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Many people would probably agree that doctors should be skilled, disciplined, emotionally resilient, and knowledgeable in their craft. Even though all of these things are important in making a medical expert good, they’re not enough for greatness. Their bedside manner is vital, too. Poor communication and a lack of respect and empathy are only going to leave folks frustrated.
Some of those patients take to the popular r/mildlyinfuriating online group to vent their frustrations. Today, our team at Bored Panda is featuring stories that prove that many health professionals still have a long way to go when it comes to their behavior. Scroll down to check them out.

#1

Doctor’s Office Turned Away My Dad For Arriving At 9:50 For His 10:00 Appointment

Doctor’s Office Turned Away My Dad For Arriving At 9:50 For His 10:00 Appointment

They said their policy is to arrive 30 minutes early; therefore, he was 20 minutes late and they wouldn’t see him. He is NOT a new patient.

That is a 9:30 appointment, then, not 10:00! 😡

Update to add more details:

My parents have been seeing this doctor for years. They’re very punctual and always arrive early to appointments.

They were not told of this requirement to be there 30 minutes early, nor has it ever come up in all the other times they’ve arrived 10-15 minutes before their appointment.

This was just an annual checkup, made for 10:00 and not rescheduled from another time.

I personally think this is either a new policy they weren’t told about, or an old, unenforced policy that someone having a bad day decided to enforce today.

I hate that this kind of thing has happened to so many of you. ☹️ Probably more than mildly infuriating

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Upstaged75
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4 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow, that's total bullshite! I've never heard of an office doing that before.

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#2

Got This In The Mail Recently. Charged Interest On 0$ By Doctors Office. Then Sent To Collection Over 6 Years Later Without Ever Once Being Contacted By Said Office

Got This In The Mail Recently. Charged Interest On 0$ By Doctors Office. Then Sent To Collection Over 6 Years Later Without Ever Once Being Contacted By Said Office

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#3

Doctor's Office Left A Message Cancelling My Appointment With 1 Hour's Notice; The Next Day I Made An Online Request For A Prescription Renewal (Which I'd Planned To Do During The Visit); They Wouldn't Send It In Because I Hadn't Seen The Doctor Recently Enough

Doctor's Office Left A Message Cancelling My Appointment With 1 Hour's Notice; The Next Day I Made An Online Request For A Prescription Renewal (Which I'd Planned To Do During The Visit); They Wouldn't Send It In Because I Hadn't Seen The Doctor Recently Enough

In the two days before the appointment they'd asked me to confirm THREE times (twice by text, once by email).

I only found out about the prescription denial when I checked the pharmacy a couple of days later and they hadn't received anything, so I called the doctor's office to find out why it hadn't been sent in. They finally sent it in when I pointed out they'd cancelled my appointment when I was almost on my way to see the doctor, and they hadn't had a new available appointment for weeks.

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The r/mildlyinfuriating subreddit is very widely known around the internet. Currently, it has around 7.8 million members, who share stories about being slightly inconvenienced in various situations.

For some folks, their interactions with their doctors left such a bad taste in their mouths that they wanted to call out their less-than-exemplary behavior.

#4

Woman With Ovarian Cancer Told Just Overweight By Doctors

Woman With Ovarian Cancer Told Just Overweight By Doctors

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#5

My Dr Thinks He Is Dr House

My Dr Thinks He Is Dr House

I was at the VA a Couple weeks ago after waiting 6 months to see the bone doctor for a worsening preexisting injury afflicting both of my legs. The doctor spent the entire time playing with the keyboard, not typing anything (i can see the monitor with nothing on it) just tappy tap tapping away, never even makes eyes contact, then proceed to tell me my 16 year old injury must be caused by gout and we will do blood work to confirm but also here is the gout medication because he is correct about this. He then shoo's me out of the room with an "I'm done with you now". I get the blood work done (throw out the prescription) and 5 days later get a call letting me know to stop taking the medication because I don't have gout. YA DONT SAY?!

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4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

VA has some of the worst doctors ever I'm sure there are some good ones, but I've never seen any. I swear they hire the drs no one else will.

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#6

This Doctors Office Has A Window Behind The Bench And Claims The Blinds Don’t Close. My Sibling Had To Strip Down In Front Of A Parking Lot

This Doctors Office Has A Window Behind The Bench And Claims The Blinds Don’t Close. My Sibling Had To Strip Down In Front Of A Parking Lot

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Ideally, we’d want every doctor to have good communication and leadership skills. But the reality is that not everyone has them. Some medical professionals simply don’t have enough experience interacting with their patients. Others might simply have low emotional intelligence or lack empathy.

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Still, other doctors might not see the point in being kind or genuinely caring about their patients.

