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“Husband Tries To Warn Neighbors About Their Landscaping, Gets Told To Mind His Own Business”
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“Husband Tries To Warn Neighbors About Their Landscaping, Gets Told To Mind His Own Business”

Interview With Author “Husband Tries To Warn Neighbors About Their Landscaping, Gets Told To Mind His Own Business”Guy Warns Neighbor About His Landscaping, Is Told To Mind His Own Business, Maliciously CompliesMan Tries To Warn Neighbor About His HOA Violations, He Doesn't Listen And Pays For ItPerson Faces Major HOA Fines After Ignoring Every Single Warning Neighbor Gave HimMan Tries To Warn Neighbor About His Landscaping, Gets Told Off So He Just Watches It EscalateMan Cusses Out A Neighbor Who Was Just Trying To Help, So He Lets Him Make Expensive MistakesMan Refuses To Take Neighbor's Advice On His Property Project, Regrets It After The HOA ComesMan Tries To Warn Neighbors About Rule-Breaking But Gets Told To Buzz Off, So He DoesMan Tells Neighbor To Buzz Off When He Tries To Warn Him About HOA, Regrets ItMan Leaves Ignorant Neighbor To Keep Going Against Every Single HOA Rule, Enjoys The Fallout
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The meaning behind the word ownership does lead some to assume that “if you own it, you’re king.” However, that’s not always the case as real estate is subject to things beyond one’s royal power, i.e. building regulations.

As such, if those go ignored and folks end up doing things that aren’t “any of the city’s business”, then sit back and eat some popcorn as one display of malicious compliance snowballs into some heavy fines and “I told you so” moments.

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    Landscaping and construction in and of themselves are serious deals—so much, in fact, that there’s an entire body of regulation governing it

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    This is so that neighbors like the one seen below don’t cause bigger problems by ignoring friendly warnings and crucial building requirements

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    Image credits: Karolina Grabowska (not the actual photo)

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    The best part is that the husband did exactly as he was told—minded his own business—and it still spiraled into chaos for the neighbor

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    Long story short, a Redditor recently shared how her husband tried to be nice and friendly to a neighbor who was doing some landscaping the wrong way, but was told on multiple occasions to mind his own beeswax.

    And you know what—that he did. His malicious compliance essentially allowed the neighbor to self-destruct all of his attempts at landscaping his own land in the most entertaining ways. Needless to say, the city and the HOA issued fines.

    Folks online enjoyed the story—so much, in fact, that some had to admit it’s not often that they agree with and support the actions of an HOA in a Reddit post.

    Besides folks pointing out how amazing karma is, others also pointed out how not consulting an arborist and building a “retaining wall” using cinder blocks could’ve ended in tears by making the whole property slide downhill and destroying the natural drainage.

    Turns out, many others were also annoyed by all the landscaping and construction the neighbor decided to do

    Bored Panda reached out to r/TenebrousSunshine, the author of the post, who explained that they turned to Reddit to vent about how obnoxious the neighbor is. And she’s not alone in this—pretty much the whole neighborhood thinks so.

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    A lot of the neighbors have been getting irritated by him. When cutting down the trees, they had chainsaws and wood chippers going off by 6:45am,” elaborated OP. “When pushing the dirt around and stuff, they had the bobcat going by 7am, six days a week, for weeks at a time.”

    “When people asked if they could not put the dirt in the street, they got told off too. And a few people have slightly lost control of their cars driving over where the dirt had been, thanks to the rain turning it into slick mud. I’m also sure the school bus complained to somebody as well.”

    OP explained that the neighbor’s “project” has been pretty much on and off since Black Friday—nearly 3 months at this point—with each part being shut down gradually.

    “I don’t think they learned their lesson because they’re still doing stupid [stuff]. (They did a lot of it to their front yard too, but this post was mainly about them trying to fight the city),” explained OP. “I really do think they’ll keep just doing whatever they want and will see what happens.”

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    We also asked OP if she knows why the neighbor is acting the way he is, and she was stumped. Her best guess was that the neighbor probably never lived as part of an HOA and just didn’t know any better, or they did landscaping in the past and just got away with whatever the result was.

    But OP noted that what the neighbor is doing isn’t too alarming as institutions are keeping an eye on him: “The 10ft wall caused us to panic for a little bit, but thankfully that got taken down after a week. We aren’t too worried (at least for the foreseeable future) about him doing anything that could hurt our property. Especially not with the city and the HOA keeping such a close eye on them right now.”

