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They Told Me It’s Just Imflammation, So I Changed My Doctor And It Turned Out To Be Cancer
When I first heard the diagnosis, my life completely changed. I’ve had problems with health and especially urinating for about 2 years and my first doctor did not want to belive that my problems are worse than imflammation. When my problems worsened, I changed my doctor. I was immediately sent to CT and the results were disturbing – 3 cm tumor in my bladder. In less than a week, I found myself sitting in the hospital hall, waiting for my admission for surgery to remove the tumor, called TURT. This is my struggle throughout the hardest time of my life.
Getting my medical report while waiting in the hospital hallway
After being listed in my room, I suffered massive depression. I felt nothing but fear for this was my first time in hospital and my first surgery ever
Next morning I was awakened by nurse. The time of my surgery has come
Me after surgery. I’ve been drugged and confused; with urinary catether between my legs. The night that followed I suffered extreme pain with massive bleeding, so I was sent straight to ICU to fix the problems. I don’t remember anything, because I was under sedatives
A woke up like this, with analgesics over my head. A nurse hung my star of David there to make me happier for I was completely unable to move
Next morning I felt much better, but I was still kept under strong analgesics
First time dared to look down… not the best view at all…
My GF hung Israeli flag out the window to give me strenght. We lived directly opposite the hospital and this beautiful act of love actually made me cry
When I felt better, this book became my best friend. It became my personal favorite book!
After 8 days my health condition went rapidly better. Pain was gone and I felt stronger than ever
Next day the Nurse with medical results from histology arrived: the tumor was completely removed and there are no signs of secondary cancer cells! This was the best thing I ever heard in my life – better than any symphony, any song I heard before
Later that day I was visited by guys from local beer shop where I am a regular costumer. They brought me some gingerbeer, mate and ale just to make me happy! The sign on the paper says: “Towards new experiences and drink the life to the bottom :)” My faith in humanity rose 9000 points higher
On the 10th day, I was released home. Still a little confused, I shaved my beard as a sign of the beginning of my new life
After a moth. Some medical things are still in progress, but I feel like a new person and I’ll do my best to make others as happy as they made me with all those little things that helped me to survive this horrific experience of my life
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Rebecca Paquette 7 years ago
I'm sooo grateful you have pulled through this experience. Your humor, and hope for a lovely full life is a reward to me, today. Many in the world have seen and heard you. Best of luck to you, every day.
Efraim Ondrej Kubik (Post author) 7 years ago
Thank you! May your days will be always beautiful and full of joy!
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Ditto 7 years ago
I love anthem, truly an amazing read. So glad you fought through this, best wishes to you.
Efraim Ondrej Kubik (Post author) 7 years ago
It is fascinating. Thanks for your nice words!
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LittleGirlWithShortLegs 7 years ago
It's surprising what love and friends can do to help and move us forward. I wish the best to you, your girlfriend, and the friends who sent you books and beers. :)
Efraim Ondrej Kubik (Post author) 7 years ago
Many thanks to you! I was stunned by that unbeliveably good that went all around me when I was in hospital. I never experienced something like this - you know, being introvert with deep depressions etc... but this turned my life toward new star. I trust people more now and I do belive that there is much more in everyone of us. Thank you again for your kind words.
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La 7 years ago
Congratulations! I hope your story can help others through their journey to recovery. <3
Efraim Ondrej Kubik (Post author) 7 years ago
That's what I hope my story will bring to others :) thank you, La.
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John Moreno 7 years ago
Best of luck, Efraim. It sounds like you have a great support system there. A wonderful girlfriend, your faith and now many strangers wishing you a speedy recovery. Your strength and honesty have inspired ...
Efraim Ondrej Kubik (Post author) 7 years ago
I am so grateful for your words. Thank you, thank you! Have a beautiful day!
Load More Replies... anna christine watson 7 years ago
Your an amazing fighter. Trust me you have some posts that can make your heart actually feel bad for someone!!! Thanks for fighting through the pain!!! best of wishes
Audrey Gauci 7 years ago
Good job. I've never had surgery but I can imagine how scary it would be. Good job on pulling through ☺
Efraim Ondrej Kubik (Post author) 7 years ago
Moc dekuju :) strasne si toho vazim.