#7

This Endless Automated Text Loop Trying To Cancel An Upcoming Doctor Appointment For My Dad Who Died Yesterday

This Endless Automated Text Loop Trying To Cancel An Upcoming Doctor Appointment For My Dad Who Died Yesterday

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#8

Whats The Point Of Making An Appointment To See A Doctor But Still Waiting 1 Hour Later

Whats The Point Of Making An Appointment To See A Doctor But Still Waiting 1 Hour Later

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4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've left before when I doctor did that to me. I understand that it's not always their fault, but my time is important too. Plus it's ridiculous that they'll make you wait an hour to see the doctor but cancel your appointment if you're 15 minutes late!

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#9

Sitting In The Doctors Office At 2:10 Listening To Him Bullsh*t About His Weekend In The Room Next To Me When My Appointment Was At 1:30

Sitting In The Doctors Office At 2:10 Listening To Him Bullsh*t About His Weekend In The Room Next To Me When My Appointment Was At 1:30

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It can’t be understated how much empathy and proper communication can help patients. They’re naturally worried about their health, procedures, treatments, surgeries, and futures.

They’re anxious. They’re scared. In these situations, many people need emotional support. So, how a doctor delivers a diagnosis or phrases things becomes just as important—if not more so—than the actual information they’re delivering.

#10

Got Charged 9k For Doctor To Tell Me It Was Just Period Cramps, And After Going To Another Doctor It Was A Ruptured Ovarian Cyst

Got Charged 9k For Doctor To Tell Me It Was Just Period Cramps, And After Going To Another Doctor It Was A Ruptured Ovarian Cyst

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4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wonder why insurance didn't cover more of that? I've never had a single bill that expensive in my life. And unfortunately I'm at the doctor/hospital quite a bit. Maybe I'm just lucky to have always had very good insurance? I know they're not all the same. And yes, I agree that the US is ridiculous when it comes to health care. We shouldn't have to pay for anything.

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#11

This Exposed Outlet In The Children's Area Of The Doctors Waiting Room

This Exposed Outlet In The Children's Area Of The Doctors Waiting Room

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#12

This Doctors' Handwriting

This Doctors' Handwriting

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Upstaged75
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4 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I thought this was someone testing if their pen worked! Or trying to cross something out. LOL!

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Take a moment to imagine a physician who bluntly tells their patient that they might have a horrendous disease versus one who gently explains what’s happening, explains all the options available, and provides them with realistic hope.

The news will come as a shock either way, but in the latter case, the patient might be left with more determination and a feeling that their doctor will have their back, come hell or high water. A touch of empathy can be the difference between hope and devastation.

#13

I’ve Been Sitting In The Waiting Room Of This Doctors Office For Over An Hour And This Painting Is Really Pissing Me Off

I’ve Been Sitting In The Waiting Room Of This Doctors Office For Over An Hour And This Painting Is Really Pissing Me Off

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Sue Denham
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4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you have to wait more than an hour you're entitled to pull them off the wall and place them together. (Also: I feel like there should be another one between the second and third ones.)

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#14

Doctor Requires You To Be 1 Hour Early For 5 Minutes Of Paperwork, Only To Be Running 2.5 Hours Behind. Why Is This Acceptable?

Doctor Requires You To Be 1 Hour Early For 5 Minutes Of Paperwork, Only To Be Running 2.5 Hours Behind. Why Is This Acceptable?

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4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Especially irritating when they rush the appointment after that. Sometimes it takes longer than ten minutes to discuss my medical issues

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#15

My Doctor's Appointment Is Scheduled For 1:30

My Doctor's Appointment Is Scheduled For 1:30

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Tyelel
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4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Reception may be at lunch, but that doesn't mean nursing staff and doctors necessarily are. The patient could still be called at 1:30.

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According to Michigan Instruments, the foundation of any successful relationship between doctors and their patients is made up of trust. A professional who is empathetic, genuinely cares about their patients, and actively listens to them is going to build that trust.

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Meanwhile, someone who is completely detached from their patients won’t inspire much trust at all. In the former case, patients are more likely to follow through with their treatment plans and medical advice.

#16

Miss A Call From The Doctors, Call Back And Told I Will Receive A Letter And Follow The Instructions. 6 Days Later Get The Letter Telling Me I Missed A Call From Them And To Call Back

Miss A Call From The Doctors, Call Back And Told I Will Receive A Letter And Follow The Instructions. 6 Days Later Get The Letter Telling Me I Missed A Call From Them And To Call Back

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#17

Doctor Decides Tell Me That My Beneficial New Supplement Was Just The Placebo Effect

Doctor Decides Tell Me That My Beneficial New Supplement Was Just The Placebo Effect

I started telling her how I’ve felt much better since I started taking supplement X. She stops me to say that supplement X doesn’t work - it only works because I think it’s working, from the placebo effect…

Driving home, feeling deflated and a bit silly, it hit me that she could’ve just said nothing, and allow me to keep thinking it was working

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4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I support the doctor here. Unfortunately it's become more common for people to fall for the placebo effect, and then take supplements and the like instead of getting vaccinated. Maybe it hurt the patient in the short term, but it stopped a dangerous spread of misinformation that could've killed not only the patient but any friends and family the patient convinced.

