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Introverts and extroverts see the world very differently, but they’re both loveable in their own unique ways. However, being an introvert isn’t easy, as these memes, collected by our people-and-cat-loving Bored Panda team, will show you. Remember to upvote the ones that you related to the most as you scroll down and be sure to check our our earlier post about introvert memes right here.

However, the world of introversion and extroversion is much more complex than it would first seem. Real introverts and extroverts are far rarer than we think; extroversion is actually a spectrum, not binary; and the vast majority of us are actually ambiverts, falling somewhere in the middle.

Bored Panda previously spoke about the myths surrounding introversion with Dr. Andrew Spark from the Queensland University of Technology. Dr. Spark, who has researched the link between introversion and leadership, explained to us that introverts think about social interaction differently from extroverts and this may impact their career paths and positions.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah. Gave my therapist a good laugh when I told her I've been practicing quarantine for years before Covid. Seriously, it is a mind boggle to have doctors and therapists giving me pity looks when describing my daily routine (then giving social suggestions) to having them congratulating me for my daily routine.

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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hope u r ignoring the judgment. I have no idea what kind of therapy u r going for, but as someone studying to b a therapist I can only say that it's a part of the training to process to keep our personal judgment at home. Hence, an ideal therapist shouldn't judge or even give pitiful looks. U do u! whatever keeps u happy, healthy, and moving forward.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My life has not changed since we went into lockdown, lol. It's been amusing watching everyone freak out at having to be temporarily stuck indoors.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is me exactly. Quarantine for others is my way of life. This is another one of my many reasons I love my dogs so much. I can get out of every family get together parties birthdays weddings etc by just saying you all go. I'll stay home and look after the dogs. Its brilliant. I look after other family members dogs too. They save a fortune on kennel fees and I stay at home with my doggies. Win win.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Kristal, what you just described is exactly the same situation I have at my therapists.Speaking for myself, sometimes it just makes me feel even more insecure than I already am ,like I'm not 'normal' and am somehow stupid,like 'go for a walk and meet people by starting a conversation.' Do you not think I would love to just go up to someone and be able to talk to them.Half of me worries that the person would think I'm mad,the other half is fear of rejection,intimidation.It's really really hard because inside I am so lonely and am screaming out to be spoken to and included,but also have this fear of the unknown and people being too in my face.Like a traffic person waving someone forward with one hand and putting the other hand up to stop them. Sending lots of love to you and others,whatever your struggles.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have been in quarantine for years. I have end stage COPD and serious spine issues. Navigating with oxygen and a cane is, most often, requires just too much effort. If you have no other options quarantining isn't that bad-it is just how one looks at it all.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Literally the only thing that changed for me is that I had to buy a new fridge

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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sorry, but being an introvert myself, I do NOT enjoy quarantine. I love being at home for the most time, but I do need my social contact or gathering once in a while. Usually it's just dinner and game night with friends. And most of the time I'm having an 'off' day the next day. But this pandemic is really testing me, and I will be happy once I can have friends over again! Most comments here give me more of a 'loner' vibe than that of an introvert...

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“My research on introversion and leadership focuses on how introverts and extroverts think and feel about the behaviors required of leaders in leadership situations. Leadership roles typically require one to act in ways that are generally better suited to extroverts (e.g., to be assertive, social, bold, etc.),” Dr. Spark from the Queensland University of Technology told Bored Panda.

“For many decades, we have known that extroverts tend to perform better in leadership roles and are selected into leadership roles more often, however, more recent scientific work has been exploring how and why this happens,” Dr. Spark said.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

THIS. Also, I have this one friend who never replies via text but just HAS TO call back... Ughhh...

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“In my own work, my colleagues and I found that one of the reasons introverts are not seen to be as ‘leaderlike’ by others is because they think that leadership situations are going to be unpleasant. The technical name for this is ‘affective forecasting.’ Affective forecasting refers to the expectation we have of our future emotions, which is to say that we make a prediction about how we will feel in a future situation.”

Dr. Spark continued: “Introverts are known to underpredict how good they will feel in future social interactions if they forecast themselves acting extroverted (because, perhaps surprisingly, acting extroverted is actually quite enjoyable, even for introverts). Given leadership situations require extroverted behavior, we expected that introverts’ propensity to forecast more negative affect would probably help to explain why they do not rise into leadership positions as much as extroverts. This is indeed what we found.”