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Efraim Ondrej Kubik (Post author) 7 years ago
Thank you :) I am proud to be Jewish!
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Eglė Liubinaitė 7 years ago
Poor guy... But I'm happy that you're strong and still happy though. Best wishes to you from Lithuania!
Silent Skeleton 7 years ago
Keep on keepin on man, you've got a lot of great people by your side. .(….\…………../….) . \….\……….. /…./ …\….\………./…./ ….\…./´¯.I.¯`\./ …./… I….I..(¯¯¯`\ …I…..I….I…¯¯.\…\ …I…..I´¯.I´¯.I..\…) …\…..` ¯..¯ ´…….’ ….\_________.?´ …..lo o o o o ol …..lo o o o o ol …..lo o o o o o|
Gina Ferioli 7 years ago
Hello Efraim, I can relate to this so much. I lived with a tumor on my palate for over four years, visiting dentists, stomatologists and endodontists who didn't have a clue what that pink spot in my palate was until a dentist surgeon told me he was going to request a biopsy. For four years I knew something was wrong but I could never have imagined it was cancer, so when the results came in I collapsed. It's such an awful moment to discover these kinds of news, but here I am, two after having surgery, strong as ever. Never lose hope, it's only way up from now, with all the control and medical studies, but keep in mind that you're one of the lucky ones that got the chance of telling his story and that you're alive. If you feel down, remember there's people who love you and want to see you happy. Cheers for you mate.
Jazmyn B (Jaz) 7 years ago
I love this... Stupid doctors, mis-diagnosing you. It's a good thing you changed doctors otherwise you could be dead (sorry to put it bluntly, but it IS true). The new nurses were amazing, I'm so happy you pulled through and were able to look back at it as just a bad memory/experience. Stay strong <3
dikla kuzy 7 years ago
Sorry. Thank you for sharing this. I hope that you Will feel better. I lost my mother to cancer and i know how hard is it to deal with that oweful desi
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ldao 7 years ago
Efraim - I'm so happy that you've had a kind of rebirth both physical and spiritual. It is a indeed a blessing that is hidden from us in many ways, and even though the same world was there before and now, they must look completely different. Wishing you good health now and always.
Karan Vyas 7 years ago
Keep the spirit going, and special thanks to your friends that those guys helped you in every moment of yours so as you can make yourself better.
Alusair Alustriel 7 years ago
Hello! I read your story and I hope that this is the end of it. At least the cancer one. I struggled with that viscious disease in my family - my mom had a breat tumor, my grandpa died of a tumor in prostate which gave metastasis to the colon. It's a very rough, exhausting disease, both physically and mentally, so I wish you a lot of strength, especially you will have to probably face a check-up every six months for the next 5 years + medicines that won;t allow to new cancer cells appear. But with love and friends and positive attitude you will get through all of it I am sure! Best of health, luck and everything good!
Alusair Alustriel 7 years ago
Oh, and my mom beat the damn thing! Just to make it clear :) She's beginning the last year of chemotheraphy in pills.
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Iris Omri-Engler 7 years ago
Was there too last year with bladder cancer. Four operations within six months. My first operations ever. Wish you all the best.
Eja Stefanelli 7 years ago
That's so inspirational; thanks for sharing! You are a real hero. Wishing you a happy, beautiful life.
Lyone Fein 7 years ago
Thanking God for your recovery. And thank you, Ephraim, for posting your inspirational story. God's miracles are great. I am also Jewish, and it is good to see someone like you who is so proud of your Jewish roots. Good luck in all you do!!
Donna Reynolds 7 years ago
Have hope. I have been through this same cancer three times. After the 3rd, they recommend BCG, chemo. You do not lose your hair. 6 treatments. I have been cancer free for 3 years. All is well.
Nevaeh Struck - RTM Student 7 years ago
Hey, I wish you the best, and Im glad that you made this experience so positive! :)
Nikita L Brits 7 years ago
Happened with my mom. They told it's just inflammation in her back. Now she has breast cancer and bone cancer then getting an MRI done to see if the cancer has spread to her brain.
