people. It’s not that the former feel some sort of animosity towards them, they simply are not 'rewarded' the same way as extraverts are after socializing.

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    Psychology Today pointed out that because of the make-up of their nervous system, they produce less dopamine, a neurotransmitter associated with reward, when participating in social gatherings.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, yes, yes!!! I can talk the hind leg off a donkey to people I know, yet some people never hear me speak

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    Some introverted people take part in parties or large gatherings nevertheless. However, they might take some time to recharge their social battery after. They often need alone time to unwind, escape the stimulating environment, and process recent events. Not doing so can lead to feeling overwhelmed or irritated.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We have enormous capacity to find ways to keep ourselves entertained that don't need to involve other people

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    It is estimated that around 25% to 40% of the population are introverts. Even though each person is different, those sharing the same personality type might face similar problems. For introverts, they often include feeling the need to recharge the aforementioned social battery, finding the right environment or people for socializing, or even making a phone call.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Right ! You people ever think you’re all jerks, and I wouldn’t talk too you if you paid me ?

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep, or worse you get told you are boring or repetitive or digress too much or whatever, then you realise you are surrounded by narcissists and it's not worth bothering.

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    Small talk can work as kryptonite for introverted people as well. Understandably so—when the percentage of your battery is getting low, the last thing you want to do is waste it talking about the weather. Introverts tend to dread it because it doesn’t lead to actually getting to know the person and seeing if there’s a way to form a deeper connection. Instead, they are draining themselves out discussing frivolous things.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I answer the text in my head so I know what to type but close the message as I don't have the time that second. I then am convinced that I did respond to the text and start to get internally miffed that they haven't come back to me yet 😖

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This. This is why I don't sleep sometimes. The silence is so pure, so deep and clear. I'm finally at peace.

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    According to the lecturer and the author of Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking, Susan Cain, introverts have to deal with a certain social bias. In her TED talk, she pointed out that a lot of significant institutions, such as schools or workplaces, are mostly designed for extraverts. These places are highly stimulating and often require working in teams, which might be the less productive option for introverted individuals.

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    In her talk, Susan Cain also emphasized that the way to maximize people’s talents is to put them in the right zone of social stimulation. According to her, introverts feel best at quieter, low-key environments, which allow them to reach their full potential, while extraverts need way more stimulation.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A much better tip: please don't just show up at people's houses, like Sitcom style. It's awful.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do this. I wait until 2:15ish so I can eat my lunch in peace, or I go to my car

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    Susan Krauss Whitbourne, a professor emerita of psychological and brain sciences at the University of Massachusetts Amherst, pointed out some situations that might help you determine whether you’re an introvert or not. Some include being the last one in the group to express your opinion, avoiding small talk, and using headphones to isolate yourself from the rest of the world.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I believe that's why we are introverts. We notice all the s**t that's going on and want nothing to do with it. We are observant first then introverts because of it

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    In Psychology Today, Dr. Susan Krauss Whitbourne also described some advantages of being an introvert. People with this personality type rarely let something unexpected slip in social situations. In addition to that, they don’t feel bored being on their own, and they don’t rush to interrupt people, which can make them excellent listeners.

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    Even though people usually suggest the two options when it comes to personality types, there is actually a third one—the middle ground between introvert and extravert. People who feature traits from both sides are known as ambiverts, and are believed to make up as much as 68% of the population.

    These pictures allow everyone to catch a glimpse of what hoops introverts have to jump through in their daily lives. Their source, the Facebook page 'Introvert Problems', created back in 2016, currently has over 3,500 likes and 3,600 people following it. The numbers show that their content is undoubtedly relatable to lots of people out there.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I could look at that all day... I can look out my bedroom window at nothing for literally hours

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Verrry rookie numbers. But I probably wouldn't have said that out loud, just in my head

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They call it an exciting idea. I call it a frightening one. Maybe that would work for a family or friend group. It's a gigantic nope for me.

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    Sad Quokka
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Absofrikinlutely. Why should I sound shaky and stupid on the phone when I can spend 10 minutes composing a decent email?

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes! so many of my colleagues (very kindly) offer me a lift home but those 20 minutes with my music blaring and not having to speak to anyone prepares me for going home and having to socialise again.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Absolutely love it when people cancel on me. It just takes so much pressure off me.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Even worse when they ask about neighbours, their names, their kids etc. I just live here, i don't keep track of everyone else in the street. I hardly keep track of myself most of the time.

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    1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, this is a single occupancy zone. Please leave. For double occupancy please see our policy on friendship tiers....you need at least a level 10 to have access.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't hate people per se, I just can't stand stupid people. And in social settings, the quality of the interaction tends to drop to the level of the stupidest person in the group

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I really appreciate when people do this. It's like hey we haven't seen each other in years, lets continue to do that, cool? cool.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sure you can, I wont answer but you are free to try.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It’s so comforting to stay home in this weather drinking something warm and eating pakoras while reading a book

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But sometimes it's really sad u know when no one cares or even thinks about us introverts.

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    Jared Robinson
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How have they not noticed yet? Is it socially acceptable yet to just walk away from a conversation like this?

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    1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ooh i should try this when i do the wordle with my siblings

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    With new people, with old people, with middle-aged people, same difference every time.

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    Pieter LeGrande
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Them: politely asks the standard "How are you". Me: launch into details of how COVID has ruined your pelvic floor control after your prostate operation. Has worked the last 5 or 6 times I've tried this. I have a backup plan based on complaining about inflation pushing the price of incontinence pads.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't be. Over share once and they'll never talk to you again. Works all the time. Specifically go into your mental issues. You can see their face change from "let's be friends" to "I will cross the street and turn the other way if we see each other again"

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have 2 people. They are my people. One is an extrovert who adopted me and has spent the last 6 months trying to assimilate me into her friend group. The other is a super chill dude I've known literally forever and could tell literally anything to.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, except for the attention. If anybody pays attention to me I feel selfish and like I’m wasting their time. Also why I cannot even go to my schools psychologist when I really need it, even though it’s her job.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    THought about being an uber driver. The introvert in me convinced me very strongly to do otherwise.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So I can spend the next 8 hours doing nothing, watching films and scrolling on BP

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i’m just waiting for the day i have to answer the door for christian missionaries in an olaf costume

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One of the tough parts about having kids. My son wakes up at 5a doing somersaults and asking detailed questions about the most random stuff. I'm unsure if all of my body exists before 7a.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That just means they're about to hit you with unpaid overtime...

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    1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Them: "What's your favorite color?" Me: "The oldest living goldfish was 43 years old."

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wouldn't describe talking to myself as fun, but it's definitely worse when you are caught.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My late grandfather, a war veteran, watching me google an unknown phone number instead of answering the call.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't hide it well at all. In fact, my face sometimes just looks like that for no reason.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate the good mornings/hello every single day. Like come on! You just saw me and said that yesterday

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