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Socializing is hard. Especially after a long week in the office, the last thing I want to do most Friday nights is leave my house. I am much more comfortable chilling at home, relaxing with my partner and my cat. I’m not sure if that makes me old, boring or unsociable, but I just can’t help but crave peace and quiet sometimes.

And if you too relish your solitude, you’ve come to the right place. We took a trip to the “It’s Okay To Be An Introvert” Facebook page and gathered some of their most relatable memes below. Enjoy scrolling through these pics that might make you feel seen, as someone who prefers staying in than going out on the town, and keep reading to find a conversation with the creator of It's Okay To Be An Introvert, Shireen Boone!

To learn more about "It's Okay To Be An Introvert," we reached out to the woman who runs the page, Shireen Boone. Shireen was kind enough to have a chat with Bored Panda and reveal what inspired her to create this account.

"I started my page simply because I felt alone in who I was and wanted to find like-minded people," she shared. "My best friend told me I was an introvert, so I became curious and looked into it. My partner at the time mocked my (unknown) introversion. So the title of the page was really an affirmation for myself. But it became it for many others."

The journey of running this account hasn't always been easy though. "My original page (with over half a million followers) was stolen by a page thief some years back," Shireen noted. "It felt violating."

"I used to allow messages, page follower questions, and submissions, but after my original page was stolen, I shut all of that down," she added. "It really hurt because I did love to connect with people in my own way."

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"One of my admins started a new page of the same name, and fortunately, many of my long-term followers came across the new page," Shireen continued. "And though it’s now not as big or as lively as the original page, I quite like the vibe it has and the gentle and respectful nature of those who have been so loyal to me for so long."

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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

After the first time finishing a book in one go as a kid, I remember getting up and everything that I did had a narrator in my mind. And then he walked to the bathroom and washed his hands with cold, unforgiving water...

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As far as how she decides what to post, Shireen says she shares whatever appeals to her. "I have an entire album of my original works on my page. But I honestly am still sharing what speaks to me, and people can either relate to it or not," she told Bored Panda.

Shireen also shared her very favorite post with us. It's one of her original "Introvert Truths" from 2017 that states, "I don't like talking on the phone. If I talk to you on the phone, it means you’re special, or you're emergency services."

"I loved it for me and was so surprised that hundreds of thousands of people have shared and/or commented on it over the years," the creator noted.

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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I frequently dine alone, and can I put in a mention for - if you see somebody dining alone and you appreciate their confidence, could you please appreciate it quietly? I get that people are well-meaning, but nothing makes me feel more like a zoo animal than the waitress saying "oh I just love seeing women who have the confidence to go out and have a meal alone, it's so amazing you're doing something for yourself, etc etc.". This recently happened to me and... okay, thank you for the compliment, but no thank you for triggering every ounce of my social anxiety that everyone is noticing me and thinking about me being alone now

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If any fellow introverts out there are in need of some wise words, Shireen says to just do you. "Never pretend to be someone you are not, and the right people for you will find you. Or not, if you prefer," she told Bored Panda.

We all love spending time with our closest friends, and making lifelong memories with loved ones is one of the most special things we can do on this Earth. But is it really necessary to be around others all the time? Unless you live alone and work from home, you probably spend the vast majority of your time surrounded by people, especially if you live in a city where you take public transit to get around. And this can often be exhausting.

After a long week of constant social interactions and conversations with others, it can feel incredibly freeing to simply be alone and take some deep breaths. And according to Verywell Mind, a reasonable amount of alone time can actually be beneficial for our mental health. Despite the fact that humans are social creatures by nature, being around others can also create stress. You might feel pressure to act or speak a certain way, and it can be difficult to fully relax while in public. 

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Some of the benefits you might experience when finally getting some much needed alone time are improved personal exploration, increased creativity and more energy for future social interactions, Verywell Mind notes. When you’re alone, there’s no one distracting you or keeping you from finally finishing that painting or reading that book you’ve been meaning to get around to for weeks.