Efraim Ondrej Kubik (Post author) 7 years ago
Only the human factor here. One does not have to Rand's fan to be a good porson and voce versa :)
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Allie Orona 7 years ago
That's amazing! Congratulations, because that's such an amazing accomplishment. I hope everything goes well for you! Also, anthem is such a nice book. :)
MSD 7 years ago
My father had bladder cancer when I was a child. It's an experience I wouldn't wish on anyone! Thankfully he's been cancer free for over 10 years now. The strength that you discovered in yourself through this will carry you forward as you share your life with others. Thank you for having the courage to share your pain. Your optimism shone through despite your fears. May God continue to pour out his blessings on you and your life.
Efraim Ondrej Kubik (Post author) 7 years ago
Thank you very much for sharing your father's story with me and also for you wishes. Thank you!
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Rebecca Claridge 7 years ago
My father has been diagnosed with bladder cancer and had his second operation today...I am glad to hear the operation has gone well for you :)
Efraim Ondrej Kubik (Post author) 7 years ago
Thank you. Please, give your father all good that's inside you. Do not let him think (not even for a split second) that he's alone. I wish only the best for your father. He must be ok, and he will be ok! Xoxo
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Princillia Shelu 7 years ago
i want to specially thank rick simpson for providing me with cannabis oil for curing my boyfriend from cancer please never let your love once die of cancer just because of this stupid cancer contact him viA email ricksimpsoncannabisoil41@gmail.com
Marcus Hiles 7 years ago
Once, my friend and I went to treat the dog. It was a tragic story. Do not use the services of a doctor: https://patch.com/new-york/midhudsonvalley/what-kenny-slaught
David Cahyo 7 years ago
Wow you're a brave man! I hope you're okay right now. I have a friend who was just like you (even I knew about his condition when he uploaded his pics in the hospital on facebook). He has parotic tumor and just had his surgery. I really want to say nice things to him but I'm not sure what to say to someone who have been through a lot like you and him. I really hope things are getting better man. You're lucky to have a girlfriend and friends who supported you :D
Katinka Min 7 years ago
??? Why would someone keep making selfies during this scenario and then post them online??? I guess I'm just way too old to understand millenials.
Efraim Ondrej Kubik (Post author) 7 years ago
To warn other young people.
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Efraim Ondrej Kubik (Post author) 7 years ago
Thanks, Zaneta! Have a wonderful days!
Load More Replies... Zuzka Zrzka 7 years ago
Ahoj Ondřej, vďaka, že si sa podelil o svoj príbeh. Dokazuje, že maličkosti sú základom šťastia aj v tých najťažších situáciách a je veľmi dôležité, aby sa na nich ľudia sústredili a boli za nich vďační. Žiaľ, nie každý má takú silu ako Ty a vo svojom hneve a zármutku ich prehliada. Verím, že tvoj príbeh si prečíta práve niekto taký a pomôže mu začať sa dívať na malé kúsky šťastia, ktoré sú všade okolo. Buď šťastný!
Efraim Ondrej Kubik (Post author) 7 years ago
Děkuju za krásný slova. Přeju ti jen to nejlepší do života :)
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Melody Lanzatella 7 years ago
Efraim! SO happy for you! I went thru the same sort of thing! Misdiagnosed tumor! I too went to a different doctor. 20 years later, STILL AMONGST THE LIVING! I am very happy that you will be doing the same! It gives you an ENTIRELY NEW view of life and what REALLY matters! SO sweet how the nurse hung your Star of David and then your GF hanging the flag where you could see it! During tough times, it truly is the little things, the things that people do for you, just to let you know that you are LOVED! Thank you so much for sharing your intimate journey! It will be of help to others that are going thru the same thing! So...above the final pic, you said, "After a moth," Just wondering, are moths a regular thing for you? Or was it something different?? How did it taste?? LOL! Obviously just kidding, thought it was a cute/humorous typo. hee hee! Enough about all of that... about the beard...I MUST chime in here. Your face is FAR too handsome! And that wonderfully, manly, strong, ...cont....
