Not trying to be an a** or anything, but is it just me or has "trying to control me" become a new scapegoat phrase in recent years?

He should play disney songs everytime time he has a conversation with her. Then the video would be useless

I laughed so hard at the speaker with Disney music comment, that is genius! It probably won't help the relationship, but giving the girlfriend's reaction it seems that ship has sailed anyway.

It's not going to get better, dude. Once people fall into this "I'm an influencer!" trap, they do not seem to come out of it.

Definitely NTA, and she may be committing crimes because she is filming without his consent, and posting online. I feel bad the OP has rose tinted spectacles when it comes to this relationship, so many red flags, he deserves someone who respects him, and his needs, he's gone above and beyond for her BS, I'd have broken it off if my SO had done anything similar.

I don't agree with the opinion that content creation can't be a job. In fact, when done properly, it is a lot of work and requires knowledge and skill. That's what many people (including wannabe influencers) don't understand. Be that as it may, it's funny how it's always the selfish ones that accuse others of being selfish. "You don't support me and my career", well, girl, you're not doing a whole lot of supporting either, are you?

Run, my friend run fast, run far! This woman is a bigger red flag than Planet Mars itself. You're living in The Truman Show 24/7 but you know it. Dump this crazy garbage now and sue her for breaking privacy (many laws are about consent, and tell the platforms shes uses they might be considered her accomplices, they don't like legal stuff that much). I love the comment about Disney music.

NTA. I had a now former friend respond in deeply disturbing ways after I requested she never take my photo without permission. She knew enough about my past around the boundary for me to have not needed to ask in the first place. Initially, she acted respectful, then annoyed, then she did something to intentionally attempt to trigger trauma around said camera boundaries. I never confronted her about it, because it took a while for me to admit to myself that she did what she did to "get back" at me for requesting - twice - this boundary around privacy. I haven't gotten around to processing it in therapy yet, but, to me, these people are next level abusive. I hope OP falls out of love, because she's showing him she was never the woman he fell in love with. What a trash human.

I'm surprised I didn't see any crazy YTAs as usual

The internet really does screw people up. Needing constant attention and validation at the cost of friendships and relationships. My friend is a food blogger so anytime we have a meal, she would take ages perfecting shots of our food, to the point where I started having to eat cold food. We have an agreement now where she has exactly two minutes to take photos of my food, then I eat. She can d**k around with hers as long as she likes.

If she's making money at it, good. But most are not. She could very easily rent a studio to film her content. Or maybe they could get a bigger apartment and they can choose one room as her studio. But this is her thing, and their private conversations are not her content.

I think that influencers only exist because there’s idioters who follow them…

"I love her so much" - dude, she doesn't love you. You're merely a prop in her life. Influencers, Gah!

Influencers are a plague!! Play Disney songs or the Eagles whenever she tries filming around you, all her content will have the audio censored or the entire video even removed and possibly even her account banned.

" influencer" isn't even a real job! Run dude run! It's only going to get worse.

This influencer thing is like a d**g to those who get into it. I personally would tell her to leave or better yet you leave so you know there are no hidden cameras around. I know you love her, but this is just going to get worse. Give it time and you will heal.

BP needs to stop posting headlines that make the OP sound like they’re obviously in the wrong when their actual post makes it crystal clear that they’re right. Yes, I get it, it’s clickbait. It’s also USDA Prime BS. Enough already.

Oh heck no. She is violating his privacy and expressed wishes.

When I saw the clickbait title, I immediately know it's about "influenzas" (I refuse to acknowledge the other moniker). Vapid useless attention hogging breed of "humans"

Depending on where they live, the girlfriend may be breaking the law by filming the personal conversation he had with her. My state is one-party consent, but not all are. But illegal or not, it's a huge violation of trust. I would not want to live in the Truman show.

Sung loudly and badly. Walk around the place nude. Wave your c**k at the camera.

Influencers aren't employed, they're leeches.

Can there be an established "private" space. Like a designated "man cave" where she can never film or record, and OP can have a safe space? Another comment about boundaries...there is a fine line between having stated boundaries that you stand up for, and weaponizing boundaries to try and get the other person to do what you want them to do. OP can state his boundaries and insist GF respect them or move out. Then GF gets to decide for herself what is important to her.