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    Rules for construction and landscaping are there for a very good reason—it’s all about safety and sustainability

    It goes without saying that building and landscaping code is put into force to keep very dangerous problems at bay. Safety being the keyword here, having a property that’s up to code means that things like the wiring will be safe, fire prevention will be at its finest, and the roof won’t collapse just because it decides to rain. There’s more, but you get the point.

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    Besides that, building codes have been proven to prevent a sucker punch to the wallet in case of things like natural disasters. The study pointed out $132 billion as a minimal ballpark. And that’s not just losing your own stuff, but also the subsequent cleanup, rebuilding and whatnot.

    Building codes are always improving, so safety standards will only get better with time. As such, your house will become progressively safer with time and upkeep, ensuring sustainability on top of that. And all it takes is to follow rules. Rules that benefit you and everyone else around you.

    This is besides ending up on the receiving end of potential violations caused by others. Potential violations that could have been avoided if someone was open, up front and followed the rules when it came to buildings. And no, this doesn’t mean that every house will look the same—that is actually not even a bad thing. But I digress.

    So, what are your thoughts on any of this? How would you have one-upped the malicious compliance in OP’s case? Share your takes and stories in the comment section below.

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    Folks approved of the karma that ensued, not only because it was maliciously compliant, but because the neighbor deserved it for being a jerk

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    Robertas Lisickis

    Robertas Lisickis

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    Some time ago, Robertas used to spend his days watching how deep the imprint in his chair will become as he wrote for Bored Panda. Wrote about pretty much everything under and beyond the sun. Not anymore, though. He's now probably playing Gwent or hosting Dungeons and Dragons adventures for those with an inclination for chaos.

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    Robertas Lisickis

    Robertas Lisickis

    Author, BoredPanda staff

    Some time ago, Robertas used to spend his days watching how deep the imprint in his chair will become as he wrote for Bored Panda. Wrote about pretty much everything under and beyond the sun. Not anymore, though. He's now probably playing Gwent or hosting Dungeons and Dragons adventures for those with an inclination for chaos.

    Vėja Elkimavičiūtė

    Vėja Elkimavičiūtė

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    I'm a visual editor at Bored Panda. Looking at pets and memes is the best part of my work. I love to travel and want to see the world. Still looking and exploring stuff I like and want to do so thats exciting... and sometimes not

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    Vėja Elkimavičiūtė

    Vėja Elkimavičiūtė

    Author, Community member

    I'm a visual editor at Bored Panda. Looking at pets and memes is the best part of my work. I love to travel and want to see the world. Still looking and exploring stuff I like and want to do so thats exciting... and sometimes not

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    JayWantsACat
    Community Member
    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The one time I'm on an HOA's side. I guess pigs do fly. lmao

    Sonja
    Community Member
    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Remember, the reason why regulation exist is because someday something happened. Something bad.

    Hey!
    Community Member
    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We're flower city; we've won multiple awards nationally. You cannot cut a tree on your land before having permission. Also, like my neighbor, if you cut a tree, you have to replant another one. Our neighbors cut their front lawn tree to build a garage. They had 2 years to plant another on their land. They did it in their backyard, at least 6 foot away from the house, following regulations. This guy had it coming and like someone else said why buy a land with multiple great trees if you don't want them? What a waste.

    StretcherBearer
    Community Member
    10 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Our cities are Tree Cities in Oregon.I believe that this is the law as well.

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    JayWantsACat
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The one time I'm on an HOA's side. I guess pigs do fly. lmao

    Sonja
    Community Member
    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Remember, the reason why regulation exist is because someday something happened. Something bad.

    Hey!
    Community Member
    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We're flower city; we've won multiple awards nationally. You cannot cut a tree on your land before having permission. Also, like my neighbor, if you cut a tree, you have to replant another one. Our neighbors cut their front lawn tree to build a garage. They had 2 years to plant another on their land. They did it in their backyard, at least 6 foot away from the house, following regulations. This guy had it coming and like someone else said why buy a land with multiple great trees if you don't want them? What a waste.

    StretcherBearer
    Community Member
    10 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Our cities are Tree Cities in Oregon.I believe that this is the law as well.

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