Husband Never Says ‘I Love You’ So Wife Teaches Him This Non-Verbal Sign And Now He’s Saying It ‘All The Time’

How do you show love and affection to the people you love? Each individual is different, and the different forms of communication we choose to express ourselves are all as valid as any other. The traditional eye-contact, hug, kiss or “I love you” are all great, but some people just aren’t comfortable with them!

Just because they choose a different love language it doesn’t make it any less meaningful.

This story, told by Tumblr user Bright-Eyed Bad Wolf is a perfect example of this. Her husband, for his own reasons, struggled to verbally express his love in the same way that she did. Rather than live a life of doubt about his lack of reciprocation, she decided to teach him another, more subtle non-verbal method – and it completely changed the nature of their relationship!

Husband Never Says 'I Love You' So Wife Teaches Him This Non-Verbal Sign And Now He's Saying It 'All The Time'

Image credits: Bright-Eyed Bad Wolf

Any method of showing affection, whether it be the traditional kind or something simple and sweet like this, is genuine. So if you feel like your loved ones can be a little distant at times, look a little closer. Chances are they don’t love you any less, they just choose to show it in different ways. Understanding this is so important to the health of any relationship!

Bright-Eyed Bad Wolf told Bored Panda that since she and her husband began using the non-verbal communication, their relationship has improved, but not because he needed to be taught anything. “It was more like something unlocked between us, or that I had found a way to sync our communication styles up,” she told us. “He has always been more about action than words in all things.”

“We had tried to address the imbalance before by talking it out, but it was largely unsuccessful given our Say vs Show communication styles. I don’t regret the time it took, I think this sort of dilemma is part of growing together as a couple.”

“Nowadays, about 6 years later, I still say it more, but I also recognize the body language and things he does as the equivalent displays of affection they are.”

Here’s what people had to say about the sweet little story

Husband Never Says 'I Love You' So Wife Teaches Him This Non-Verbal Sign And Now He's Saying It 'All The Time'

What do you think? Are you comfortable openly displaying affection for other people? Or do you prefer more subtle, discreet ways, such as a soft touches to show your love and appreciation? Let us know your thoughts in the comments below!

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AzKhaleesi 5 years ago

Its not exactly the same, but whenever my husband and kids make the heart symbol with their hands, I do it back. But I can never do it right. They tease me about it looking like an apple, so now when I text I send apple emojis instead of hearts. They love it. Once I sent an actual heart and they were upset. lol. so apples it is.

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