Melody Lanzatella 7 years ago
Continuation: chisled jaw! It is ALMOST BLASPHEMOUS to cover all of that with a beard! I am sorry, but I just HAD to voice my opinion on that! There are FAR too few perfect, manly jawlines in this world! Share it with the world!! I would say (like MY opinion means ANYTHING!!! it doesnt.) If you feel you absolutely CANNOT do without a beard, I implore you...make it a sort of, "5 oclock shadow" type of a beard! So that your jawline is still visible?!?! (I bet your GF agrees, does she not??) Now, I have blathered on far too long! Congrats and continued GREAT health to you and yours! Ciao!
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Efraim Ondrej Kubik (Post author) 7 years ago
I was the 1% unlucky guy who get it just like that. I don't smoke, do no drugs, living healthy life. That's why I am now still cooperating with doctors - they need people like me to do some medical research. To find possibilities of how it could start in my case.
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Nemo 7 years ago
Go you, go your girlfriend, and go your local beer shop guys. I love it when a community pulls together and I hope you retain the optimism and kick the cancer forever!
Rebecca Paquette 7 years ago
I'm sooo grateful you have pulled through this experience. Your humor, and hope for a lovely full life is a reward to me, today. Many in the world have seen and heard you. Best of luck to you, every day.
Efraim Ondrej Kubik (Post author) 7 years ago
Thank you! May your days will be always beautiful and full of joy!
Load More Replies... Ditto 7 years ago
I love anthem, truly an amazing read. So glad you fought through this, best wishes to you.
Efraim Ondrej Kubik (Post author) 7 years ago
It is fascinating. Thanks for your nice words!
Load More Replies... LittleGirlWithShortLegs 7 years ago
It's surprising what love and friends can do to help and move us forward. I wish the best to you, your girlfriend, and the friends who sent you books and beers. :)
Efraim Ondrej Kubik (Post author) 7 years ago
Many thanks to you! I was stunned by that unbeliveably good that went all around me when I was in hospital. I never experienced something like this - you know, being introvert with deep depressions etc... but this turned my life toward new star. I trust people more now and I do belive that there is much more in everyone of us. Thank you again for your kind words.
Load More Replies... La 7 years ago
Congratulations! I hope your story can help others through their journey to recovery. <3
Efraim Ondrej Kubik (Post author) 7 years ago
That's what I hope my story will bring to others :) thank you, La.
Load More Replies... John Moreno 7 years ago
Best of luck, Efraim. It sounds like you have a great support system there. A wonderful girlfriend, your faith and now many strangers wishing you a speedy recovery. Your strength and honesty have inspired ...
Efraim Ondrej Kubik (Post author) 7 years ago
I am so grateful for your words. Thank you, thank you! Have a beautiful day!
Load More Replies... anna christine watson 7 years ago
Your an amazing fighter. Trust me you have some posts that can make your heart actually feel bad for someone!!! Thanks for fighting through the pain!!! best of wishes
Audrey Gauci 7 years ago
Good job. I've never had surgery but I can imagine how scary it would be. Good job on pulling through ☺
Efraim Ondrej Kubik (Post author) 7 years ago
Moc dekuju :) strasne si toho vazim.
Load More Replies... Efraim Ondrej Kubik (Post author) 7 years ago
Thank you :) I am proud to be Jewish!
Load More Replies... Eglė Liubinaitė 7 years ago
Poor guy... But I'm happy that you're strong and still happy though. Best wishes to you from Lithuania!
Silent Skeleton 7 years ago
Keep on keepin on man, you've got a lot of great people by your side. .(….\…………../….) . \….\……….. /…./ …\….\………./…./ ….\…./´¯.I.¯`\./ …./… I….I..(¯¯¯`\ …I…..I….I…¯¯.\…\ …I…..I´¯.I´¯.I..\…) …\…..` ¯..¯ ´…….’ ….\_________.?´ …..lo o o o o ol …..lo o o o o ol …..lo o o o o o|
Gina Ferioli 7 years ago
Hello Efraim, I can relate to this so much. I lived with a tumor on my palate for over four years, visiting dentists, stomatologists and endodontists who didn't have a clue what that pink spot in my palate was until a dentist surgeon told me he was going to request a biopsy. For four years I knew something was wrong but I could never have imagined it was cancer, so when the results came in I collapsed. It's such an awful moment to discover these kinds of news, but here I am, two after having surgery, strong as ever. Never lose hope, it's only way up from now, with all the control and medical studies, but keep in mind that you're one of the lucky ones that got the chance of telling his story and that you're alive. If you feel down, remember there's people who love you and want to see you happy. Cheers for you mate.