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To put it simply, patients who know their doctors care about them and their welfare are more likely to listen to what they tell them they should do.

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They’ll be more likely to follow through with any medication regimens and attend follow-up appointments. They’ll actually listen when their physicians tell them to eat better and move more, which should prevent some health problems in the future.

#19

This Sticker My Niece Received From The Dentist

This Sticker My Niece Received From The Dentist

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#20

This Note From My Doctor… How Am I Supposed To Send This To My School?

This Note From My Doctor… How Am I Supposed To Send This To My School?

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4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This glitch is quite common when a pdf to Google Docs conversion is attempted.

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Empathetic doctors are good for absolutely everyone. Their patients will be more likely to get better and won’t clog up the system, meaning experts won’t be as overworked.

The doctors with good bedside manners will have a good reputation, which, by extension, will improve the standing of their workplace, bringing in more business and investments. And, on a wider scale, fewer sick people and more trust in the community are good for society as a whole.

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#22

Doctor Wanted To Prescribe Me Eczema Medication That My Insurance Wouldn’t Cover… This Is The Cost With The Goodrx Discount

Doctor Wanted To Prescribe Me Eczema Medication That My Insurance Wouldn’t Cover… This Is The Cost With The Goodrx Discount

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Upstaged75
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4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In which case you talk to the insurance rep and find out what they WILL cover, and then the doc writes you a script for that. Sometimes the doctor's office will even take care of that for you. It's not ideal, but doctors are used to having to do it. Why some insurance companies only cover certain meds and not others is beyond me. Kickbacks probably.

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#23

Trying To Confirm A Doctors Appointment

Trying To Confirm A Doctors Appointment

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#24

The Floor At My Doctors Office... Where I Go To Get Treatment For Ocd

The Floor At My Doctors Office... Where I Go To Get Treatment For Ocd

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St. George’s University School of Medicine points out that some people are naturally good communicators. However, communication, like any other skill, is something that can be learned and developed. It will happen slowly, over time, as medical experts interact with their patients. However, prospective medics can learn proper bedside manners during simulations, too.

#25

I Booked A Doctors Appointment For 1pm (My Work Lunch Break) And It’s Now 1:45pm, I’m Late Coming Back To Work And I Still Haven’t Been Seen. I Literally Only Need A Script Filled Out

I Booked A Doctors Appointment For 1pm (My Work Lunch Break) And It’s Now 1:45pm, I’m Late Coming Back To Work And I Still Haven’t Been Seen. I Literally Only Need A Script Filled Out

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Libstak
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4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why can't they allow phone appointments and e.scripts? I can do that with my mom's doctor all the time.

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#26

This Medicine Cabinet At My Doctors Office

This Medicine Cabinet At My Doctors Office

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#27

I Texted My Doctor About My Foot Pain And This Was His Only Response

I Texted My Doctor About My Foot Pain And This Was His Only Response

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Another thing to keep front of mind is that few patients are going to have the same medical knowledge as the medical staff. So, doctors need to find a way to explain what’s happening to their patients in a way that’s both informative and easy to understand.

That means using fewer technical terms and medical jargon or at least explaining what everything means in a simple way. The goal is for both sides to be on the same page, not to flex one’s fancy medical degree and the plethora of knowledge they amassed.

#28

The Patient Didnt Even Understand The Doctor

The Patient Didnt Even Understand The Doctor

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Sue Denham
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4 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Did the patient then "remind" the doctor, with the best intentions of course?

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#29

Doctors Office Said I Didn’t Confirm My Appointment After I Confirmed It Twice

Doctors Office Said I Didn’t Confirm My Appointment After I Confirmed It Twice

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kitten levels tokyo
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4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A text message is non-verbal communication, so technically it’s true. They didn’t ’hear’ from you. (Still seems nit picky.)

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#30

The Doctor Looked At Our Son's Cut, Said It Wasn't A Big Deal, And Told Us To Go Home

The Doctor Looked At Our Son's Cut, Said It Wasn't A Big Deal, And Told Us To Go Home

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Upstaged75
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4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Again I wonder about the insurance. Maybe these people have high deductible plans? That's really a lot for one visit. For reference I was in the ICU for several days last year and only paid a few hundred dollars for the ER admission fee. My insurance covered everything else.