This can also be a great time to harness your creativity. In fact, one study even found that those of us who make a point to spend time alone tend to be extremely creative. When your brain isn’t constantly being fed stimuli, and you’re not forced to engage with others, you have the opportunity to slow down, relax and let your creative juices flow. 

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Contrary to what you might assume, living alone can also provide individuals with more energy to socialize. Many of us experienced this during the height of the pandemic. Once we were forced to stay home and the option to hang out with friends was taken away, many of us craved those social interactions. It’s just important for us to be able to choose when we want to be around others, as it is certainly possible to have too much or too little social time.  

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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Or you could spend the four hours reading BP and writing comments that you hope are witty and that people will upvote.

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Even if you consider yourself an extrovert, it’s healthy to be alone with your thoughts from time to time. And if you’re not sure how to know when you should take a step back from socializing, Verywell Mind noted a few factors to consider. First, if you’re feeling short-tempered or irritable, this might be a sign that you should be alone for a bit. Losing interest in socializing or feeling overstimulated can be signals to spend some time alone too. And if you’re having trouble concentrating or getting anxious about being around others, don’t hesitate to cancel your plans and opt for a night in instead. 

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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is why it's best not to give reasons. "I won't be able to make it this time; have fun!" Explanations can lead to people arguing and trying to negotiate.

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Now, if you live with roommates or family members, it can often be difficult to find alone time. I already struggle with this at times, and I can’t imagine how much more challenging it can be when you have children. But we all deserve to be able to relax and unwind alone every now and then, so don’t be afraid to make time for yourself. If that means making sure your partner can watch the kids while you go for a walk around the block or do some exercise in the garage, talk to them about it. And if you have to hire a babysitter to play with your little ones for an hour or two while you go out and enjoy a meal by yourself in silence, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that.  

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Spending some time alone with your thoughts can be more than simply being alone in a room. You might have to turn off social media as well. Even when you’re not really interacting with others online, you can still be impacted by their opinions and content. To truly be by yourself, it’s best to limit these distractions. And by logging off, you’ll eliminate the temptation to compare yourself to others as well. 

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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Maybe;.. but LOTR has never made me say, Who cares? Or Where is the bleeping recipe?!

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If you’re not sure what to do with your alone time, don’t be afraid to plan it out. I’m a huge proponent of having “self dates” where you might go shopping alone, grab a coffee and read a book in a park by yourself, take yourself out to see a movie or hit up a local museum alone. You might be surprised how much you enjoy going on solo dates, and it’s important to be content just hanging out with yourself. 

As healthy as it is to spend some time alone, it can be a slippery slope for those of us who are more inclined to stay home and turn into hermits. According to Greater Good Magazine from Berkeley University, it’s recommended to get one to three hours of social interaction per day. Apparently, most of us usually get far less, socializing for about 34 minutes per day on average, so don’t be afraid to reach out to your friends and invite them over for a coffee or out on a hike. Then you can head home and enjoy your solitude for the rest of the evening.   

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We hope you’re enjoying this list of memes, pandas. Even though you’re probably scrolling through them alone, feel free to send your favorites to your friends and remember to upvote the ones that make you feel seen. Then, if you’re interested in checking out even more memes from Bored Panda that homebodies can relate to, we recommend reading this list next!

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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That customer complaining about that answer is the reason I'm a dog person

Marianne
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5 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What a weird thing for the customer to say. "Look at me, my offspring is adorable! Am I not fabulous! I'm the best a procreation!" I'm a mother, and of course I think that my child is the sweetest thing under the sun, but I do realize that others don't care.

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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My receptionist once said to someone, 'I don't like people', they asked me (manager) if I 'thought that is acceptable for a receptionist'. I said, 'Well, I've accepted it, so...'