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is my worst Nightmare. While I would love to Live with and Marry my Girlfriend, we both value or alone time and silence, fortunately we both respect that we need that time alone.

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The main question right now is whether or not we can change how introverts think about social interaction. That way, they might stand a better chance of rising to leadership positions. In fact, according to Dr. Spark, sometimes introverts can be much more effective than extroverts in those positions.

Dr. Spark pointed out that introverts are by no means common. “Because extroversion is a continuum, most people actually fall somewhere around the middle of the continuum. These people are sometimes called ‘ambiverts,’” he said.

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“Also, there is no official cut-off on someone’s score before they are said to be an extrovert or an introvert, however, as a very rough rule of thumb (assuming you really want to divide people up into categories) it would not be unreasonable to say that 15-20% of the population are noticeably extroverted and 15-20% of the population are noticeably introverted. The remaining 60-70% of the population are probably more difficult to pigeon hole and hence may be better thought of as ambiverts.”

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What’s more, Dr. Spark drew attention to another myth surrounding introverts and how they supposedly can’t be extroverted. “A large body of evidence shows that introverted people actually engage in quite a number of extroverted behaviors in their daily lives as the specific situation demands, despite having a preference to be quiet and reserved. Equally, extroverted people engage in quite a number of introverted behaviors in their daily lives. That said, it is interesting that extroverted people have been shown to sometimes struggle when having to act introverted.”

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's actually what I did yesterday. I watched JonBenet documentary instead of meeting my friend, my excuse was stomach problem ^^'

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According to Dr. Spark, the research on whether or not introverts need to recharge more after socially interacting with others is mixed. “For example, in this study, scientists found that both introverts and extroverts experienced mental depletion after interacting with others and that this depletion occurred approximately 3 hours after the interaction It didn’t make any difference if the person was introverted or extroverted,” he shared.

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Then again, this study found that introverts experience slightly more negative emotion, tiredness and more feelings of inauthenticity when acting extroverted, despite also experiencing more positive emotion (note that positive and negative emotion are actually different processes rather than being polar opposites, so it is possible to be high on both). The jury is still out on this issue, which might come as a surprise to many!”

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Dr. Spark added: “A lot more research needs to be done to understand how and why introverts think differently and whether we can uncover ways to encourage introverts into leadership positions given that they are quite capable of effective leadership in certain situations.”

What about you, dear Pandas? Which side of the introversion/extroversion fence do you find yourself most often on? Which of the memes in this list did you relate to the most? Has the global pandemic turned you into more of an introvert? Share your thoughts and feelings in the comments below.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

yeah but you learn to hide the bodies well over time (speaking from experience)

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes, and trying to sneak in the house hiding behind the bins until the coast is clear...

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

this is SO me! i have like, a time limit of how long i can be with people other than my husband. it maxes out at 4 hours. more people make it shorter. i've gone to sleep in the car because i was done but my husband was still socializing.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

should i say it no no no I should be braver ok y e s yez no no no yis uhh yes finally ok lets unmute deep breath ym.y..yes?

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

OH YES. It was really scary for me, when there is a party or get-together for dinner and my parents wanted to be there at 2 P.M. already x_x

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i hate drive thrus.. i can order just fine if i'm inside, but something about not seeing the person i'm talking to makes me trip over myself and sound dumb and i hate it.

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should i do it no no no no please god no. i should be braver t h a n k y o u thanks youd no not like that ugh thunk uas finally thank you *goes out* th.th...thank you?

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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You could scream like a Nazgûl on the phone and pretend it’s static to get out of it? IDK, trying to go with the LotR theme.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I always freely agree to go to a social event that's many months in the future then severely stress the night before it *facepalm*

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Why did they always get so upset when I just asked them "Ok, so, when are you leaving ?" ?

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm sorry but the post from yesterday about bad lyrics is stuck in my head..... I'll never look at Squidward in the same way again.

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No, that's not how it works. Relationships just passively "happen" to you, but you must be rich and physically attractive. Welcome to real world.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes, I care about you, but no I'm not emotionally attached to you, so i'd have no problem killing you if you got bitten in a zombie Apocalypse. Understand?

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This happened to me once and I didn't say a word, I just wanted to go home and cry into a pillow. I have curly hair.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have a violent urge to make that guy take his hand off her neck like that. I am introverted until I see abuse of power/bullying, then I will most definitely speak up.

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