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We’d like to hear your thoughts on the topic, dear Pandas. What is the worst or weirdest interaction that you’ve ever had with your doctors? What style of communication and skills do you value the most in medical pros?

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Do we have any Doctor Pandas here today? If so, what do you personally do to build a sense of trust with your patients? You can share your opinions and experiences in the comments section at the bottom of this post.

#31

Unhygienic Switch For The Bathroom Light At The Doctors Office

Unhygienic Switch For The Bathroom Light At The Doctors Office

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#32

One Of The Drawers At My Doctor's Office That Always Annoys Me

One Of The Drawers At My Doctor's Office That Always Annoys Me

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4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What was the carpenter thinking when he built that? What was anybody thinking? WAS anybody thinking?

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#33

At The Doctors Office. Every Door Marked Keep Closed At All Times Is Open

At The Doctors Office. Every Door Marked Keep Closed At All Times Is Open

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#34

Doctor Appointment At 8:20, Currently 10:00, Still No Sign Of Even A Nurse

Doctor Appointment At 8:20, Currently 10:00, Still No Sign Of Even A Nurse

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Nannychachi
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4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Go to the front desk and COMPLAIN. I can't believe the amount of people who will tolerate this nonsense. Or, maybe I'm just cranky. I don't know. But, I'd never tolerate it.

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#35

Private Hospital After Charging Insane Amounts Still Ask For Donations For Doctors

Private Hospital After Charging Insane Amounts Still Ask For Donations For Doctors

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Sue Denham
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4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm sure some of those personal messages would make very interesting reading.

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#36

These Signs/Wall Decorations At My Doctor's Office

These Signs/Wall Decorations At My Doctor's Office

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#37

This “Inspirational” Poster On The Ceiling Of My Doctors Office

This “Inspirational” Poster On The Ceiling Of My Doctors Office

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#38

These Light Switches At The Doctor's Office

These Light Switches At The Doctor's Office

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#39

Wife Pays Over 400$ A Month For There To Be Only Two Doctors In The City. Insurance Is Bullsh*t

Wife Pays Over 400$ A Month For There To Be Only Two Doctors In The City. Insurance Is Bullsh*t

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4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

After college I moved to a town of about 18,000. I was so excited to have health insurance so I could get a general physician and a gyno. I called the first doctor in the phone book (this was in 2000ish) and they said not accepting new patients. Ok, I call the next #, turns out it is the same office. All 3 doctors listed in town, no new patients. I had to drive to a nearby city and find the planned parenthood to at least get basic gyno help.

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#40

Guess Which Country I Go To The Doctor In. Taken Inside An Exam Room

Guess Which Country I Go To The Doctor In. Taken Inside An Exam Room

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PlsDo NotDelete
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4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Pharma lobbying needs to stop. Including all the incentives/bribes they give to MD practices.

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#41

Guess Even Time We Need Off For Doctors Appointments Will Be Denied

Guess Even Time We Need Off For Doctors Appointments Will Be Denied

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#42

Dressing Room At The Doctors Office Has The Lock On The Outside!

Dressing Room At The Doctors Office Has The Lock On The Outside!

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4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Once nude, many people cannot resist the siren song telling them to run screaming through the crowded doctors office.

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#44

How People Leave Their Shoes At The Doctor’s Office

How People Leave Their Shoes At The Doctor’s Office

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#45

My Doctors Enthusiastic Bandaging

My Doctors Enthusiastic Bandaging

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Bec
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4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hopefully not the U. S. do you know what insurance is going to charge for those bandages!

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#46

Broke My Hand And Doctors Are Acting Like It’s Nothing

Broke My Hand And Doctors Are Acting Like It’s Nothing

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4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

From OP on Reddit: "I broke my hand roller skating 4 days ago and they said to talk to an orthopedic surgeon to find out if I need surgery or not, since I broke the scaphoid bone and if it’s displaced or doesn’t heal enough in a certain time frame, will need surgery. The 4 walk in clinics we went to either didn’t take Medicaid, didn’t take united healthcare, or only did what the ER already did. Called my Doctor and she put in an urgent request to children’s mercy and an AUTOMATED ROBOT said they give us a call back in 3-5 BUSINESS DAYS. They said I needed to be in a cast by day 10. It’s day 5. A call back in 3-5 business days PLUS the time needed to schedule an appointment. I hate American healthcare"

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#47

The Floor At My Doctors Office

The Floor At My Doctors Office

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4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Better than the example I just looked this has some semblance of a pattern.

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#48

Apparently This Guy Is My New Doctor

Apparently This Guy Is My New Doctor

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#49

Doctor Gave Me A Cd Rom To View My Sons X Rays

Doctor Gave Me A Cd Rom To View My Sons X Rays

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4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So? Aside from some sloppy labeling, this is secure. Provided you still have something with a CD player ;)

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