Damn. I know this is a horrible situation that OP and her kids are going through, and so many loving people have been hurt by it, but dammit if this isn't the most riveting thing I've ever read on Bored Panda. Gripping.

Food for thought: She didn't see any signs of cheating because he's been doing it the whole time they were together. . I know of a husband that cheated on his wife with her best friend. When wife found out she overdosed. Husband found her, called an ambulance and then died of a heart attack. Wife lived and cut off best friend.

Well, this story sounds a little made up, with the revelation of love at the end... Anyway, if it's real I feel really sorry for her. I can't say I was surprised when I read "married at 19 and 22, six years later with two kids and one on the way": married too young, had kids too young. I know people cheats at all ages, don't need to remind me, but STATISTICALLY speaking, marrying at a very young age usually leads to a failure in most cases. Again, please don't reply "we got married at 19 and we are still going strong 30 years later". Yes, thank you, it's like saying you had a car accident without wearing your seat belts and since you didn't got injured it means that seat belts are superfluous. No, you simply got lucky because statistically not wearing seat belts leads to more serious injuries. That being said, I'd be very cautious. This men seems violent and who knows what he could do.

I don't understand one thing - during the confrontation 'Tyler' lunged at 'Jess' and said she'd 'Regret thins' - Tyler's the husband and Jess is the bff having the affair with him, so yeah, what am I missing?

i had an ex who asked me to marry him i said yes. he then went into the army and during our time apart i found out not only was he not overseas like he said in his emails but he was cheating on me. his twin brother told me everything. his brother always said he didnt deserve a sweet girl like me so he told me everything since i deserved to kno. my ex was not happy. he thought he had his life planned out. a future wife, military job, new car etc. i think back on it and wonder y i said yes in the first place. im happily married now to the man of my dreams. hes the total opposite of my ex.

I really really really hope she and his brother at least hook up.

Wow, that blew up! Btw, OPs writing is really surprisingly good (usually Reddit posts aren't that well written), I'd recommend her to try and write a novel with her skill. It might as well help her to vent out the negative emotions. What a rollercoaster this read was!

Holy. C**p. The first thing I noticed: That the cheating husband lunged at his mistress telling her she'd 'regret this' - wow. what? WHAT? I'm just shocked at what horrible people those two are... I mean... sounds like **immediate** "Never-my-fault" business - and it's frightening to think that nothing of that personality showed up... so the OP was truly blindsided? Jackholes like that stbx-husband usually show their controlling/manipulative c**p in maaaany aspects of their personality... so what kind of psychopath is he that he can be literally completely different people in the same body?

I'm glad OP has been working through everything. She's got a ton of support--she'll be alright.

Tbh after reading this I got so mad a person could do this! it makes me loss faith in people!😡

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Oddly, there a tons of men who are super supportive, loving, and devoted to their wives BECAUSE they cheat. It's a bit weird, but happens enough for it to be a thing. Their affair partners get all the dirty, messy bits, the fights, the disagreements, etc. while they keep their wives on pedestals.

omg- tbh if i was in her position i would literally kms bc i cant handle a lot of things all at once ill go crazy.