Every love story on this planet has its origins. Your eyes meeting on a subway train. A message you send and regret immediately. A hit-or-miss shot at chatting them up that depletes all your confidence reserves for a year in advance. This is as nerve-wracking as it can be, but at the end of the day, you gotta follow your heart.
Luckily, people on Twitter are giving us a glimpse of how exactly the initial spark happened and where it led them in the most heart-melting “How it started/How it ended” Twitter thread. From asking for her Snapchat and bonding over a love of dogs to bluntly admitting having a crush on her, these tweets are here to remind us that the first move can always become life-changing.
So next time you've spent too long thinking of pressing the "send" button, remember that "just do it" is not only for sports.
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In order to find out more about finding love online, Bored Panda spoke to Jessie, who started the viral twitter thread “How it started/How it ended” by posting a snap of the first tweets between herself and her partner Julia, which led to their beautiful love story. Jessie’s tweet caused a stir on Twitter with 466K likes, 41.2K retweets, and 16.3K quote tweets.
Jessie told us that both she and Julia had fan accounts for Pitch Perfect and she had seen Julia's tweets before and found her now-partner super funny. “My ‘hand wave’ was as smooth as I could be because I really wanted to be her friend,” the woman said.
Six months later, the couple met in person when Jessie flew to meet Julia across the world. “And right now, we're waiting for her to receive her visa so she can come live with me in the US,” she said in excitement.
Jessie suggested that everyone try their luck at finding love online because “it’s so easy to connect with people with similar mindsets and interests and I think the internet can be an amazing place for meeting your soulmate.” And we can’t agree more!
There’s never an easy way to find your other half you’d like to spend the rest of your life with (or at least, a part of it). But with the recent surge in the use of digital technology, more and more people are meeting their partners online instead of in school, at work, or through friends and family.
A recent study by sociologists Michael Rosenfeld and Sonia Hausen of Stanford University showed that between 1995 to 2017, meeting through friends saw the largest decline, from 33% of couples at the start of the period to just 20% at the end.
Moreover, the study revealed that 39% of heterosexual couples and 60% of same-sex couples in the US that ended up dating had first met online. The results showed that online dating has fortunately lost its initial stigma and has recently become by far the most common way that Americans find their partners.
Recently, Pew Research Center reported another interesting factor in online dating. The "How Couples Meet and Stay Together 2017" survey data found that couples who meet online are, in fact, more likely to be diverse in choosing a partner who is different from them in race or ethnicity, education, political party, or income.
Three-in-ten of those who say they met their partner online report that their partner is a different race or ethnicity, compared with 19% of those who met their partner offline. Moreover, those who met their partner online are also somewhat more likely to say that they and their partner do not identify with the same political party (46% vs. 40%).
And finally, people who met their other half online are more likely than those who met offline to identify as lesbian, gay, or bisexual (13% of those who met their partner online identify as LGBT, in comparison to 4% who met them offline.)
With a lot of these, we can't get any idea of the story in the beginning because there's a little bit of text with no context.
Is it just me or is "how it ended" a weird way of putting it? Like it makes me it's about break up/divorce
Oh god, who cares! Just let people be happy! It has no effect on you.
Load More Replies...Awee did you see how excited the gays got when we saw representation? Everyone was like "hUH WHAT THEY ARE GAY?? I TOO AM GAY!! YESS!!" *This* is why we need representation! Everyone is so excited to learn that there are success stories, even if we know they exist, it's so important to see in the media too.
i agree! and the article isn't called "wholesome couples oh and some of them are gay", it just doesn't mention it. that's how it should be. what a pleasant surprise, thanks BP :)
Load More Replies...This was all great but I could hardly understand the conversation in the texts 🤨
Thats the thing. My first sentence was 'thanks for keeping me updated. 9 years later and im married to this guy for a year now because i placed a comment on his post 9 years back
Load More Replies...This post is sooo adorable, like it just made me happy that people are happy because we need happiness in our world. Not just happiness in general, but happiness with who we are and this post shows that and I love it so much <3
I hope the girl I met on Transformice will have an end picture with me one day,,
Quick question: is it true that gay people are creating glitter windmills under the cloak of night? Yes? No? Because my chinchilla is turning rainbow colored and is kind of freaking me out. THE GAYS ARE MAKING CUTE FLUFFY ANIMALS MORE SPARKLY WITH SPARKLE WINDMILLS
Load More Replies...Why it is the best? It shouldn't matter, because we're all equal, right? I would say that heterosexual couples are underepresented here.
Load More Replies...I wish we lived in a world where people could go out shopping and see same sex couples, gay, lesbian, and so many more types of relationships instead of having so many open homophobes telling them who they can and can't love. All these couples are beautiful and deserve to be loved anywhere and everywhere by other equally normal people.
hetero couples are so boring and represented all the time. great post! i tend to see people genderless - just humans, who love each other. btw, meeting online is all about attraction, i experienced same, doesnt matter, what you write, meet soon anyway!
