I’m Being Bullied, Including By A Teacher. Help?
I (dumb choice) told my friend that my openly gay friend was gay. She just didn’t know and I didn’t know it was that much of a secret. She got mad and then our friend group broke up. (Well, I was banished, at least) I apologized via text, I didn’t want to go to her house to give her an apology letter, she made a death threat against me. I later heard she made a list of ways to kill me, and was calling me the b-word, retarted, and the n-word behind my back, and saying I would grow up to be a stripper. I couldn’t take it anymore, I reported her on my school’s “report bullying” app. The principal took her into her office and talked to them, and brought her parents in. She denied everything that I said. And then said “I had to block my calls and emails as she was constantly bullying me” and I got framed. I never called her, or emailed her. I only texted her “sorry”, a lot of times. Later, her father, the middle school math teacher, (former elementary school math teacher) sent an email to all the parents in my grade saying they shouldn’t let their kids hang out with me. (With his district email!!!) Can someone please give me some advice?
Just something I made in an attempt to cheer myself up
I (dumb choice) told my friend that my openly gay friend was gay. She just didn’t know and I didn’t know it was that much of a secret. She got mad and then our friend group broke up. (Well, I was banished, at least) I apologized via text, I didn’t want to go to her house to give her an apology letter, she made a death threat against me. I later heard she made a list of ways to kill me, and was calling me the b-word, retarted, and the n-word behind my back, and saying I would grow up to be a stripper. I couldn’t take it anymore, I reported her on my school’s “report bullying” app. The principal took her into her office and talked to them, and brought her parents in. She denied everything that I said. And then said “I had to block my calls and emails as she was constantly bullying me” and I got framed. I never called her, or emailed her. I only texted her “sorry”, a lot of times. Later, her father, the middle school math teacher, (former elementary school math teacher) sent an email to all the parents in my grade saying they shouldn’t let their kids hang out with me. (With his district email!!!) Can someone please give me some advice?
Just something I made in an attempt to cheer myself up
Thanks for all the helpful advice, I will screenshot it, I’m going to delete this post, so just in case someone I know sees it (prob not but you never know it’s the internet)
Those people are jerks and wrong. Being blamed for something you didn't do is awful. I would show my parents proof of what they did if you haven't already, and even the principal or school counselor. I'm so sorry.
Also, if they are going to bully you about something like that, a simple mistake, they are not your friends and stay away from them.
Load More Replies...Forward the email from your teacher to the Principal, and the superintendent. Never talk to your former friend without recording on your phone or computer (unless your state is a 2 party consent state. then this is illegal without their knowledge). Given how badly this has turned out, I would avoid their friends as well. Start documenting any and all instances of perceived bullying with when, where, who, what. Don't over-dramasize it.Keep your cool, keep your head down until you're out of your math teacher's grade.
No, don’t keep your head down! That’s telling your friend that you’re hurt by her words, and she will be worse. If you ignore her, eventually she will lose interest. I hope it gets better for you, Misty. -Tsunami the Water Dragon
Load More Replies...Thanks for all the helpful advice, I will screenshot it, I’m going to delete this post, so just in case someone I know sees it (prob not but you never know it’s the internet)
Those people are jerks and wrong. Being blamed for something you didn't do is awful. I would show my parents proof of what they did if you haven't already, and even the principal or school counselor. I'm so sorry.
Also, if they are going to bully you about something like that, a simple mistake, they are not your friends and stay away from them.
Load More Replies...Forward the email from your teacher to the Principal, and the superintendent. Never talk to your former friend without recording on your phone or computer (unless your state is a 2 party consent state. then this is illegal without their knowledge). Given how badly this has turned out, I would avoid their friends as well. Start documenting any and all instances of perceived bullying with when, where, who, what. Don't over-dramasize it.Keep your cool, keep your head down until you're out of your math teacher's grade.
No, don’t keep your head down! That’s telling your friend that you’re hurt by her words, and she will be worse. If you ignore her, eventually she will lose interest. I hope it gets better for you, Misty. -Tsunami the Water Dragon
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