Exactly

Thank you. I needed this today. I was just having this discussion with friends yesterday. I always see the good in people, and often that view hurts me deeply. What is wrong with me? It's like I can't learn.

Absolutely bang on the money

Both statements are true. The morbidly obese pathological lying vindictive narcissistic imbecile with the emotional maturity of a toddler (AKA tRump) is simply a horrible, horrible person.

I had to learn this the hard way... twice. These relationships are hard to walk away from, but when you find someone who doesn't give you mixed signals, you suddenly realize how crazy you were to settle for anything less.

The (male) ego often tries to protect itself and thus would rather leave the other feeling low and s****y instead of admit that it did sth wrong. May the ppl beware of how ridiculous the ego makes us

This is why we need to stop arguing with alt-right nutjobs on Facebook, YouTube, Twitter, forums, etc...

I may have been outgrown :(

omg, litterlly the first time I saw the top comment is with negative votes. Such a hard theme to make an opinion.

The only one you can change is yourself - by making different choices and realizing that how we react to what life serves us is often not by choice but by lazy habit.

As a 36 year old college student, I can attest to this. Also, I love that table!

This is needed SO badly omg

And in that way you are still beating it

Yea, it depends on the context. Expecting someone to accept you from your gambling addiction or negative attitude is different then accepting that you have a health issue or went through some trauma.

Very true. In fact, relationships that result out of an extreme shared experience are said to be very fragile

Wonderfully put.

Aaaand cue all the ignorant, sexist, anti-abortion comments from the weird minority of right-wing people who create accounts on left-wing Bored Panda in some kind of misdirected effort at changing people’s minds with their abusive, judgmental, and ignorant comments...

Um… does it still count when I instinctively shrink from fear, embarrassment, or scolding?

Hahahaha

"Don't try to mend a broken heart with the same person who broke it." - Steven Ailchison

Or don't settle for less because its easier.

i do care about people

All that matters is if it accomplishes something for you. For some people that’s a sense of accomplishment. For others, it’s earned income, attention & acknowledgement, better opportunities, etc.

Haha

This saying would make a good tattoo.

*single sobs at prospect of dying alone*

...and there s only one way to find out if its worth it

Ah yes. I too enjoy staring lovingly at disembodied hearts. XD jk why is that there?

How?

Keep your love until there is someone worthy of it

Sometimes you have to break in order to grow.

People need people.

Leonard Cohen

Too true, too scary

When I was in my 20s, I was so hungry for success that it made me angry when others succeeded. Once I got into my 30s, I felt that rage unclench. I can now be happy and enjoy everyone's success knowing that it doesn't limit my own.

With extra batteries.

And so might a big steaming pile of dog s**t. Be cautious people

Yeah, it's just racism.

Indeed, "they" are people too. ❤

Repeat.

While I am a fan of both, I think it is ok to just be a fan of Drag Race. It is a great show, and is many people's first exposure to this culture. Let's call it gateway drag. Could lead to habitual drag consumption.

This is a little all-or-nothing kind of statement, but I think here he is trying to say something about complacency. Do you stay silent when your partner makes comments or micro-aggressions that are homophobic? An ally ought to try to open a dialogue with their partner to find why they say things or the root of their misunderstanding, etc.