I met my husband at age 13. He was 16. He was the boyfriend of my 14 year old friend. Lost track of him. Had him on facebook after microsoft messenger wasnt a thing anymore and your contacts were automatically converted on facebook. At the age of 20 he posted things on facebook about Slipknots Grey Chapter earlier than i found the information. I said 'thanks for keeping me updated' i am now 29 and married this guy a year ago. Not saying it ends here tho but i strongly believe i will end up with the same guy. Never had a single doubt
This makes me wish I had screen shot my first encounter with my husband
The fact there are more gay couples that straight that just leads me to believe either a) straight couples break up a lot more, or b) use the internet a lot less :P Beautiful post though. Love seeing happy endings
does this article want to show us, that being gay is normal? ^^ or what?^^ it says it s about couples showing how it started and how it ended....so 95% of people posting something was from gay couples?^^ ...really?^^ (and to all you guys, who get in rage just by reading my words or using the word "gay".....and who want to scream at me "being gay is completly normal!! How can you be so rude!!! blabalbalbalabl) - I really don t f*****g care who kisses who and I most of the time like gay people. only not if they feel offended nonstop and make some stupid victimplaying, when noone is even attacking them or caring about their sexuality. so please leave me alone with you stupid nonsense attacks
I love god but am also queer. Can't you be both?? But you're right, life is short, best to spend it being your authentic self.
Load More Replies...I don't want to be rude, honestly, but hetero couples are represented all the time. I don't think it's too much to ask to get just ONE article where only LGBTQ+ couples are represented.
Load More Replies...Is it just me or is "how it ended" a weird way of putting it? Like it makes me it's about break up/divorce
Oh god, who cares! Just let people be happy! It has no effect on you.
Load More Replies...Awee did you see how excited the gays got when we saw representation? Everyone was like "hUH WHAT THEY ARE GAY?? I TOO AM GAY!! YESS!!" *This* is why we need representation! Everyone is so excited to learn that there are success stories, even if we know they exist, it's so important to see in the media too.
i agree! and the article isn't called "wholesome couples oh and some of them are gay", it just doesn't mention it. that's how it should be. what a pleasant surprise, thanks BP :)
Load More Replies...This was all great but I could hardly understand the conversation in the texts 🤨
Thats the thing. My first sentence was 'thanks for keeping me updated. 9 years later and im married to this guy for a year now because i placed a comment on his post 9 years back
Load More Replies...This post is sooo adorable, like it just made me happy that people are happy because we need happiness in our world. Not just happiness in general, but happiness with who we are and this post shows that and I love it so much <3
I hope the girl I met on Transformice will have an end picture with me one day,,
Quick question: is it true that gay people are creating glitter windmills under the cloak of night? Yes? No? Because my chinchilla is turning rainbow colored and is kind of freaking me out. THE GAYS ARE MAKING CUTE FLUFFY ANIMALS MORE SPARKLY WITH SPARKLE WINDMILLS
Load More Replies...Why it is the best? It shouldn't matter, because we're all equal, right? I would say that heterosexual couples are underepresented here.
Load More Replies...I wish we lived in a world where people could go out shopping and see same sex couples, gay, lesbian, and so many more types of relationships instead of having so many open homophobes telling them who they can and can't love. All these couples are beautiful and deserve to be loved anywhere and everywhere by other equally normal people.
hetero couples are so boring and represented all the time. great post! i tend to see people genderless - just humans, who love each other. btw, meeting online is all about attraction, i experienced same, doesnt matter, what you write, meet soon anyway!
I met my husband at age 13. He was 16. He was the boyfriend of my 14 year old friend. Lost track of him. Had him on facebook after microsoft messenger wasnt a thing anymore and your contacts were automatically converted on facebook. At the age of 20 he posted things on facebook about Slipknots Grey Chapter earlier than i found the information. I said 'thanks for keeping me updated' i am now 29 and married this guy a year ago. Not saying it ends here tho but i strongly believe i will end up with the same guy. Never had a single doubt
This makes me wish I had screen shot my first encounter with my husband
The fact there are more gay couples that straight that just leads me to believe either a) straight couples break up a lot more, or b) use the internet a lot less :P Beautiful post though. Love seeing happy endings
does this article want to show us, that being gay is normal? ^^ or what?^^ it says it s about couples showing how it started and how it ended....so 95% of people posting something was from gay couples?^^ ...really?^^ (and to all you guys, who get in rage just by reading my words or using the word "gay".....and who want to scream at me "being gay is completly normal!! How can you be so rude!!! blabalbalbalabl) - I really don t f*****g care who kisses who and I most of the time like gay people. only not if they feel offended nonstop and make some stupid victimplaying, when noone is even attacking them or caring about their sexuality. so please leave me alone with you stupid nonsense attacks
I love god but am also queer. Can't you be both?? But you're right, life is short, best to spend it being your authentic self.
Load More Replies...I don't want to be rude, honestly, but hetero couples are represented all the time. I don't think it's too much to ask to get just ONE article where only LGBTQ+ couples are represented.
Load More Replies...