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People Are Pointing Out So Many Problems With Couple’s Viral “Bottle Night” Post
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People Are Pointing Out So Many Problems With Couple’s Viral “Bottle Night” Post

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A man documenting a stay-at-home date with his girlfriend has gone viral for claiming he invented what he refers to as “bottle night.”

Collin Rutherford posted a message on X (formerly known as Twitter) on Monday (March 4) that described a date plan he enjoys sharing with his partner. The groundbreaking concept? Turning off their electronic devices and chatting while sipping wine.

Highlights
  • A man claims to have invented "bottle night" with his girlfriend, a date idea that involves chatting, wine, and no phones.
  • His message went viral with over 48 million views, sparking mockery.
  • Despite the backlash, some supported the initiative for closer connections with no technology.

“Do you know what a ‘bottle night’ is?” the 26-year-old asked social media users. 

He continued: “Probably not because my gf and I invented it during a 2023 blizzard in Buffalo, NY.”

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    “We lock our phones away, turn the TV off…Each grab a bottle of wine and talk.

    “That’s it, we simply talk and enjoy each other’s presence.

    “We live together, but it’s easy to miss out on ‘quality time.’ What do you think?

    “Do you have other methods for enjoying quality time with your partner?”

    The simple message, which Collin accompanied with a picture of him and his girlfriend, each with a bottle of wine in hand, has been viewed over 48 million times since it was shared. 

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    The New Yorker added that drinking directly from the bottle instead of using a wine glass was part of the “tradition.”

    Colin, who owns Greenbox Storage, a company that offers storage and delivery services for college students in the US, was bombarded with thousands of replies, with many people pointing out that he didn’t invent tech-free bonding experiences.

    “This dude thinks him and his girlfriend ‘invented’ getting drunk and hanging out,” someone wrote.

    Colin Rutherford said he and his girlfriend came up with the concept in 2023 during a blizzard in New York

    Image credits: collin_ruth89

    “You have replaced phone dependency with alcohol dependency! Congrats!” another person joked.

    A third individual reminded Colin: “I think that’s how our ancestors existed… in like the 1990s.”

    Another social media user referred to the young man as a “pioneer,” saying, “This guy invented getting drunk and talking to your girlfriend wow, a pioneer.”

    Then, others commented that alcohol wasn’t a prerequisite to enjoying a conversation with your partner, asking, “Have you tried bottle night with no bottle? Get inside each other’s minds sober and unravel each others real, untainted thoughts.”

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    While the businessman agrees that talking doesn’t require alcohol, he also maintains that “you can get inside each other’s minds easier” with it.

    Someone else, less concerned with the originality of the idea, opted to focus on its contradictions. “How did you take and post this photo without a phone?” they inquired, to which Colin responded with the wide-eye emoji.

    “We lock our phones away, turn the TV off…Each grab a bottle of wine and talk,” he described

    Of course, single individuals didn’t miss the opportunity to recreate the message with a twist. A user named Litquidity wrote, “Do you know what a ‘boys night’ is? Probably not, because my absolute boys and I invented it during a crisp evening in NYC, Fall 2023.

    “We get an Uber, go to a packed bar and…Each grab 10 tequila sodas, talk, hit the handicap stalls, and rizz up some chicks.”

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    Colin’s message also received support from X users who appreciated his initiative for bonding like the olden days, with one person commenting under the photo, “I like the idea! Cheers.”

    “Amazing idea, implementing it!” a separate individual said, while another added, “I’d do this but with water not wine. Beautiful concept.”

    Taking advantage of the viral post, Colin has launched a collection of “Bottle Night” t-shirts ($19.99), hoodies ($34.99), and crewneck sweatshirts ($34.99) that come in five different colors.

    “This Tee was made in an effort to shine a spotlight on spending more quality time with your loved ones (bottle included, or not)” the e-commerce site reads.

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    Some people defended Colin and praised him for wanting to have quality time with his partner

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    As a visual editor in the News team, I look for the most interesting pictures and comments to make each post interesting and informative through images, so that you aren't reading only blocks of text. I joined Bored Panda not that long ago, but in this short amount of time I have covered a wide range of topics: from true crime to Taylor Swift memes (my search history is very questionable because of that).In my freetime, I enjoy spending time at the gym, gaming, binging Great British Bake Off and adding yet another tattoo artist that I would love to get a tattoo from to my pinterest board.

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    jackburton_2 avatar
    Jack Burton
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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Talking a lot while drinking wine ? Dude just invented France.

    dirkdaring99 avatar
    Dirk Daring
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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Got to the part where he's selling "Bottle Night" t-shirts and I was like, "Theeeeeeeerrrre it is."

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    Trillian
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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is really cute when 20somethings today "invent" the way you spent your own 20ies.

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    KatSaidWhat
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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And let's give a nod to all the new haircuts and fashion trends they started... like undercuts, dungarees, combat trousers, Docs...

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    jackburton_2 avatar
    Jack Burton
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    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Talking a lot while drinking wine ? Dude just invented France.

    dirkdaring99 avatar
    Dirk Daring
    Community Member
    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Got to the part where he's selling "Bottle Night" t-shirts and I was like, "Theeeeeeeerrrre it is."

    zora24_1 avatar
    Trillian
    Community Member
    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is really cute when 20somethings today "invent" the way you spent your own 20ies.

    impossiblekat avatar
    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And let's give a nod to all the new haircuts and fashion trends they started... like undercuts, dungarees, combat trousers, Docs...

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