Tabitha
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Probably a f*****g Karen who thought he insulted her crotch goblins. Got news for you, a*****e. Not everyone wants kids. Not everyone even likes kids—-and absolutely no one thinks YOUR untrained, rude, destructive, feral monsters qualify as an exception.

Marie BellaDonna
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Even if you like kids, that doesn't mean someone else's kids are adorable. And maybe it makes me a bad person, but I don't like other people's kids. Especially when they're being brats, and the parent is just letting them do so. My son is the center of my world. But I don't expect that he be the center of anyone else's. I don't expect everyone to like him. I don't care if they don't. As long as they treat him with basic human civility. And yes, he behaves. He's 15, but he always has. (I wouldn't have it any other way. Neither one of us is perfect. But there are some things I'm firm on.)

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Lotekguy
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The true introvert mumbles a bland yes to end the encounter quietly.

Ephemera Image
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I need to remember that the next time someone says that to me. I'm old, so I can absolutely get away with it!

Ace
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Should be rewarded for his honesty and tact. Weird thing for the customer to ask in the first place, I'd be completely flummoxed by it too, would probably be much less tactful than that.

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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What kind of attention-groveling mom goes around asking strangers baiting questions about how cute their kids are?

Marie BellaDonna
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5 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And what kind of àsshole manager gets upset at their employee when that kind of Karen comes to them with that kind of whining complaint??

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Natasha Clark
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd choose an animal over "adorable" kids any day of the week & totally agree.

maka paka
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm sorry but that answer is brilliant plus, who the heck asks a random stranger if your kids are adorable. They mostly look like little gremlins

Krystal Quigley
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Is the fact that this list was for introverts the reason that everyone thinks the mom was just being weird?

Marie BellaDonna
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No. She was being weird. Fishing for compliments on her kids? And then whining to the manager when she didn't get them?

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Mike m
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Who says to a stranger "aren't my kids adorable". Any stranger asks me that and I'm telling the truth.

Kate Jones
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So because the customer needed to get some sort of validation for her crotch goblins, and he didn't want to lie and say, "no your kids are ugly," he got in trouble? I can understanding being rude or late or something but stop making employees be kiss-butt showhorses. And if you're the customer who complains about this, you're just as much of a jerk.

Dawnieangel76
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4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I am in high levels of depression, I completely shut down. I only talk when necessary, don't interact, etc. I was in that state for a good month before the office manager pulled me aside & said "everyone" was concerned about my...not so much attitude, but state of being. I asked if any customers have complained, she said of course not. So I said okay, then. I'm doing my job. Again, everyone is "worried". I finally said look I'm not in a good place I can't pretend that I'm happy right now. Oh well maybe you should go see someone. No maybe everybody should just leave me alone because nobody really interacts with me anyway. So right back into my uncomfortable mask of pretend happiness I went, and nobody has been interacting with me. As always. So basically I was making everybody uncomfortable because it wasn't the norm they were used to. I f****** hate having to work for a living.

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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just back from Nam , working at paint store and woman comes in and orders 5 gallons of hot pink exterior house paint. My Boss and owner know her and both run away. Red flag 1. I asked we have 3 hot pinks and we go to the color rack. She picks the most awful pink, but I mix it and she pays on he husband's account. She painted his love nest . He demanded that I be fired. My Boss pipe in hand, says hit him so I did. Gotta raise. Alaska 1974

Ron
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If they had four paws and a tail they would be 🐶

Erick L.
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah... Should've use the word "pets" instead... Who knows how they identify themselves.

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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In a bridal shop window, I saw two headless mannequins next to a portrait of Henry VIII

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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Releasing your raccoon mounted corps to assault the local library and bring back hundreds of books is okay

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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Reminds me of the scene from "Being There" when Chance tries to use the TV remote control on the street tough talking to him

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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Or as Jim Carrey reportedly said: "With no underwear in case they want to kiss my a*s"

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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm relieved I'm not the only one that feels this way! It can be isolating feeling overstimulated all the time.

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