No. You don't get to mistreat animals and remain a friend. The homeless friend made her choices, and so eliminated a possible place to stay. She brought it on herself.

People who mistreat animals are NOT good people.

I have a Tater too (and a Biscuit)! When it comes to my babies, f**k around and find out. I will go John Wick on your a*s if you mess with my pups.

How come you did not immidiately kick the c..t out the Moment xou noticed how she treats your puppy. I might callyou an AH for that, but definitely not for not letting her stay again. Personally i would cut contact with her completely, i want nothing to do do woth peopke mistreating animals, .

If someone treated my animals like that, not only would they not be staying with me, we would no longer be friends. Even if you don't care about animals, she disrespected OP in her home by continuing behaviors she was asked to stop. Maybe she should get her s**t together.

Even if you don't like animals or only view them as property, this is still grossly disrespectful. It takes very little extra energy to ignore someone's pet and just don't interact with it. To actually try to cause harm really shows the kind of person she is

i dated a guy once who was really nice wen it came time to meet my parents well i broke up with him before we sat down. wen we walked in the door my 12 year old dog at the time came running up to welcome me back home and before he got to my the guy kicked my dog telling it to stay away from me. i broke up with him immediately. he started yelling at me about having a stray in my house. so i told him thats my dog and bc he never leaves the property we only put his collar on wen we walk him. he said he didnt care he didnt want my dog near me while he was there. both me and my parents told him to leave and if he refused wed call the cops. we ended up calling anyways bc wen had a $2000 vet bill bc of wen he kicked my dog. he was ordered to pay the whole vet bill. which may i add is a whole pay check for him. if he didnt pay hed b arrested for animal abuse. aside from all of that he knew i had a dog and wat he looked like. he clearly lied wen he said he thought my dog was a stray. my dog saw the groomer that morning and clearly not a stray. he even heard my parents say "brandy look whos home". he did it completely on purpose. the next guy i dated my dog absolutely loved. he liked my dog alot even tho he was 15 and elderly at that point. he helped me give my dog his meds, make sure he was comfy and even helped feed him. he had a dog of his own and it happened to have the same name as my dog. that man is now my husband. unfortunately wen i moved in with my husband my dog did not move with me bc he passed before i got married but at least brandy got to see me happy and meet the amazing man who makes me happy before he passed. my husbands dog is now 10 and her name is also brandy. my ex bothered me for a few years cuz he saw a pic of mine on facebook with both brandys and my husband.

The dog lives here, you're the visitor. Rude to my dog, don't expect an invite back. Cruel to my dog , expect to be physically thrown the f**k out without any care for your well being or possessions.

What a POS. She made herself homeless by not paying her rent and this has happened 3 times already?? Why is this lady still friends with her? Cut her off ASAP. And as for the mutual friends saying she is cruel for taking the puppy over the friend, cut them loose too. If they care so much why isn't she staying with them then?

Just when you think that at the VERY least, one could depend on people to agree that "kicks puppies" is *absolutely* an instant GTFO... I would be judging any friends pressuring me to take her in again, HARD.

It sounds to me like your "friends" are just angry because now the onus will be on them to decide what to do. You have already made your decision. And if your "friends" continue to call you an AH for this decision, you need to reconsider who your friends are, and whether you really need them as friends.

"I don't trust a man who doesn't like dogs but I trust a dog who doesn't trust a man." Bill Murray

Saw a sign for sale, it was for people visiting dog (and cat) homes. One of the sayings was "To you, I am just a dog. To them, I am family". If you don't like dogs (or in our case, our 14 cats (13 are rescues or feral kittens we bottle fed and took in), you are free to pass on by the house. We'll even wave as you go by. Friend takes in someone in need, person in need torments the puppy. AMF!

Woof, she should not allowed in

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She's lucky I'm not Tater! There would've been consequences, some of them a yellow liquid. :)

not only would they not stay with me, they wouldn't stay my friend.

What an understanding and tolerant person OP must be, I commend them. Personally I’d have dropkicked the cat abυsing (because I have cats) bítch out my door hard enough to make her āss strike sparks on the blacktop the first time she touched my cats with anything but love. Not only would our friendship be stone dead in an instant, I’d make sure to warn anyone I knew who also knew her - I mean, not warning people of an animal abυser is like criminal neglect, morally speaking. Might sound a bit excessive, all this, but being abυsive to an innocent is like an instant display of one’s personality and I won’t waste my time on a person who’s prepared to overstep that boundary. That boundary is the outer limit of human ethics, the base line that mustn’t be crossed. Ever. “Hello, my name is Betty Bυtthole, and I’m comfortable hurting animals and/or children for no other reason than me just feeling like it. Want to be friends?” No, Betty. No, I don’t want to be friends.

I hear John Wick is looking for a roommate. Send her there.

Ummmm if someone did this to one of my babies I'd be wearing an orange jumpsuit because I'd tear them limb from limb with my bare hands...I didn't get the nickname crazy chihuahua mama for nothing! : D

Yeah, if you're going to stay at my house, you've got to accept the fact that my pets live here, too. If you don't like it, GTFO. They were here first.

No person is ever responsible for another grown adult (with some parental exceptions), don't feel bad about saying no, unfriend and move on with your life.

Woof, don't let her back in the house, and if needed, only supervised

Somebody who doesn't respect my property doesn't get to stay with me. Period.