Jazmyn B (Jaz) 7 years ago
I love this... Stupid doctors, mis-diagnosing you. It's a good thing you changed doctors otherwise you could be dead (sorry to put it bluntly, but it IS true). The new nurses were amazing, I'm so happy you pulled through and were able to look back at it as just a bad memory/experience. Stay strong <3
dikla kuzy 7 years ago
Sorry. Thank you for sharing this. I hope that you Will feel better. I lost my mother to cancer and i know how hard is it to deal with that oweful desi
Load More Replies... ldao 7 years ago
Efraim - I'm so happy that you've had a kind of rebirth both physical and spiritual. It is a indeed a blessing that is hidden from us in many ways, and even though the same world was there before and now, they must look completely different. Wishing you good health now and always.
Karan Vyas 7 years ago
Keep the spirit going, and special thanks to your friends that those guys helped you in every moment of yours so as you can make yourself better.
Alusair Alustriel 7 years ago
Hello! I read your story and I hope that this is the end of it. At least the cancer one. I struggled with that viscious disease in my family - my mom had a breat tumor, my grandpa died of a tumor in prostate which gave metastasis to the colon. It's a very rough, exhausting disease, both physically and mentally, so I wish you a lot of strength, especially you will have to probably face a check-up every six months for the next 5 years + medicines that won;t allow to new cancer cells appear. But with love and friends and positive attitude you will get through all of it I am sure! Best of health, luck and everything good!
Alusair Alustriel 7 years ago
Oh, and my mom beat the damn thing! Just to make it clear :) She's beginning the last year of chemotheraphy in pills.
Load More Replies... Iris Omri-Engler 7 years ago
Was there too last year with bladder cancer. Four operations within six months. My first operations ever. Wish you all the best.
Eja Stefanelli 7 years ago
That's so inspirational; thanks for sharing! You are a real hero. Wishing you a happy, beautiful life.
Lyone Fein 7 years ago
Thanking God for your recovery. And thank you, Ephraim, for posting your inspirational story. God's miracles are great. I am also Jewish, and it is good to see someone like you who is so proud of your Jewish roots. Good luck in all you do!!
Donna Reynolds 7 years ago
Have hope. I have been through this same cancer three times. After the 3rd, they recommend BCG, chemo. You do not lose your hair. 6 treatments. I have been cancer free for 3 years. All is well.
Nevaeh Struck - RTM Student 7 years ago
Hey, I wish you the best, and Im glad that you made this experience so positive! :)
Nikita L Brits 7 years ago
Happened with my mom. They told it's just inflammation in her back. Now she has breast cancer and bone cancer then getting an MRI done to see if the cancer has spread to her brain.
Efraim Ondrej Kubik (Post author) 7 years ago
Only the human factor here. One does not have to Rand's fan to be a good porson and voce versa :)
Load More Replies... Allie Orona 7 years ago
That's amazing! Congratulations, because that's such an amazing accomplishment. I hope everything goes well for you! Also, anthem is such a nice book. :)
MSD 7 years ago
My father had bladder cancer when I was a child. It's an experience I wouldn't wish on anyone! Thankfully he's been cancer free for over 10 years now. The strength that you discovered in yourself through this will carry you forward as you share your life with others. Thank you for having the courage to share your pain. Your optimism shone through despite your fears. May God continue to pour out his blessings on you and your life.
Efraim Ondrej Kubik (Post author) 7 years ago
Thank you very much for sharing your father's story with me and also for you wishes. Thank you!
