Not trying to be an a** or anything, but is it just me or has "trying to control me" become a new scapegoat phrase in recent years?

He should play disney songs everytime time he has a conversation with her. Then the video would be useless

It's not going to get better, dude. Once people fall into this "I'm an influencer!" trap, they do not seem to come out of it.

The home is supposed to be the ultimate safe space and now it's not. Boot the gf out, let her find 'content' elsewhere or have her pay you for filming you. Also, what she does is neither a job nor a career: it's utter BS and just self-gratification.

Definitely NTA, and she may be committing crimes because she is filming without his consent, and posting online. I feel bad the OP has rose tinted spectacles when it comes to this relationship, so many red flags, he deserves someone who respects him, and his needs, he's gone above and beyond for her BS, I'd have broken it off if my SO had done anything similar.

I don't agree with the opinion that content creation can't be a job. In fact, when done properly, it is a lot of work and requires knowledge and skill. That's what many people (including wannabe influencers) don't understand. Be that as it may, it's funny how it's always the selfish ones that accuse others of being selfish. "You don't support me and my career", well, girl, you're not doing a whole lot of supporting either, are you?

Run, my friend run fast, run far! This woman is a bigger red flag than Planet Mars itself. You're living in The Truman Show 24/7 but you know it. Dump this crazy garbage now and sue her for breaking privacy (many laws are about consent, and tell the platforms shes uses they might be considered her accomplices, they don't like legal stuff that much). I love the comment about Disney music.

NTA. I had a now former friend respond in deeply disturbing ways after I requested she never take my photo without permission. She knew enough about my past around the boundary for me to have not needed to ask in the first place. Initially, she acted respectful, then annoyed, then she did something to intentionally attempt to trigger trauma around said camera boundaries. I never confronted her about it, because it took a while for me to admit to myself that she did what she did to "get back" at me for requesting - twice - this boundary around privacy. I haven't gotten around to processing it in therapy yet, but, to me, these people are next level abusive. I hope OP falls out of love, because she's showing him she was never the woman he fell in love with. What a trash human.

I'm surprised I didn't see any crazy YTAs as usual

The internet really does screw people up. Needing constant attention and validation at the cost of friendships and relationships. My friend is a food blogger so anytime we have a meal, she would take ages perfecting shots of our food, to the point where I started having to eat cold food. We have an agreement now where she has exactly two minutes to take photos of my food, then I eat. She can d**k around with hers as long as she likes.

If she's making money at it, good. But most are not. She could very easily rent a studio to film her content. Or maybe they could get a bigger apartment and they can choose one room as her studio. But this is her thing, and their private conversations are not her content.

Tell her to take her camera and go. If she had anything remotely interesting to say, she wouldn't need to record you.

I can't believe he didn't get her arrested, there are such things as privacy laws.

What are "influencers" actually doing other than invading people's privacy, posting the videos they've made, & providing their "artistic content" to voyeurs? This GF has no respect for OP. He should not even have to tell her what his boundaries are. If she truly loved him she would not be taking advantage of him in this way. His apartment has become her studio & he's just a character - or maybe she considers him a prop - in these "masterpieces." Her "career"? Is this little hobby bringing in any $? Does she have a job & contribute to their expenses? Rather than suggesting she might consider moving out, OP should tell her to get out, rent an apartment which can also serve as her "film studio," maybe hire a couple starving actors. And as for their personal relationship, if she's still interested in OP, even tho his apartment won't be her free studio set any longer, nor will he be her free content, they can share their relationship at his apartment, but NO cameras allowed (then he should start looking throughout his apartment for hidden cameras). OP says he loves her - why? She's nothing but a selfish user.

I would have been out at the first tik tok

I'd report every episode with me in it to the platform she's posting it on. It's in violation of privacy laws since nothing was signed to give consent. They'll have to remove them all. Then where is her "career" if she just lost all of her content?

I think that influencers only exist because there’s idioters who follow them…

Sung loudly and badly. Walk around the place nude. Wave your c**k at the camera.

Influencers aren't employed, they're leeches.

Can there be an established "private" space. Like a designated "man cave" where she can never film or record, and OP can have a safe space? Another comment about boundaries...there is a fine line between having stated boundaries that you stand up for, and weaponizing boundaries to try and get the other person to do what you want them to do. OP can state his boundaries and insist GF respect them or move out. Then GF gets to decide for herself what is important to her.