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“He Never Came Back”: Man’s $6,000 Adult Show Binge During Vegas Trip Shatters Marriage
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“He Never Came Back”: Man’s $6,000 Adult Show Binge During Vegas Trip Shatters Marriage

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Even when you think you know everything about your partner, they can still surprise you. Unfortunately, not all of these surprises turn out to be pleasant. There are moments when you see your significant other in a very different light. And you might even start suspecting them of cheating on you.

One anonymous woman turned to the r/relationship_advice community for some honest advice on handling a very delicate situation with her husband during their Las Vegas getaway. The online poster opened up about how her spouse ignored her attempts to contact him and spent thousands of dollars at a gentlemen’s club. Scroll down for the full story.

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    An anonymous woman begged the internet for advice after her husband went completely wild during their recent trip to Las Vegas

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    Some subtle changes in behavior can indicate that your partner might be cheating on you

    Verywell Mind explains that some of the most common signs that your partner might be cheating on you include changes in their communication and attitude, and an increased interest in their appearance.

    Moreover, potential cheaters also start spending more time away from home, lying about what they’re doing, and avoiding their partner.

    Some other common signs include changes in the couple’s sex life, money issues, and changes in how they use their technology.

    For instance, your significant other might become unreachable by phone at certain times of the day. They might change their phone or computer password without sharing it with you.

    Some cheaters also sneak off to take phone calls or are always secretly texting someone. Others reduce their social media use, clear their browser history, or turn off cloud sharing on their devices.

    Another subtle sign that your partner might be unfaithful is if their fitness tracker shows exercise at odd times of the day.

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    The author’s panic is understandable. Many people would be shocked if their partner suddenly stopped communicating with them and spent massive sums of money on adult entertainment.

    But the proverbial cherry on top was the lying. The author’s husband first attempted to deny that he went to an adult club. He also insisted that he didn’t cheat on his wife.

    We probably won’t ever find out what exactly happened at the gentlemen’s club. However, the husband’s behavior is full of potential red flags. The secrecy. The lying. The mind-boggling expenses. The choice of entertainment venue.

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    The husband’s suspicious behavior indicates that there are deeper problems at play here

    Don’t get us wrong, everyone can make mistakes, slightly slip up, or have doubts about their relationship. Everyone’s human after all. But this entire situation seems to allude to deeper issues with the relationship.

    The odds are that if someone secretly heads off to a gentlemen’s club, either they’re deeply dissatisfied with their romantic relationship, or they’ve secretly enjoyed this type of entertainment before.

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    It’s entirely possible that the husband isn’t having his physical or emotional needs met at home. But instead of communicating about this with his wife, he chose a different way to handle things.

    To play devil’s advocate a bit, it’s also possible that he was simply curious and got extremely carried away. Feeling ashamed, he tried to deny the obvious.

    The r/relationship_advice online community is very widely known on the internet. It’s home to 13 million members from all around the globe.

    The author’s post went viral, as many members of the popular subreddit rushed to offer their perspectives and share advice with the distraught woman.

    At the time of writing, her post had already gotten 6.3k upvotes and 2.9k comments. Unfortunately, we could not reach out to the author of the viral story.

    What do you think about the entire situation, Pandas? What advice would you give the woman? How would you react if you found out that your significant other spent tons of money on adult entertainment, ignored your attempts to reach out, and then lied about everything? Let us know what you think in the comments.

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    Many internet users wanted to share some advice with the woman. Here’s how they reacted to what happened

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    Jonas Grinevičius

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    Storytelling, journalism, and art are a core part of who I am. I've been writing and drawing ever since I could walk—there is nothing else I'd rather do. My formal education, however, is focused on politics, philosophy, and economics because I've always been curious about the gap between the ideal and the real. At work, I'm a Senior Writer and I cover a broad range of topics that I'm passionate about: from psychology and changes in work culture to healthy living, relationships, and design. In my spare time, I'm an avid hiker and reader, enjoy writing short stories, and love to doodle. I thrive when I'm outdoors, going on small adventures in nature. However, you can also find me enjoying a big mug of coffee with a good book (or ten) and entertaining friends with fantasy tabletop games and sci-fi movies.

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    Storytelling, journalism, and art are a core part of who I am. I've been writing and drawing ever since I could walk—there is nothing else I'd rather do. My formal education, however, is focused on politics, philosophy, and economics because I've always been curious about the gap between the ideal and the real. At work, I'm a Senior Writer and I cover a broad range of topics that I'm passionate about: from psychology and changes in work culture to healthy living, relationships, and design. In my spare time, I'm an avid hiker and reader, enjoy writing short stories, and love to doodle. I thrive when I'm outdoors, going on small adventures in nature. However, you can also find me enjoying a big mug of coffee with a good book (or ten) and entertaining friends with fantasy tabletop games and sci-fi movies.

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    Hi there! I am a Visual Editor at Bored Panda. My job is to ensure that all the articles are aesthetically pleasing. I get to work with a variety of topics ranging from all the relationship drama to lots and lots of memes and, my personal favorites, funny cute cats. When I am not perfecting the images, you can find me reading with a cup of matcha latte and a cat in my lap, taking photos (of my cat), getting lost in the forest, or simply cuddling with my cat... Did I mention that I love cats?

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    Gabija Saveiskyte

    Gabija Saveiskyte

    Author, BoredPanda staff

    Hi there! I am a Visual Editor at Bored Panda. My job is to ensure that all the articles are aesthetically pleasing. I get to work with a variety of topics ranging from all the relationship drama to lots and lots of memes and, my personal favorites, funny cute cats. When I am not perfecting the images, you can find me reading with a cup of matcha latte and a cat in my lap, taking photos (of my cat), getting lost in the forest, or simply cuddling with my cat... Did I mention that I love cats?

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    Sarah K
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    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Husband is a lying d******d. She needs to leave him.

    Stygtand
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree 6k is not lap dance money, and even if it was. I mean who the hell thinks its a good idea to visit stripclubs when you are not just married, but on a freaking vacation with your wife!!!!

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    The_Nicest_Misanthrope
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Never mind if he cheated or not - 6 grand on strippers is more than enough for divorce IMO!

    Sarah Matsoukis
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He's garbage and I'd be more pissed about the money at that point

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    Sarah K
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Husband is a lying d******d. She needs to leave him.

    Stygtand
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree 6k is not lap dance money, and even if it was. I mean who the hell thinks its a good idea to visit stripclubs when you are not just married, but on a freaking vacation with your wife!!!!

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    The_Nicest_Misanthrope
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Never mind if he cheated or not - 6 grand on strippers is more than enough for divorce IMO!

    Sarah Matsoukis
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He's garbage and I'd be more pissed about the money at that point

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