Load More Replies... Rebecca Claridge 7 years ago
My father has been diagnosed with bladder cancer and had his second operation today...I am glad to hear the operation has gone well for you :)
Efraim Ondrej Kubik (Post author) 7 years ago
Thank you. Please, give your father all good that's inside you. Do not let him think (not even for a split second) that he's alone. I wish only the best for your father. He must be ok, and he will be ok! Xoxo
Load More Replies... Princillia Shelu 7 years ago
i want to specially thank rick simpson for providing me with cannabis oil for curing my boyfriend from cancer please never let your love once die of cancer just because of this stupid cancer contact him viA email ricksimpsoncannabisoil41@gmail.com
Marcus Hiles 7 years ago
Once, my friend and I went to treat the dog. It was a tragic story. Do not use the services of a doctor: https://patch.com/new-york/midhudsonvalley/what-kenny-slaught
David Cahyo 7 years ago
Wow you're a brave man! I hope you're okay right now. I have a friend who was just like you (even I knew about his condition when he uploaded his pics in the hospital on facebook). He has parotic tumor and just had his surgery. I really want to say nice things to him but I'm not sure what to say to someone who have been through a lot like you and him. I really hope things are getting better man. You're lucky to have a girlfriend and friends who supported you :D
Katinka Min 7 years ago
??? Why would someone keep making selfies during this scenario and then post them online??? I guess I'm just way too old to understand millenials.
Efraim Ondrej Kubik (Post author) 7 years ago
To warn other young people.
Load More Replies... Efraim Ondrej Kubik (Post author) 7 years ago
Thanks, Zaneta! Have a wonderful days!
Load More Replies... Zuzka Zrzka 7 years ago
Ahoj Ondřej, vďaka, že si sa podelil o svoj príbeh. Dokazuje, že maličkosti sú základom šťastia aj v tých najťažších situáciách a je veľmi dôležité, aby sa na nich ľudia sústredili a boli za nich vďační. Žiaľ, nie každý má takú silu ako Ty a vo svojom hneve a zármutku ich prehliada. Verím, že tvoj príbeh si prečíta práve niekto taký a pomôže mu začať sa dívať na malé kúsky šťastia, ktoré sú všade okolo. Buď šťastný!
Efraim Ondrej Kubik (Post author) 7 years ago
Děkuju za krásný slova. Přeju ti jen to nejlepší do života :)
Load More Replies... Melody Lanzatella 7 years ago
Efraim! SO happy for you! I went thru the same sort of thing! Misdiagnosed tumor! I too went to a different doctor. 20 years later, STILL AMONGST THE LIVING! I am very happy that you will be doing the same! It gives you an ENTIRELY NEW view of life and what REALLY matters! SO sweet how the nurse hung your Star of David and then your GF hanging the flag where you could see it! During tough times, it truly is the little things, the things that people do for you, just to let you know that you are LOVED! Thank you so much for sharing your intimate journey! It will be of help to others that are going thru the same thing! So...above the final pic, you said, "After a moth," Just wondering, are moths a regular thing for you? Or was it something different?? How did it taste?? LOL! Obviously just kidding, thought it was a cute/humorous typo. hee hee! Enough about all of that... about the beard...I MUST chime in here. Your face is FAR too handsome! And that wonderfully, manly, strong, ...cont....
Melody Lanzatella 7 years ago
Continuation: chisled jaw! It is ALMOST BLASPHEMOUS to cover all of that with a beard! I am sorry, but I just HAD to voice my opinion on that! There are FAR too few perfect, manly jawlines in this world! Share it with the world!! I would say (like MY opinion means ANYTHING!!! it doesnt.) If you feel you absolutely CANNOT do without a beard, I implore you...make it a sort of, "5 oclock shadow" type of a beard! So that your jawline is still visible?!?! (I bet your GF agrees, does she not??) Now, I have blathered on far too long! Congrats and continued GREAT health to you and yours! Ciao!
Load More Replies... Efraim Ondrej Kubik (Post author) 7 years ago
I was the 1% unlucky guy who get it just like that. I don't smoke, do no drugs, living healthy life. That's why I am now still cooperating with doctors - they need people like me to do some medical research. To find possibilities of how it could start in my case.
Load More Replies... Nemo 7 years ago
Go you, go your girlfriend, and go your local beer shop guys. I love it when a community pulls together and I hope you retain the optimism and kick the cancer forever!
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